¶ Positioning for Success in Online Coaching
Nine times out of 10 , when someone's stuck in their coaching business , it's literally something that could be solved between their ears , not with a funnel .
How should someone position themselves to be able to 10x their sales , 10x their business with ads and paid traffic ?
You have to understand that ads are not magic . All an ad is , in its simplest form , is just a magnifying glass . You actually have to have good messaging , a good sales process , a good offer and know something about what you're doing , instead of trying to serve everyone and be a general physician , be a brain doctor and charge more .
People are going to trust more . There's less competition . You can get more trust by communicating your values and you can lower the competition by picking a niche .
Before we start this podcast , I have one little favor to ask you . Can you please hit the subscribe button down below so we can help more people every single week . Thank you , I guess where I want to start is how do you think the online coaching world is changing going into 2025 ?
Dude , I just made a YouTube video about this . Actually , it's literally called how the Online Coaching Space is Changing in 2025 . I think a couple key things . And , dude , I've actually been in the coaching space for like six years . So I used to work for a lady named Brooke Castillo and she did $50 to $70 million a year while I worked there .
And I think how it's changing is Everybody's seen the Instagram ads . I run them . We started the boosted post for follower ad thing 2 years ago and it's very quick marketing , kind of just burning and churning through leads . I think people are looking for authenticity , they want to trust people .
Again , the coaching industry , bro , we both know the trust is at an all-time low and the competition is at an all-time high and the only way to stand out , in my opinion , is to have a clear niche to attract people who are like you or who look up to you or want to have your life essentially .
So a niche , value systems like we share similar values and authenticity , so people would rather hear hey , bro , running ads is a risk , scaling your coaching business is a risk . Nothing is guaranteed , there's no big promises , but I can show you exactly what I did to get here .
So I think how it's changing is you're going to see a lot less editing and a lot more just raw , real content , that's long form , where people can get to know you , and I think if you don't take advantage of YouTube and podcasts , people are just going to take your customers .
It's so interesting , right , because the barrier to entry has never been lower , but then the actual ability to grow it has actually never been harder , because there's always this comparison effect . It's always like , well , I could go to this guy and he's doing IG , and then this guy is doing LinkedIn and this guy's doing TikTok . So where is that USP ?
And I guess for you , what is that USP ? Right , because it's you know , let's say , it's broad Instagram . Someone clicks on your Instagram . How do you think about that ? Because , especially true ads , which I'd love to get really fucking nerdy on , you don't have that attention , right ?
You don't have a ton of time to be able to explain to someone that you do X , y , z , yeah , so the unique selling proposition ?
is that what you mean ?
Yeah , effectively Right , because you don't have the same attention and time to be able to get that across unless you're super , super focused .
Yeah , it's like dude . I talk to people every day and they're like dude , I'm stuck at 10K a month or I'm doing only organic , or my ads aren't getting a good return on ad spend , dude . Usually I don't even need to know anything other than just a few sentences . So what did you say in the beginning of the ad ?
And they're like are you a busy entrepreneur who's wanting to lose 50 pounds of weight ? Get shredded . If so , give me a follow . It's like , bro , that sucks . Like that offer . Like there's okay , a busy dude . It's like , bro , that sucks that offer . There's Okay , a busy dude . That's almost everyone in America , or half of the population of the world .
So it's like I'll tell you an offer that's crushing right now . It's this guy who's like are you a busy Catholic dude ? So it's like just by adding in one other piece of your value system or another offer . So everybody's coaching people on how to get a job in sales right now , which is fine . I think it's a good offer .
But this guy took a unique approach and he was like are you currently in tech sales and you're wanting to find a career where you can basically uncap your income , work remote if so , blah , blah blah .
So it's like by targeting that niche , niche , he actually stood out and he's , yeah , making like 80k a month now man , I love that because it's just , it's always one degree left , you know , and you can be one degree off and go fucking to antarctica like I was just on a call earlier and we were I was helping the client script out their ad and again , I
don't get mad at people who coach coaches , but this is what the person wanted to do .
I was like , are you sure you want to do this ? Are you good at it ? Have you done it yourself ? They're like , yes , yes , yes . And I was like , okay , and this person's a digital nomad and their ads weren't working . And I was like , hang on , what if you go after digital nomads ?
Say this in the ad Are you a digital nomad who has or wants to start a coaching business so you can actually afford to travel and live the life you want , going from country to country ? If so , give me a follow here . So it's like that ad is going to do so much better than Are you an online coach stuck between 10k a month ?
If so , so it's like , yeah , I think connecting on the values is so key . I did that on accident . When I first started , I started working with Christian coaches and I did it because I wanted to , but a good byproduct earlier on was they trusted me so much more .
I didn't even mean for it to happen and now we work with everybody , but still a large portion of the people that join are like Dude I saw your faith and I love it and want to be a part .
Dude , this is super interesting because my mate who introduced me to your content , tom , and just one of my best mates in general , we kind of always talk about this lens because everyone knows your business is a reflection of you , but people don't realize that your customers are a reflection of you . So you had seen that .
Come in and seen these people that were aligned with your values . And I interviewed Dr John Demartini last week , who basically has a fucking system for defining your values like an entire checklist , a scorecard , whatever , and that's like your highest priority , which again reflects in the world who you are and attracts the opposite effect .
So basically , if you're an asshole , you're going to bring people in that are an asshole . Now , for someone who's you know again , 10k , 5k a month , they're trying to stay alive . How do you , how the hell do you define your values to create that positioning , to be able to attract the big boys effectively ?
I actually think the quickest way to go from 5 or 10k a month to 30 to 50 , right , that's kind of where you can like hire a couple team members , like spend more on ads and like actually have like a business it's not just like a consulting firm or one man show which , totally fine , like if that's what you want to do , it's great .
Um , I would say the faster you pick a niche , the faster you start making more money , like for sure . Yeah , because then you get the benefit of Facebook ads who are . Facebook is really really good at targeting , bro , just based on the video alone and the copy of the ad . It knows how to get in front of the right people .
So if you let Facebook do the work , actually creating a smaller sample size that are ideal clients , instead of trying to serve everyone and be a general physician , be a brain doctor and charge more , people are going to trust more . There's less competition . So it's like what I said at the beginning low trust , high competition .
You can get more trust by communicating your values and you can lower the competition by picking a niche .
Dude , it's funny because my first online business was seven years ago . It was like an e-com store that went to zero and running ads . Back then you needed to be a fucking data scientist for , like Stanford , right , it was so confusing , whereas we've done organic for so many years .
So , again , I have a podcast , we have a podcast agency to keep it simple , we've got podcast coaching business . So there's like a hybrid model and we've done it organic .
But now we've moved into IG in the past six months with my mate and we've been doing kind of this model at a very low scale because we're still warming up IG , because we've had LinkedIn and YouTube just being the moat of the business . Now I'm still a dumbass when it comes to ads 100% but the ability to spin them up and run them is crazy .
In comparison to what it was like before , it's never been easier . How do you think ? Again , ads are changing right now and how should someone position themselves to be able to 10x their sales , 10x their business , with ads and paid traffic ?
Yeah , number one , you have to understand that ads are not magic . Like bro , seven years ago I ordered these what would Jesus do bracelets ? Actually , I didn't order them , I got them on AliExpress or Alibaba or whatever and I was running ads to what Would Jesus Do bracelets dropshipping , and I got my first sale and I sold the bracelet for $5 .
And I spent $12 on ads . So I lost $7 . But I sold something . I was like , oh my gosh , this is amazing . I'm going to be rich . Never could figure it out . And back then the belief in my head was ads are super hard , which maybe they were back then .
And people still believe that that ads are expensive , they're confusing , but really all an ad is , in its simplest form , is just a magnifying glass . So for someone to 10x their business , you actually have to have good messaging , a good sales process , a good offer and know something about what you're doing .
If all that's true and you have a good ad process , then yeah , you can 10x your business just by figuring out your return on ad spend . And let's say it's going to suck but still be scalable . So let's say it's a 3 .
So if you want to 10x your business , let's say you're doing 10k a month and you want to do 100 , then you need to spend 30 grand on ads roughly . If you're getting a 3x return on ad spend and you want to 10x go from 10,000 to 100k , just assume you get a 3x return on that . But nobody's like Dude , I want to go from 10 to 100 in one month .
They're usually like bro , I just want to get to 20 . So then it's like spend your first thousand bucks on ads , 2000 on ads .
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When you've done those reps , thinking about how to run an ad is so much easier because you're like , oh , it's a hook , there is copy , there's good production . For the most part , I know you can use your phone or whatever . But it's like if you have the modalities from organic , you can just go into paid and just like , basically have all the components .
I'm not going to say you're going to crush it , obviously , but you have the components . But I think there's this weird thing in the online space that whatever you're doing , the opposite is bad . So if you're doing organic , ads are bad , right , and I hate that mentality .
I hate when something is like looked at a true dot lens , Whereas for me it's about integration , especially five years into it , after getting eating humble pie and getting nailed for fucking four years . There's a component of like let's try integrate everything .
And I want to kind of get your thoughts on how you do organic plus paid , because that seems like to me it's like steroids on top of the steroids on top of the steroids yeah , dude .
So for me , like I mean , I get it it's like organic , paid , but I don't even view it that way .
¶ Effective Funnel Strategies for Growth
For instance , and let's say , on my instagram funnel , just you know to say I'm running an ad to get instagram followers . That's paid . But at the same time , if a reel goes semi-viral and I get followers from the reel , that that's still the top of funnel , so they're very similar .
And then it's like , okay , in the middle of the funnel I'm running a retargeting ad . Hey , I'm looking to help somebody do this . Message me the word scale to learn more . I could just post an Instagram story of the same ad . That's organic . And then the bottom of the funnel . They get through the funnel and then they watch my VSL before the call .
If it was an organic , watch my VSL . So I actually view them as the same . It's like the same thing . Basically , it's just with ads the only pro is that you can pay to scale it and the only con is that you have to pay to scale it .
So it's like it costs money , but it's scalable and organic , it's free , and the only con is it's not scalable , unless you're someone like you probably , who's got it dialed in to where you're like Dude , I could just do two extra podcasts a week and it happens .
But it's like most people with organic at least don't have that mindset , skill or , uh , the discipline , so it's like they're not gonna do the work but , dude , it's funny because it's fucking not free , right , because there's literally the cost .
You know , I have an editor , designer , ops , manager , a bunch of shit . Then there's the cameras like I'm staring down cameras that would literally put you on a street , they're so expensive . And then there's also the time investment , right , which is like me in Instagram , like writing copy . So it's not free , right .
And I think the more higher level you're playing is like oh , my fucking God , is there just a faster , higher point of leverage way for me to get to this ? Because the podcast is the podcast , but because it's like middle of the funnel , you know you're getting less views .
It's less consumption , it's more about avd and you know , lifetime , uh , consumption , all this kind of stuff . It's kind of like a different metric . You know , when you go really detailed on it , it's like every action has an equal or opposite reaction and most people don't know what the output and outcome variable is for their input .
So they're like I did a podcast and now I'm not making a hundred K a month , it's like . But that wasn't the goal of the podcast , though . Like , that's not like the main goal , right .
And of course there's uh , I heard about this before and who said it , which is like you know , your product or offer should have one major benefit , because all of the other sub benefits they're kind of just . They're like known , for instance , if you lose body fat , you're going to become more confident , you'll tone up , you'll have more charisma .
So you don't need to fucking say that in the headline . There's just one main goal and I think that through the lens of like which vehicle you're using to , but I just think that most people don't think when they're doing this shit right in 2025 .
The problem is , bro , as a beginner coach , I remember watching all the YouTube videos , following all the different people , and it's like dude , am I going to do the IG funnel ? Am I going to do organic ? Am I going to do the Facebook group method ? Am I going to cold DM people ?
Am I going to get a challenge funnel , vsl , webinar , what the heck am I going to do ? One funnel away challenge . That's what I'm going to and it's like , bro , the reality is they all work . One of my favorite things to tell people is get a piece of cardboard , write it down . Write down a sentence that says Are you struggling with X ?
For instance , if we wrote down Are you struggling being a good parent ? On a piece of cardboard and walked into a coffee shop , if we stood there long enough , someone would walk up to us and say , bro , I'm struggling , why do you have this sign ? And you could actually close them in the coffee shop .
So it's like there's so many ways to market , right , so you just got to pick what's simple and works for you .
That's so good man , it's so fucking true . Right , it's in the complexity comes . So I think the way I position is that everything works when you work and it is that simple . It's just that you make it complex to hide from the truth that sometimes it is as simple as cardboard box offer .
but my the offer .
It can be as simple as that , but let's make this actionable for people . So what is your ? What would be your approach like ? Where is step one for you and where would you go to ? Let's say , go from 10K to 100K next year a month . What's that process for you ? Because , again , you can pick multiple vehicles .
I call it market stacking . So it's like step one of like , if you're building blocks is like let's say this is the first step is like get the easiest , fastest , simplest , cheapest funnel going , and for me that's usually Instagram , unless someone is like I have no money . Then it's like okay , do organic .
But for me it's usually the Instagram funnel because you can record one simple video press boost and within the first $200 to $500 , book your first call In most cases maybe $1,000 , which is so cheap if we're talking in ads and then scale that thing to $30K to $50K a month because you have a good setting , sales and delivery process .
If those three are good , you can scale almost any funnel . And then the second one is you want to find a funnel that's medium , like level medium , what's something that takes a little bit more time to set up , something like a school group funnel , a VSL funnel running ads to your YouTube channel , something like that .
That's a little bit harder to do , a little bit more expensive to prove if it's going to work and harder to copy . And then you're more established . You've got more cash in the bank , you've got people you're competing against . It's like .
The last one is like find one that's super hard to copy , that takes a ton of testing , that costs a lot of money to implement . So no one else will do it and you'll have an advantage and you'll have a lot of different ways to make money .
But that's the example I teach is like , dude , just start simple , as fast as cheapest way , then get good at it , stick to it for six months to a year , then implement something new and do both . But a lot of people , dude I've seen it time and time again they're doing 50k a month on a VSL funnel , let's say .
And then they see the IG growth funnel and they're like I'm going to turn my VSL off and then I'm going to do the Instagram funnel . It's like , why the heck would you do that ? Keep that going and then layer something on top of it and then kind of build like that it's funny , right , it's almost like a sense of self-sabotage .
I often hear as well that people get that 20k a month right and they're like , oh , I'm bored , like I want to try something else . I'm bored . It's like what the fuck you talking about ? Like just do what's working right .
So I think it's just interesting for me to view that because , again , we run you not necessarily youtube , well , it is youtube funnel , I guess to money , to credit , but we're creating podcasts on youtube , building that trust , and then on linkedin .
I know it's super like woke and whatnot , but I still use it as , like our main source of content because people are there to buy and be educated and that's worked so well . So for me , to go into ig was actually a big uplift because it's like I need to keep these two things running and keep it dialed in and then add in a third .
And you know that's where we kind of went from six figures a month to trying to get to like multi six figures a month . They're not there yet , but but I just mean we have , like the infrastructure . So it's like I guess it goes back to the point of us scale it , get it better and so on . Now you said the medium level of the game .
How do you think about workshop funnels ? Your videos on it are super awesome . Why do some people crush it and why do some people don't get people even showing up on a workshop funnel ?
Perfect example . I had a client . He's a fitness coach , I won't say his name . He did a workshop . Two people registered . So I like to just tell honest stories . So there's that extreme and it's like he didn't make any money which there are some things that could have been better but he hadn't been cultivating an audience
¶ Pricing and Sales Strategy Discussion
. My point here is , if you don't have an audience and you haven't been serving them , a workshop is going to flop . But then I have another client who's a former NFL athlete with 500,000 followers .
He's been serving , serving , serving , making content for years , did a three-day challenge , which is basically the same thing as a workshop , and did 100 grand organic from that challenge . So I think the purpose they serve is to move someone from one stage to the next .
So if they're cold right now , it's to get them to warm , and if somebody's in your audience that's warm , it's to get them on the workshop . So then they become hot and if they're hot , it's to move that percentage of people from hot into purchasing .
So I just think of it as a way that anyone who registers and attends basically just moves a step forward in the buying process . Now that's , if you suck , if you get good , you can convert half of them from cold to hot in those three days . Depending on who's all on the call .
You can convert more , but I just think it's a way to once a quarter , once a month , depending on how much you're spending on ads and how much attention you have to just take time , put it into a workshop . It's great content for repurposing and then you end up signing clients from it .
So what's the workflow ? So let's say your general follower ad on IG , because not everyone . I know that . You know that everyone thinks that this is normal , but it's actually not , man . Honestly , for a lot of guys they don't know fully about this , but your general follower ad follows you to the page when you're now going for a workshop .
Do you have an ad running into the workshop as a sign-up ?
Yeah . So , for instance , let's say , if somebody listening is like , dude , I want to do a workshop , right , depending on what stage they're at . I would recommend doing your first one organic , and actually I do most of mine organic , so it's basically just the middle of funnel for me , but you can also run ads to it .
So the way I actually started this business was doing a paid three-day challenge . So it was like Yo , are you a Christian online coach struggling with blah , blah , blah ? If so , come to my three-day Kingdom Coach Challenge where I'm going to show you for the next three days how to build your offer , market it and sell it .
And then it was just a Zoom call with three days , but yeah . So obviously the first one might not be the best . You're learning your skill , but the whole goal is it's basically like a VSL . So the intro day one you want to tell people your story so they trust you and can relate to you . You attract the right fits , repel the wrong fits .
Then you want to give them homework and something valuable . So for me , build people's offers and then give them homework to create their unique mechanism or messaging . Day two give them another piece of the puzzle marketing . Day three , another piece sales and then basically , hey , there's two options .
I just showed you , for instance , how to lose 50 pounds in three days by getting your mindset , diet and food in order or workouts in order . You can either do all this yourself or I have this program where we come alongside you to help you implement and then you just pitch a call .
One thing I noticed on that was that you were from the workshop . The next step in the funnel was a call instead of a straight buy . That's interesting . Why is that ? Which funnel Do you remember ? I was looking at your work as in , you were explaining the workshop funnel and then you mentioned that from there .
It was because , even just to give a bit of context , we ran a very high ticket . So we're part of our business , we run podcasts , we run their offers on the back end , but we ran a very high ticket . It was a 6K program but it was a straight buy off the workshop .
And my logic with this was I wonder if we were able to just fill up a calendar , it would have been better ? I think it probably would have . I think it probably would have .
So I've tested both and , from what I've seen , unless it's sub 2K , just book a call . It's like posting on your story and saying , hey , I've got this program that's six grand . Or at the end of your YouTube video saying like , hey , thanks for watching the video .
I do have a program that's 6,000 bucks , though If you want to buy it , click the link down below to buy it . It's like you're going to get way more conversions if you just book in a call .
So if a workshop's over $2K , at the end you pitch calls and you get a ton like a lot of calls , and then , if it's sub $2K , you could pitch just directly on the call .
That's interesting , man . What do you think about ? Have you considered different pricing strategies ? So we run for our program we run a weekly pricing which is from Dan Bolt and James Kemp and that's to alleviate the call stressor . So , because our program is in trash , we've never had anyone turn on the weekly pricing and most people ascend three weeks in .
That's actually . The logic is that people are like so I'll give you some context it's $2.50 a week , can't sell in time , no marriage certificate needed , and then you can ascend as you like with a discount offer , so of the year . So it's basically like not a zero risk offer , but it's a limitless risk . How do you think about that ?
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Yeah , so I actually did that , but I did it different my base offer , high ticket , mid offer , high ticket still , and then my mastermind was paid on a weekly basis . So instead of entry point , it was actually my highest point , where you could break it into weeklies , and I think it works best that way for me .
Now , if you're not running setters and closers , then sure , weekly is fine . It's actually great , so long as you have a good product , you're attracting the right people that plan to stay .
If you sell just a quick fix , people oftentimes , from what I've seen , just buy your program and then churn After you get under the hood of a lot of the people that I've seen doing weekly pay , it's like bro , your churn rate is 40% , so your average cash collected per client is actually $2,500 .
Versus , if you were just charging and attracting people that can pay high ticket , you could get way more cash collected . But again , it's like what's your offer ? Who are you trying to serve ? What's the goal of the business ?
Because one thing I think that's changing in 25 too is I don't think everybody's going to be trying to build 100k a month business , because what I found out I bet you found this out too money doesn't even make you happy , like honestly , it's like unless you're like called to do this , it's actually adding a bunch of unneeded stress that doesn't even need to be
there . Most people I used to drive Uber and I served at a restaurant Most people would be perfectly happy making $20,000 a month $15,000 , if they loved what they're doing , could travel and save for retirement . So I think a lot more people are going to be going after that goal .
I think you'll see a lot of people actually shutting down their business and just doing like a consulting gig . But for those that are called and feel like dude , I want to build an actual business .
Yeah , I think it's great . That's a very interesting observation . James Kemp often says that people don't want a business . They want cash flow that feeds their life .
Yeah .
Such a good point , right ? I think that a lot of people it's important to know what you're optimizing for , because a lot of people who are entrepreneurs shouldn't have been entrepreneurs in the first place . A lot of people who work in jobs shouldn't work in jobs . They should be entrepreneurs . There should be that clear line of delineation .
Whereas , like dude , like you know your values , you have a family , your second kid's on the way , you kind of know what you're doing and you've devised your own path . Even I said to you earlier I was like I don't know how the fuck you have children and everything that's so difficult to manage with what you're doing .
But you have built that foundation to be like no , this is my clear line , I know where my lines are , whereas a lot of people are just doing other people's jobs . And I don't know if you're familiar with Matt Shields . I haven't watched the video , but Matt has kind of not really .
He's done a lot of changes with his own life , especially with his fate , quite recently in the past year or two , and he put up a video yesterday about how to escape the online business rat race . That was the whole logic was he was like I finally escaped it . Now he's made nearly eight figures at this point .
But it's a very interesting observation right that you swap one rat race for the next one , and now you're caught in this perpetual loop 100% .
It's like you swap high ticket payments for recurring revenue but then you just go right back to like how can I get the most recurring revenue out of anyone ever ? And it's like you stop recurring revenue .
Then it's like , how can I build a high-ticket program that's super expensive , and then it's just like all this stuff that a lot of times I've found is actually just like insecurities inside of people and they're just like looking for that thing that's going to satisfy them .
But I've found , similar to Matt , that like literally nothing does that except for me at least , is like god right dude , that's very interesting .
Like I think uh , you know it's , agencies are a low hanging fruit for people to shit on , right ? They say , oh well , you know you have all these bosses , and the way hormosi puts it is like in , your customers are also your boss , right ? Like if you're running a program , you can't just ditch them . That's not , you can't really do that , right ?
So you are always kind of serving your people , the people that you sell to you're serving them . So I think you don't need to look for the next business model so that you have an easier life . There's challenges with everything , right ?
So , because we run both an agency model and a coaching business , in my eyes they're very similar in terms of how we approach customers , because customers are people and we want to just be nice to people in general . So , for me , I still get back to people on fucking whatsapp if they message me . I'll send them a voice if they need to .
So it's looking through the lens as to , again , what are your values , how do you want to build this and what are the modalities we need to build a good business so that it feeds our life effectively ? Yeah , that's so true . Let's walk through some of the different components of the mindset side .
So I think , looking across your spectrum of mindset , offer , marketing , sales and team why do you put such a big proponent on the mindset side ?
I think the most important , ultimately , is identity . Who you truly believe you are is how you're going to show up , and how you show up is how you're going to make content , how you're going to make offers and how you're going to coach your students .
¶ Identity and Belief System in Coaching
And it's like a lot of people don't think that they're qualified , they think that they're not worthy , they self-sabotage after they get a little bit of success or actually I'll say this , I think , nine times out of 10 , when someone's stuck in their coaching business , it's literally something that could be solved between their ears , not with a funnel .
So true , man , so true . It's because I think a lot of people they haven't done the internal work to like be at the stage you need to get that , get to . You know , it's almost like you need to imagine you have that successful business before you have it . But you don't want to be delusional .
You want to obviously do the actions to get to that goal , but it's like you need to first almost visualize it and then do a shit ton of actions . For sure , a lot of people either do both , do none . They either take a ton of action , go in circles , or they visualize something and then they just procrastinate and masturbate on the idea in their brain .
They're not really thinking about it . How do you , how have you thought about that ? Right , because I know you do a lot of internal work on this . What element do you focus on ? Was that from maybe doing a lot of research into the Bible ? How do you think about that ?
Dude , I would say the work , at least in my belief system , is a lot of people want to have what other people have . People listening to this podcast are like , oh , brandon , both of you guys are doing over six figures a month . That's awesome , I want that . So they want to have what we have .
So what they do is they try to do what we do , like , oh , I'm going to start a podcast . Somebody listening to this right now could be like I'm going to copy you and start a podcast or I'm going to launch a follower ad . But they don't want to become who we are .
So you have to be first , then do and then you can have , which comes down to an identity issue , where most people don't know who they are , and I believe , for instance , my son Jedediah .
He knows who he is because he knows that he's my son , and I know who he is because I made him right , or he's going to at least grow up and understand that I'm Brandon's son , right , that's my dad , and I think in the same way with God .
It's impossible to know your true identity until you know who made you right , and people are like , well , I don't know if God's real . So then it's like I mean at least that's my belief system is the best way to know who you are is to understand who you are . And then from that place it's literally , bro , like looking into the Bible .
Even people who aren't believers . I'm like dude , just like chat GPT all the verses in this book and see what it says about you . People are like dude , I don't believe the Bible . Then it's like why is it the best selling book ever ? Why does the calendar change when Muhammad died or whatever ? And I'm like it didn't . It changed when Jesus died after death ?
Right , so there's two big , significant things that have at least lived for over 2000 years that are worth looking into . Some of the truths that are in the book you don't have to believe it , but what I've found is it's actually a blueprint to building businesses and your own belief system .
So , yeah , not to go on a tangent there , but I think that's the most important thing , bro , is understanding identity .
I completely agree with you . Like I grew up in a very christian catholic area like ireland is christian catholic , but especially in the early 2000s it was a lot more . Now it's pretty much not , let's put it that way .
But you know , back then you had like the 10 commandments literally being drilled into you in school and I just my logic is like , whether you believe it not , that's just a good way to just live in general , just like be nice , don't cheat on your partner , don't cheat on your neighbor , don't do anything like violent to people .
So at the very least , I think we can all agree it's just like a North Star narrative at the end of the day . So whether you say that , you believe it or not , surely that's just a good way to be .
You can't look at that and think you know what I'm actually going to fuck over my neighbor as a result , like that's just the wrong way to look at anything when you don't need to be like I believe this and now I'm in in this belief system , and I imagine that goes the same with a lot of other religions and also other elements of even spirituality .
The more you look into it . So it's like I just think again , it goes back to these , these hard beliefs that I think that people don't really believe . They were just kind of imprinted it .
It's like here have this belief and oh , okay , now I encapsulate that , but the truth , man , is almost like you look at it yourself yeah , and I think outside of religion , because that could create a box where what I said only applies to that group .
I would actually make it more broad and say if you believe that , you , there's a lot of beliefs that maybe we carried from our childhood . Like I said earlier , I grew up in a trailer house eating ramen noodles , right . So with that there was a lot of beliefs that I couldn't make money . I'm always going to be this way .
My parents were broke , I'm going to be broke , and it's like those are sentences . All thoughts are sentences . So it's like we say these sentences in our mind and they drop down and we start to believe them , and then it changes our feelings , our actions and our results . You can never change your circumstance just by luck , at least in my belief .
So it's like if your circumstance is $10K a month and you want to get to $100K , the only way you're going to change that result and get to the $100K a month is by changing something up here . Even if a funnel helps you get there , you at least have to change your belief to say I'm stuck at $10K a month , but I'm good enough to make 100 .
And then guess what ? You're going to feel confident enough to launch an ad , you're going to take the right action to spend enough to get to the result .
So it's like many people , it's just a mindset that they can't have it , that their offer isn't good enough , that 100K a month is only for the two guys on the podcast right now and it's like , no , you could do it too . You just have to see what's possible and believe it .
When did you kind of Did you always have this belief system or did you look more into the Bible ? What was your evolution with this ?
Yeah , I got sick and tired of being broke and then working for Brooke . Out of any of the coaches we know in the space , I don't know one that makes more uh than her based on how well of an oiled machine .
Personally like , she to me was freaking awesome at what she did and I saw how much money she was making and I was like if she can do it , I could do it . And that was her whole motto was like be an example of what's possible . So for us , right now , on this podcast , we're an example to everyone listening of what's possible . So that key , but it never .
That's when I knew it was
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possible . But I kept trying , trying , failure , failure , failure , this business , failed agency , failed , all these other things . But what shifted for me was when I applied something that the Bible teaches , which was tithing and offering . So , instead of how can I make $10,000 a month ? I literally remember I was like how can I give away 10 grand a month ?
So I started shifting to being generous and and like wanting to bless people to and give money away , and like how can it be a blessing to other people ? And then I started to make more money . It's the energy you emit right .
The energy you give out is energy you receive , and I think the fact that most people are in it for themselves with a scarcity mindset maybe just due to programming , maybe it's not intentional that leads to a restrictive nature , that leads to you know , you're not wanting to hop on this podcast , you're not wanting to share your insight , but like you give it all
away , like you could literally watch your YouTube and build like a 10 million a year business , like it's quite literally that obvious , like you could literally do it , and you also have , like your ads being like you say this word in this position .
So that means that you're able to attract the 200k , the 200k a month , and also just cool fucking people , right , just cool people that open your eyes to other things , not just the money on a screen , equivalent . Yeah , exactly , I want to say a big thank you , man . I really appreciate this . I would love to do a second podcast becomes american next year .
We could sit down for two hours , have a coffee , chill and really get into like the nits and nitty gritty of the components . But , man , big thank you to you .
Dude . I would love that bro Honor to be here . Dude .
