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Specijal – Kako da lakše podnesete raskid

Mar 25, 202357 minSeason 1Ep. 4
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Objavljena je četvrta epizoda podkasta “Kako da izgradite dobar život” sa Miom Popić i Ivom Branković, psihoterapeutkinjama, u produkciji Velikih priča.


Voditeljka Ana Mitić, novinarka i urednica u Velikim pričama, vodiće vas kroz najvažnije lekcije iz psihologije o dobrom životu i sreći.


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I'm going to the song of Miley Cyrus, which I read, but she's a little romantic, which is all the poem. It's kind of a euphoria. I go out of the veze and now... I don't regret it, but I'm going to become a new one. So we have different narratives that women share. We talk about the pain and the problem of raskida and raskida. Precidi with partner always bole, but we can do it or even if we can do it. It's the main question of this episode, how to make it easier for raskida.

U prošloj epizodi Mija je rekla nešto zanimljivo, a to je da su ljudi tokom pandemije dosta davali otkaze, ali su se puno i razvodili. I zato bih krenula od toga sa čime se Iva i Mija susreću u svojoj psiho-terapeutskoj praksi. because it is hard to pay after the rask and because of which it is in the end of the work for the struly support.

Let's start with the first question. Why is it hard to do? It's logical that it's hard to do. It's because of which people often ask for help is because they expect less hard to do. A, forget to forget that the risk, and the risk, and the risk, and the risk, and the risk, and the risk, and the risk, and the risk, and the risk, and the risk, and the risk.

Posebno ne gledaju tako kada izlaze iz veza koje za njih nisu bile dobre. Tako da svaki raskid ili razvod moraju da budu bolni. Mislim da je to prva stvar koju treba da razumemo kada... when we think about it, grubi prema sebi da očekujemo od sebe da zato što smo izašli iz nečega što i onako nije bilo dobro za nas, da očekujemo da ćemo onda biti srećni ili da ćemo odmah osetiti blagodeti toga.

When we are in a way, we are in a way because we are in a way because we are in a way because we are in a way because we are in a way because we are in a way because we are in a way because we are in a way. and it is often like that, especially in the wrong ways. It is a good indicator of whether we are in a good way or not. It is a good indicator of whether we are in a good way or whether we are in a good way.

Posebno kada je u pitanju to da izlazimo iz čega što nije dobro, mi moramo da odtugujemo to što smo zamišljali da je moglo da bude. To je često ceo jedan život koji smo zamislili sa nekim i zato je to jedan težak i bolan proces. It is often paradoxical if we push ourselves to do so. So, if we do not allow ourselves to be able to do so, then we will be able to do so. Na to ćemo se raditi malo kasnije da treba pustiti sebe da... I'm going to ask you, I'm going to ask you a question. and so on.

I think it's true, it's true, it's true. ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... This is what is popular, how many people find it. That is a problem. Why is it so bad? We know that there is a syndrome of the heart and cardiologists who have been working on the problem.

srcu, posle raskida, znači zaista postoje neke promene, a postoje istraživanja koja kažu da je emotivna bol podjednako jaka kao i fizička. Pa ja bih samo... that is what Iva said, in fact, is a substance, that is that we have to get rid of it, that is what we have to lose in the past, or what we have to lose in the future, in the future, in the sense of the fantasies, how that something could be. But when we talk about emotional pain, we talk about separation and anxiety.

the question is how well we have been able to do it. And that's what I'm really interested in in psychotherapy.

... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... I think that a lot of people often say that they feel like they feel like they feel like they feel like they feel like And I think that nothing is going to happen like the feeling of the pain, which is often happening because we didn't have to do it because we didn't have to do it, and we didn't have to do it, and we didn't have to do it, and we didn't have to do it, and we didn't have to do it.

Because if we have to lose our identity, which is often the case, then we will be able to lose our emotional body. ... ... ... ... I don't know how to do it, I don't know how to do it. but of course not to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able I don't know, we have to say that we have to say that we have to say that we have to say that we have to say What does that mean?

Then it will be very likely to be dramatic. That's what people say, that we will be dramatic. If there was a relationship, there was a relationship, there was a relationship, there was a relationship, there was a relationship, there was a relationship with us, and we didn't have a relationship with us, then we could have a relationship with us. to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to

To je da ulećemo u novu vezu, da jurimo, da sebi nekako zamaskiramo tugu. Mislim da možda nije loše tada samo malo sestiti sa sobom i vidjeti što nam se desilo. Da, ovdje možemo da se nadovežemo. What is the question that needs to be removed? The question is where people in turn grese. after what is it that is what is working on, I think that they will be able to do that in the way they will be able to do that.

Mia said that it isn't a solution for a new connection, a some people just after the break or the break, they think that they will be... that will help them to be able to provide the situation. What are those situations that should be needed to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able Bilo koja vrsta negiranja postojećih emocija i pokušaj da se one, kako da kažem, anesteziraju je...

That's why they often do it. They don't come to a new relationship, but they come to a new relationship with some active substances, intensive activities. ... ... ... ... ... and so on, and so on, and so on, and so on. And always when we move on, it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that It's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that it's not that

Najgore stvar koju možemo da radimo je da ne tolerišemo neprijatnost pa da onda pokušavamo da nastavimo vezu. To se često dešava da ljudi svoje... I think that emotions come as information about what they're wrong and what they're saying. Because it's hard, because I'm not with anyone, I'm going to find them again, I'm going to find them again, I'm going to find them again, I'm going to find them again, I'm going to find them again, I'm going to find them again.

A, in fact, it's a natural part of the process. So, every kind of instant gratification, or instant of the rest of the process, negative emotions are very often problematic. The process is very often and the process is very often and the process is very often and the process is very often. Raskida li razvoda desi i od toga isto zavisi kako ćemo da prođemo. I tu isto postoje razlika između raskida i razvoda, zato što nekad mi dugo...

We know that it will happen, but we don't have a decision. In that case, the tugging that may be happening after that is, is probably a little bit more and more and more and more and more. That's what another person is doing. Then it will be very painful and dramatic. Affair or failure are something that is very painful and there is a need for people to give them time to get out of shock and then they start to get out of shock.

So, we can say that it is easy and easy, but it can be easier and easier if we are not afraid of what we are currently doing. How do people feel like they can never find love or be in a relationship with another marriage? Why do people need to think about it? Do you think that's the fear that you're talking about? Ljudi se, jedan od razloga, zbog koga ljudi često i duže ostaju u vezama ili brakovima nego što bi možda i trebalo, je što se plaše toga da... ... ... ...

It's very popular because it's important to us that we need to be ok with each other.

A, of course, when we found someone with him life, and felt like emotions, it is hard to think that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that we will feel that and that's what we can do again and that's what we can do again and that's what we can do again and that's what we can do again

I think it's possible when it's possible when it's possible when it's possible, I believe that it's possible to be rational and to understand that if things happen, then it needs to be done.

That is a problem that is often raised, because people don't understand why something is going to be done, and then... they think that they don't need to be or they can do something to do or they do something to do or they do something to do or they do something to do or they do something to do or they do something to do or they do something to do or they do something to do

to look at it from the perspective. Why did it fall? What am I going to learn from it? What is being done with someone and what I want to do with someone else? what I'm trying to do, what I'm trying to do, what I'm trying to do, what I'm trying to do, I'm trying to do, I'm trying to do, I'm trying to do, I'm trying to do, I'm trying to do, I'm trying to do, I'm trying to do.

Psycholozi su 2007. u časopisu Journal of Experimental Social Psychology otkrili da kada se romantična veza raspadne, prosečna osoba ocenjuje... stress on something more than 3, on a scale of 1-7. In the end, there is a number of 0.07. If you don't want to feel better every week and only after 6 months. to is more than what you want to expect, but what does it mean? Is there a way to go? Is there a way to go? Is there a way to go?

to ko je presudi, nego ono što mi radimo za to vreme i zapravo na koji način mi prorađujemo to iskustvo. I to je ovo što je Iva rekla, dati prostora za učenje. Ono gde vreme ne može da nam pomogne, a to je nešto sa čim se često susrećem, je doživljaj da je raskid zapravo neuspeh. I ako mi raskid doživljavamo kao neuspeh, kao da je to sad neki prosto test inteligencije...

I don't know, I'm stupid because I'm so stupid because I'm so stupid, especially if we have a complex context that is, I don't know, a fair or parallel. I'm with all the things that I'm going to do with you when I'm in the question. but what is a tough situation, it's a chance that someone will be able to see and see that the relationship is a grech, shows that one is not a pamphlet and that it is a loss of time.

Ako tako gledamo na raskid, onda nema tih meseci i tog vremena koje će meni pomoći da se osjećam bolje dok god ja ne sagledam to na nov način i ne istražim zapravo upravo taj prostor za učenje. Ok, možda nije sve ispao najsjajnije, ali sigurno nešto iz toga može da se nauči. I onda krećemo da preboljevamo. Da, dakle, uopšte ne treba razmišljati o tom vremenu, zakoliko će nešto da se desi. Mislim, jeste vreme relevantno?

but more quality than what you do in the time. I have even heard of a theory, I mean, it's not a knowledge-based, but it's interesting that you need to, if we are, I don't know, Three years, a half of that time, will be needed to be done by the time. So, I think that is important time, but much more important is what we do for the time.

What do you recommend to people who come to psichoterapia after the break in time? People who have some problems and tell them what are problems and what are they doing? Kako izgledaju te tehnike za lakše prevazilaženje tog bola posle razvoda ili raskida? No, no, no, no. There are some things that are complicated. There are some good examples that talk about the emotion after the emotional loss, when it comes to the question in the countries.

If you want to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able I think that's one of the most important things when we are in the question, that we actually... And that's what we're doing in the process. We're helping people to get involved first on the idea, especially on the situation where I'm saying, when they don't expect or when they don't want to do it, or when they're tough. That's why we need to get involved.

to leave a time for the first to live with the idea of the idea, or to get the lute, which is going to be a part of the idea of the idea. because it is not only the problem but also the feeling of the feeling that I have talked about, the feeling of other people, the feeling of other people, the feeling of other people, the feeling of other people.

To, ono što mi radimo je da sa ljudima prolazimo kroz sve te emocije i pazimo da sve emocije izađu napolje, odnosno da sve emocije nekako razumemo na pravi način.

... ... ... ... ... and the irrational ideas that may be happening after rascida, What is it that we try to look for people like that, so we help them to be okay with all the emotions that they feel because they are legitimate because they don't have mistakes when they feel like they feel like they feel like they feel like The question is completely okay.

But in the therapy process, it's ideal time. And most of the time, people come after a lot of great changes, a lot of changes, a lot of changes, a lot of changes, a lot of changes, a lot of changes, a lot of changes, a lot of changes, a lot of changes. where it is needed to be one of the rest of the rest of the rest of the rest of the rest of the rest of the rest.

We become a person who is single and who is not in the same way. From the person who has been in marriage, who has been in the same way, we become a person who is not in the same way. So we need time. We need to explain what it means to us, what it means to us in a community context, how our area is looking at it.

So, these are good moments that we look at our life, that we see what is important, how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show how we are going to show you.

A why do you think of the pandemic, what do you think of the pandemic, what do you think of the pandemic? What do you think of the pandemic? has helped us with all the distractions in relation to what we are doing. So we were able to look at how we function. I think that there is a lot of influence on how we balance the roles and the roles and the roles and the roles and the roles and the roles and the roles and the roles and the roles.

It shows where things are not. But I think that it is fair to say that some of the parts that I know, they are connected to the pandemic. That's right. ... ... ... ... That's it. This is what I have said that it is that it is the most important thing that I have done in psychotherapy. Da li sam ja sad glupa zato što i dalje patim za nekoga, za nekim za koga znam da je bio pogrešan za mene? Zar ne bi trebalo ja da budem srećna što sam se izbavila iz toga i ako ja sad se...

I'm here, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here, The most important thing is to allow the feeling of the feeling, especially if we are toxic, because of ourselves we need to be able to make the feeling of the feeling of the feeling of the feeling. Pametan znači biti neko ko zapravo nema osjećanja, nego samo napraviš rez i ideš dalje. I tu smo mi zapravo vrlo strogi prema sebi.

A to su neka opšta mesta. Vi kad pričate sa ljudima posle raskida, uglavnom ljudi ponavljujete neke iste rečenice, kao ja sam budala, zašto i dalje patim za njim? Tako je, tako je. How am I going to be so long with them? Or when I tell them that they don't want to be for you, but they don't want to be for you. But people don't want to... Da, i izađu iz toga. Pa ne mogu. Zato što postoji veliko očekivanje od svih nas pod jedan da se ostvarimo u emotivnim odnosima. ... ... ... ...

to see how much you are successful, how much you are successful, how much you are successful, and you are doing something useful. The private relations are also one of the areas where we compare our value and where the society is going to be.

that we have to find the right person, that we have to find the right person, that we have to find the right person, that we have to find the right person, that we have to find the right person, that we have to find the right person, that we have to find the right person. I think that we are not going to do that. They come to the client and say that they have all these mistakes. They say that they are okay, but they have all these mistakes.

Do jedne sledeće veze koja će biti neka dobra i da bi došla do nekog s kim je dobro, morala si da prođeš sve te ili morao, jer veze koje su bile loše. But it's also a problem that we really put on some criteria on which we really don't have to do. You said two, two, two, one. Everyone has an idea of how much we need to do that. ... ... ... ... Do we know each other and do we know each other and do we know each other.

It is completely unknown and not known, but we have the value of this area and it is really... A svi to radimo i zato posvežemo za tim opštim mestima jer želimo, jer mislimo da su u stvari drugi bolje snalaze. Mislim da je zato važno da ovome pričamo jer nam se sve čini neko drugi, evo pa kako ovaj, pa kako ovaj, pa... How do people do it? Our parents, the older generation, they found themselves together, and we have to open things and talk about it and I think that it is fair to say that...

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I definitely think that it's a good idea. I think that women are only open to talk about it because they are socialized and waspited to be open to emotional topics. I think that there are some... I would like to say, other myths. I mean, I would like to be on the song of Miley Cyrus, but I would like to be a little bit more.

Like I said, romantizuje the poem, Raskida, like, you know, it's a euphoria. I'm going to get out of the way and I'm going to get out of the way, but I'm going to get out of the way and I'm going to get out of the way. There are different narratives of how women, women, spread. And now they have a new identity and then they have a single that they can help them, help them, help them, and so on. So that's what I often see.

It's because of their feelings, because of their feelings and because of their feelings and because of their feelings. I'm happy to meet you in the end of the day, and I'm happy to meet you in the end of the day. That means that the things in this field are changed and that the guys are much more open and that they are talking about emotions and that they are open and talking about.

Do you have any difference in terms of how women and how women and women and women? Yes, there is a difference in terms of these differences. a strategic strategy, in the sense that they make a kind of distraction, and that they don't have time.

not so that they have to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able We should talk about it and talk about it and talk about it and talk about it and talk about it

In the end of the day, it's a very important thing when the question is that many people don't give themselves permission. What I'm saying is that it's true that more people don't give up for partner therapy today, when we started. pre nekih desetak i nešto godina. Uglavnom su žene bile te koje su zvale i zakazivale partnersko savjetovanje. Sada su to sve češće muškarci, kao što sada muškarci dele kućne poslove, kao što brinu o deci i samim tim i dozvoljavaju sebi... ... ... ... ... ...

And, of course, on the other side, the fact is that women often are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones And then it is paradoxical, but in fact, the man is always found, the man is always found, the man is found in a different place. They were very much more and more and more and more and more. When women become uncomfortable, they may have time to suffer, but they come out of it.

Today the things change. The women are engaged in partners and they are engaged in the relationship. I think that this is a great thing. So I think that it can be possible to help the process of the struggle. after that, when they are in contact with their emotions. On the other hand, the eradication of the woman that is only one of the most important ones is to help the process of getting married.

If something is known about partners, it is important to be two people, mainly, as if we don't talk about alternative forms, which are not fully alive, like polyamory and sl. A to are two people who are on the other side of the relationship with the quality of the relationship and the quality of the relationship with the relationship with the relationship with the relationship with the relationship.

I don't know how many other people are involved when they are in the question of the child. We know that in the case of the child, when a parent has children, it is very important that it is very important. How do you see this process? It seems to be a very important topic because of the fact that they have more.

and what is happening with the child and what is important for the child and what is important for the child For the children, the brach of their children are the most important thing for the children, but also the toxic ones are the most important thing. So it's also important, and it's also something that's what's happening, that's what's happening now, and when they decide to get rid of it, they want to get rid of it because they want to get rid of it because they want to get rid of it.

Ljudski pristojan način upravo zbog dece. Važno je tu razmišljati o tome, ljudi to često zaborave onda kada dođu do kraja, da su u nekom trenutku u životu birali, da su neke zajedničke... and that it is important to be able to make it in the end, because of the future in which they will always be connected. If you have a child, when you have a child, it means that you don't live with someone else, but you stay in contact with someone else forever.

So it's very much better to be able to be constructive and try to test it. That's why it's important 6 months before the first time. That's why it's important to be time. and that they talk about it in a good way, and that they could continue to function. There is one important thing, when we talk about the development and the expansion, because they are in a society.

It's not a relationship, it's not a relationship, it's not a relationship, but it's not a relationship. We have more veza, more veza, more veza, more veza. And then, it is often in the therapy practice that people do the same as they have been lost for 10 years, and they have been lost for a couple of months because they have been lost for a couple of months.

and it is important to understand that we have more... I don't know what to do with brak, whether they will be more or more, but the fact is that we have to do it in the family, that we have to do it in the family, that we have to do it in the family.

I don't know how to do it. I know how to do it before, when they come back to the end of 10 years, and when I say that it's like a change, it's like a change, it's like a change, it's like a change, it's like a change, it's like a change, it's like a change. Are there any things that are typical for our environment, because of the patriarchal process, when it comes to the question of the movement, the dramaticness of the situation.

Are you saying that women are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones I don't know exactly what is our statistics. I know that in America there is practically every other one. I think it's every third or fourth one, but I'm sure that I'm 100% sure.

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slash terms for more. Why choose a Sleep Number smart bed? Can I make my sight softer? Can I make my sight firmer? Can we sleep cooler? Sleep Number does that. Cools up to eight times faster and lets you choose your ideal comfort on either side. Your Sleep Number setting. Enjoy personalized comfort for better sleep night after night.

And now, max out your savings. The more you buy, the more you save on beds, bases, and more. Plus, get free home delivery on any smart bed with base. Limited time. Check it out at a Sleep Number store near you or at sleepnumber.com today. I think that it depends on generation. I think that there is a certainty that brak should be needed, not only for every single one, but for every single one.

And there is a big factor, and many of them really fight for them, when they have a child, they have to decide to decide on the divorce. because it is an objective problem and it is necessary to organize the life of the environment. The environment is not a good thing, it is a good thing, it is a good thing, it is a good thing. ... ... ... ... ... To ne znači da se ne treba truditi, naprotiv, brak jeste, zajednički trud i napor i sve to stoji, ali nije, redko se dođe na... Thank you.

konkretno mislim na žene, ma da to naravno pogađa i muškarce, se osjećaju to kao da nisu ostvarili neku važnu životnu funkciju. Tako da očuvanje braka se postavlja kao imperativ i dalje u našoj kulturi pre nego... ... ... ... ... ... I hope that these things are going to change. I hope that the young generation is already thinking about it, but we still have the dominant patriarchal narrative that says that...

brak, which is for each other, and that it is just a trp. And we have to in our narrative, as a rodent, it is a trp. And it will surely change. I would like to add that the woman is successful when she was in marriage and was in marriage. If she didn't go to marriage, and I will say Sandro Siladjev, then she is going to go to marriage. If she is going to go to marriage, she doesn't go to marriage after marriage.

What a woman does it, she does it, she does it, she does it. The name is the name. The name is the name. I think that's the best way for the patriarchal context to define the relationship with respect to the relationship. Okay, I wanted to ask one thing that is related to the development of the generation. Is it my opinion that on the psichoterapia do come with mladers? The older generation of our parents, who are maybe 50, 60 years old, how do they say so?

I mean, it's not just a change, it's not just a change. because they just opened up different options and people are ready to review their own relationship. The generation of our parents are now 60 years old, but it's about 50-60 years old. The parents are now when their parents are old enough. Our parents are already old, but the parents are already old.

But the children who now have 25-26 years, when they come out of the house, when they come out of the house, when they come out of the house, when they come out of the house, Imaju malo dete koje ima, recimo, 2-3 godine. Kad su shvatili da će dete da preživi i da oni mogu da se pozabave svojim odnosom, onda dolazi prva kriza. There is a kriza in the beginning of school. And if it happens, it is the next time when the children come from home.

That is because of the children. The children are big when they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them, they say to them. ... ... ... ... ... ...

because they see the difference and because they want to talk about it, which I think is a standard, but what we need to do. They just don't understand them, they don't understand them, they don't understand them, they don't understand them, they don't understand them, they don't understand them, they don't understand them. That's why we're trying to think about that because of the disease, because of the disease, the disease is something that is the most important for the disease.

I don't know what's going on. I think that's what we need to be fair for parents. to be that when they come to the question of the conflict, when they come to the question of the conflict, when they come to the question of the affair, the competencies fall. I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, They don't want to be able to be able to be able to be able

That is something where we can find out where people come from, where people come from, because of the psychotherapy. It is important to know that people come from the world, that... And when the child is going to change the focus of the child, the child is going to change the focus of the child and that we don't expect from them to be 100% on the task.

because they are not, because they are tough and they need time to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able Ima tu neki grešak, a naravno kad su u pitanju roditelja i deca, šta je to što u trenutcima razvoda ne bi trebalo govoriti?

deci. Mi kad pričamo sa našim prijateljima, pa oni kad žele da nas uteše, oni kažu recimo u tim situacijama raskida ili razvoda, ma daj kao... on is this or this or this or this or this or this or this or this or this or this or this or this or this or this And then the children often end up with us on psychotherapy, but also in a relationship between two parents who have used the children as a kind of... I don't know what to do.

I mean, of course, we know and we know that we don't have to know that we don't have to play with partners in the world, but in fact, it's always happening. You have to do it in marriage, you have to do it in marriage. The parents do it very often, they do it very often, but they do it. I think that's okay. Okay, that's okay. That's okay. Of course, not to use any words and to be aggressive, but it is important to see conflict, to see peace, to see how it looks.

But it's often that they talk about the other's parents and the most dangerous thing that can happen is to manipulate the children's parents, which is dangerous for them. That is very problematic. That is very problematic. I one thing that I heard about it is that it is to say that but with a language that they can understand. When I was born, I just preach and preach the truth, but in a way that it is understood.

Dobro, možemo sad da se vratimo na neke strategije za lakše podnošenje braka i razvoda. Ja ću spomenuti neke strategije. Ali lakše podnošenje braka, ovo mi je jedino. Razvoda, braka, ali stvore potrebne su strategije i za... for brak, to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able Of course, the first thing happens when it happens to be friends who come to do it and they have a technique where they talk about it. ... ... ... ... ...

and that it is better that you are forgiven. Is it a good way to do that? I think that it can be true if it is true, but it doesn't mean that it can be only one side of the story. We can say that something really isn't good for us and that we have had a great pleasure. Thank you very much. but it would be a good idea if it would be a good idea for us and it would be a good idea for us I think that we have to do a lot of empathy, and that we have to do that.

Da, on nije bio za tebe pogrešan je, možemo da ga pljujemo zajedno, ali ajde da uvažimo i to da si ti polagala neke nade, da si vidjela neku budućnost i da sve jedno koliko god da je on ili ona loš po tebe, da uvažimo da si... and you can see it on the way you can see it on the way you can see it on the way That's what I'm thinking. that is a lot of things. If it is a lot of things, it is a lot of things, it is a lot of things. But it is a lot of things.

of someone who is dangerous and toxic for us, and sometimes we are dealing with someone who has been ok in some ways and in some ways. And it's good to know that friends are aware of it, and that's important to us ourselves. because if we're talking with someone who has been good and has been good, then in the way we're talking about it, we're talking about the emotions, everyone knows how to do it.

Some days you think, well, super, I'm going to do another day, I'm going to do another day and I'm going to say, well, how do I do this without him, this, this, this and this. And it's the emotional rollercoaster that needs to go after the race. ... ... ... ... ... And what do you think about the strategy of the page? If the main problem is to think about how you love your beloved, whether it is something fun to do with you, whether it is something fun to do with you.

Da li je to gledanje serije, izlazak, čitanje knjige. Recimo, čula sam mnogo dobru foru od drugarice, kad dođe iskušenje da jednom svom bivšem... of course, she then plays a game of course. Dobro, to звучit kao dobra strategija. Mislim da ovdje postoji jedan narativ koji smo preuzeli iz romantičnih filmova i komedije i serija, a to je ajde sada vidim da si tužna i ucveljena, ali obuci se, sredi se, idemo u grad i posljedno. Thank you.

I think that we need to see what our friends and friends actually need. All the strategies that you have told me may be good if we have to see what we need. What I find out of psychotherapy is that we need to be a little while to be with us. And then we'll be able to create a new hobby, a new thing that is fun, but that it will be based on the needs of the needs, and not to be a big part of the feeling of a tug.

Ima još jedno pitanje u vezi sa praćenjem tih bivših partnera. Zapravo ima veze sa tim problemom pažnja. Ako ne preokupiraš svoju pažnju nečim drugim pa onda razmišljaš o njemu, neki vrlo često preko društvenih mreža. Prate šta ta osoba radi, prate ga u hodu ili nju, nameste sebi da dobijaju notifikacije itd. Da li je to pametno?

Nije prvi savjet koji, ako ima nekih savjeta koje mi dajemo, jer trudimo da ljudi prolaze kroz svoj proces autentično po svom ritmu, ali jedan savjet jeste stvarno prestati pratiti ljude na društvenim mrežama. And that's the question of self-occuase, because these information are not true. We know how they look at our lives on social media and that they are always better and better than what they are actually.

If we do it, we only give us a bottle, we don't see it, we don't see it, we don't see it, we don't see it, we don't see it, we don't see it, we don't see it. ... ... ... ... ... I don't want to know what is happening. I think that's what I love. When I talk about love, I think that love is a thing that we need to be able to do. And that we need to be able to do something that we need to be able to do.

But if, on the other hand, there is no need for us to be in the story, then we really need to be a little different to look at our emotions. It doesn't mean that we have a challenge that we love someone who doesn't want to be with us, but we just want to make sure how it is functional and what it means. So it's okay to communicate with the people if we don't want to. I don't know what to do with him, but what is most important is that the relationship between each other, one time.

The first negative emotions are important. We need to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able but not at the beginning. At the beginning it is best to be able to do it. What can we learn from some films or series? ... ... ... A druga je ova novija Fleischmann is in trouble. Obe govarele zapravo o razvodu braka i o tom... with the other, Fleischmann, is in the same situation where the mother is left two children.

And when you say that the mother left two of us, it's not an issue. But when you look at the series and see what's going on, what's going on, what's going on, what's going on... and problems that are still in her apartment, when she's everything is done, you can see why she's done it and where she's done it and you can try to understand it. to be able to understand the process.

You know what, I think that one thing that is important to do here is that the development and the development of the series, and that the series can help you, is between the two and the opportunity to get a little bit back to ourselves. I think that there is no need to talk about it. Love as a double connection. I remember one quote that I found in the book of Emotional Agility that says that it is a love that requires a home.

I think that when we talk about it, we have to talk about it. When we talk about it, we have to talk about it. Ponovo možda negde ispoznali ljubav, ali ne možemo dok nismo proradili togu. Da se vratim na ove serije, meni je to recimo Sins from a Marriage. I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.

It's very important for us, because it's very important for us. Today we know that we have a lot of fun and we have a lot of fun and we have a lot of fun. to be more empathetic and empathetic. So one thing that I want to see in many series is Tuga, which is where it is, and not to be able to get into a new relationship, but Tuga is okay.

That's why it's okay to listen to music. We're now on the music that we mentioned at the beginning. Music is a sign of the role of Raskida and it's also one of the strategies. That's why music can be used in the heart. So, The Arts of Psychotherapy, pregleda o dostupnoj studiji i otkrio da ljudi traže tužnu muziku kako bi sebe pomogli da razumeju i pronađu smisu svojim emocijama. ... ... ... A, it seems to be that there are more people who write men and women, but not women.

And again, it's not true. It's not true. It's not true. It's not true. It's not true. It's not true. And now we're going to what you said, the ball, the sedge, with your thoughts on your emotions, and it's really important for our emotional support. I Rast, but I would ask for why people listen to music after Rast, why are they really okay? Because they have to deal with the emotions that they feel.

because of course, after the rest of the day, they are ljudi, they have a secondary emotion, they are on themselves, they are on their own person, and they don't know how to get in contact with their own person. and that is actually a good technique that is a good technique that is a good technique that is a good technique ... ... ... ... ... In the sense that we can make sure that we can make it on the surface, because we don't want to get into a situation without reason.

but very often we will block negative emotions, and what is important is that if we don't allow negative emotions, we don't allow negative emotions, because we don't allow negative emotions. ... ... ... ... who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones ... ... ... ... music, love songs, everything is done because someone has to do their own songs.

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