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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place. Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya. I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.* When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)! When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex-positive, light, and fact-based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen. To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.* I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too. + IG @BirdsBeesKids + FB @BirdsBeesKids + BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com *In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get so real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything? **Not a thing.
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Casual sex

In this episode, Amy explains casual sex. Resources: Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Includes group coaching and special topic webinars. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! BBK Bookstore is here . Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros...

Nov 02, 20224 minSeason 1Ep. 140

How to explain adoption -- Episode 139

In this episode, Amy explains adoption. Resources: Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Includes group coaching and special topic webinars. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! BBK Bookstore is here . Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.c...

Oct 26, 20225 minSeason 1Ep. 139

How to handle sex talk push-back; explaining a rape scene to a pre-teen and 8-year-olds crushing -- Episode 138

In this episode, Amy talks about how to handle sex talk push-back. She also advises a mom on how to talk about a movie rape scene to an 11-year-old. And she helps a mom discuss crushes with her 8-year-old. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 20. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/...

Oct 19, 202223 minSeason 1Ep. 138

How to explain sperm donation -- Episode 137

In this episode, Amy explains sperm donation. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees & Kids The po...

Oct 12, 20225 minSeason 1Ep. 137

Want to win a Quickie? Want to help a sister out? -- Episode 136

In this episode, Amy asks for help. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees & Kids The podcast can ...

Oct 05, 20224 minSeason 1Ep. 136

How to explain what being a lesbian means -- Episode 135

In this episode, Amy explains what being a lesbian means. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees &...

Sep 28, 20223 minSeason 1Ep. 135

F-off 'stranger danger' and porn talk success story!!! -- Episode 134

In this episode, Amy explains explains why stranger danger is bad and also includes a great porn talk success story. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join my newsletter list and get ti...

Sep 21, 202218 minSeason 1Ep. 134

How to talk about objectification -- Episode 133

In this episode, Amy explains objectification. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements! Birds & Bees & Kids The p...

Sep 14, 20225 minSeason 1Ep. 133

Why you need monitoring and filtering (again) -- Episode 132

In this episode, Amy explains why you need to monitor what your kids sees online. Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a grand prize of all the things! Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdeuhqDMvHtf5MgxSXUc2SnJJCDJMD0MO Join my newsletter list and get tips and info and event announcements...

Sep 07, 20227 minSeason 1Ep. 132

Kid makes moaning noises that sound like sex (thanks playground buddies) and 6 year-old gal learns about the f-bomb and it ain't quite right -- Episode 131

In this episode, Amy advises a parent on how to get their kiddo to stop making moaning noises that have been heard on the playground. Also, reading books about sex to teens - yay or nay? and explaining the f-word to a 6-year-old. Show notes: A Kids Book About Body Hair Resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Sex Talks With Tweens virtual book launch! October 18 @ 5PM PT. You can win a book, books for kids, a Quickie, a Solutions Center membership and a gran...

Aug 31, 202228 minSeason 1Ep. 131

Menopause -- Episode 130

In this episode, Amy explains menopause. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid’s go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com BBK Books...

Aug 24, 20224 minSeason 1Ep. 130

Alternatives to porn: The Joy of Sex! The Joy of Gay Sex! The Lesbian Sex Bible! -- Episode 129

In this episode, Amy discusses alternatives to porn for teenagers. The Joy of Gay Sex The Lesbian Sex Bible The Joy of Sex BBK Bookstore is here . My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off....

Aug 17, 20227 minSeason 1Ep. 129

Sexual fantasies -- Episode 128

In this episode, Amy explains sexual fantasies. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid’s go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com BB...

Aug 10, 20225 minEp. 128

What grooming is and living in dad's penis --Episode 127

In this episode, Amy discusses grooming. Also, a funny story about a 3 year old questioning his time living in dad's penis. Worried About Grooming? Teaching Kids Comprehensive Sex Ed Could Help. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visi...

Aug 03, 202210 minSeason 1Ep. 127

IUD -- Episode 126

In this episode, Amy explains vasectomies. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid’s go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com BBK Boo...

Jul 27, 20225 minEp. 126

Wonderful words about wanking; sisters need to stop privates game and lil penis-haver is holding it 24/7 --Episode 125

In this episode, Amy talks with parents who have questions about young kids and their privates. Also a gold star award to a dad who called in to relay his conversation with his son about masturbation. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids...

Jul 20, 202225 minSeason 1Ep. 125

Vasectomy -- Episode 124

In this episode, Amy explains vasectomies. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid’s go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com...

Jul 13, 20225 minSeason 1Ep. 124

My abortion story (it's not what you think) -- Episode 123

In this episode, Amy talks about the recent Supreme Court ruling that overturns Roe v. Wade. !!! BIG FUCKING TRIGGER ALERT !!! Daring to Remember: Tell Us Your Abortion Story Whoops! Not "Susan Something" it's Monica Hesse. Big apologies to her and a big round of applause for her kick-ass column - Pull Back the Curtain on Reproductive Gore Reclaim Our Vote My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Cen...

Jul 06, 202217 minSeason 1Ep. 123

Explaining 18 year old cousin's pregnancy; mom is concerned about her kid's fascination with her butt; kiddo shows penis to pal when they ask for a peek; and college kid wants the door closed when his girlfriend is over.

In this episode, Amy answers questions from the emailbag. My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult! Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com BBK Bookstore is here . Books about consent C is for Consent Your Whole Body Consent for Kids Oth...

Jun 29, 202221 minSeason 1Ep. 122

LGBTQIA -- Episode 121

In this episode, Amy gives you the LGBTQIA definitions. The Pride Guide: A Guide to Sexual and Social Health for LGBTQ Youth The Trevor Project GLSEN works to ensure LGBTQ kids go to schools free from bullying and harassment My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far… The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid’s go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so i...

Jun 15, 20224 minSeason 1Ep. 121

Sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey chats about how your sex life can influence your sex talks! --Episode 120

Amy talks with sex and intimacy coach Leah Carey in this 'can't miss' episode. Leah Carey Sex & Intimacy Coach - https://www.leahcarey.com/ My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time payment you are good to go! Need mor...

Jun 08, 202243 minSeason 1Ep. 120

Fertilization -- Episode 119

In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain fertilization. Show notes: Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Great Amaze video about fertilization for your kids Oklahoma Democratic Party for your $10 donation and yes, I made a donation! -- Want more help? The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code BIRDS for $30 off....

Jun 01, 20226 minSeason 1Ep. 119

Mom's evolving values and early puberty? -- Episode 118

In this episode, Amy gives advice to a mom who is changing her own values about sexuality. Also how early is early puberty? Want more help? The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code BIRDS for $30 off. Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/sex-talks-with-tweens-by-amy-lang/...

May 25, 202231 minSeason 1Ep. 118

Polyamory -- Episode 117

In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain polyamory. Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Want more help? The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code BIRDS for $30 off.

May 18, 20224 minSeason 1Ep. 117

The 'ask first' rule -- Episode 113

In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain the 'ask first' rule. Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore Consent for Kids Your Whole Body Book Sites for parents Savvy Parents Safe Kids Consent Parenting My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a m...

Apr 20, 20224 minSeason 1Ep. 113

3.5 weird tips for the talks, boy wants to kiss mom on the mouth (all the time) and more questions -- Episode 112

In this episode, Amy explains to a mom why not having a segue is not a reason to delay the talks. She also helps a mom who is concerned about having the talks with her son and daughter at the same time. And she advises a mom on how to handle her son who wants to kiss her on the mouth all the time. Hot Dog and Spaghetti “Sperm” with Watermelon “Egg” (for Dessert) My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutio...

Apr 13, 202220 minSeason 1Ep. 112

Sex toys -- Episode 111

In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain sex toys. Babeland - https://www.babeland.com/ Leah Carey - Good Girls Talk About Sex Podcast https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/ My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It The podcast can only get you so far... The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks. Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off. There are multiple ways to pay, so if you need a monthly, yearly or a one-time paym...

Mar 30, 20226 minSeason 1Ep. 111
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