Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell•www.justbreakuppod.com

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

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Episodes

Episode 511: Queerness Is Not A Monolith

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to reconcile the fact that her first queer relationship was also her first toxic one. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 27, 2024•34 min•Season 1Ep. 508

Episode 510: Do You Like Emo...tions?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex-best friend is applying to work at her job. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 25, 2024•35 min•Season 1Ep. 508

Episode 509: Sharing A Business With Your Cheating Ex

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was cheated on by her long-term romantic and business partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 22, 2024•31 min•Season 1Ep. 510

Episode 508: Don't Over-Romanticize Your Ex

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with her partner and now is contemplating getting back together. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 20, 2024•24 min•Season 1Ep. 508

Episode 507: You Can't Be Everything To Everyone

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who asked for what she needed from her friend...and her friend said no. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 18, 2024•35 min•Season 1Ep. 487

Episode 506: Holding The Good With The Bad

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if it's possible to hold onto the good parts of a painful relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 15, 2024•27 min•Season 1Ep. 504

Episode 505: The Unfair Burden of Birth Control

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is having extreme physical and emotional reactions to her birth control methods. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 13, 2024•31 min•Season 1Ep. 505

Episode 504: I'm Lonely In My Relationship

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling lonely in her own relationship, especially when her partner is sick. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 11, 2024•32 min•Season 1Ep. 502

Episode 503: Are These Friends Safe For You?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose best friend is now living with the person who sexually assaulted him. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 08, 2024•29 min•Season 1Ep. 475

Episode 502: My Friend Got Dumped..But It Was Her Fault

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to support her friend whose anxious attachment style caused her break up. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 06, 2024•33 min•Season 1Ep. 482

Episode 501: You Can Never Be A Perfect Parent

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling with shame and mom guilt because she feels like she is failing her young child. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 04, 2024•43 min•Season 1Ep. 497

Episode 500: My Mom's Third Marriage

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mom is getting remarried after a track record of abusive relationships. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 01, 2024•30 min•Season 1Ep. 500

Episode 499: My Boyfriend's Proposal Isn't Romantic Enough

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants her boyfriend to propose in a more romantic way. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 30, 2024•27 min•Season 1Ep. 499

Episode 498: Sexting With My Hot Parisian Tattoo Artist

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who sexted with her Parisian tattoo artist but then found out he unfollowed her on Instagram. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 28, 2024•31 min•Season 1Ep. 498

Episode 497: Avoiding Relationship Burnout

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels burnt out in her relationship with her very social relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 25, 2024•31 min•Season 1Ep. 497

Episode 496: You Don't Trust Him Because He's Proven Himself Untrustworthy

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who anxious that her affair partner might sleep with her best friend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 23, 2024•37 min•Season 1Ep. 496

Episode 495: His Ex Still Uses His Netflix

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend's ex still uses his streaming services. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 21, 2024•35 min•Season 1Ep. 495

Episode 494: Parenting Yourself When Your Mother Can't

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mother admitted to loving her but not liking her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 18, 2024•33 min•Season 1Ep. 494

Episode 493: Mr. Fix-It Fixes His Codependency

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who recently reconnected with an ex after a hard year of healing. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 16, 2024•25 min•Season 1Ep. 493

Episode 492: I Can't Stop Reading Cheating Stories On Reddit

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is overwhelmed with cheating content on social media and is afraid it's going to happen to her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 14, 2024•39 min•Season 1Ep. 492

Episode 491: Dating With A Chronic Illness

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is dating with a chronic illness. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 11, 2024•29 min•Season 1Ep. 491

Episode 490: Why Did He Think You Needed To Know That?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose former stepdad told her he didn't like her as a child? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 09, 2024•40 min•Season 1Ep. 490

Episode 489: Am I B*tch Or Do I Just Know What I Want?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if her dealbreakers are too harsh? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 07, 2024•36 min•Season 1Ep. 489

Episode 488: Kids or No Kids, What's The Plan?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is anxiously living in the ambiguity of potential future children. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 04, 2024•29 min•Season 1Ep. 488

Episode 487: Wanting The Wife And The Mistress Too

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants have his affairs but keep his house too. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 02, 2024•32 min•Season 1Ep. 487

Episode 486: If They Like Me, Then Why Can't I See It?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to ask out her coworker crush but doesn't believe he actually likes her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 30, 2024•34 min•Season 1Ep. 486

Episode 485: Single, Again

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is tired of break ups. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 27, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 485

Episode 484: Held Hostage By The Past

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is hung up on a boy-child who held her heart hostage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 25, 2024•31 min•Season 1Ep. 484

Episode 483: You Say Tomato, I Say TomaNO

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to adjust after developing a late onset tomato allergy. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 23, 2024•30 min•Season 1Ep. 483

Episode 482: Choosing No Love Over Broken Love

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is hurting from her on-again off-again relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 20, 2024•33 min•Season 1Ep. 482

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