To Ghost or Not to Ghost

good idea. Ghosting is Ignore. It is ghosting. Ignore. No, ghosting is go just ignore like permanent ignore. It's an infinity ignore. Um. Yeah, Ghosting is a great tool, but you don't use it. It's not that it's not the first thing you pull out of your damn tool kit. Okay, it's not the hammer and it's not the screwdriver. Ghosting is like that weird thing that like the level paintings like, it's it's a leveling tool, you know what I mean.

You've been crazy and you've overtexted, and you've overemoded by text, and you didn't take the signals When I ran out of the car and you heard screech screeching marks, screeching noises, um and then ghost and should be used. But it's a tool, you know, It's not an everyday tool. It's just a tool that should be used. Sometimes talked about swimwear a little, but I want you to know that I launched swimwear because I think that God, you can't use the word slot anymore. I bet, I bet you

can't use the word slot. There was something else I thought, should it be canceled. I wasn't canceled. It was a word that was going to be canceled soon. The funk was it? Anyway? I launched swimwear because I thought that we needed just a simple, elegant shaping line of silhouettes. It is, all of a sudden, naked is the new clothed. Everybody has to show every orifice, butt, cracked, side, boob, nipple, everything, And I just don't think it's sexy. I don't think

it's attractive. It's okay. And I know it's a difference in an elbow and a vagina. I'm not sure. I don't think you can get pregnant by having a penis inside your elbow, but maybe you can. I just know that all body parts as we know it in this society are not treated equal. Otherwise I could walk I don't wear shoes, while I could walk out without pants. So for some reason, it's the law that you can't be nude. So let's just not find ways to be

nude with via clothing. Because because, because, because dental fluss is not a triangle borkini top like two door Rito's and some dental fluss is not a triangle bikini three door ritos and and dental fluss is not a triangle borkini. And that's what people are doing now, Like let me string three quarters to a piece of licorice, and that's gonna be my bikini. It's just it's enough. So it sounds so old. I don't care. My daughter doesn't think

it's appropriate. You don't have to show every into your body. Okay, we're gonna go through my glam. We're gonna go through my TikTok. In case you haven't heard me mention it the first sixteen times, I have a beauty influencer. Okay, so I became I'm an accidental beauty influencer, but does not get paid. Um, I don't. Brands have now offered me to pay me ahead of time to say something is good. I have declined. Brands have paid two then like boost and repost stuff that I have said already,

go for yours, go with God and joy. I have spent thousands of dollars on makeup. I have learned a lot Number one. The things that work work, and we've thought ourselves stupid. The more you know, the more aging it is, the worst it looks. There are simple tips that are important, though you don't need number two. You don't need all the fucking steps. You don't need primer if you have a good serum or moisturizer. That's a scam. I've bought into it. I do it because I enjoy

all the steps. Great. You do not need multiple brushes. Your fingers do a lot of the work, and all the brushes do all the same thing. Like there are certain brushes that are marketed as foundation brushes. They're also good as bronze or brushes. They're also good as blush brushes, are good as blending brushes. They're good at highlighter brushes. It's like you can use one pant to make a bunch of different foods. That's the deal with brushes. Okay,

on I primer is effectively concealed. It's just another excuse to buy another product. Okay, you do not need to do cream products and powder products meeting cream, blush, powdered blush, cream, bronze are powder bronze cream, highlighter powdered high. I do it all. I do it all just because I do it. Okay. Lipliner is actually a good thing. Lip Liners effectively contour in your lips. Never realized it, people, is a darker tone around your lips, and it pops your ups more.

I started using lip liner, but I still never ever do it once I leave the house. Okay, setting spray really does hold to make up on at the end. Do the setting spray. It's surprising. It's something I didn't think was a thing. It's a thing. They're not all created equal. You put your powder before powder is aging. You have a strategically placed it. You can use a powder foundation, which is good, but that could also be

a little cakey. But powder, like the loose powder, it's good just in those little tea zone areas where you get a little shiny um dewey can be like not always be great, like it's good for certain things, but if you're gonna do a lot of photographs, it'll just like make you a shiny hot mess. And the same thing with all those bronze or highlighters. They make it like the tin man. You've gotta go easy and you're

kind of layering the way a layer a recipe. Like think about if you don't salt something from the beginning, and you just like throw salt on the top of it, then it tastes like bland food a salt on top, like a chicken breast. You made your chicken, You've cooked chicken, it comes off the bar with you. Then you just put some salt on it. It's like plain, boring, bland chicken breast with salt on top. So you sort of layer your steps of your makeup in a nice way

versus just like slapping it all together. Um okay, Uh. SPF is the most overcrowded fucking space I've ever heard of in my life. Okay, why SPF foundation, basic SPF SPF gel, SPF oil, SPF powder and most of those products they'll say with SPF that's not an SPF because they've like jammed in some SPF in there. But you're not using it as an SPF And if it's like an SPF sort of foundation, you're not putting fifty pounds of it. That would justify that would that would make

it that step. So you should put your SPF on and then you put your your makeup on um and layering them doesn't mean SPF number goes higher. It just means you might actually achieve having enough on. You got to reapply SPF two hours later. So where does that leave you with a full face of makeup? You know aware an SPF setting, spray, a spray or like may be some SPF powder, but that could get cakey. We get all caught up in the right tone. Put two

fucking things together that to make your tone. If you get by a foundation it's too light, okay, and that's some goddamn bronzer. If you want to. If your lip glass is the wrong color, mix it with another one together, Mix two together. Make your own lap plus. Don't throw it out like with the blush, same story, mix it together. If you want your lips matt, you don't have to buy a matte lip plus. Take your own fucking lip plus.

Put some powder on top of it. If you want your highlighter to be pink, take your liquor blush and mix it with your highlighter. It's you need so little you'll be shocked. Oh also blushes, high blushes, fucking eyeshadow. I didn't realize that like blush, highlighter, bronzer, those three items, those could all be your eyeshadow. The highlighter, that cream

color could be like the inner corner, the bronzer. It's always good to put like the browns in the crease and then brush it with a little bit of your blush so it ties it together with your cheeks. That's a whole move too. People put a little bronze around their eyes because they put it on their face. They put blush on their eyes because they put it on their face. Kind of makes everything speak to each other,

just like the core and a house. So you do, like, I bought so much stuff to find out I don't need a lot of stuff at all. Um, what else have I learned? Yeah, I don't even need a pencil eyeline. I just use a brush. You can even wet it and use any eyeshadow and make your own eyeliner on your face. It's just such a waste of money in a scam. And I've tried products, so many products. Where about the eighty dollar thing and the four dollar thing? Is vector better? And at last these people saying with

the ware test they last. I've tried them, they last. These brands are not fucking playing around these elves, these we these wet and wild, these flower these brands, they're not fucking playing games. So everything does everything go back to your basics. I've had a tom Ford cream contour years ago, and a cream ones are gonna make up barts storm about years ago. They're the best freaking ones. We've gone into circles. I know so much now I knew why, I know what it is. How concealer less

is more. You have wrinkles, don't try to sparckle it on. Less is more. Use a little bit and move it around a lot and pat will pat it in instead of schmearing you. Schmar gets streaky. You put powder on top of that. You look eighty five, you're twenty