Just B Rant: Who Hurt You?

vibing with, the same thing will happen. And also sometimes like let's say you work with someone or you're dating someone and you realize there's a certain part of their personality that you don't understand that doesn't make any sense to you. Like let's say like you're a multiple box tech and they're just responding with like one word and you think they're like either rude or cold or abrupt or something, or like you're expressing yourself and they're really not.

And you look up their sign, and it also matters if it's like a man or a woman, you know, like a male scorpio or female scorpio. You'll find that it's not just that, like you've made the horoscope work for you, you'll find that it does kind of line up. You shouldn't only live by it, but I have to say, it really does work. It really does work to me.

It's at least something fun to like add because you could you could work on a friendship, a work relationship, or a romantic relationship by realizing, oh, this is how

that person's wired. You know, there's so many ways that we're wired differently, like based on how we grew up and based on I actually said to someone recently, this is not related to astrology, but like I think we have to figure out where someone comes from to understand why they're the way that they are culturally, from a religious standpoint, from where they grew up, from how they grew up, from a did they have money from over things handed to them? Like, we have to look at

where people really start from to see where they're at. So, like, there was someone that wasn't understanding some of the way that I operate, and I said to them, let and they come from a very good, secure, solid family and I don't. And I said to them, let's put it this way. You are a breeder dog, like you have had a really nice upbringing that's sort of safe and controlled and like baths on time, and just like it's been fairly calm. I'm a rescue dog, so like if

you come close to me, I might bite you. Something that you would do that is normal, that would seem normal. I may see is not normal. I may react differently, like I came from an abusive childhood, Like I'm you know, not going to react the same way. When you get with someone, it's also good to ask them, like what their thing is like. Some people need to feel loved. Some people need to feel safe, Some people need to feel supported, Some people need to be given their space,

some people need their independence. Some people are free spirits. Some people are birds that you know need to fly, and some people are just like in work, like need to work independently versus in a group. And I think that for us to understand other people, we have to really look at where someone comes from and how they're walking into the situation that you're in. To meet you

where you're at. I think that we often get in our own head and want someone else to operate in a way that we would operate, And I just that's been coming up a bit lately. You know, there's something I'll discuss later where people try to criticize me and troll me, and they think like they're getting to me. First of all, they don't realize that I actually do

see trolls and haters as motivators. I can always make chicken salad out of chicken shit, no pun intended, Like I can turn a flurry of hate into something positive for myself or for other people. And I'm kind of uninsultable because of the way that I grew up, so I have the thickest skin. I'm a survivor, which also means I'm gonna be tough, really tough in a way that other people won't understand. And it's gonna be like who hurts you? And I'm be like, you want to

sit down and we'll write a list. You know how people do that expression like who hurts you? It's like who hurts you? Get me a pen and paper. Who hurts you? Who molested you, who abused you, who is root to you? Who did this in front of you? Who's like, you know, let's get a list, so and someone else may come into it from like no one hurt them? You know, and we don't want for bad things to happen to our kids. But by the same token, my daughter is not gonna be able to deal with

life in the same way that I am. She's not gonna be the same type of like she probably will because she's my daughter. But one of the things about these experiences, like taking her to fashion we can take her to the premiere is an interesting thing, and vacations and emirates first class and you know, and people sending her stuff all the time and holding it back because I will not raise a spoiled child that's entitled. It's

hard for me. Like she just thinks that things are going to come easily because they come so easily now, And you can't be the one that's taking your kidde vocation and you're leaving them in the back of the plane and you're sitting on the front, and you're not going to like order what you want in a menu and tell her she's only allowed to order, you know, cup of noodles. So it is a difficult thing to

raise a well adjusted child. And it's also it annoys you because you know how you grew up and you look at this kid and you want them to know this kid has no idea. I was thirty something years old, couldn't afford a taxi. He was bouncing checks like this kid can always afford her boba or her coffee, or to be with her friends. She'll never gasp and pray that someone else would pay, or not know if her ATM card is going to work or you know, it's

like exasperating. I remember having to like you know, combine credit card debt or like getting the insufficient funds noticed is not knowing how you're gonna pay your rent, trying to sell things like just feeling anxiety and desperate the money noise which stays with you like I still have it. So that was a tangent off of astrology that makes no sense. But it's just like knowing why people are different and understanding that and really like thinking about its origin