Delusional Expectations

What's up, everybody? How are you? I hope you had a good Sunday. We had a good liturgy. It's nice to see piano and slow boy whiteboards here. It is nice Sunday afternoon, and we're gonna be talking about delusional expectations versus healthy boundaries. And I got some funny lists for you

because these little lists were going viral. Twenty eight places where girls do not want to be taken on a date, and then the boys made a list of their own, and then the girls made another list, and I just thought it was amusing and sticking with a theme of last week, we went to a red Pill wedding that was interesting. Some highlights from that. If I recall what did he say? Do you guys remember some of the the golden nuggets? I remember he said I'd be happy without you. That's what

everyone wants to hear on their wedding day. I think, let's see what else he actually said. I'm glad I made you into the woman you are today. That was so crazy. He did say he was not excited to get married that day. He said, our relationship is one thousand percent conditional. You guys remember that? Yeah, Red Pill wedding. Did they have ars at the wedding? No, not that kind of red pill. That's what I mean like this, the red pill could mean anything. Now it's

so ill defined. What else Didy say at the wedding? It was? It was so touching. Oh you gotta work for it, uh, she said. If she ceases to bring to the table, she's got to go. But what else? You make me look good? And that's what love is all about. Do you guys remember anything else? I'm gonna open my drink as we all settle in here. I hope, I hope you're all tense. I hope you brought something to the table tonight, some comments, some donut chats. Bring your donut chats to my table. I just got

a link. Let's see, I'll put it in the chat room right now. There you go, bring me some donuts to my table. And oh, I guess we'll stick with nineties pop songs. We'll stick with the nineties themes like last week. If you shout it out, I might humme it or sing it or look it up. If I can remember it. You gotta burn it to earn it. Yeah, that's what exactly. That's from

piano white Goodman from Dodgeball. I don't think I've seen that one. That's one of those super goofy is Ben Stiller in that one sounds like something he would be in. I'm a zero. Yeah, I'm a I'm a forty two on forty two trips around the Sun. Its way more than ten. But uh yeah, if you're not a ten, go ahead and swipe the other way out. Who know how tinder works? What else did he say? If you don't pay the rent, you're gonna get evicted? He did say that. He said, I trained her, Yeah, I trained her.

He said, if a woman is on your program, then she can stick around. If not, she's literally effing gone. This is poetry, you guys. It's very good. And then he said, if you push back to my opinions, go f yourself. And there were so many bad habits I had to get at her. Now. This is something every bride wants to hear. She did have some things to say about him, kind of painting an interesting picture of what goes on in the Red Pill romance didn't

look fun. Who turns forty two on Thursday? Low Boy, Whiteboard, Yay, we're the same age. Happy birthday, is Melli here? Yes, what's up, Melly? You have a bunny rabbit? Yeah? Who wouldn't want to marry this guy? I mean, with all of these sweet words, what was her Oh? She said, don't let shit fester. And she's had to replace many pieces of furniture because of his temper. So

that was last week. So I think we'll just continue on the theme of delusional expectations versus healthy boundaries, because yeah, I want you guys to have standards. I want you guys to have high standards for partners because guess what we're entering. Ww trace looks like And I guess that's what they're talking about over on our our friends channel. They're talking about Tucker and politics and Tucker's speech. So if you want to hear out politics instead of relationships, maybe

that's a good one to check out dances with Ardvarks. I like that name. Hello. Now I need to work out why am I subscribed? This is the end of the rabbit hole. This is it. I have sorted through all of the matrix and the conspiracy world, and I ended up at church. I'm on the arc. It's the end of it. He knew this one guy who would punch holes through the walls all the time, and they would cover them up with icons. Oh man, yeah, what else? What else? Who can we talk about? I did have a rant

about whatever. If you guys want to hear that later, maybe we can talk about that still sucks? No, yeah, I want you guys to have high standards because the person you pick is going to be your partner in the arena now in this day and age, right, especially as a Christian, you're like a gladiator. You don't want a weak person. You don't want a person you can't trust, right, you want somebody who can be your partner. So christ is our standard for partner, especially in a marriage.

Right. So those are impossible standards, but we can try. We can really try. Who says Jamie has better takes than Jay? No, that's not true. We have the same We just have different frames and perspectives, and so you get a balanced worldview. I vote for rant. Oh okay, maybe later. Just give me some songs. So let's start off with some ninety. So I was just listening to PM down that came across my feed this week. Baby, you send me love? How does that

go? Said? I draft a memory? Bless u? And that was even a hook from another song. No, this much is true, but that was Spando Ballet. That wasn't ninety so that was eighty. So explain the wedding against whose was it? Did youend? No? It was just online. His ne was want toven Sharp and he's an influencer, Redfield influencer.

And they had a ceremony. They had a meeting in a hotel conference room, it looked like, and he basically took it upon himself and all of his phenomenal cosmic powers to pronounce them a man and a woman who lived together. It's just funny trying to watch you guys navigate morality without a Christian

worldview. It's wild, man, because it's like the things some people think of when you say love is just not what other people would consider love, right, m hmmmmm, No, No, we're doing nineties much furniture influencer. Yeah, so what else? What else? The cheesecake factory girl? Okay, so this is funny. This is uh. This went around.

It went viral because this guy tried to take a girl on a date and she made them late for the reservation, and so he decided to go to cheesecake Factory, and then she started recording herself saying, I ain't going no cheesecake factory. Does this look like somebody who wants to go to cheesecake factories? Like, no, it looks more like waffle House, But I didn't

want to say that. Who says Napoleon Wilson. First thing I found of interest on the YouTube in two thousand and nine was Jamie and the Freeman perspective, longtime fan, especially weird stuff and princess programming. Then you popped up on hopes Busters. Oh thanks, Napoleon Wilson. That's really nice of you. Yeah, I'm trying to weasel my way into different circles. I would

think Joe Rogan would be interested. He just had a bunch of stuff on Mark of the Beast, and I just did that show on Rock Fan about the Mark of the Beast. I thought that was way more interesting than it kind of didn't have the impact I was looking for because Elon Musk has now made Twitter a financial platform, so this is getting crazy. Cheesecake Factory isn't cheap, No, it's not. And they have this ridiculous menu, like an entire novel for a menu. It's just you can get anything there,

but you have to realize. Okay, so if you're going to go on a date with somebody, you want them to have the same type of vibe as you, the same values, same worldview, core beliefs. I mean, they can have different opinions, but your core beliefs. I think you're looking for somebody who's on the same level as you. Right, can you sing the song Monkey by George I don't know that one Monkey by George Michael.

I'll look it up next time, I'll learn it. Im Pana said, I remember first seeing Jamie in T twenty nineteen when you and Jay did the Freud episode. Oh okay, is it an ex Yes, so the Market the Beast is an exo circle. Go look up that Rock Finn show I did, and I'd put a couple posts on Twitter also about it. But yeah, so that's the new Twitter logo. And they're saying you you

won't be able to buy or sell without this mark. And now Elon Musk is taking Twitter financial like you won't even need a bank account or investments. It's all gonna be handled on X, right, And what is X is the crossroads the portal where magic takes place right, Rachel, what's up, girlfriend? I'm glad you're here. I got a donut chat, Rachel? Are you proud of me? I did it? Put the Lincoln right here. Send me some donuts, maybe just a dollar, just to see if

it's working the channel's open or up. Elon said day one of X that he wanted it to be the everything app. AKA. They want to be able to shut down your bank account like China. Yeah, social credit scores. So this is why you want to be picking a person who knows that cheesecake Factory is trash okay, So whether or not she's too good or not good enough for cheesecake factory, you guys got to realize most restaurants are,

especially if it's a chain of corporation. They're all getting their food from the same places, Cisco or these big agricultural supply places. It's not good food. I mean, it might taste good, but there's gonna be weird crap in there. I just watched and make some king crab out of concrete. Right. They put concrete blocks and bust them up and dye am red and mix them with something, and you think you're eating crab meat in its blocks. Apostle paradox. Jamie, you're beautiful. I love you. I love

you too. XO is not kisses and hugs, right, It's not all x's and o's, So I guess I'll just have to keep on. I did at Joe Rogan. I was like, got your remark at the piece right here, try and get somebody's attention. I like Texas Roadhouse beyond I do like Texas Roadhouse. We call it Willie's just because we knew that Willie Nelson had owned one, and we could never remember the name Texas Roadhouse, but we always remember that Willie Nelson had one, so to us, it

just always became Willie's. But yeah, Texas Roadhouse is good. I wouldn't mind going there on a first date. I think that'd be kind of fun. But yeah, so Cheesecake Factory, Applebee's, Chili's, Eyehop, all of these places on the list that girls don't want to go on a first date. Uh, I'm gonna say valid just because it's gross like seed oils

or gross like you. It is such a pain in the butt to go out to eat because you have to ask is this butter or margarine or half and half or is it like whipped up and you're just telling me like, is this actual food or cap food or cap right? Omg the crab meat. I know it looks disgusting, but we we're grateful. I mean, if you like a person and you have to eat at cheesecake factory, it's

not gonna kill you. But it's like, if someone's trying to impress you, I wouldn't take them to cheesecake factory, Applebee's, Chilis, Chipotle, Olive Gardens. So the first five are a here, Okay, so if you want to look it up, look up. Here's a list of places women absolutely refuse to go in a first date. And there's twenty eight things. And we're gonna be roasting this list, and then we're gonna look at the guy's clap back list. And then there was another bonus list. So

we're gonna have a lot of fun today. Yeah, places to avoid in general, just like every if it has more than one, you know it's gonna be some kind of gross corporate slave slop. No need to impress anyone. Well, I don't know if you like a girl, like I think a man is naturally gonna try to impress someone that he likes. I think it's funny because I've never been on a first day. I've only ever had friends that turn into your relationships. So I don't think I've ever been asked

out by a stranger with the intent of having a love connection. So I guess I don't have a lot of experience in that. But I think if a guy's not trying to impress you, then he doesn't like you very much. But you you don't need to be over the top about it, right. That's why we talked about that, and I said, meet at coffee hour, or just like become acquainted before you go and drop one hundred dollars to spend time with the girl, or you know, make such an investment.

At least know that you kind of like her as long as she's at ten, right, Yeah, make an effort. Yeah, that's all girls. They just want it's the thought that counts, right. So I think this is what that list is reflecting. They want to feel like you like them, like you want to impress them. They're trying to impress you. I'm sure if people would date individuals they met through their family or friends to

voucher them first, they could invite them home and cook a meal. But most people can't show the stranger person where they Yeah, so don't take a first date to your house. That's not a good idea, especially in today's world. And that's why we need these crazy high standards, because you are picking your your gladiator partner. Right, Jamie talked about the Hexagon of Saturn. Okay, maybe maybe the next live I'm gonna do when we get home,

I think is gonna be the Beyonce Renaissance concert. That looks wild. I haven't watched it, but I probably would see it at the theater just to analyze it. Best first date when you watch her through the windows. No, No, that's a bad comment. Your punishment is ten minutes of Fresh and Fit podcast. That's Jamie missed out on those bad first dates. Yeah, I know. So okay. Oh and then cheesecake Factory. So if you're going to a date with someone and they don't even know like base

level things that you are aware of. I mean, they're still brushing their teeth with fluoride. That that's gonna be a lot of work trying to train that person like a old Donovan. Yeah, the same guy who owns cheese th Cheesecake Factory. David Overton, he's the CEO of the franchise, which is like two billion dollar franchise also funded a sixty six thousand square foot new age temple complex in Walnut Creek, California for a guru named Mayor Baba.

So this is getting weird because Cheesecake Factory, the ambiance of it is kind of it's like quasi esoteric. It's like the the corporate Memphis of esoteric. It's just like, why is there a serpent? Why is there on some androgyn His faces kind of looks like an Egyptian temple. This is why because the David Overton is a worshipper of mahyor Baba, who they thought was an avatar of Buddha and Christ and is the guy who the song Don't Worry Be

Happy is dedicated to, So mahor Baba some Guru's that guru. His devotees include Bobby Darren I guess don't Worry Be Happy? Right? Or that song What's wrong with Floride? Come on, Apostle paradox. Well, that's why you need to be here in this chat. Everyone tell him what's wrong with Florid cheesecake factory lights are literally the eye of Sorron. Yes, that's what I'm saying. It does look like the arm of Saren. Rachel's cooking for

Andrews. See, that's what I'm talking about. No cheesecake factory, Rachel's elite. Andrew's getting that home cooked love. Sure, there's no crazy oils in that good food. Cheese making. What are you making? Ch I'm curious. My first date with my husband is at a rave. That's cute. Yeah, So cheesecake factories got the giant menu, it's got the weird decor. Uh. Because it is connected to this crazy New Age complex in

California and Sufism Reoriented. So that was Mayor Baba's movement, was something called Sufism Reoriented. It was built to withstand the big quake more than once. Yeah. So I watched this video of the people who built this New Age temple and they were talking about the big one, the big quake in California that's, you know, gonna split the whole thing open and La is gonna fall off onto the sea. So this temple is built to withstand that.

And they made the point to say more than one, more than one giant earthquake. It's going to withstand. So do you think cheesecake factories are gonna be the only they left after all of the disasters, all the big ones, It'll be cheese cake factory and Bubba Shrimp. I wonder who did that? The bubbush What is he even called the forest Gump restaurant? Remember Bubba Gump Shrimp? Yeah, what a goofy thing. Has anyone ever eaten a

Bubba Gump? I'm curious Rachel. Rachel's making French toasts. Oh that sounds good. Bacon. I love breakfast for dinner. I love that sounds good. Yeah, Soul is overpriced chain restaurants exactly. So this temple cheese Cake Temple uh is two thirds underground. What now we're getting interesting. It's all based on Acumenism. So it's got this giant marble floor and on it has like across a star of Da V I D a move a crescent and a

star for Islam, and I think an ohm for Buddhism. So it had like all of the it was like a co exist bumper sticker basically on the mosaic on the floor of this place. And there is a sculpture that took ten years apparently to make, called The New Being, and it's an androgynist being obviously, like why wouldn't it be right? Speaking of California breaking off into the ocean and nineties music, Anima was a good song. I don't know that one floride shrimp My kids back to my husband and I take them

to Bubba Shrump in Gatlinburg. It was horrible. Yeah, you know what was so bad? We ate it? Oh man, who's that lady? Butter and oil, bitter and oil. What's her name? Poladine? So yeah, we ate it Polladine's kitchen in Nashville one time, and it was gross. It was like family style, which is like a little cup of everything that you would have it like Thanksgiving or something like green beans, sweet potatoes, corn, mashed potato, and then a meat but I honestly thought

I was gonna get food poisoning. The chicken was really undercooked. It's not good. Florid deception by Christopher Bryson exactly the case against fluoride. If you guys, if you're still using floride, what are you doing? You need to be here? Welcome to babies. First conspiracy theory. Your toothpaste is poison, all right? Yeah, get that floriad out and don't date people that brush you with floria. Don't date people want to go to Cheesecake Factory

and Applebee's Chili's. Chipotle Chili's and Applebee's is just like the same, I don't know, hybrid thing. Chipotle is McDonald's. They're owned by McDonald's, or at least they were. I don't know if they still are. Don't eat a Pauladine's Kitchen butter in. Oh, where's the songs Pauladine's Fried Chewbacca knuckle my gross hydroxy petit? Yeah, yeah, I use hydroxy hydroxy petite. Works good. I get the non fluoridited fluoridated hydroxy petite from Amazon.

What else? Okay? So yeah, so these gross restaurants. Oh, we were talking about the new being. He's androgynists or he she the sculpture in the Cheesecake Religion compound where they have forty seven thousand cheesecake stored underground in this facility for the apocalypse. The oh yeah, So the androgynous sculpture is about the evolution of consciousness and it's a androgynist thing. In monarch butterflies,

surprise surprise? Are you surprised? Surprise? Bread? I love these lies because everyone gets it's a funny Jamie's oh thanks, try to be funny. What can you do? It's like you have to laugh at tragic things or you'll just cry because you guys, I used to be a level ten people please or dormat Okay, so don't you gotta have standards and you can't have they can't be delusional, but you have to have some healthy boundaries versus delusional

expectations. Right now, I'm only a level five people pleaser, so I'm getting better. Right. Me and Jay had to take a personality test for our premial counseling on people pleasing. I scored like the most and he scored like the leaves because he's honest, like he's just like it is what it is. He's teaching me how to stop having some much anxiety. So no olive garden. That sounds gross too. Come on, you guys, olive

garden like that, that's just a joke. I'm sorry. If you like these things, you have to get asked them to cook in butter or olive oil, cause we're not doing steat oils anymore. I don't know if you guys got the memo that stuff is poison. And plus, if you don't have it for a while, like if you don't have cheap fried food for a long time and then you smell it, it smells really bad. It smells like rancid. Yeah, Rachel, people pleaser. Yeah, man,

you gotta have boundaries or they'll just like suck you dry. They'll turn you into a stump like the giving tree. Mellie's the people pleaser shout out, Yeah, I have that was an official diagnosis. Actually, yeah, Andrew was highly disagreeable, and Rachel wants to make everyone happy. I don't think Jess disagreeable. He's just when he's he's done. He's done. He's not going to just It's weird because everyone knows corn is indigestible, but they will

eat nola oil and high fruit. Does corn syrup blew poison? Non food? Does? I know? Like a lot of the food is actually could be used as like mild cleaning products, like you can clean your house with coke, like your toilets with Coca cola. I use vinegar and lemons for a lot of household and just like pure castile soap. We don't use a lot of chemicals that I mean. So this is the kind of people kind of vetting that you have to do, Like do I have to teach you

everything? Are we gonna go a Buffalo Wild Wings? That's where they another? This is number nine? Okay? So yeah, so number one was cheesecake factory. Now we know why because freaking mayor Baba is guru of cheesecake factory. What's up? Basically, Antlers, I've never been in Olive Garden, Airbnb or Walmart. You've been in a Walmart? Come on, who that that's not a thing? Are you serious? Yeah? That's funny. So they don't want to go the first five or gross restaurants. Number six

the movies. So I don't mind a movie date, but apparently the women have voted and they would rather chat than stare at a movie. Your house number seven, Yeah, don't don't take a girl to your house. That's that's not classy on a house state unless it's like, I don't know when would that be acceptable? Surprise storm, I don't know people of Walmart? Well, how how could you never go to Walmart? He just refused. I'm proud of you. Actually, that that is a feat. He's the

a Walmart virgin? Is that cause you hate them or that you just don't have one? Cause I live I've lived in some very remote places. Literally the only store is Walmart. Hater Foulano has never been to Walmart. But that's because he's from Chili, So don't take her to Walmart on a date? Is that the one here? No? What else? Any fast food chain good? There's there's people in there, right, do you hear me? Walmart is made of people. There's human DNA in McDonald's. Can you

hear me when I whisper? Somebody tell me? Yeah? Uh? Any fast food chain? So what they just found out? Chick fil A had super high amount of chemicals drugs. Fast food chains are weapons systems. Okay, they're not even rush. These are are designed to pump in poison to you as fast as possible and make it readily available to as many people as possible. You can chat about life via movies and glean information about your date's

opinions. Yeah, if it's like a show. I don't mind a show because then that takes some pressure off of like thinking about things to talk about it doesn't have to be a movie. What if it was a play. What if it was a ice skating What if it was a ballet, what if it Like think outside the box, you guys, there's there's more to life than movies, which I love, But there's more going on. What else? I heard Jay lives in a very prestigious isle of Walmart. Yeah,

his French fries. Don't eat fast food, you guys, come up. There's people in there. They're literally human DNA in fast food. If did you see the video about Wendy's giving one dollar burgers. They said they are putting something in them to experiment a see, and they were trying to give you burgers to get the chip jabs. Just never go there. That's number eight. So I think this list is pretty based so far. I think the only thing on here that I didn't agree with was the movies.

But just pick something else, Just pick a something unique. Don't go to Buffalo waa wings. Women don't want to go to wing stops, So okay, no wings were winged out for first dates. Red lobster That sounds disgusting. Uh, lobsters look gross and they're like giant insects of the ocean. They're they're water bugs, they're filters. What are they? H crustaceans,

scavengers. I don't want to eat it. Red lobster, come on, human, just look it up. Probably the bug powder they got, yeah, yeah, so pretty soon this stuff is going to be made of bug powder. Oh and they're finding out the same people who are allergic to shellfish and stuff like that are going to be allergic to cockroaches and bugs. Send me some songs, send me some donut chats. Rachel can't eat shellfish? What else? They don't want to go to a buffet? Okay, that's

a little specific. They I guess women have had a bad experience at a buffet. Buffets for grandma's anyways, Like, who even likes buffets anymore? Buffets? Boomer Boomer t here right? Remember Sissler? That was like an elite buffet Sissler, mhmm, lab grown meats. That's gonna be coming down, so is cannibals buffet all day. The best buffet I ever had was in Las Vegas at the Paris Hotel. Like the thing was set up like

a French village. If you're gonna go to a buffet, make it be like Paris Casino buffet or Sizzler. I wouldn't even be mad at that. But like, what is that one with the chocolate fountain? That sounds so gross? Do you know what I'm talking about? My grandparents used to go to buffets in Vegas and get us all our Christmas presents from them. Paul,

what's up? He made it. I'm so happy. Now we've got Bacelet and Rachel and Paul and slow Boy and piano, and I think we're having a lot of fun, except for no one sent me a donuts yet. Okay, so Paul's getting his deck of cards with a whole punch room from Las Vegas. Right. My grandma she loved cards, and she loved like that aesthetic. She's very glamorous, and I remember she would come back

with from Vegas with like packs of playing cards. But they all had a whole punch room because like when they take them off the gambling floor, they have to like destroy them somehow, but they can also resell them. That's pretty funny. You bar a chocolate fountain. No, that's not the one. It's called oh Golden Crowd. Ugh, don't take a date to Golden Crow. Don't even go there. Same with ihop Denny's. I can't believe you guys still eat this stuff. I used to eat it. Oh,

I used to eat a Denny's when we were U teenagers Christian teens. We'd go to Denny's after church every time. That was freaking fun. I loved that time at Denny's time. Then you got to grow up and realize this is the real food. And the eggs are like neon neon green Denny's. It just smells like a fryar when you walk in the Denny's smell. I can still smell it. Rachel hates golden Coral too. Paul got hats, wallets, teddy bears all stamped with the budget casinos names all over them.

Yeah, yeah, that's funny. Golden coral, golden trough. Ugh, I hop gross. Pancakes are gross. Sorry, I don't know. I don't like pancakes. A waffle's okay, a crepe apple do, But a pancake just sits on my stomach like con great, it's nasty. So who else who wants to go to the gym on a first date? Anybody that's number fifteen of the girls? No, no, list you want to go work out, get your uh, get your cardio on. Why would you even why would that even be on a list? Like, so enough people

have been to the gym on a first date. That's kind of like Aaron's date. Like, do you want to go to uh Kroger with me? Do you want to go to the car wash? Do you want to go to the gym? Church? Now? Okay? So that sixteen is church? No, that should be where you meet ideally or something church adjacent. Uh, Jamie, I bake you Florida pancakes. No, I don't want that. Let's break a sweat together, hiking. That sounds sweet. I don't think they would like that, though. I think hiking is on here.

Actually maybe not. Let's see, so sixteen church, they don't want to go to church on a date, but should have met at church. Yeah, you can count each other's reps and wipe down the sweat off your each other's seats. That sounds fun. Seventeen Starbucks or number seventeen is Starbucks explicitly, and number eighteen is coffee dates. So they don't I don't want coffee dates. They don't want Starbucks here. Again, it's just because she

wants to feel like you're not like doing this all the time. She wants to feel like she's not just in your rotation. You're not spinning plates, you know. Coffee dates says, I don't want to invest anything in getting to know you, and honestly, like, how much is the dinner anyways? Like I take my mom out to dinner and I pay for the whole thing, and it's just it's okay, Like I'm not crying because I had to buy somebody else dinner. I buy people dinner all the time. Coffee

dates aren't bad, Hi would be fun. Starbucks most likely puts graphine, And yeah, so Starbucks is gross too. If you knew a cool hip coffee shop that like also serves you know, slices of pizza and the atmosphere's neat, I'm thinking of. We used to go to this place in Austin called Epoch Coffee before it got woke and they threw us out during Kufid for having too many people. Before that in like twenty you know, before twenty ten, we would all go to Epoch and hang out and that would be

a cool place to take a date for sure. Baselet says, don't go to the Fair, Carnival and Astroold or the movies. Yeah, oh, the movie US. Yeah. Let me defend coffee dates in the sense, if you don't know the person at all, you should keep it light and try to get a sense of their political beliefs and core values before dropping too. And yeah, so just get to know them. Make sure they don't brush their teeth with fluoride, and don't drink Starbucks. Now, this one,

I don't know. I feel kind of like sad about it. Ice Cream dates, That's an easy way to get to know somebody, But I guess these women are the clock is ticking. They don't want to know ice cream. They want to know you can pay for a baby, no ice cream, family functions. They don't want to meet your family right away. Movie night, Netflix, Hulu, and et cetera. Okay, so yeah, Netflix and Chill will come on. That's that's a lazy date somewhere that

requires a long drive. Okay, Well, I mean I don't think the girl should be driving a whole long way to go on a date anyways. I just don't think that unless she knows him pretty well, he should probably come to her red pill them through the danger of the fluoride. We Yeah, somebody just dropped a bunch of books in here in documentaries in the chat

about fluoride. Yeah, coffee date equals fluoride check. And I think that goes for anybody too, Like why are you listening to all these chowderheads online, red pill and et cetera. And they're probably have their brains full of fluoride too? Slow way, my marge, it must be what else they don't want to drive far? Number twenty three Bowling? Who wants to go bowling on a date? Anybody? Do we even bowl anymore? I don't even know, Like it's been years. Bowling a boomer thing. Do you

want to go? Maybe? Like ironically if if there's bumpers and it's nineties nine, Like yeah, like, why no songs right now? You guys? Where are my songs? Because bowling is kind of awkward anyways, I mean, especially if you're not good at it and they're just like staring at your behind while you throw a ball into a gutter. Mellie loves bowling. Somebody take Melle bowling on for a day. See that's what I mean. A guy approaching Mellie saying I want to go bowling. She's into it,

but maybe another girl isn't. And that's why you have to learn about women specifically, not all women, because not all women are going to respond the same way. I think you should know that there is no key to unlock all women because we're so different. Men are different too, but it's just pointless to try to understand women as a monolith. So who's gonna take Milly

bowling tonight? Anybody? Let's make a love connection. Wouldn't that be sweet if somebody met in my chat and then you can invite me to your wedding. That would be so cute, Like if somebody was a fan of Big Lebowski and he found that out. Oh, Henry says, you keep missing my song selection. Sorry, ooh, I got a super chat, super Chat super track ging Genesis Kelgar four ninety nine. I like over roasted, oily, burnt tasting coffee, so I like Starbucks. Okay, well carry

on my wayward son, Someone says four twenty Friendly is key? Yeah, you gotta find someone in your vibes with your vibe? How does Mellie look? Is she a ten? Of course? Anybody who's here, obviously is a ten. All of my mods are beyond ten. If you're here, you're pretty smart. What if someone suffered a traumatic bowling experience? Exactly so? Obviously, according to All the Internet, Women number twenty three on this list. Bowling is out twenty four. They don't want to go to nightclubs

on a date. Okay, I think that's self explanatory. Do we even do that anymore? Put a something in the chat if you've been to a night club recently, Like I think that's only something that they do in Miami and like in movies. I don't know. I can't even remember ever being in a nightclub. Maybe sometime when I was nineteen years old. Rachel, I'm a solid adjustable six. No way, you're way higher than a six

cause you're pretty and five is average and you're way prettier than that. I'm like a five, but I'm not annoying, and I'm a really good cook. Nightclubs, yeah, who, college kids, I guess maybe go to nightclubs. You guys go to nightclubs. Dive bar karaoke sounds fun. I'm trying to do a karaoke, but there's no songs to say. I went to a club that was centered around line dancing. That sounds really fun. See, I like doing new things like line dancing or escape room or what

else. Take baselet to a Walmart. He's never done that before, unless he refuses. Hookah bar. I don't know why you don't want to go to hooko bar. Maybe they just don't like, do you guys like Hukah a bar for just drinks. So this is number twenty six, and I guess that's like equal to coffee. Just drinks is like a coffee date, Farmer's Market, maybe Newport's okay. Number twenty seven waffle house. That sounds

disgusting and you probably will get murdered. Number twenty eight sports event. I think that's pretty unless she really likes like the Dodgers or is a really big Cowboys fan. I don't think a lot of girls want to go to a like a base I mean baseball games, especially those are hell along dude, Like a basketball game. Maybe could be fun if it's like Lakers or something. Be fun. Corn mazes? Who's doing the corn maze date? Pumpkin

patch date? Rachel says, take base to Walmart and ride the motorized handpl in it exactly. Yeah, or they have those like like ride the Donald Duck or Mickey or you know those thingies. There's thoughts to do with Walmart. That's funny. A hookah, isn't that a lady of the night. No, No, hookah's like that. She sh the hashi not hashish, but it's like a little flavored thing that you smoke. You don't get high or anything around. Gator around, I get her around. That's not.

My blouse is pretty. Oh, thank you. Take your friend's rich dad's classic car for a joy ride to a fine restaurant and a museum and sing on a parade float. Exactly. That's what everyone would wants. She wants the day from Ferris Bueller's Day Off right, the entire day of like fun and whimsy and spontaneity and uh attention. That's that's that's cute. How he broke her out of class, remember that. Come rescue me from high school? Take me to museum in Chicago. Rachel Wilson, refresh your dono chat.

You have a couple. How do I do that? I don't know. I'm still learning. Do I have to go to dono chat and museum? Bookstore? Yeah? Okay? Bookstore is really fun date like Jay and I. We've been to every bookstore in Nashville on dates. Those were really fun. Take your date and hijack. Thank god. No picnic at the lake first date. I don't know that sounds kind of risky, no offense, but like first date, we want to stay in public. I think some maybe like at a picnic area at the lake. What I just heard

somebody was like he wanted to take me to a field. Walk in a field behind Joanne Fabrics. Sounds like a fun date. Yes, log into your donut chat Okay, hold on, mm hmmm, Now you guys gotta watch me try and figure out computer things. Oh that she wants is another baby. She's gonna innother baby. So if in the day. Okay, Dona chat dashboard. Oh okay, here they are sweet okay thirteen thirty seven moldy Apple, no message. Thank you for thirteen thirty seven. Thank you

uh three ninety nine, Brody Alexander, thanks for all you do. Thank you too. This is fun. Rachel Wilson's ten dollars. Yeah, I'm glad you're doing live streams. I'm glad you're here and help me with the donut chat Horashio, Dear miss Hanshaw. I love your channel on God Bless you. Furthermore, I need relationship advice. Okay, I'm engaged to my fance, but there are things about her that I think will lead to a divorce if we are married. Well, what are they? I need more

data? Hora shio is are you both in church? What are the red flags were? Because we're getting up to the men's list now, so what do you think? Do you guys think that the women were reasonable or were they expecting too much? Did they deserve it? Cheesecake factory? I'm on cheesecake Factory girl's side, and maybe not for the reasons that I mean, you don't have to go to rus Chris on the first date, but cheesecake factory is sounds gross. Let's see what did I just ask you? Oh?

I need more details about your relationship problems. And we're going to the mail list now, and you guys are going to weigh in and tell me are those delusional expectations or healthy boundaries? Got a vote? You can go to a haunted house on the first day, Well, that that vast oppressing. You get that adrenaline running that will lead to attraction. Wan it scary movie, let's see. Okay, So the men responded with a twenty one point. This isn't about dates, this is just kind of like about women

in general, all red flaggy types of women they don't want. So now we're getting to what men are not looking for. Number one, single mothers. I don't know. I don't know why you have to drag single mothers so much. It's not like they like woke up and it was like I would love to be the world's biggest pariah and do the thought about myself. I mean, how do you think they got that way? And why is being a single father not or a red flag? So? Oh, because

she's that song what they don't want? Uh? What is that song? Oh that she wants is another baby? She's gone tomorrow. Oh that is another baby as a bass So the red pilk men have heard as a bass song too many times and they got it stuck in their head that all women want it's just babies to trap men, right. I think it depends on why a woman exactly is a single mother? Yeah, Oh that she wants is another baby? Mm hmmm h yeah. Why and what if you went on a date with a guy and he had a family, Like, why

would you want to date a single father? So I think it's pretty valid, right, what a gift a man could give to be a parent, stepparent or not. Oh that's nice. See Paul sweet Slower says, I was sad the Nashville October Tim Gordon debate never went anywhere. Oh yeah, yeah, they were kind of dejected, I would say after that debate, after Jay got done with them, some single moms were saved from unaliving through their kid. Yeah. Yeah, it all depends, right, what if

she is a widow. I mean, that's what I mean about watching these people try to nag they navigate morality without the church is just kind of wild. Yeah, single dads too. I wouldn't want one of those guys with a bunch of baby mamas just dropping seed everywhere exactly, No pookies, no ray rays. We don't know what a guy with you know, five baby mamas. Number two women with tattoos. It is what it is if you have tattoos. Guys to have unanimously voted that they do not like them,

but people continue to get them. I have a tattoo. It's not the end of the world. Let's see Number three women who dress like this in public. I don't. I guess there was another picture attached to this. It's probably like yoga pants, which I agree. Yoga pants is not an outfit, right, it's for the gym date. If your gym bro wants to take you on a gym date, you can wear them yoga pants.

But that's not date and public attire, is it. It's hard the single parent thing because although it would be tough transition, but through the church, I'd like to think it could be transfigured into a great new life for y'all's. That is the point of the entire church is to heal people and reconcile the worst thing that ever happened to you, and God turns that into the best thing that ever happened to you. Right. Pana says some women with

tats can still kill. I'm assuming that means they they're still attractive no face tattoos. No, I mean that that's kind of indicative of some personality problematic personality. Dresses are the most beautiful thing, that's true. Yogurt pants, I wear my tights in purple headband every day. Are yoga pants? Uh? Black magic? That's what we were talking about in that rock fan show.

So number four, they do not want sex workers o F girls, mattress actress, exotic dancers, call girls, and escort, Instagram models, bottle girls, et cetera. I think that's pretty reasonable, Uh Instagram models. I don't know. I think anybody who leads with their their sexuality you're gonna have problems with them. There's gonna be a lot of insecurity if they're leaking their sex energy. Right, But what about those glue jewels on the teeth? See, Oh yeah, yikes, anything that's like mod I don't

like. I don't like face piercings just personally. I mean, you can have a little nose ring that looks cute, but just get like a clippy one. Don't pierce your skin, right, And if you have to glue something in your tooth, that's just not healthy. That's not good for your teeth. It's gonna make you uglier in the long run. Pana says, listen to the doctor datapes. He describes the changes in women's fashion being made to draw men's eyes towards you. Yeah, it doesn't take much slowly,

says I was in the other room and heard mattress actions. Yeah, so This is a list of twenty one things that men do not want in a woman. So far, I think they're reasonable, but then they're getting a little weird. But yeah, somebody who works in the industry, right, I don't think guys are looking to wipe up women who have to do things

like that. Number five women with an Instagram page. Okay, so I understand if she's you know, a booty model and you don't appreciate that, But just having an Instagram account, I don't think in itself, I don't think that's a red flag. I think that's kind of silly. She's allowed to have hobbies and interests and show off, you know. I mean remember that girl, that Katha girl who posted her her mass fit and everybody had a fit and saying she was vain and all this stuff. It's like,

come on, people can't even have fun anymore. Sometimes I think red pill people just don't like to see women having fun and enjoying themselves at all. Let's see dresses conceal more. Yeah, well, that's the thing. You can take yourself from a five to an eight just by dressing feminine and wearing a dress and having long hair and having a clean face and not a lot

of wild uh clown accouterments. If you look like a healthy, young lady with healthy hair and skin, it's very easy to attract more of a high value man. I hate that term. But Tumblr count a red flag? I don't. Isn't Tumblr for like emo millennials? I don't. I don't even know about Tumblr. Refresh the Dono chat and see if Horatio horashio Horatio there. I said it correctly. Her ratio was supposed to give me some red flags, and we will refresh this and see. We're all gonna weigh

in on your relationship. Okay, we got one. She goes between stages of love bombing and being disrespectful. She is impatient, and sometimes I feel like she is not willing to work with me, despite claiming to hmm, well handling her disrespect I mean, you've got to have your boundary as a man. You can't let her walk on you. She's not gonna respect that. I would just flat out tell her what you said was disrespectful. I

don't appreciate, and see how she reacted that she's impatient. These aren't huge red flags. These are things that you work out, you rub off on each other and make each other better. You don't. It's not like the dominant sharp training, like a dolphin training, but by the sacrifice of your example. I think women are a lot more plastic than men are. It's a lot easier to, for lack of a better word, train them just by being a good example. Love bombing and she's patient. Okay, what

else? I don't know. If she's a narcissist. Maybe the whole culture is set up to create narciss This whole thing twentieth century is a narcissist factory assembly line, isn't it. So that's why we got to know. We got to know our our boundaries and do our homework, you know, so we can protect ourselves from narcissistic people. I mean, what happened if Teal Swan and Andrew Tate got married. I think, I don't know, it would just like be some kind of cern implosion, like dark matter creation moment,

right, Rachel says, I think Jamie gives good relationship advice. Well, thank you. I like getting along with people. I like relationships. The love bombing disrespectful thing. Yeah, does he know about women's hormone cycles? Good point? That is such a good point, she's gonna be four different women every month, so might as well learn about that. Paul says, twenty century Century of the Self. That's a great documentary. That's like

one of the ones that I watched a long time ago. It's called Century of the Self. And he makes a joke twenty first century of the selfie exactly, that's what's good. Good joke. I'll give you a little sticker thing for that. Yeah, if Andrew Tate until Swan got together, that would open a portal to the multiverse. Yeah, yeah, I don't know, that would be like the heavyweights of narcissism. Maybe they maybe they're the

perfect couple. What if it canceled it out? What if there was so much audacity in both of them that if they got together, it somehow did like an alchemical transformation and they ended up better. Slow voice says, I'm never disrespectful, but I definitely get pretty bad PMS and it turns me into a passive aggressive Yeah, definitely. Okay, So what else women with an IG page, Well, just because she has an account, that's not a red flag. That's a little weird. Okay. Number six women with non

ear piercings Okay, it is what it is you have spoken. They don't want. I think a little belly button piercing is kind of cute, but if I don't like the eyebrow like anything that's going to add a pockmark to your face, I'm not about that. Number seven women with purple hair or any other unnatural color there again, and you can tell who doesn't really give a crap what men think about them anymore is when they start with that purple

hair, blue hair, whatever. Right, it's like those creatures that are like highly toxic and they all have like vibrant colors, so the predators don't eat them. I think that's what they're doing. Rachel. I'm not a piercing person. Yeah, those things get infected and they can get tugged on. And like why why number eight women with a e ao U friends three h four friends? Okay, women with three h four friends? What do you think? Yeah, bright colors are like the poisonous animals signaling to you

that they're toxic. Can you explain the four different women? Okay, So there's four phases in the cycle the hormonal cycle of a woman, the minstrel, the luteal, the ovulation, and I can't remember, but just look at the four cycles. So it's pretty much like just like spring, summer, winter, fall, fall, winter, and the winter is the the menstrual cycle, and the spring is when it's over. So you're gonna have different feelings about things depending on what kind of hormones you have. Someone says,

off topic, but thanks for the podcast you make. I listen on the way to work, long commute. It's fun and informent, you're welcome. Thank you. Marcus Moldy Apple says, first date matching tattoos. There you go. Hey, some guys are into tattoos and some women are into tattoos. Honestly, though, the more you look at these things, the more you're gonna have to like think about, okay, is this actually good for my body? So we were talking about those restaurants that the women don't

want to go to. Somehow instinctively know that out that food is disgusting. Body mind can lead to infections, illness, tattoo inks can make you sick. It's just a lot can go wrong. And I don't like messing with your physic zeology if you don't have to. That's why that whole transformer stuff is like crazy to me, because why would you want to make yourself a slave to doctor's visits and medications. And I mean, that's how they get you, that's how they get all the money out of you. But you're

submitting yourself to being under like crazy medical treatments for your whole life. See I learned from my last relationship. You can learn a lot about her standards by meeting her friends. Okay, yeah, so especially if she has like wild friends and they go to night clubs and they want to, you know, have the Beyonce single lady's life, and if you get into relationship with her. I hate to say this, but a lot of times if she goes to her single friends for advice, the advice is going to be just

dump him because they're single and that's the only reason. And the same with ladies who are married with I'm not saying you can't have single friends, but I'm just saying this is just a factor to keep in mind is your single friends are always going to tell you you need to be single. Number nine models who mark it to men. Okay, I thought every guy wanted to date a model. I don't understand what is this? You just want her to be a model underneath the shroud. You don't want to. But they

specifically say number nine models who mark it to men. Okay, so that's like the Budweiser model. That's the the car What car show models? Budweisers? What else has bikini models? So a bejeweled iPhone is a red flag. That's funny. Someone says, I've dated models, they're awful. Well that's what I'm talking about. People who lead with their sexuality. You're not always gonna have a good time. What if she's a Sears catalog model?

Is that okay? What if she's like a nineties like mom core model with like a vest and a jean skirt and a big T shirt, white T shirt with a vest on it. What if she's that kind of model? Well, she's a J. C. Penny model. You could be a part of model. What is that fly to the Concord song? How does that go? Melissa's here? Trainer, Melissa, what's up? I already went through the list of all the places that you do not want to go on a first date, and now we're talking about guys who want to date

models, but not models who market to men. They only want to date like Joanne fabric dress pattern models, right, Okay. Number ten women who travel regularly, Well, you just showed up at the perfect time. I know Melissa has traveled regularly, and she's made a hobby and a job and a career out of traveling. I don't see that as a red flag at all. I've been too many many places. I've been everywhere. Man, I've been everywearing I don't think that's a red flag. I think you're just

jealous. I think, oh, women who travel regularly, so I think this is just like guys who think that they're gonna hook up wherever they go, which is not true. Red flag is really really, really good at makeup and does it every day. Huh. I thought you want girls to look good. I don't understand. That's so funny to me. Like guys say they don't like makeup, and you're like, okay, but if you don't wear makeup, you look like, you know, the crip keeper.

Yeah, Melissa was a travel agent. I don't think that's a red flag. Women who try regularly are not. They're not doing XCX tourism. They're not all going to Africa to get like a you know, big boyfriend. They're not passport girls. You ever heard of a passport gal? Passport sisss no think? So what do you think travel yes or no is? Why is traveling a red flag? I think they're just insecure about her. Cheating a very pious Orthodox woman is what I think we should be looking for.

Exactly. Guys don't like obvious makeup. They often don't don't even know we wear makeup if it's subtle. Exactly. They want you to look like you are beautiful. They don't want you to look like a peacock. They just want you to look like natural. But they don't realize that the natural look still takes makeup because we're all being poisoned. I don't know if you've got the memo, but this place is toxic. We're breathing in heavy metals,

where are bathing in petrochemicals and forever chemicals. I mean, we're all slowly having the life choked out of it. So let us wear a little bit of concealer. I think number eleven women who drink liquor regularly. Okay, that's pretty it's pretty reasonable. They didn't say you can't have it at all, but I think regular that's a red flag of not we shouldn't. I mean, most alcohol is poisoned with GMOs. There's a couple clean drinks you

can get, like organic red wine. I think whiskey's safe, vodka is safe, and tequila, but the rest is going to be causing problems. So yeah, I think that's pretty obvious. Number twelve women with weak absentee fathers. Okay, but how is that her fault? I mean that's a lot. That's a lot to put on a woman, a girl she had nothing to do with that. I mean, I could understand why you don't want those issues, and that's up to you. You can have your delulu

standards or you can you know, I'm just kidding. You can have your healthy boundary, but you're gonna be wondering why you're still alone if you've got delusional expectations. And culture has made it so that, you know, pretty much every girl nowadays has some kind of father wound issue with you know, how they were treated. Rachel says, I love bourbon, but rarely drink

anymore. What that sounds good? What I like? I hardly ever drink, but I do like a mohedo maybe or a Margarita, that's pretty much. Mellie says, what was number twelve? Again? Number twelve women with wee absentee fathers. So your choice, but I think that's gonna be everybody. I think a one in a million is not gonna have any issue with her her parents, especially her dad. Red flag has developed a man's physique. Okay, A lot of dads larp as authoritarian personality, caricature. Yeah,

a lot of them just don't even care. A lot of them not even there. Trainer Melissa says, absent father is legit, but she can overcome it if a man treats her kindly. Good point, and shows her that a man could be reliable. Exactly, Otherwise she has no reason to think men are reliable. That's a very good point. I heart that piano exactly. This fallen world produces red flags spot on. Okay. Number thirteen women who live alone? What choice does she have? Live with her parents,

live with roommates? What if they are three or four's checkmate? I don't know. I think no women prefer to live alone. I think that's that's only something that is a last resort. I don't think that's completely under her control either, but it is dangerous to live alone as a woman, but it is also more peaceful, especially if you are very clean, neat, orderly organized person on a rigid schedule. I think a lot of high value women are type A. I would like to live alone. Number fourteen.

I don't know what this means. Women with party voice? What does that even mean? What's a party voice? Is it like paracels in? Like? Let's go party like? Is that what that means? Somebody helped me out? While I check this donuts? See if I got more donuts? Hope we're helping Horatio. You don't have to throw the whole girl away. I think. I don't think these things alone will lead to a divorce. And just the fact that you are on top of it thinking that,

I think you can get ahead of these problems. Honestly. Okay, no more donuts, but we need some more songs, hot party boys. What's a party? I don't even know. Let's party. Number fifteen women on dating apps? Okay, valid, but how are you supposed to meet them? And you're on dating apps, so I don't understand. What do you want? Number sixteen women who have been on Fresh and Fit. Uh so, Yeah, nobody wants those women. News flash. They get the worst

women they can find. Duh, where do they even find these people? Where does whatever even find like this cavalcade of I don't know. So they don't want those women. They just want to disparage them. So those women are trash. I mean, I'm not saying that. And according to these people, these guys who've made this list, and a lot of guys I

think put you in three categories. It's like the you know, the the keepers and the sweepers and the sleepers or something like that, Like there's wife tire, and then there's they'll sleep with you tier, and then there's like you don't even exist because you're not attractive to me tier. But yeah, the women who've been on Fresh and Fit and whatever, it's like nobody obviously wants to date them or wants to wipe them. I should say, they do want to get to know them in a biblical sense. Is there a

woman who knows where she wants to eat? Yeah, well we just I read that list of like ten places she doesn't want to eat, So narrow it down. I mean, your town has to have some kind of like local business, restaurant that's not a huge chain with food from Cisco that arrives all frozen, and all I have to do is like unthought it and sprinkle some canola oil on it. Sarah says, I agree with most of these terms, but it's not what you say, it's how you say it.

It's usually said in a hateful way. Yeah, and that's what I was talking about with like the the whatever. I mean, I bet you a million dollars that Brian. I don't want to go, like do I have to talk about these people? Like why is he surrounding himself with these people twenty four to seven? If all they're gonna do is just dunk on them, It's just kind of weird to me. Whatever, they're just a bunch of guys, Like, never mind, it's giving dysgenics, guys, it's

giving dystopia. And why can't they have a show about something that means something? Why does it have two million viewers just dunking on three h four's all the time? Why can't he be talking about, you know, ending the Federal Reserve or whatever Tucker is talking about. I mean, aren't we over just watching clowns do clown things? Okay, Christian Pethukhov ten dollars came an

hour late, not getting the don't references have a blessed Sunday. Oh okay, because I got a dono chat, so I was trying to test that and see if the money was coming through. I'm gonna put a link in there right now, dim genics. Yeah, Marcus's marriage is about martyrdom and sacrifice. I did find a video like the sweetest thing I could swear.

I bookmarked it on TikTok, but it was just this guy and his wife was like basically a vegetable, and it just showed this montage of him taking care of her from being able to not even move, like all she could do was blink. And he's there night and day at her bedside. He's like cycling her legs so she doesn't get at her feed. He's spoon feeding her, he's singing to her, he's making her laugh, he's dancing, he's holding up their child and like the progression. It would make you cry

if you saw it. I wish I would have saved it. I'm sorry, but you can see he's shampooing her hair even though he had to shave her head. Uh. Probably just to have easier care of her hygiene. But he's shampooing that buzz cut, he's taking care of the baby, and you can see, little by little she can sit up, and then in the next video she can move her arms. In the next video she can

like wobble around a little bit or blink or like. So it was just literally his love that brought her back from worse than the grave, being a prisoner inside her body, and now she can walk again. That's what I'm talking about. When I say love, that's what I mean. I mean, like full on notebook love. Okay, I don't mean I'm glad that

you do things for me. That's not love. Right. When Andrew Tate makes a video and he's like, uh, I want to teach you how to how to cheat on your girlfriend so you can just go sleep with whoever you want and you can crawl back in bed with the girl you love, I'm like, that's not love. That's a parasite, right, That's not what i'm That's not I do not think it means what you think it means when a lot of people say love. But yeah, that's what we're talking

about. Let's go back to our guys list and then we're just gonna do a little bonus girl clapback list. So they don't want drinkers, they don't want the party voice is that Paris Hilton? And plus where are my songs? You? Guys? Am? I just missing them? Melissa wants notebook love too. Yeah, that's what I mean. Girls are like would you love me if I was a worm? That was That was a meme that

went around and guys didn't understand what that meant. But literally, yes, if you were a worm and you couldn't get out of bed, would I change your bedpant? That's love. Love is a It's not a feeling. It's a demonstration of behavior over time. It's a thing that you do. Yeah, somebody's Paul said love is an action, not mere affection exactly. Party Voice are loud women? Oh okay, closing time? Do do do do do? Closing time? I remember that, thanks Josh. I can't

remember the rest of it. Closing time, okay. Red Flag has a Pinterest page full of popular empowerment clothes that don't realize stern from okay, so new age there you go. That is a Red Flag New Age uh yogurts and crystals and witchcrap. Uh, that's gonna be immediately, No, right, immediately, No, Jamie, do you know can't wait by new Shoes? No, I wish I did. I don't want to wait. That was last week. Red Flag makes a TV show their entire personality or has

a separate Instagram account where their pet. Ah, that's cute, that's just the pet thing. I don't know. I like animals, So that's just in the category of people enjoying life. I think I know who I want to take me home. Yes, thank you, Rachel, I know who I want to take me home. Yeah? Backstreets back? All right? Am I sexu wall? Yeah? Am I some things? Yeah? Am I everything? You need it? Every body? Yay? Rock you up?

Body? Yeah? Okay. Josh says, I went on a movie date, took her to the Notebook, snuck out, and brought in frozen PBJ sandwiches. She loved it. That sounded like a fun time. See didn't cost a lot of money, right, everybody? What's the other one? The other Backstreets song? Somebody put the lyrics in there? Okay? No party boys, no dating apps, no uh bugle wolves from Fresh and Fit. No pookies. No women with lists, So it's a little double standard. Y, this is a list, So women I don't know are

like shopping lists, Amazon wish lists. Are you talking about lists of standards that she wants in a man? I think that's what they're saying. They don't want a woman who has any healthy boundaries. Women who have been engaged, I think that's a little harsh. You know, even in the church it is. There's no shame in ending and engagement. You both had honorable

intentions and it just didn't work out. And it was much better to have a relationship that you know, you thought was going to result in a marriage and you know, back out of it, then to go through with it or just date. I think courtship leading to engagement is a much healthier approach to couplehood than hooking up and dating. So, women who have been engaged, there's no shame in ending and engagement. It just it was not God's

will. Right. Number nineteen divorces All divorces. Oh, women are responsible for two hundred percent of divorces. Right. Actually, somebody left a comment and this is what I'm It kind of gets me. You guys, like the risk for a man that all they're thinking about is financial, Like, it's way worse to lose half your money than to lose your entire family to these guys, right, And maybe if you weren't so concerned about material things,

your marriage wouldn't have fallen apart in the first place. But I actually did. I was wondering about this, and so I googled women lose more and divorce and come to find out, oh yeah, average household income shrinking by forty percent. So there's like all of these statistics. I know you guys love your statistics. That women do not actually do better in life after a divorce, and that's why they shouldn't be getting divorced and leaving, because

they're not going to be the boss bitch that they thought they were. If they leave a good man and they get out there in the workforce, they're going to be crying. They're going to be they don't have experience, they don't have the training. You can't just dissolve your family and think you're going to start a new life and be like devil worst praduct, you know, magazine editor, boss lady. So women do really bad after divorce, and

I think that is something that we need to be sharing around. Just if you want to deter women from divorcing, then remind them that you're not going to be better off. So our women are not financially better after divorce. They don't ride off into the sunset with the bag and the children. That's just not true, especially if they're over fifty. I mean that it's pretty much over. Like you're not gonna have the quality of life that you could

have had by staying married. Now Rachel is starting a big batch of beasts. That sounds good, but you can make the internet say anything, you guys. Look, women are more likely to end up in poverty after divorce, and here you got all these red pill guys saying that she's gonna take you for all you've got. That's why Domin and Donnavan Sharp couldn't marry his girlfriend of seven years because she would run off with what he really loves,

which is his money. Women's probability of being in poverty more than doubles after divorce. Yeah, so nobody does good after a divorce, not just ment. Okay, let's get back to our man list. We've been going almost two hours. This is really fun. I'm having fun. I do need some more songs anything my jewel? Oh how does jewel go? No? No, no, no no no? Or then seven? Who will save your song if you won't save your own lady daddy? Yeah, whatever happened

to her, She was kind of cool. You were men for me, I was man for you. I go about my business. I'm doing fine. Besides the world. I say, if I had you own my man. Oh, foolish games. That's a pretty song, ye, foolish games. Do you remember that poppy song she did? It was like it's like her answer to Brittany and Christina and Jessica Simpson called Intuition. That was kind of a catchy, catchy fun song. Foolish games. See Juwel knows she

don't want no foolish games. She don't want no eyehop. She don't want no cheesecake factory freaking Si Baba Guru with saltpeter in your food, you know they do that. They put saltpeter in the cook don't ever take cookies from Harry Krishna's because they put stuff in there to make your libido go down. That's why they just sit around and sing all the time. But not the gurus. The gurus have all of the ris, but the followers, the men, they want them limp a right, who will say? Did you

guys see that? Look up Jessica Simpsons singing dual? Oh man, that's like ultimate cringe like that, that's like galactic cringe. Will you will cringe out the window? All right, let's get back to our list. Women who have been engaged with divorcees. Yep, no one loses, I mean, no one wins in divorce. Uh. I can't even say this number twenty What the heck? Number twenty and twenty one are like f'ed up you guys, and I guess we should talk about it slowly, White port Salt

Peter what yeah, yeah. Women are told it will be better if they divorce, and they fall for it exactly. Who say? Okay? Number twenty and twenty one, these were the last ones. I'm just gonna say it. Number twenty Things that men do not want in a woman American Black women. I did not make this list. That is really apped up. Haven't they been through enough? I mean, like their marriage stay together rate is abysmal. I think I don't even want to get into the weeds of

this. This is crazy, okay, because since twenty one is women raised in the West. So here's what I gotta say about that is that y'all know that it's part of the globalist conspiracy to turn the world against Western white men, sis Christian straight white men, right, I mean, can we all agree to that. That's that's part of the matrix's trick is to make

white men white devil Western, especially Western white men. So why wouldn't it also be true that people who say women raised in the West are terrible. That's got to be part of the propaganda as well. So they're trying to turn the world against everyone in the West. And this whole passport brow, this whole Western women are the fall of civilization. There's no good ones left. That is just a bunch of malarkey. And it's part of the conspiracy.

What do you guys think you're gonna be really disappointed when when you you know, you think you're gonna go rescue some ten ten Asian lady from a Bryce Patty and bring her back to America, she's gonna like worship you and never gonna give you any pushback or any like. She's going to have the same hormonal cycle as any other woman, I promise you, especially if you want to have kids, you're going to have to learn to, you know, deal with the feminine. I'm not saying Western women are. They have

been heavily propagandized and under mind control for three generations at least. But every culture is going to have its clashes and issues. And also I read in that Crazy Kenneth Grant book and that show on Rockfin that Alisha Coley was using primarily white English women in his black magic rituals, and they kept losing their mind and ending up in coley Hatch, which is a crazy insane asylum, like a Victorian Edwardian nightmare insane asylum. So they would get with Crowley.

He would use them, brand them, brutalize them, virtualize, abuse them, and when they lost it, they ended up in Lune even. And so Kenneth Grant thinks that it would have been better if Crowley had looked outside the western white woman options and gotten somebody who These are his sentiments, okay,

these are his words. Who generations were more demonized and paganized, such as if you're from Africa with voodoo or you know, the East with Tibetan, Hinduism, Buddhism, because your bloodline is more familiar with working with demons. So I didn't make that up. So you can go passport row, you can go search for you know, your Bonnie lass over the ocean. But you can't run away from yourself. Right, Maybe you're the problem. I love Jewel, but she went country. Yeah, all right, let's

get to our last little list. What is this? The women's clap back in what they do not want from a man? And where did that go? Here we go the ladies strike back, A new list of the men that have no business dating period. Okay, here we go. There's twenty nine of these. We'll go fast, but we can sing some and you can send me some donuts and super chats, and I'm gonna try and fix

your relationship from my laptop. Someone oh, in the donuts, somebody said, Nathan Jamie, you might enjoy doing commentary on content from home, math, on YouTube and TikTok. He has some good breakdowns on male female that. As I do follow him, I know exactly what you're talking about. I came across him a couple of weeks ago, and I've been you know,

they're entertaining. He obviously doesn't have a Christian worldview. He has a more of a like a psychological what's that profile where you're like I n FJ or whatever. So he has a lot of graphs about personalities and about personal development, kind of like you know it, ego's super ego, but there's like ten stratas. So he does go into the psychology behind hose and dating.

But that's what I mean when I talk about like, it's really weird to watch you navigate morality and social interactions without a Christian worldview, because there is a wall that you hit when you don't involve Jesus into it. Jethrow's here, what's up? I got all the mods. I'm collecting all my mods like Pokemon. I got Rachel based and slow Boy and Melissa who else? Okay? Oh Meyers brig. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what it's called. Meyer's brig. Any woman who can handle a firearm and steal

marriage material. I know Rachel does guns. Rachel's a sharp shooter gun lady. That's pretty cool. I don't know a lot about guns. I do know you're supposed to keep your finger on the trigger at all times. That's rule number one, right Rachel, All times keep your finger in the trigger. Number two before you're shoot to look down the barrel to make sure it's loaded. Is that true? Okay? Number one on ladies strike back, Men who have no business dating. Number one men with toddlers or younger.

That is the number one of the men's They didn't want single moms. Men don't want single dads. Why are you on a date when you have a toddler? Why are you texting me when your your wife is giving birth? Yeah? Men with toddlers. I would tell that man to go back to his family. Number two men that live with they mama? Okay, I know who's writing this list now. Yeah. I think a man should be able to at least look after his own self before he decides to take on

a family. Right Rachel agrees, yes. Number three men that live with a baby moment valid? Why is he dating? Number four? DL men? I don't know what DL means down low? Why am I so old? I don't know what is it a DL man? Can you guys tell me men that don't have a valid driver's license? This is getting oddly specific. Yeah, unless he's blind, I don't see why he shouldn't have a driver's license. And also that might be because he has DUIs. So yeah,

that's a healthy boundary. Healthy boundaries versus delusional expectations is what we are discussing tonight. And we're having so much fun. And do you remember cranberries. That's a great ninety Do do Do Do Do Do Do Do do doo. Oh. DL means secretly skittles. Okay, so guys who like the cranberries, Oh my life, it's changing every day, every bless a way. Okay. Number six men that bank with cash app Okay, sounds kind of shifty. Number seven men that sag day pants. That's valid. I

mean that's kind of weird. Anyways, that was a prison thing. I'm pretty sure that is a DL, a Skittles thing, not a DL. I mean that's the actual advertisement that you are Skittles. That's what that means in prison, I'm pretty sure. So you do not want a man who sag day paints. Men who don't take care of their kids. Okay, Men that disrespect women. Number ten, men that don't own a suit.

You need it, lost one suit, okay, your church suit. You need your your little clip on tie at least and one little blue blazer and a white shirt and some shoes with some laces. Right. I just think there's there's nothing like more adorable than a feral man who's trying to like get dressed up for a formal event. That there's like nothing cuter in the world to me that who's usually rugged but he has to like slip down his hair and take a shower and get all like cleaned up for a wedding or something.

That's really endearing to me. Melissa says, pull down, pants up. Yeah, Oh, my life change in every day, no Briggs Meyers necessary. If your foundation is Jesus, then it's trans and dental. That's nice. If your authority is yourself, then happiness is shifting to sand because your identity will be in external things only exactly. And that's what we were

talking about at the very beginning we were recapping the Red Pill wedding. It was all unto himself, an external and material and just just unromantic man that gross. Okay, Number eleven men that live in motels, okay, number twelve men that want to hold a couple of dollars till they get paid. Does that mean they want to borrow money from you because yeah, that's that's dusty, right, That's that's dusty. That's scrub. Remember was that a nineties song? I don't want to know scrub scrub? Is it got?

I can't get no love from me? My husband was cracking on Jay's Hey dudes when he posted dressed up pictures. We love that. Yeah, they're comfortable. I don't I don't care if the guy is unfashionable, like, go learn something manly and go learn how to start a fire. You don't need to be matching pocket squares, like, do something masculine. Let me worry about fashion. They are describing gang bangers. Yeah, who wrote this, I don't know. This is a they voted somewhere and came up with

the list. Andrews said, red flag for men is if they go shirtless. Ever, yeah, oh, biggest red flag is if they are shirtless and they also have a belly button tattoo like a son like a like a like abs with a blazing sun around their belly button. That's I mean, that's like do shee douche territory. Let's see men who clothes are in tubs?

Did you did you ever hear about that? Girl who went on the date with the guy and she went back to his house and she looks in his bedroom and there's a giant pile of laundry where his bed is supposed to be. And she's like, what is that And he's like, oh,

that's my nest. And she's like, what do you mean your nest And he's like, yeah, I just kind of like sleep on all the clothes, like I like nest in there, and it's really comfortable, and you want to try my nest And she's like, deuces, no, immediately, no, slow boy, white bird says belly button tattoo. Heck no, yeah, exactly. We don't want no belly button tattoo. Guys. Number fourteen men that can't log into anything without help. Okay, this just sounds

like children, So these aren't men. Number fifteen men that gotta tell their mama everything. Number sixteen men that work in the FedEx Huh okay? Why FedEx cash app is okay for small stuff between friends and family. You need a bank account, my dude. You need a grown up life. You need you need to have a bed on a bed frame so you don't get roaches. You can't sleep in a nest and you can't work for FedEx apparently.

Number seventeen men that work for a temporary service. Number eighteen truck driver. All truck drivers, all truck drivers everywhere should not have any business dating, according to the women on the internet. Number nineteen them grand rising men. I don't know what that means. What's a grand rising man? Grand rising tell me? Slow by whover says FedEx, Amazon ups basically means they can't to hold down a career. Okay, those jobs have a super high

turnover rate. Okay, FedEx, they got good benefits. Someone tell me what a grand rising men is? Number twenty them Yu D men. Yeah, that's kind of annoying what you're doing. You're still up. I'm sure that could get old. Ye. My fame is a version to gamer chairs exactly. Somebody who has a chair that is meant to be sad in for more than eight hours doing video games. That's immediate. No, why are

they hating on truck drivers? Yeah, that's kinda I don't know. Maybe just because they're like away a lot and are the lot lizards that tempting? I don't know. Can they not say no to those those those tweaker ladies in the truck stop a lot. The yu D men. Yeah, they're just what's it called spinning plates on their rotation? What are you doing? Are you still up? They don't ever want to play nothing. Twenty one men with multiple kids and even mom months. Yeah, we went over that.

Twenty two men that bash women on social media. Twenty three men that have to load their card to add money to it. So this is just dusty, crusty, pooky, multiple children and no prospects. Number twenty four men that don't keep their locks up. Hygiene is it will go a long way. If you're a man, you just like basic hygiene. You're already in the ninetieth percentile if you don't have poopstains in your underwear. And I'm

not even joking, I'm not speaking for personal experience. I'm speaking from what I read online that the bar is so low that the passport bros Are going to have a root awakening because the bar set in Western world for dating and UH standards is like lower than loam shot. Ay had good ninety songs. Yeah, think I leave your signe baby? You know me better than that. Yep, think I'll leave you down? You're down? On your ney. I wouldn't do that. Ooh, when you're cool, I love her.

I'll be there by your side, baby, Keep your locks up, keep go to the dentist, get your teeth clean, take a shower, use the odorant with no aluminum in it. Hey, there is another thing. So if you go to somebody's house and you're about to hook up, I hope you don't, but look in their bathroom and if they're brushing with Colgate and using secret deodorant, then you know they're full of toxic chemicals and they're probably got the stab stabs. Right. We don't want to be dating

people that have like heavy metal poisoning in their armpits. If you're still using that deodorant, you need to get off it. Somebody put a link in the chat the dangers of aluminium deodorant and breast cancer. Ax bodies break all of those those endocrine disruptors. You guys, all almost all colognes, perfumes, all of these fragrances that the the pop stars all have a fragrance, all the celebrities. This stuff is so bad for you, and it makes

your hormones go out of whack. It disturbs your endocrine system. It's just not good. Makes some freaking perfume from essential oil. It's not that hard. Someone said, men who are in their baby girl era and want to be pursued by women. That is valid because what I'm seeing with these high value men. Oh and I just saw this video of this girl yesterday and

it broke my heart. And she's like She called her friend from her car in a panic attack, saying, I just talked to my boyfriend and we had a conversation an hour ago and he said love me, and he can't wait for me to come to his parents for Thanksgiving and everything was fine, and he calls her back an hour later and he says, oh, I just realized I'm a high value man and you're not good enough for me, and you never will be, and you'll never find anyone as good as me,

and he hung up on her. So this is what this red pill crap is doing to people, just out of the blue. Within an hour, he was excited and he loved her and wanted to, you know, spend family time with her, and then he saw some stupid video and decided he's a high value man and just dumped her. So what else you gotta grow on your own flowers and make some essential oils. Fellows. That's yeah, exactly. Axe isn't even cologne it what even is it? That's so

gross? Just look at what is in the crap in your bathroom and under your sink. It's all toxic chemicals. You don't need that in your house and on your body. There is way easier ways to be clean than acts that such chokes me to death. Like if I smell axe on somebody, Oh, it's so gross. My whole smell went so good after switching to salt deodorant. No more bad and sour smell like it was. Yeah. So, if you have a problem with body odor you can't drink liquid chlorophyll.

It's easy, it's cheap. It deodorizes you from the inside. You can drink a couple drops of liquid Finegreek is really good. You can get natural deodorance. You can make your own deodorance. Like I most days I don't even put it on. I'm sorry if you've met me and I had like a funk, but I just can't be bothered to put aluminum on my limp nodes every day. If you eat a lot of fermented foods. It really cuts down on your body odor. Yeah, so it if you're clean

on the inside, you're not gonna smell that bad. All right, What do we got here? Men that number twenty five, Men that hairline gone, but they keep holding on. Huh hmm, I don't wanna scrub. That's kind of harsh. Well, if that's kind of the same thing as like if you don't like your woman's body changing over time, your body's gonna change too. You're gonna lose your hair. We're all gonna end up looking like goblins anyways, so you might as well learn to love. Right,

We're all gonna like shrivel up, God willing. If you're lucky, you are going to end life as like a disgusting creature, and no amount of axe body spray is going to help when you're eighty or ninety years old. Number twenty six. Men that always talk about what they used to have? Okay? Is that like men who live in the past, like Uncle Rico, I could throw his football over that mountain. They've lived their glory days

already. Actually I can understand that, because like what if he's always like I miss my ex or you know, everything was better before that person entered your life. I can't see how that would get old. Yeah, we're all gonna look like goblins anyway, you might as well learn to love. Thanks Melissa. Jamie wants us to be clean on the inside so she can go full damer on us. No, just watch that show. We did that show with basically Analyzer with about the cannibals. That was really gross.

Get rid of that. Ex bodies pray okay. Number twenty seven married men Okay, that's pretty self evident. Number twenty eight men without transportation. Number twenty nine men that are cowboys fans. So this is this may be specific to this lady here. I don't know if you can see that, but I thought that was a pretty entertaining clapback list. Some harsh, some delusional, some reasonable. What do you guys think? Fresh as cray? Yeah, that was a crazy movie. Well that is all I have for tonight.

Guess what it's about? Closing time? How's that go? Do do do do? Do? Do? Do? Do? Do do do? Closing time? Some other beginnings and how does it go? Why do people poop on cowi fans? I don't get it. I don't either. I'm not really a sports ball row. But I'd better let y'all go. Let me check the donut chat one more time. This was really fun, but we are leaving for our trip tomorrow, so I have to go get ready,

and I did not get any more donuts. So I hope you all enjoyed this show called Delusional Expectations or Healthy Boundaries, And I want you to keep up your standards, but don't be too harsh on people. We have to forgive them. And uh, I hope you all had a great Sunday. Goodnight,