Just focusing on your own life is harder than you think. Your happiness is long lasting..

Focusing on your own life is doing this that bring you happiness. True happiness is long lasting and you continually draw energy from Those experiences. Its those things or events that you can remember and want to do more at the drop of a hat. On the other hand living out somebody elses life will have you doing things illogically and you'll have too many bottoms right after a win where you're searching for a high because the last thing you did left you unsatisfied.