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J'Obsessed

Join Fraser as he chats to the people he simply can't get enough of, exploring what they're obsessed with, who they're obsessed with, and their juicy, secret obsessions. Covering pop culture, queerness, relationships, career, navigating your 20s and more, these convos explore the minds of our gorgeous guests. Fraser's j'obsessed, and you will be too. Email: jobsessedpod@gmail.com
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Episodes

2024 Dating Projections from the Dateless (w/ Lucy Smith)

2023 was a dud for dating, Lucy Smith (@lcysmth) and Fraser know that.. How? Because we had zero success. However, we are hopeful for 2024.. So here's a special ep on the INS and OUTS of dating for 2024 - especially for those wanting to be lucky in love. We chat about dating apps, men holding fish, 30 min dates, referrals, Grindr and more. Tune in for our predictions on love x

Dec 26, 202331 minSeason 1Ep. 30

Will Madani: Palestine media coverage & impact on Arab Australians

This ep I'm lucky to be joined by Will Madani, gay Arab Australian lawyer. Will offers insight into the current situation in Palestine through his studies in international relations, first-hand experience in the West Bank and relatives that have been impacted by the current conflict. We discuss the impact of Western media's portrayal of the conflict, and how this affects Arab communities in Australia. We also chat about social media implications, including current conversations around whether to...

Dec 19, 202340 minSeason 1Ep. 29

Gay twin theory, Mum & baby hippos

It’s just me this ep! About time, cause I’ve been wanting to share my Gay Twin Theory for YONKS. I also chat about our tendency to be hyper critical of our parents and sweet little baby hippopotamus’. Let me know your thoughts xx

Dec 12, 202325 minSeason 1Ep. 28

Jasmine Wallis: Do not disturb, Chappell Roan & financial literacy

This ep I'm joined by the wonderful Jasmine Wallis (@jasmineeskye). Jasmine is the co-host of Culture Club and editor at Pedestrian Group. We chat about spoiler culture, the perks and pits of 'Do not disturb' and people pleasing. Additionally, we discuss pop-queen Chappell Roan and financial literacy throughout the cost of living crisis. Enjoy! xx

Dec 05, 202328 minSeason 1Ep. 27

Emily Havea: Grief, gratitude & ingrown pubes

This week I'm joined by absolute darling Emily Havea ( @texas_gold ). Emily is an actor (Erotic Stories & Wentworth), writer (Year Of), singer, dancer and drag king -- yep!! In this insightful chat, Emily shares her experience of both grief and gratitude after the passing of her adored father. Additionally, we chat about her fairy garden 'skanctuary', Cleo Sol, fucking in sea caves, child opera starts, pimples & more. Enjoy xx...

Nov 28, 202335 minSeason 1Ep. 26

Milo Le Berre: Trans palatability, Chippendale & breathy orgasms

It's a delight to be joined by epic chef and wisdom-holder Milo Le Berre. We chat about Milo's experience with testosterone (hairy ass alert), overcoming the notion of being a "palatable" trans person and the impact of positive mentors in workplaces. In addition, we explore the perks of Chippendale, navigating male-dominated industries and breathwork (specifically whilst having an orgasm). Enjoy! xx

Nov 21, 202331 minSeason 1Ep. 25

Michael Sun: Book signalling, Addison Rae & "That's on period"

This week I'm joined by the fab Guardian culture writer, FBI Radio presenter & designer Michael Sun ( @michael.pdf ). We chat about greedy kids at halloween and 'cultural clout baiting' i.e. reading in public (Dua Lipa and Drake are bookworms apaz). Additionally, we discuss Addison Rae's success and Jacob Elordi giving us not much. Listen in! xx

Nov 14, 202332 minSeason 1Ep. 24

Dr. Josh McClelland: Vaping, Azealia Banks & eating meat

This week I had the joy of chatting to veterinarian Dr. Josh McClelland (@ratbaby4eva). We cover some serious ground this ep.. from Kim Petras to gaybies to vaping to Azealia Banks to anti-veganism to IBS. Josh is a delight. Listen in xx

Nov 07, 202337 minSeason 1Ep. 23

Essie Randles: Troye Sivan, chilli oil & hickeys

This week I'm joined by marvellous actor Essie Randles (@essierandles). Essie expresses their love for Umami Papi, Chemist Warehouse & all things fun-size 👀. We chat about our joint obsession with Troye Sivan and the queer euphoria "Got Me Started" creates. Also, are hickeys coming back? We hope not. Enjoy xx

Oct 31, 202328 minSeason 1Ep. 22

Evie Georgiou: Unfunking, Lime bikes & new friendships

Evie Georgiou (@eviegeorgiou) is a producer at Pedestrian.TV and a splendid individual. This week we chat about the challenges of building new friendships, the apparent joy of Lime bikes, Eamon and Frankees "Fuck It" feud and getting back on ur shit via UNFUNK. Enjoy xx

Oct 31, 202331 minSeason 1Ep. 21

14/10

In respect of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islanders after Australia’s rejection of The Voice referendum, there will be no standard episode this week.

Oct 17, 20232 minSeason 1Ep. 20

Kath Ebbs: Non-monogamy, Katie McCabe & queer-baiter Harry Styles

This ep I'm joined by creator, actor & writer Kath Ebbs ( @kathebbs ). We have a frank chat about the perks and challenges of non-monogamy, why Abbie Chatfield & Kath would make the best reality TV villains and being 'strictly dickly'. Also, Kath confesses her love for Irish footballer Katie McCabe and dislike of Harry Styles and his queer-baiting ways.

Oct 10, 202331 minSeason 1Ep. 19

Montaigne: Tetris, David Byrne & The Adventure Zone

This week I chat to wickedly talented artist, songwriter & producer, Montaigne (@actualmontaigne). Montaigne discusses culture and queerness associated with hyperpop and dives into the world of Tetris. Additionally, we chat about Montaigne's journey into music (thanks mum), the joys of capitalism, David Byrne & The Adventure Zone. Enjoy xx

Oct 03, 202340 minSeason 1Ep. 18

Lucy Smith: Brian Jordan Alvarez, The Newsreader & singledom

This week Fraser chats to gorge Triple J host & TV presenter Lucy Smith (@lcysmth). Lucy explains her obsession with ⁠Brian Jordan Alvarez⁠ & his suite of hilarious characters, The Newsreader & why she didn't pursue news journalism. In addition they chat about the joy (& peril) of Tetris and why being single is definitely in its flop. Enjoy xx

Sep 26, 202339 minSeason 1Ep. 17

Madeleine Madden: Bad drivers, HIV stigma & Genghis Khan

This week we are lucky enough to be joined again by the wonderful Madeleine Madden (@madeleine_madden). We chat about bad drivers, Madeleine's love for Anderson Cooper and history pod 'Conflicted'. Additionally, we discuss the prevalence of stigma associated with queer people & HIV, leading to the importance of sex & queer education.

Sep 19, 202333 minSeason 1Ep. 16

Lesley Mitchell: Teaching, Beyoncé & Blue Water High

This ep I chat to the gorgeous Lesley Mitchell, who you may remember as Brooke from Blue Water High (a blast from the past right??). Lesley is now an educator and we chat about experiences in the classroom (including ruining the whole plot of Harry Potter to students *spoilers within*). We also discuss Lesleys obsession with Beyoncé, the transition from acting to teaching and reconnecting to herself after becoming a mother. Listen in! Xx

Sep 12, 202330 minSeason 1Ep. 15

Chile Bainbridge: Ties, gender identity & Pavlov’s pussy

This ep I chat to artist and wonderful soul, Chile Bainbridge (@sweetchilesauced). Chile is v special and you’ll understand why. Chile shares insight on their journey with gender identity and how community, representation and ties (jazzed up ones tho) created an environment to grow. Then.. hold on to your hats as we learn about Chile’s secret obsession that will have Ivan Pavlov himself cheering from the grave.. Move over doggos, Pavlov's pussy is now in.

Sep 05, 202330 minSeason 1Ep. 14

Joss Peter: Sexy lesbian film director sunglasses, Caroline Calloway & googy eggs

Meet Joss Peter ( @foxymoron98 ); writer, creative strategist, creator of ' sent from my iphone with love ' AND this weeks obsession. This ep, we chat about how sunglasses can make you the hottest, most confident version of yourself (or not), the intrigue of Caroline Calloway and the return of the boiled egg. Joss is a boss. Enjoy x...

Aug 29, 202329 minSeason 1Ep. 13

Tim Abbott: Velvet Rage, partying too hard & Oprah

This week I chat to the gorge man behind hundreds of iconic memes we've all come across on Insta, Tim Abbott (you might know him as Worthless Twink) . Tim talks about his obsession 'Velvet Rage' and we go into what authentic joy looks like, the possibility of partying hard to conceal unhappiness and recalibrating post coming out. Oprah Winfrey, Saturn's return (whoops) & leather restoration vids are also on the agenda. Much love! xx...

Aug 22, 202338 minSeason 1Ep. 12

Molly Redacted: Unemployment, ugly babies & conjuring spirits

This ep, Fraser chats to the loveable Molly *redacted*. Molly discusses what her grad year of nursing was like in a cancer ward and the factors that led her to step away from work and into funemployment. They also chat about sloth-like babies and trying to communicate with the dead. Strap in xx

Aug 15, 202331 minSeason 1Ep. 11

Nick White: Yo-Chi, the Dull Co-worker & Space

This week we're joined by comedian & TikTok lord, Nick White ( @nickwhite49 ). If you haven't yet seen his videos (umm hellooo?), they're a must before listening. We chat about Yo-Chi masculinity, homos studying mannerisms and the creation of Carli the Dull Co-worker. Also, we get into space and atoms (fake news) and the universe and stuff woot woot. Enjoy! xx...

Aug 08, 202330 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Rachel Perkins: Voice to Parliament, motherhood & colonial architecture

This ep I chat to an incredible director, writer and Co-Chair of Australians for Indigenous Constitutional Recognition ( Yes23 ); Rachel Perkins. Rachel shares insight surrounding Australia's upcoming referendum including what constitutional recognition actually means, how Treaty differs and the impact of the vote on Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. For more info, check out Yes23 . ⁠ In addition, we chat about motherhood, final thoughts in life and Rachel's secret obsession, coloni...

Aug 01, 202334 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Mia Artemis: Glee, Borderline Personality Disorder & Grey Gardens

This week I chat to queer actor & writer Mia Artemis ( @miaaartemis ). We discuss what's been entertaining her lately including Glee and the iconic doco Grey Gardens. Mia opens up about her diagnosis and lived experience of Borderline Personality Disorder, including the challenges around relationships, fear of abandonment and the stigma associated.

Jul 25, 202336 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Kavi: Bullying the Snapchat AI, finding queer community & Kimmie K

Kavi ( @klubkavi ) is a Gadigal-based pop artist, model and DJ that I can’t get enough of. Join us as we chat about his exploration of queer identity, the best way to distress Snapchat AI and his unironic love of Kim Kardashian (although since the new season Kavi now also h8s Kim 😔). Kavi is intelligent, insightful & slightly unhinged... I love it.

Jul 18, 202338 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Miah Madden: Fridge restocks, crusty old dogs & The Idol

Fraser chats with the lovely Miah Madden (The Clearing, Paper Dolls). They chat about lying on ur resume, Miah’s beloved old pup that makes other dogs vom, Troye Sivan and The Idol. Join them in reminiscing good ol’ primary school days, discussing the horrors from food swaps, being a self-proclaimed p**f before knowing the word, and pen licences.

Jul 11, 202333 minSeason 1Ep. 6

Ruby Teys: Heading overseas, gym boyfriends & a finger in the tushy

Ruby Teys ( @rubyteys.tropicalversion.mp3 ) is the biggest goddamn hoot in the whole of Sydney, but for now she's outta here. In this ep, Ruby chats about the challenges that come with packing your life up to go see Big Ben. We discuss the torment of gym boyfriends, oddly specific (and potentially unhelpful) fortune-tellers, post Korean BBQ meat sweats, butt things & how Ruby's bf got out of the dog house... I fucking love Ruby & you will too....

Jul 04, 202334 minSeason 1Ep. 5

Alana Davison: Inner hype people, Robert Pattinson & late night pedicures

Alana Davison (alanalucky__) is an incredibly talented Eora-based makeup artist. You've heard about the inner critic, but Alana's bout to introduce you to her inner hype person (that we all need). We chat about Alana's experience meeting her childhood dream-boy Robert Pattinson, Julia Fox "keeping it real", late night pedicures, and other foot-related content (oopsie). Strap in as Alana fondly recalls her first U-Haul experience and becoming proud of her queerness. You're going to love her. xx

Jun 27, 202330 minSeason 1Ep. 4

Becca Hatch: Boiler Room sets, Kylie Minogue & Call Of Duty

Our third obsession; dance-pop singer-songwriter Becca Hatch (@beccaxhatch). This ep, Becca and Fraser chat about Becca's current obsessions including boiler room sets, our queen Kylie Minogue, Call Of Duty (excuse me??) and The Sims. We discuss mums being the biggest fangirls and blind confidence. Becca is an absolute joy, tune in xx

Jun 20, 202330 minSeason 1Ep. 3

Alex Stylianou: Padam Padam, Bailey J Mills & Yiayia's porch

Our second obsession; Alex Stylianou (@the_al_pachoncho). This ep, we’re reminded of the glory days of self-choreographed dances to the Pussycat Dolls, and ponder how our parents didn’t work it out sooner.. Alex questions Kylie's Padam Padam and shares his obsessions with @baileyjmills99, fragrance and rustic cooking channels. He's silly, charming & an incredible story teller.. Listen now x

Jun 13, 202335 minSeason 1Ep. 2

Madeleine Madden: Vanderpump Rules, social media & grandparents

Our first obsession; the incredible and insightful Madeleine Madden (Wheel of Time, Dora and the Lost City of Gold, Picnic at Hanging Rock, Mystery Road). Join the chat as Madeleine talks Vanderpump Rules, dealing with social media and her love for her grandparents & the oldies.

Jun 05, 202334 minSeason 1Ep. 1
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