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It Takes A Village

Nine to Noon's Kathryn Ryan interviews parenting experts to help you navigate the trends, trials & tough calls of modern family life.
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Modern learning environments - how well do children learn?

Senior Researcher at the New Zealand Council for Educational Research, Mohamed Alansari with what parents can expect for their childrens' learning in modern classroom layouts. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details

Jul 01, 202018 minEp. 136

Equipping young adults to deal with disruption

Yvonne Godrey is a family coach and the Founder and Director of MIOMO (making it on my own) transitioning teens to adults. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details

Jul 01, 202016 minEp. 135

Growing a love of science

Rachel Rohloff is on a mission to grow a love of science among primary school children. She's a teacher, entrepreneur and now author. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details

Jul 01, 202020 minEp. 134

Alert levels down but anxiety persists

Psychologist Sarb Johal discusses anxiety that may persist as we go down the Covid alert levels. He says this may show itself in parents and children, and has tips for how to transition. A psychologist says as we emerge out of lockdown a higher proportion of people may experience anxiety - but that we can learn to live with life's new uncertainties. At the core of returning to a more social life, there may linger a sense of persistent anxiety for some, Sarb Johal told Nine to Noon. This may take...

May 13, 202020 minEp. 133

Child psychologist Dr Sarah Hughes - Parenting Made Simple

Australian child psychologist Dr Sarah Hughes has advice on raising calm, confident, well-adjusted and resilient children, as presented in her new book Parenting Made Simple. Sarah shares tips with Kathryn to help parents and caregivers with everything from kids' challenging behaviour, emotional outbursts, friendship problems, issues with confidence and anxiety, and adjusting to parents' separation. Australian child psychologist Dr Sarah Hughes has advice on raising calm, confident, well-adjuste...

May 07, 202018 minEp. 132

What? Where? When? Why preschoolers need to ask questions

Wellington speech and language therapist Christian Wright shares ideas to help develop preschoolers ability to understand and ask questions. Wellington speech and language therapist Christian Wright shares ideas to help develop preschoolers ability to understand and ask questions. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details

Apr 30, 202025 minEp. 131

Matt Stanton: creative boredom busters for kids

Best-selling Australian children's author and illustrator Matt Stanton shares tips for busting lock-down boredom blues with Kathryn Ryan. Matt is co-creator of the hit picture books 'There Is a Monster Under My Bed Who Farts' and 'This Is a Ball'. He's also the creative brain behind the 'Funny Kid' junior fiction series, the latest of which is Funny Kid Peeking Duck due to be published very soon. Meantime, Matt is hosting a daily YouTube live from his studio, for kids in isolation,with ideas for...

Apr 23, 202021 minEp. 130

Five tips for running a harmonious bubble

Parenting coach and educator Joseph Driessen shares five tips for running a harmonious household under lockdown. He says the key is getting the family to work as a team, and for parents, that might mean listening more and speaking less. Parenting coach and educator Joseph Driessen shares his tips for running a harmonious household under lockdown. He says the key is getting the family to work as a team, and for parents, that might mean listening more and speaking less. Listen to the full intervie...

Apr 09, 202018 minEp. 129

Toddler Whispering. Sharlene Poole

Parenting coach, author, and mum-of-two Sharlene Poole has tips for parenting toddlers during the lockdown. Her new book, Toddler Whispering, covers everything from sleeping, eating, and toilet training, to screen time and adjusting to a new baby brother or sister. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details

Apr 01, 202023 minEp. 128

Getting teens to toe the Covid line

Families around the country are trying to figure out how to cope in the next month. How will teenagers and young people - whose friends and social contacts are so important - manage in isolation? How should parents of young people communicate the new rules and get buy-in? Nathan Wallis - brain researcher, parenting coach and founder of X-Factor Education. Families around the country are trying to figure out how to cope in the next month. How will teenagers and young people - whose friends and so...

Mar 25, 202015 minEp. 127

Parenting Coronokids

Parenting expert Karen Boyes joins Kathryn to share some tips to help parents cope with having their kids home for the next four weeks. Her top one? You are not expected to be the Teacher. You are the Parent. Parenting expert Karen Boyes joins Kathryn to share some tips to help parents cope with having their kids home for the next four weeks. Her top one? You are not expected to be the Teacher. You are the Parent. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details...

Mar 24, 202015 minEp. 126

The joy of sex(uality) education

How can parents best navigate and negotiate the sexuality journey with young people? University of Canterbury Health lecturer Tracy Clelland has conducted the first local research on New Zealand parents' attitudes towards sexuality education. She says many parents find it difficult to talk about sex and sexuality, and even though they may want to, they often go about it in a way that is not conducive to good communication. She talks to Kathryn about how parents can best approach the role. How ca...

Mar 18, 202022 minEp. 125

SMS SOS: Text message parenting advice

A new pilot programme running through the University of Auckland allows parents to access parenting advice via an SMS text message. 'MyTeen' is for parents of 10-15 year olds, and participants have reported feeling more competent as parents, less stressed and more connected with their adolescents. Researcher Dr Joanna Chu joins Kathryn to talk about how the pilot could be expanded, as is happy to answer listeners' questions about parenting younger teenagers. Email us at Nine to Noon, or text Nin...

Mar 11, 202018 minEp. 124

Parenting - Covid19: keeping children calm

Senior Researcher at the New Zealand Council for Educational Research, Mohamed Alansari speaks with Kathryn Ryan about what parents and educators can do to prevent children panicking about Covid19. Senior Researcher at the New Zealand Council for Educational Research, Mohamed Alansari speaks with Kathryn Ryan about what parents and educators can do to prevent children panicking about Covid19. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details...

Mar 04, 202019 minEp. 123

When parents burn out

Psychologist Sarb Johal discusses parental burnout - on a par with occupational burnout, only there's no workplace support programme. Psychologist Sarb Johal discusses parental burnout - on a par with occupational burnout, only there's no workplace support programme. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details

Feb 26, 202022 minEp. 122

Connecting with your teenage daughter

In his new book Miss Connection, Why Your Teenage Daughter Hates You, Expects the World and Needs to Talk father of six girls, Brisbane based psychologist Dr. Justin Coulson tells Kathryn Ryan parents need to give them time, and offer them compassion. Justin surveyed four-hundred girls for the book, finding their need for connection tops concerns about personal appearance or social media. Justin's research also reveals the lies told to parents about screen time, and boys. In his new book Miss Co...

Feb 19, 202027 minEp. 121

Anxious parenting: Kevin Wilson

American author and father Kevin Wilson revisits his obsession with spontaneous human combustion in his new novel Nothing to See Here. Here former college room-mate Madison asks Lillian to be a governess to her strangely afflicted ten year old twin step-children Bessie and Roland, who have a tendency to overheat and burst into flames, a metaphor for parenting with anxiety. Kevin has been dogged by anxiety throughout his life, and the prospect of parenthood petrified him. How could he look after ...

Jan 29, 202019 minEp. 120

How to survive the (last of the) school holidays

As many parents know the summer school holidays seem to stretch on FOREVER. With two weeks or so of the break left to go, ideas of what to do might be thin on the ground by now. Maria Foy runs a blog called Happy Mum Happy Child and joins Lynn to talk about how parents can entertain their kids - and keep themselves sane. As many parents know the summer school holidays seem to stretch on FOREVER. With two weeks or so of the break left to go, ideas of what to do might be thin on the ground by now....

Jan 27, 202015 minEp. 119

Tips for surviving Christmas stress

Christmas and the holiday season can be a stressful time for many people. For some, it is as simple as fatigue after a busy year, while for others bigger emotional issues rise to the surface. Wellington psychologist Karen Nimmo has some coping strategies to share. Christmas and the holiday season can be a stressful time for many people. For some, it is as simple as fatigue after a busy year, while for others bigger emotional issues rise to the surface. Wellington psychologist Karen Nimmo has som...

Dec 18, 201917 minEp. 118

Alcohol and the teenage brain

Brain researcher, educator and parenting commentator and educator Nathan Wallis talks to Kathryn about teenagers and drinking. He says the science is clear that alcohol damages the young brain, and he shares tips for parents guiding young people through these years. The evidence is clear on the impact alcohol has on young brains, says researcher, educator and parenting expert Nathan Wallis - it's very damaging. He says the damage is done when young drinking starts before the age of 21. Listen to...

Dec 11, 201912 minEp. 117

Why are teens partying less these days?

Today's teens are drinking less alcohol, smoking less and having less sex than 10 or 20 years ago. Dr Jude Ball has been investigating why. Over the last 20 years, teenagers have been drinking less alcohol, smoking less and having less sex. Dr Jude Ball has been investigating why. Listen to the interview here In the 1990s, teen drinking, smoking and sexual activity rose steeply, then it fell through the 2000s, Dr Ball says. When it comes to tobacco, a different attitude to smoking is the biggest...

Dec 04, 201916 minEp. 116

The good divorce: how to help children cope with a break up

Education consultant and parenting coach Joseph Driessen talks about the parental attitudes and skills that help children cope with a separation or divorce. There's no such thing as a good divorce, but it is possible for to parents navigate a divorce and avoid damaging their children, says education consultant and parenting coach Joseph Driessen. All divorce is traumatic for children, and this must be accepted as entirely natural and normal, he told Kathryn Ryan. When adults divorce, often for v...

Nov 27, 201923 minEp. 115

Glue ear and speech development

Speech and language therapist Christian Wright discusses the impact on speech development in children of glue ear. Glue ear is the build up of sticky fluid in the middle ear which can cause hearing loss. It's estimated 80 per cent of children will have had one episode of glue ear by the time they're 10 years old. Thousands of children each year have surgery, where ventilation tubes or grommets are inserted. no metadata Speech and language therapist Christian Wright discusses the impact on speech...

Nov 20, 201918 minEp. 114

What to do when your child is struggling to achieve

Educator and author Lance King has worked with tens of thousands of students, both here and overseas, and has seen a lot of children who are struggling to achieve at school or are lacking in self-confidence. His book, The Importance of Failing Well, aims to provide practical information for parents wanting to support their kids through their challenges. Educator and author Lance King has worked with tens of thousands of students, both here and overseas, and has seen a lot of children who are str...

Oct 30, 201927 minEp. 113

Moving house: the impact on children

Recent research from the University of Otago has found moving house is linked with increases in emotional and behavioural difficulties in four-year-olds. Psychologist Sarb Johal talks to Kathryn about the impact of moving home, and how parents can help. Recent research from the University of Otago has found moving house is linked with increases in emotional and behavioural difficulties in four-year-olds. Psychologist Sarb Johal talks to Kathryn about the impact of moving home, and how parents ca...

Oct 23, 201920 minEp. 112

Helping children get up and go

Education consultant and parenting coach Joseph Driessen talks about children who lack motivation and drive - what's behind this, and how can parents help them regain direction? When children lack motivation and drive, their parents can be lost as to how to help them regain direction. Education consultant and parenting coach Joseph Driessen told Kathryn Ryan that in these situations some children can be defeated by their lack of self-management, amid other possible problems like learning difficu...

Oct 16, 201922 minEp. 111

Social attachment and mental wellbeing in children

The number-one driver of mental illness is isolation, says parenting commentator and educator Nathan Wallis, therefore it's especially important for children to form healthy attachments in the first three years of life. Humans are interdependent by nature, and being socially connected gives our brain the peptides and positive hormones that it needs to stay well, Wallis says. The number-one driver of mental illness is isolation, says parenting commentator and educator Nathan Wallis, therefore it'...

Oct 09, 201920 minEp. 110

Teaching financial capability

Teaching young people how to manage money, budget and save. Auckland commerce teacher John Duston's dream is for every New Zealand teenager to be financially capable before they leave school. He's written a book - Financial Capability - which can be used as a text book, or a work book in the classroom, but it can also encourages people of all ages to think about money management. John Duston is a teacher at St Cuthbert's College in Auckland. Teaching young people how to manage money, budget and ...

Sep 25, 201923 minEp. 109

Challenging negative stereotypes of millenials to Gen Z

Youth Development lecturer Pat Bullen from the University of Auckland says all too often young people are stereotyped, stigmitised and discriminated against. Her ongoing research debunks the myth that adolescents are rude, lazy, self-entitled risk-takers who need fixing. All too often young people are stereotyped, stigmatised and discriminated against by blanket acceptance that adolescents are rude, lazy, self-entitled risk-takers who need fixing, a youth development lecturer says. Pat Bullen fr...

Sep 18, 201920 minEp. 108

Is tongue tie surgery necessary?

What is tongue tie surgery and is it needed? Wellington Speech and Language Therapist Christian Wright thinks it is being recommended in cases where it isn't needed. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details

Sep 11, 201916 minEp. 107
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