35. How to Pull Off the Perfect “First Date”

It's Only Up From Here

Feb 17, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 7

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In this enlightening episode of It's Only Up From Here, hosts Abel and Aaron dive deep into the realm of digital intimacy and the modern dating landscape. They explore the intricacies of courtship in the digital era, where first impressions often start long before the actual date via texts or online interactions.

Throughout the episode, Abel and Aaron share personal anecdotes and engage in a candid discussion about the evolution of dating from mere interactions to meaningful connections. They discuss the psychological impacts of dating apps and how digital communication has transformed the way we perceive potential partners.

From discussing the role of humor and presence in making a first date memorable to debating the nuances of how digital communication can either hinder or enhance the dating experience, this episode offers a comprehensive look at the complexities of finding love in a digitally dominated world.

Listeners are invited to reflect on their own dating experiences and consider how technology might be shaping their expectations and relationships. Abel and Aaron's dynamic exchange not only entertains but also encourages listeners to think critically about the role technology plays in their personal lives.

🕒 Key Highlights:

00:34 Welcome Back: Catching Up

02:08 Political Chaos and Sports Updates

06:18 Luka Doncic Trade Shock

13:15 The Art of the First Date

15:28 Courting Before the First Date

19:43 Selection Bias in Dating

32:39 The Anatomy of a Great First Date

36:35 Humor and Storytelling on First Dates

44:16 The Rule of Three for Dates

49:59 Charisma Types and First Dates

53:05 Terrible First Date Stories

58:38 Upcoming Wedding Plans

01:05:32 Valentine's Day Plans

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