It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain - podcast cover

It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

Sony Music Entertainmentwww.lalalaletmeexplain.com
Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise. On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions. Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for! A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain. And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
Last refreshed:
Follow this podcast in the Metacast mobile app to refresh it and see new episodes.
Download Metacast podcast app
Podcasts are better in Metacast mobile app
Don't just listen to podcasts. Learn from them with transcripts, summaries, and chapters for every episode. Skim, search, and bookmark insights. Learn more

Episodes

Are We Dating The Same Guy?: The Facebook Group We Should Be Careful Of

Ever dated someone, wondering if they're on the apps with other people, or maybe something just doesn't feel right? The Facebook group "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" is here to help, or is it? Lala discusses the pros and cons and what you should be looking out for! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertain...

Feb 05, 202424 minSeason 1Ep. 88

Megan Barton- Hanson Joins Lala To Answer Your Dating Dilemmas!

Unapologetically true to herself, Megan Barton Hanson is well-known for her 2018 stint on Love Island. Now, as an Only Fans creator and podcast host, Megan joins Lala to help answer your dating dilemmas and tells all about her biggest icks! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/po...

Feb 02, 202424 minSeason 1Ep. 87

Coregasms, Getting Back On The Dating Horse, and Sex Education

Are you trying to be a good role-model for a family member, but being shunned? Do you want to get back on the dating scene but don't know where to start? And the big question, have you ever had an orgasm whilst working out?! Lala is back with all the answers! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment ...

Jan 31, 202420 minSeason 1Ep. 86

Stephen Bear - Sex Offender, Narcissist and How The Justice System Fails Victims

Please note: this episode contains descriptions of sexual abuse Stephen Bear is a sex offender who has been released from prison after serving just 11 months of his 21 month sentence for image based sexual abuse, far less time than it took him to be convicted in the first place. Lala discusses whether justice has really been served, has the law done it's job and what the future is for perpetrators like him, and his victim Georgia Harrison. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @askl...

Jan 29, 202422 minSeason 1Ep. 85

Cowboy, Countdown and Cunnilingus icks!

This week it's the three C's of icks. AND have you dated someone that looks like he's stepped out of a 90s boyband video?! If not, count yourself lucky...this listener was not so fortunate! Lala also checks out the red flags you're just not sure on. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymus...

Jan 26, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 84

My Fiancée Is On Bumble, Feeling Worthless After Casual Sex and My Ex-Husband Is Ruining Me

Are you unsure about the actions of the man you're about to marry? Is casual sex making you feel bad? Or is your ex still trying to ruin your life? Lala is all ears and ready to help! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand...

Jan 24, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 83

Failure is not an Ick.

I’m thrilled to announce that a brand-new season of the podcast How to Fail featuring the incredible Elizabeth Day is out now! The show is about celebrating resilience, growth and the wisdom that comes from our failures. Join Elizabeth as she sits down with incredible guests, each sharing three pivotal moment when life didn’t go as planned. From these stumbles, they uncover valuable lessons that propel them forward. An Elizabeth Day and Sony Music Original Production. Find more great podcasts fr...

Jan 24, 20244 min

Virtual Rape: Abusing Artificial Intelligence to Abuse Women

Please note: This episode contains descriptions of abuse For the first time ever, the police are investigating a case of virtual rape on a young girl which took place online in the MetaVerse AKA the FUTURE of the internet. How can this happen? Why are these people doing it? And how can we protect the next generation? Over to you, Lala. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music En...

Jan 22, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 82

Insta Icks, Disney Icks and Can He Not Cross The Road Icks?

This week you lot get icky with Disney, instagram, looking both ways before you cross the road PLUS legitimately one of the ickiest icks we've ever had! Lala also tries to get her head around the red flags that have been flying high in your lives! If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainm...

Jan 19, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 81

What Age Should I Date? Moving On From Abusive Sex and Does He Love Me?

Are you having mad feelings towards someone who isn't able to reciprocate? Are you wondering what age the perfect man is?! Or are you struggling to move on from a frightening sexual experience? Lala has ALL the answers! If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcast...

Jan 17, 202423 minSeason 1Ep. 80

The Dark Side Of Paedophile Hunters

Please note: this episode contains descriptions of violence against children and human trafficking. Paedophile Hunter groups can have a positive effect on our communities, getting dangerous people off of our streets. What happens, though, when these groups are not managed properly or are even lead by dangerous people themselves? Lala discusses the true effects these untrained groups can have and how they can do more harm than good. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalaletme...

Jan 15, 202425 minSeason 1Ep. 79

Rugby Boot and Dressing Gown ICKS and He Stuffed What Inside What?!

You lot get icky about crossing the road, tuna baguettes and not enough dressing gowns in this week's Friday episode, and Lala has SOME of her own thoughts on your distress! Also Lala tests the waters on the texts you're not sure about sending. How would a f*ck boy reply? Lala's in the know! If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find m...

Jan 12, 202422 minSeason 1Ep. 78

Should I Date A Gambling Addict, Creepy Dad? and Getting Body Confidence Back

Are you feeling low about your body postpartum? Wondering whether to date a guy recovering from addiction? Or maybe you're unsure of whether to intervene with a possible safeguarding issue? Lala let's us know all her feels. If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/pod...

Jan 10, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 77

New Year..... Same You!

As we settle in to 2024, do we REALLY need to transform ourselves into someone we've never been before? Should we be setting more realistic goals to look after ourselves? Or can we put all that to one side and just be, still fabulous US! Lala has some ideas of her own! SPOILER ALERT..... YOU DO YOU BABES XOXO Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more...

Jan 08, 202420 minSeason 1Ep. 76

Trolley Coin, Adult Skateboarding Icks and Did He Literally Just Wave At Me?!

New Year....NEW ICKS! JUST because it's 2024, it doesn't mean people are less icky! In this episode Lala delves into Skateboards, Tories, LED lights and....waving! Obvs! Lala also gives her stance on the red flags you've been seeing ALL OVER THE PLACE! Is it a red flag?! You can be sure Lala will know! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great ...

Jan 05, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 75

Why Didn't He Choose Me? Can I Call Her A Slut? Your Boner Problems Answered

Is he talking with his d*ck? What's the TRUE definition of a f**k person? And WHY has he chosen to go back to the mother of his kids?! Lala answers three of your dating dilemmas as we prove that the new year does not see the back of the tricky dating scene. Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sony...

Jan 03, 202418 minSeason 1Ep. 74

Best of The Icks Part 2

It's our final Best of the Icks episode to bring in 2024 and these will keep you laughing into 2025! From sickly reactions to Lord Coldimort, repulsion from a welcomed breeze, aversions to roof racks, or sadness from stepping on a snail, buckle up for the Best of the Icks! You're welcome! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from ...

Jan 01, 202421 minSeason 1Ep. 73

Heartless Crew Join Lala For Your F**k Boy Replies

Lala is joined in the studio by the OG's of old school garage, DJ Fonti and MC Bushkin from Heartless Crew! They help Lala with your replies to those f**k people who just won't give us a break! You'll also hear a VERY special collab on the mic, exclusive to this podcast! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Enterta...

Dec 29, 202328 minSeason 1Ep. 72

Casual Sex Regrets, Neighbour Troubles and How Do I Keep My Daughter Safe?

Are you struggling with difficult conversations with your children around sex? Are you wondering how to help your neighbour in a time of need? Or has casual sex brought on more feelings than you'd like? Lala helps to answer them all! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and f...

Dec 27, 202322 minSeason 1Ep. 71

Best of The Icks Part 1

MERRY CHRISTMAS! As a little present we wanted to bring you the BEST of the Icks all in one easily accessible place for you to listen to over and over again. From dick slapping, naked panic, doubling up of words and Lala trying to bring justice to asthmatics, this episode is sure to bring a smile to you face...but don't laugh too hard as you don't want to give someone the ick! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romanti...

Dec 25, 202322 minSeason 1Ep. 70

LIVE: Redhanded x LalalaLetMeExplain - Bad Boys for Life

True Crime meets Relationship advice...It's the podcast mash-up no one saw coming! Lala joins Hannah and Suruthi from the Redhanded podcast to celebrate the Best Podcasts of the Year on Amazon Music. Recorded in front of a live audience in London they explore Hybristophilia, audience red flags and Lala shares a slightly disturbing question from a listener. Find out more about Redhanded Podcast here: https://www.instagram.com/redhandedthepod/?hl=en Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in...

Dec 22, 202332 minSeason 1Ep. 69

Inappropriate Withheld Caller, Abusive Messages and Broken Girlcode Trust

What would you do if you found out your partner is sending his ex horrible messages? How would you react to an inappropriate withheld caller? When do we need to step back from a friend that is in a messy space? Lala always nails it with her agony aunt answers! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at s...

Dec 20, 202321 minSeason 1Ep. 68

Seasonal Dating Trends: Should We Be Listening?!

Lala get's into the latest seasonal dating trends flying around our socials to find out more! Should we be taking notes, or is it just the same old dating scene?! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, ...

Dec 18, 202316 minSeason 1Ep. 67

Reindeer Antlers, On All Fours and Football Reaction Icks

Today is a festive culmination of stairs icks, pub floor icks and of course, antler icks! Lala also gets to grips with the f**k boys in your life. Yes they do NOT leave our lives just because it's the holidays! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcas...

Dec 15, 202319 minSeason 1Ep. 66

Cuddle Sessions, Opposing Views and Questionable Snapchats

Are you struggling with your friends views and opinions? Is JUST cuddling enough? Or are you in two minds whether to believe your loving partner? As ever, Lala has come to rescue us! What WOULD we do without her?! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypod...

Dec 13, 202320 minSeason 1Ep. 65

The Law Of Attraction: Can It Help You?

lifeline in the tough times, and a way to thrive in the good times. Listen for Lala's top "LOA" tales, tips and top recommendations of where you can learn more. Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, em...

Dec 11, 202323 minSeason 1Ep. 64

He Called It What?! One Kebab Barry, and Animal Photo ICKS

This week is full to the brim of cat, balloon and penis name ICKS and Lala's love for Kathy Burke! And whilst we're on the subject, if you missed Lala's podcast with lovely Kathy, what are you waiting for, go and listen back right after this episode! Lala also decides if your red flags are red flaggy or totally fine, babes! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment produ...

Dec 08, 202319 minSeason 1Ep. 63

My Friend Won't Listen To Me, Am I Enough?! and He Won't Date Me

Is your friend just not listening to you? Are YOU being messed around by your date AGAIN? Why does it seem EVERYONE is in a relationship apart from you?! Lala's back to help with all biggest dating questions! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts...

Dec 06, 202318 minSeason 1Ep. 62

The Pain Of Heartbreak: What NOT To Do

Have you ever felt like your heart is PHYSICALLY breaking after a break-up? Have you ever felt silly for feeling like this because, hey... it was only a relationship... I was only with them for 6 months... why am i not over it by now... WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?! US TOO! It's ok though, Lala's always by our side to remind us, IT'S NOT US, and we're ok! Whether you're currently going through a break up, or never got over your ex, Lala has all the answers! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Ge...

Dec 04, 202322 minSeason 1Ep. 61

Karate Kicks, Wheelie Bin Ice Baths and Slow Cooker Icks

Do you still get a 'main' present at Christmas? Would you put him in the bin for using a wheelie bin ice bath? Lala gets into your icks and decifers your red flags. Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast...

Dec 01, 202321 minSeason 1Ep. 60
For the best experience, listen in Metacast app for iOS or Android