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It's Going To Be OK

Feelings & Cowww.feelingsand.co
“It’s Going To Be OK” is a hard thing to believe given the state of, oh, everything. Many things are, in fact, not going to be okay at all. But on the advice of a wise therapist, we’re on a quest to find one okay thing about every day. Each morning, we bring you a short story, essay, or interview about one thing that makes us — or our guests — feel like it might not all be so bad ... even if some things are. Join us every morning to start your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. And share your okay thing by leaving us a voicemail at 612-568-4441 or by emailing IGTBO@feelingsand.co.
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322. Quitters Sometimes Win

An idiom Nora grew up hearing was “winners never quit, quitters never win”. It looks great on a poster in a high school, but in real life Nora has found that is simply untrue. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help y...

Jul 22, 20245 minEp. 322

321. Summer of Selfies

Every year, Nora gets on her Instagram and promotes her made up holiday: the “Summer of Selfies”. She encourages all of us to take pictures of ourselves and celebrate our beautiful faces. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thi...

Jul 19, 20245 minEp. 321

320. BFBNR

A listener named Andy shares a new acronym with us! BFBNR: boyfriend, but not really. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hosted by...

Jul 18, 20246 minEp. 320

319. Reframing Family Arguments

When you have a disagreement with a family member, or your expectations of your family fall short, it’s easy to feel stuck. But Julia Winston, the host of Refamulating, shares how she reframes her thinking in those moments. You can listen to Season 1 of Refamulating now , wherever you listen to podcasts. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of fal...

Jul 17, 20245 minEp. 319

318. Full Body Wag

We can learn so much from our dogs about how to find simple pleasures in our daily lives. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hoste...

Jul 16, 20244 minEp. 318

317. The Countdown

Some advice for when your child leaves the nest. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hosted by Nora McInerny. - Find Nora’s weekly ...

Jul 15, 20245 minEp. 317

316. Fun Mom Day

Nora is NOT a fun mom. But for one day, she tried to be. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hosted by Nora McInerny. - Find Nora’s...

Jul 12, 20245 minEp. 316

315. Righty Tighty Lefty Loosey

When life is overwhelming, sometimes a really simple mantra will get you through the tough moments. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created...

Jul 11, 20245 minEp. 315

314. TV Grandma

A listener named Sharon is trying to be a better cook, so she’s been spending a lot of time watching PBS cooking shows. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a ...

Jul 10, 20244 minEp. 314

313. The Resilience Myth

Soraya Chemaly heard her entire life that being resilient is a positive trait. But lately, she’s been questioning the toll resiliency actually takes on us. Soraya Chemaly is the author of The Resilience Myth: New thinking on grit, strength, and growth after trauma . You can hear more about her thoughts on resilience in her episode of Terrible, Thanks For Asking . _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, m...

Jul 09, 20248 minEp. 313

312. Embrace Your Un-Talents

What would you try if failure was acceptable? We hosted an Un-Talent Show on the TTFA Patreon last month, where people showcased their mediocre talents. It’s free to watch, check out the video on our Patreon page. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we...

Jul 08, 20248 minEp. 312

311. Flickering Love

After Dave lost his wife, he started getting signs that she was still looking out for him and his son. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Crea...

Jul 05, 20244 minEp. 311

310. The Rest of His Days

Losing a pet is devastating, but our listener Diane shares how she made the end of her dog’s life okay. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Cre...

Jul 04, 20246 minEp. 310

309. Glamour Shots

A listener shares a memory of one of the most exciting parts of being alive in the 1980s: GLAMOUR SHOTS. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Cr...

Jul 03, 20247 minEp. 309

308. Oil Change Babes

Producer Claire McInerny went to get her oil changed, and this routine errand turned into a delightful experience. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom ...

Jul 02, 20246 minEp. 308

307. You're Perfect

Parking lots can bring out the worst in us, but today’s okay thing comes from a listener who had a positive interaction with another driver. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day wi...

Jul 01, 20246 minEp. 307

306. Your Family Is Normal

Grab a broom because we’re making a big, sweeping generalization! Your family is normal! If you want to celebrate or learn about other “normal” families, listen to the new Feelings and Co show, Reformulating . _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll ...

Jun 28, 20247 minEp. 306

305. We Walk By the River

Poet Joy Sullivan shares a poem from her new book, Instructions For Traveling West. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hosted by N...

Jun 27, 20245 minEp. 305

304. Go To the Meeting

We here an okay thing from someone in recovery. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hosted by Nora McInerny. - Find Nora’s weekly n...

Jun 26, 20245 minEp. 304

303. Clean Sheets

Vicky called us on a Sunday to share her weekly reset routine that makes her feel accomplished and cozy at home. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom sc...

Jun 25, 20244 minEp. 303

302. Cell Memory

If you’ve ever lost someone, or are grieving, Nora wants to share some ~science~ that might make you feel more connected to your dead loved one. The TTFA Premium episode mentioned in this episode is called “ A Collection of Dead People’s Things ”. You can listen if you’re a member of our Patreon or Apple Premium (you join in your Apple podcast app). – If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things are...

Jun 24, 20246 minEp. 302

301. The Middle School Poet's Department

Nora shares some of her middle school poetry and it’s quite unhinged. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hosted by Nora McInerny. ...

Jun 21, 20246 minEp. 301

300. A Dog Named Dolly Parton

A listener shares the story of the day she met a special dog, Dolly Parton. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hosted by Nora McIn...

Jun 20, 20245 minEp. 300

299. Buy the Disco Ball

Caroline Moss shares her favorite gift she got during her divorce and why it felt more meaningful than anything else she purchased during her grief shopping sprees. Caroline Moss runs the online community Gee Thanks Just Bought It and shares tips on shopping smarter. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re br...

Jun 19, 20245 minEp. 299

298. Put a Toe In the Water

It’s intimidating to start a new hobby or do an activity you’re not *great* at. Ellen called us to share that even though she was nervous to start swimming again, she showed up. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help...

Jun 18, 20244 minEp. 298

297. Now

When Nora was about to marry her first husband Aaron, they were in the thick of his cancer treatment. So the day before the wedding, she got a small tattoo to remind her to stay in the present moment. This was an excerpt from Nora’s first book, It’s Okay To Laugh (Crying is cool, too) which is available here. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead o...

Jun 17, 20247 minEp. 297

296. The Key

The story of the most prized Father’s Day gift in Nora’s family. (It's NOT Matthew’s Dyson but that’s a close second). _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a d...

Jun 14, 20248 minEp. 296

295. Fruit Sugar Daddy

While teaching in Vietnam, Stephanie made a new friend- her neighbor Van. He offered her lots of kindness and fruit during their time as neighbors. _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your...

Jun 13, 20247 minEp. 295

294. Airport Camaraderie

Sarah called us to tell us that an okay thing happened to her in a place she least expected: the airport! _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. C...

Jun 12, 20245 minEp. 294

293. Ambition Monster

Jennifer Romolini is a writer, podcaster, recovering workaholic and author of the new book Ambition Monster . She shares some of the tips she’s learned on how to find joy when you’re wired to be THE BEST. You can read Jennifer’s substack here . _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK ...

Jun 11, 20248 minEp. 293
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