Grandparent Dynamics: Chaos in Cardigans

Family: the original reality show. In this episode, we dive headfirst into the wonderfully complicated world of family dynamics — with a special spotlight on grandparents and the many ways they show up in their grandchildren’s lives… or don’t. From loving support to unsolicited opinions, surprise boundary issues to becoming the household CEO, we unpack why some grandparents become deeply involved while others keep a noticeable distance.

Is it love? Regret? A second chance at parenting? Protecting their freedom? Emotional baggage? Boredom with excellent snacks? We share our own theories, stories, and observations about why some grandparents seem to go from retired to fully re-employed the moment grandchildren arrive — while others prefer a polite cameo appearance once a quarter.

It’s funny, honest, a little spicy, and painfully relatable for anyone who has ever heard the phrase, “Well, when I raised children…” or wondered why Nana is suddenly impossible to book.