episode 6 what is intuitive dating?

relationships, everything. So in today's episode, which is episode number six, we are going to be discussing intuitive dating, what is intuitive dating? What is the power and the advantage of intuition, in the whole crazy world of dating in this day and age. And so

let's dive in. So intuitive dating, I get a lot of clients calling me just either, you know, they've been divorced, or maybe they're in transition, or they dated this type of guy their whole life, and oh, my goodness, Kathleen, please help. I'm really wanting to, you know, really change this and really, you know, manifest a different type reality, and in my dating experience, and so that all starts within you, you got to

clean you up. First, I always say, you know, if you don't change, whether it's the beliefs, sometimes it is traumatic experiences from the past, you know, all kinds of funky conditioning that we have from growing up from those early relationships can also be major factors for most people. But once those are really cleaned up, you know, beginning to get out in the world with a new core of you know, you being really stable and solid and clear about

what you're desiring next. And then from there, being able to get clear on the essence of what you're desiring to partner with. Number one, that's very, very important. But then also, from there, when you begin to either meet people socially, or if you are doing online dating, or if you're getting set up from other people, it doesn't matter how that's all coming together,

that's fine. You just give that to the universe universe, you know, bring the right one for me, but how can I prioritize me being ready here on my side as

well. But then once you whether it's an email or meeting them, or you know, maybe going out meeting him out publicly, then it's really about, okay, how can I allow my body allow my experience with this, or how I'm feeling I know, this is not a, for a lot of people, they're so in their head, about what they're expecting what they're hoping the day, it's not going to be for most people and way more energy activated there, which is all in the way, by the

way. Um, but if you can be in a space of just feeling like, you know, maybe if it is an email, or is a picture, or you know, a dating profile, you're seeing what's that sense, okay, instead of just Oh, he looks this way. So now I'm judging that what that means, what that will equate to what that experience will be what is likely going to happen, which again, is mind, mind, mind, mind, mind, being able to say, what's the feeling of this? I don't know why, but I just feel relaxed with this

person. I just feel at ease with this person. Or maybe it's being set up, you're not seeing them at all. But when they say, you know, he's a great guy, and he is like, you know, in a space where he's ready to meet someone, and, and you hear his name, and you heard about him, and you just feel like, Huh, normally, I would say no to being set up. Or for some reason, there's an ease here, and there's a lightness in my

body that feels good. So being able to begin to just sort of allow your body to be the amazing you know, this just living it's like we're these living computer chips, guys, we have so much information within us. And and we're calculating, and yet when your body mind and soul alignment is really balanced and really well, you that's you will have more and more accurate, intuitive awareness about that. So this would be before even this is way before you even on the date. If

you choose to say yes. And then should you choose to stay us now you go on the date. So now you're in the in person experience, then it's being able to say okay, let me just relax and sort of observe and be in the experience, enjoy it, but allow my body and my experience in this to really show me what's going on. And so, you know, even though I'm happily married Now I remember back forever ago, and there was a date where somebody I had met online and then we had a phone call. And the second I

heard his voice. I just went, No, no, no, I could tell immediately. No, this is not like, No, no, it was a very, it was definitely just like, this was a friend. This was good. And I overrode it. Like, don't be mean, like, you've been chatting for a while and just go and then just honestly went downhill from there. And so even on the day, I'm just not, I'm a very transparent person. I don't hide, like, you, if I'm not liking something, I'm not there. And you'll know, it will be way

too evident. And so even driving to dinner, he was just like, you don't really want to do this. And I was like, No, I can't, like, I'm sorry, you know, I apologize, we go. And it was sort of an abrupt, you know, funky ending there. But, you know, later, I just said, you know, I'm sorry, like, we should have just been friends. It's all good. But the clarity was, as soon as I, um, even though, you know, we were chatting for a

while, and it was nice. When it got to that next level of like, okay, let's like really connect, let's talk and let's go meet, then it just shifted, where the awareness of it's not more than a friendship was like, immediate. But then what did I do, I got my head in the game began to override that. So and I know many of you are laughing or nodding your head, like, Oh my gosh, I've so done that, or I

relate to that. And, and so allowing those body cues, and sometimes it's going out, and it's just having a sense of, maybe you're aware of them kind of looking over their shoulder, checking other chicks out and, or being rude to the waitress or being like, kind of weird or, or maybe they don't tip or something like that. So those remember that first date is a microcosm of where you're going. So if there's not a lot of positive there ever is on best

behavior in the beginning. So if you're seeing any leaks there, that's usually a heads up that there's more not fun to come

from those things. So you know, and one other tip too, is really disengaging from your mind, doing your best to kind of allow and ask to be aware of what's really relevant here, what's really, you know, and if somebody asks you out, and you get a sense of, I don't know why but I just have an aversion to going that may be a heads up, please don't go like this person is not okay to be around or, or it's just not, it may end in the highlights just not appropriate

for you. But if you get a real, don't go or something's not right, please listen, that can be your angels, your guides your body, your higher self awareness, really, which really can be giving you a heads up to pay attention. So I hope this has been helpful for you. And definitely, you know, use that awareness of feeling and every relationship but definitely for dating, get clear on what you

want. clean yourself up from where you've been, so that you can be the best partner in the best match because the higher you go, the higher partner you're going to attract. So it is well worth the investment of your time and energy to be doing that. I hope this is helpful and if this has inspired you to want to learn more, please go to my website intuitive lifestyle success, calm, I've got a free activate your intuition ecourse there, there's a link right

there on the homepage. And you can also find more about private one on one coaching packages, events, all kinds of cool things coming up so that you can develop your and discover the power of intuitive development for you to feel awesome. Create sole business, cash flow, and conscious relationships success in your life. So thank you so much for being here today and be well everyone.