episode 26 Intuitive Dating In 2021

The month of relationship. And definitely appreciate all those questions that are coming in on Instagram and or you can also email those to me at five at intuitive lifestyle success calm. So today's question actually comes from Maria in Hawaii. And she is asking What does 2021 have in store for me? So the way I look at questions, and you know, most of my clients, I've never have met in person, I'm just have their name or, you know, just speaking with

them. And really when anyone is asking whether it's a super specific question, or they're telling me about something that's going on, like maybe a health issue or a relationship issue, and a dynamic like that, what I actually the way I intuitively see is one I do see color spin and a lot of different kind of non physical flows are in the matrix, if you will, that I then interpret as the health of or the kind of the vitality and the energy of what

is going on. So for you, when I look at the question, you're asking me in a general way, what it lights up is actually the third eye chakra and it's showing me especially when you're asking about the year, like what is the year have in store, what I'm shown is that there is some development happening and this energy center

for you. And so this is really, I do see that, there's a little bit of like, your confidence could be a little bit better and sort of trusting your intuition like that could definitely be a bit stronger. So I would highly encourage you to be developing that and, and really working towards that, which may be learning more about how that works. Or just, you know, doing whatever you can to be putting yourself in a place and around people and environments that are supporting you as you're

developing it. Because that sometimes can be, you know, when we're a little bit lacking confidence in our vision, or what we're wanting or just being discouraged, you know, that that's where we can be more susceptible to, you know, criticism and other people kind of discouraging us and get keeping us up past. So you want to keep positive people around you. But also, you know, doing what you can to just definitely

be building that. So things like meditation, you know, keeping a journal so that you're really you know, showing yourself that you can Intuit we all can I mean, that's really, you know, my work as an intuitive Coach is to help all of you strengthen your intuitive capacities so that you're able to, you know, constantly be flexing your own muscles and showing yourself that you can use your intuition to kind of navigate life issues and navigate, you know, what's going on, whether it's a

specific issue or just sort of having a sense that something's off because if you do, you're highly likely aware of something that that does need to be addressed. So honoring that asking for that, obviously, you know, coupling that with common sense and and reasoning. Of course, we need both sides of the brain is important. So I hope that is helpful for you, Maria, thank you so much for your question. So let's move into today is episode topic, which is of course dating,

intuitively dating and 2021. So this is something that Oh, my goodness, after 2020 and, you know, curfews and bars being closed and socially, like holy cow social nonexistence, I guess quarantining that's still ongoing. You know, this has been something that's been incredibly strange for people that are in the dating world and how on earth do we do this? We can't even see their face. We got masks on oh my goodness, like it's just sort of, you know, still a bit crazy out there in

this realm. And yet, it is possible and what I want to do and really help hopefully inspire and support is just a bit more confidence in that is it is possible but also, you know, it's nice that there's more of kind of a resuming of life. It's nice to see you know, that there are things that are opening up the vaccine is getting out there confidence to Travel will be kind of

rebuilding. And so we want to be keeping that positive momentum, to be hopeful and to staying in that positive expectation for more opportunity to be connecting to be reconnecting with others, and a new way. And so really one, you know, one tip is definitely clarifying your

priorities. And, you know, that's something that I really noticed from 2020 is just so much bs got absolutely leveled last year, and still is happening, like just really, you know, from every single app that's out there, oh, you can mean a million people you can have, you know, be all over the place that I know a lot of that still can be going on. And yet for many people, it really clarify, wait a minute, what am I doing? Like what really matters? What do I really want?

What do I what's really important here, so that simplification can be so first of all, it can recycle so much energy back to you. But it also can be really comforting of, you know, knowing that it really is possible to be connecting. And also having that time, there's so much self cultivation that's been happening in 2020. And again, still still unfolding, that people are wanting to have that sort of inner balance, and but also, who am I like, what am

I really desiring? Those are this you that's really have to know, if you're wanting a significant partner that is going to really work long term.

So So developing that clarifying what's important in that for you, and asking for, you know, what, what can you be aware of that will be, you know, assisting for you to clarify, whether it is you know, that maybe you're not ready, and you're needing to do that development time, or maybe you are and you have reservations, because of health concerns, and that, that you're obviously using common sense with testing and, and, you know, all the legal protocol that's out there,

by all means honoring all of those, but that you're also intuitively aware of, you know, where What does make sense with me being able to still be allowing my dreams to unfold, which includes a future partnership, a marriage, family, all the things that are absolutely still possible for you. So definitely keeping the faith with that, you know, trusting those that that's out there, but to is really, you know, aligning to your standard, you've got to be it to attract

it. And so this is really, you know, if anything, raising the standard, which I know, for many people, it's like lowering the standard, well, I don't want to go anywhere else, because I don't want to risk you know, I better stay with where I am, I better stay safe, you know, all of those compromising to that will compromising only creates

less, it creates contraction. So asking, you know, how can I instead be developing myself and honoring myself where I am, and, and learning everything where I am, because if you leave and you're not, you know, really at peace with where you are, it will, it will make where you're going next more complicated. So asking, you know, what can you be aligning with, but also clarifying that maybe it is time to work on or feel better about

within yourself? What are the personality, you know, aspects that could be better for you, that will help you to be a better partner, so that you're attracting a better partner, because the vibration that you're at, and where you're resonating on a really regular basis, is what you're attracting. So you want to have that core standard as high as

possible. And a lot of times what I see are, you know, clients that are, you know, they're just wanting the next and oh, I just, you know, I want this next relationship without quite cleaning up where they've been, which will then, you know, you might get kind of a mixed bag where it's a little better, but then it's still complicated.

So you're wanting to ask, you know, what can I be really clarifying in myself so that I'm only attracting what I want but I'm only attracting the good stuff and really feeling good, really, you know, feeling beautiful feeling, happy feeling, you know, the energies that you're wanting to get to you've got to embody those now. So that can be the work and and really, when you're happy and you're feeling good, and you're feeling frisky then whether the partner comes or not, you're

happy. So it really isn't for you know, a lot of times we're just holding out for that result. Instead of really enjoying like, Hey, I'm just loving life and loving me and the Partners the icing on the cake, I'm the love, and that but that's wonderful and that can come in and we can generate more together but your, you know, you loving you, you being connected to all parts of you, that's where it can be, you know, the highest probability for a

successful match. That's, that's what you're wanting to hold on to. And then three is definitely, you know, trusting your desire, like, you know, really that intuitive timing of, you know, maybe it is time to step back and just cultivate within and trust that I don't feel comfortable yet. You know, I know many of you it's, there's a lot of trepidation to travel at all, or be out at all, and that's okay, that's, that's where you are honor that fully,

for sure. And then there's others that are feeling, you know, I think with being smart, and of course, acknowledging protocol of everything, that it is okay to be, you know, connecting and, or just developing friendships or zoom, you know, zoom coffee, zoom wine, and, and that you are still building, you know, that connection and understanding someone to potentially, you

know, meet in the future. And so trusting, trusting that trusting what you know, that your desire for living together, or a family in the future is absolutely possible. And that you can be, you know, again, and the energy today, or clarifying from where you've been to now, so that that can be building and, you know, flowing towards you. So those are really the top ones I know, for so many, it's kind of, I want this to be done, I want everything that's going on and

COVID to be done. And then I'll get to relationship and it's, you know, this is obviously left its mark where, you know, I'm really astounded, like, even with small children and how, you know, all the conditioning to germs and not touching and being so careful and, and how that's going to affect like, future connection, future touch, you know, even you know, as this does subside, as we do, you know, move through the vaccination and, quote, restoring the new normalcy, I

guess, is what you would call it, like, what does that mean for how we will interact? Or do we not ever handshake again, is this now, you know, the new no touch air bomb, you know, world of how we connect non physically. And so that really

is interesting. And to me, that's really opened up this question of non physical connection that, you know, as I've used the example of, you know, soldiers that are on duty, like, they're still totally connected with their wives, they're still, you know, it's not the same Of course of being in person, but it can that non physical connection at non physical, you know, desire to be together to be resonating with each other, that really can build, you can strengthen that.

And so whether it's just as relationships, or Well, you know, right now, it's mostly distance relationships, even people that are together living in the same area, I have, you know, many clients not comfortable to, to be together or ones in, you know, many or I have several clients that are in medical, and they have, you know, strong, strong protocol of, you know, having to just be sterile, to do their job and, and, and feel comfortable around

family and others. And so, you know, that's, that's a lot, that's a huge responsibility. And yet it can be can be possible. So keeping the faith and doing your best to, you know, maintain that core peace, that core happiness and positive expectation for things to get

easier. And to be building into, you know, more and hopefully, as soon as possible, that we can be shaking hands and hugging and, you know, together again, comfortably in a relaxed way, and that's definitely a vision I'm holding for the future, but also, that everything is stabilizing that our economy stabilizing, that, you know, small businesses can sustain and, and keep flowing and, and, and that all of the aspects of between the health and government in all of these, you

know, surrounding supports can can really have a harmony together for us to really continue in a way that is peaceful, that is balanced, that is generating an an even more mindful and conscious future, because that really is possible.

So definitely, you know, if this podcast has inspired you, I invite you to possibly work privately with me or hopefully I'm holding vision and positive aspect For hopefully a retreat coming together by the end of 2021 but more information about all of that can be found on my website at intuitive lifestyle success calm, but I want to thank you all so much for today and definitely you know, keep the faith be happy and be well