Welcome back to The Intimacy Advisor Podcast! We can safely say, variety is everywhere between the walls of Lover's Lane, and we have a little something for everyone! After being away for only a month, so many new toys are always arriving! We stopped in to a location to get recommendations on 9 new products that are Romance Specialist approved, and you can hear all about them here! Shop online at Lover's Lane through this link . See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Aug 28, 2023•33 min•Season 3Ep. 94
Here's the latest, greatest, and most explosive toys you can play with in the bedroom! Join us exploring ten different toy and lube categories to find new novelties for just you or to share with a partner. Bonus points if you try a few together! Shop new toys and other products at Lover's Lane here ! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 03, 2023•30 min•Season 3Ep. 93
Happy Pride, Intimacy Advisor family! As we celebrate Pride 2023, join us discussing when is right to come out, and the change in your sense of self. Let's take a look at terms which define the difference between sex, gender, and gender identity. We also have a moment of discussing tolerance between those learning new terms in which the community is changing and evolving. Check out new LGBTQA+ friendly toys here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Jun 19, 2023•22 min•Season 3Ep. 93
Introducing (finally!) - Uberrime! This Orlando-made product is crafted with love, skill, and hand-poured silicone. Making dildos and tentacles alike with different textures than the average insertable toy, you'll see upon first sight and touch why they're so loved. Check out Uberrime here . Shop Lover's Lane's collection of insertable toys here . See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
May 29, 2023•22 min•Season 3Ep. 92
If you're looking to give in to relaxation and want the same for your partner, this is the episode for you! Let's take the first and most important step to intimacy: relaxation. When the body is relaxed and the mind shuts down, we can have a deeper physical connection. In this episode we mention Le Wand, which you can shop for here . Happy massaging! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
May 15, 2023•26 min•Season 3Ep. 91
April showers are here! I mean, really here, in the bedroom and all! Don't dry off inside, head to the bedroom instead with the toy picks from Episode 90 of The Intimacy Advisor Podcast. In this episode, we take a look at what squirt really is and take a peak at some popular products that need a "Caution: Can Be Wet" sign. Enjoy! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 24, 2023•25 min•Season 3Ep. 90
From toys to lubes to outfits...what tools are going to benefit your Intimate Toolbox the most? And which toys and products are worth trying (or at least keeping on hand?) Join us on The Intimacy Advisor Podcast to learn our Intimate tricks up our sleeve to have romantic, kinky, and passion-building nights in. You can shop at LoversLane.com to build your own Intimate Toolbox ! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Apr 10, 2023•32 min•Season 3Ep. 89
Welcome to the Intimacy Advisor Podcast, Dr. Megan Fleming! In this episode, Dr. Megan Fleming joins us to take a look at a new lubricant, Beloved, created for comfort with nourishing and balancing ingredients that we should look for in a good intimate serum as a tool to our love-making toolbox. Check out Beloved at Lover's Lane here! Read more about Dr. Megan Fleming here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Mar 27, 2023•22 min•Season 3Ep. 88
Take it from us, talking dirty isn't always an easy task in the bedroom. And when you're put on the spot with your partner quick to say "talk dirty to me..." you don't want to freeze up. So how do you think quick on your feet and give them a sexy conversation that won't be a flop? And how do you shake the awkwardness of trying dirty talk for the first time? Join us on this episode for tips and tricks for the bedroom speech class you didn't know you needed. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy...
Mar 12, 2023•24 min•Season 3Ep. 87
If you have a curious mind or are looking to continue experimenting in the bedroom, this episode is for you! Let's take a dive at different roles, themes and products we offer at Lover's Lane in our BDSM department. What suits you best? Try some role play on for size in episode 86 of The Intimacy Advisor Podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 25, 2023•21 min•Season 3Ep. 86
Happy Valentine's Day here from Lover's Lane! It's the most lovely time of the year, so let's take the stress out of finding your love a gift this holiday and hear about our best toys and outfits to celebrate February 14. In this episode, we talk about best selling vibes for couples, air pulsating toys, how to dress up sexy for your partner (and yourself!), and we even dive in to some little "love taps" if you will aka floggers, paddles, and crops! If you're looking for plans this weekend or nex...
Feb 09, 2023•42 min•Season 3Ep. 85
Valentine's Day is just around the corner! The holiday of showing love to your special someone deserves no gift less than our Love Collections! Join Haley for an in-depth look at each of our 6 Love Kits and other suggestions for this Valentine's Day to make your night unforgettable. Shop our selection of Love Kits with this link! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Jan 26, 2023•33 min•Season 3Ep. 84
Bring on 2023! What resolutions or lifestyle changes are you bringing to the table this year? At Lover's Lane, Sex Drive and The Intimacy Advisor Podcast and Blog... we're all looking for hotter sex! If that means new toys, more free time, deeper connection, or all the above, have a listen to Episode 83 to ring in the New Year with a resolution you won't want to throw away a few weeks in! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Jan 12, 2023•25 min•Season 3Ep. 83
Welcome back to Season 3 of The Intimacy Advisor blog with your new (old) host, Haley! Today we're talking what new products made their way to our top 10 picks of 2022 and what old products were so good...that they're STILL on that list. Check out our number one pick at Lover's Lane right here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Dec 29, 2022•30 min•Season 3Ep. 82
Today's episode wraps up Season 2 of Intimacy Advisor Podcast!! This year, we've covered everything from awakening your arousal and the joys of 69 to femme dominance and ways to spruce up date night! This episode brings it all together with exercises and activities you can return to again and again whenever you need a boost of confidence, or encouragement to connect with your most authentic, sexy self. Intimacy Advisor Podcast is brought to you by Lover's Lane We are planning an extended hiatus....
Sep 25, 2022•23 min•Ep. 81
What does hearing what your partner likes, neck kisses, and eye contact all have in common? They're all on the list of top 10 turn-ons! Want to up your game? Reignite the spark with a special someone? Become a more attentive lover? This episode covers the do's and don'ts of turning on your partner. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 15, 2022•21 min•Ep. 80
We've been holding onto your questions for this very moment! Labor Day marks the end of summer for many of us and in the spirit of back to school, Sarah answers listeners questions. How do you turn your partner up if their nipples are too sensitive? What do you do if you get close, oh so close, to orgasm but can't bring it home to the finish line? What if you're partner really wants to explore prostate play but you're embarrassed because you've never done it before? Get answers to these question...
Sep 05, 2022•28 min•Ep. 79
Happy A n a l August, lovers! No topic is taboo here at Intimacy Advisor and booty play shouldn’t be either. If you haven’t ventured to the backdoor yet, you are missing out. This episode covers everything you need to know to get the most pleasure out of your a n a l adventures, including safety. Learn why lube is your booty’s BFF, which toys and techniques are best for getting started, and, of course, the best ways to satisfy those thousands of juicy nerve endings. Intimacy Advisor is brought t...
Aug 25, 2022•32 min•Ep. 78
When was the last time you revisited your solo play technique? Are you relying on the same hand trick from high school? Have you burnt out your vibrator from using it on high for too many years to count? Join Intimacy Advisor host, Sarah TomTom, for a solo play makeover, including techniques, tricks and products you are sure to have never come up with on your own! Intimacy Advisor is brought to you by Lover's Lane . You can find all of the products listed on this weeks show... Waterslyde Fun Fac...
Aug 15, 2022•26 min•Ep. 77
Have you been binging How to Build a Sex Room on Netlfix? In this week’s episode, Sarah breaks down celebrity designer Melanie Rose’s approach and how you can adopt it to YOUR space. No need to remodel your home! Sarah gives you activities for discovering your sex style and everything you need to make your very own sex room. Intimacy Advisor Podcast is brought to you by Lover's Lane. Visit the Links below for everything you need to outfit your very own sex room! Little Bag of Tricks Sex Furnitur...
Aug 05, 2022•25 min•Ep. 76
Happy National BDSM Day! BDSM is a highly creative kind of play with limitless possibilities. This episode celebrates the different flavors of Kink. Learn the definitions and differences of Kink, BDsM and Fetish play. We will cover negotiation, play and aftercare practices for ensuring safety and maintaining consent. Sarah also explores ways to expand your vocabulary of touch, talk and tools on any budget. Midway through the episode, you'll discover a few scenarios to get you started on your kin...
Jul 25, 2022•36 min•Ep. 75
On this week's episode, Sarah drops a ton of knob knowledge...From satisfying hand techniques and how to create firmer, more sensitive erections to flaccid play and the squeeze method for delaying ejaculation! Also discover which toys are best for oral sex and hand jobs. This episode covers some pleasure anatomy, if it leaves you wanting more visit episode 61 for a full pleasure-based anatomy lesson. Intimacy Advisor Pod is brought to you by Lover's Lane . See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy...
Jul 15, 2022•28 min•Ep. 74
Tis the season for hitting the beach, the road, and all locations near and far. But, what toys do you bring?? Sarah covers the most discreet and compact products that pack a punch to liven up your adventures, as well as the newest innovations that will guarantee your sexcapades are as luxurious as your trip. Whether you've got vacation on the calendar or on your mind, you do not want to miss out on these must-have travel-friendly toy recs! You can find all of your intimate product needs at Lover...
Jul 05, 2022•25 min•Ep. 73
Getting in touch with what you want – what you actually want – is incredibly empowering! But, where do you start? Sarah takes listeners through a simple process for naming your desires and putting action towards them. Using tools like the Feelings Wheel and the Desire Map simplifies what may otherwise feel like a daunting process. Now it’s just up to you to go after your desires with wild abandon! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Jun 25, 2022•23 min•Ep. 72
Curious about mutual pleasure with your partner? Expanding your penetrative play options? Exploring new power dynamics with your partner/s? Then strap-on play is for you! Many people get discouraged or intimidated by the gear, which is why Sarah is breaking down all of the basics for you - choosing your equipment, the ways to have the most control over your harness and dildo and fun tips and tricks for enhancing pleasure for both partners. If you're looking for product recs, here are some mentio...
Jun 15, 2022•27 min•Ep. 71
Happy Pride! In this episode, Sarah nerds out on the history of the term queer, how it reflects the versatility, resilience and inability to be confined by labels of the LGBTQIA+ community, and why she loves the term so much. For anyone looking for a quick queer history lesson to kick off Pride month, interested to learn how the term became reclaimed as a badge of honor, or queer curious - this episode is for you. Enjoy! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Jun 05, 2022•17 min•Ep. 70
This week we are celebrating our 69th episode by giving some love to the much talked (and snickered) about sex position! 69ing is an act of mutual pleasure dating back to the Kama Sutra. Sarah shares a little history about the clever naming of the position as well as tips for maximizing comfort and pleasure for both partners! Thank you for listening and supporting Intimacy Advisor 💗 Intimacy Advisor Podcast is presented by Lover's Lane . All products mentioned in this episode can be found here:...
May 25, 2022•24 min•Ep. 67
It can be intimidating to talk to your kids about S-E-X! Where do you start? What do you say? How do you know what's age appropriate? In this week's episode, Sarah breaks down some helpful tips for laying the foundation of open communication with your kids. Establishing bodily autonomy, setting and respecting boundaries (the cornerstone of consent), naming our bits, and how to work through roadblocks when they come up. Sarah also shares a fun game you can play with your little ones that she borr...
May 15, 2022•26 min•Ep. 68
Traditionally, feminine people are type cast as submissives. But, what if subverting traditional power dynamics ignites your desire and makes you feel sexually empowered? This episode is a love letter to anyone whose been called bossy as an insult. We will explore how to tap into your authentic erotic self, wherever you find yourself on the dominant to submissive spectrum. If you're inspired by this episode to explore kink, you can find all of your kinky gear and tools at www.loverslane.com See ...
May 05, 2022•27 min•Ep. 67
This week on Intimacy Advisor Sarah fields listener questions. How can I make my girlfriend come? What other positions can I explore if I love being on top? I can’t get off. Help! We’re talking sex toys, vulva massage, the wonders of the clit, nipple play, sex positions, erotic breath and more! Lover's Lane carries every product mentioned on the show, and more! Nos Vibrating Cockring Vedo Overdrive Vibrating Cockring Small, Powerful Handheld Vibrator Snug Plug Weighted Butt Plug Body-Safe Lubric...
Apr 25, 2022•23 min•Ep. 66
