On this episode I speak with Andrea Werhun, writer of the Modern Whore, a book nearly as difficult to describe in few words as its author—from sassy to sentimental, poetic to smutty, this girl will make you believe in the church of feminine sexuality and having you begging for communion. Andrea opens up about her personal life as a segue to writing the book, having had a shame-free entry into online porn from an early age and discovering her sexuality, to posting nudes online that later haunted ...
Mar 04, 2019•52 min
On this episode I speak with Evguenia from Spirit Sex Lab, a sexual healing, book writing, sex educating, polyamorous, kink and sex party tour guide giving, spiritual healing, and energy orgasm giving bundle of a human. You’ll get an earful of tantric, spiritual, sexiness and more…maybe a transcendental orgasm. Evguenia shares in the Eastern Bloc sex shaming that repressed her many kinks to those unconscious recesses that eventually found a way to express themselves much later in life, into a bl...
Feb 25, 2019•57 min
This is part 2 of the interview with Jacqui Childs, we continue from our previous discussion and dive into the darkness of her past (CW: rape, suicidal ideation) where you get to hear the human side of a brand called Jacqui Childs…but what happens when the human side feeds the trolls, the creepers, the fanatics? We talk about the ups and downs of social media, microdosing, and overcoming the past. In part two of the interview we continue where we left off last time, just about to get into Jacqui...
Feb 18, 2019•48 min
On this episode I speak with Jacqui Childs—social media influencer, cannabis activist, model, naked news anchor, sex positive human, best-selling author, and an overall do-whatever-she-wants badass!You’re not even ready to hear this episode…grab a pipe and a drink, find your favourite chair, and prepare to have your mind blown. This is only part one of a two part interview, so get ready for a listenathon, an auditorgy, an eargasm that will leave you wanting more, you insatiable pervs. Jacqui Chi...
Feb 09, 2019•52 min
On this episode I speak with fellow Podcaster Erin Pim of The Bed Post Podcast and Bed Post Sex Show about Catholic schoolgirl shame, Barbie doll menstruation humiliation, slut therapy, Pro Domme’ing wrist deep in butts, and double fisting, because…why not? Erin digs deep into her childhood sex shame and early dom/sub dynamics with Barbie, and needing to put Ken in his place. These experiences later blossomed into the wonderful sex positive, poly fam embracing, sweet-eyed-husband-having Erin Pim...
Feb 04, 2019•56 min
On this episode I speak with Cecilia Morrell, a young and determined woman who embraces sex positivity in so many forms, from doing web camming, modelling, naked news, working at a sex club, and of course, as the title states, doing porn. Cecilia discusses her very early introduction into the sex positive communities, attending Oasis Aqualounge on her 19th birthday to have her first drink at a sex club, which she eventually ended up working at as an Aquaflirt. She discusses the frustrations of c...
Jan 27, 2019•53 min
On this episode I speak with Brett Nails, a former escort, webcam model, custom video producer, and overall gratuitous slut who shares his multifarious and exciting experiences without compromise, guilt, shame, or reservations. Brett talks frankly about his early sexual experiences, the kinks and fetishes that emerged throughout his budding sexuality, and how those experiences shaped the variety of interests he has pursued. He discusses having been a blunt slut in early adulthood, moving into es...
Jan 13, 2019•59 min
On this episode I speak with Elva, who shares her experiences of slowly emerging out of her shell from an environment of sex negativity and her need to destroy her former self in order to find authenticity and create the life she wants to live. Elva discusses having been brought up in a religious and cultural environment that made her feel ashamed about her desires, pushed her to conform, get married, only to finally come to a breaking point and force a change through affairs and infidelity, eff...
Jan 06, 2019•59 min
On this episode I speak with Hailey and Chris, a couple who share their experiences of having come from very different backgrounds, ethnically, culturally, and geographically, and have endured different forms of adversity that have strengthened them and brought them together to share their joy of liberation and sex positivity. If you want to hear what strength over adversity sounds like, listen to Hailey’s story of overcoming cancer and thereafter using that experience to take charge of her body...
Dec 30, 2018•1 hr 2 min
On this episode Alice takes us down her academic S&M rabbit hole where she discusses her work in women’s studies on the phenomenology of sadomasochism. Through the academic discussion we find incredible humour, playfulness, some seriousness, and even an uncompromising ethics. Alice discusses her academic writing and her thesis that the taboo of sadomasochism derives from the existence of latent sociopolitical power relations that are made visible through the exercise of S&M. She argues t...
Dec 16, 2018•1 hr 13 min
On this episode I speak with Amy and Rob, a polyamorous couple who work together in a sex club and have quite a few stories about navigating their relationships, how they were introduced into the sex positive communities, and the fun and messy parts of working in a sex club. Amy and Rob share their stories with us about being initiated into the sex positive communities through relationships with interesting and caring people they’ve met early on in their lives. They’ve been in the communities fo...
Dec 09, 2018•1 hr 12 min
On this episode I speak with Kit, a creative mixed bag of wonder, from being a daddy, a little, a dominatrix, kitty, web cam model, burlesque performer, masseuse, and spiritualist, to an overall fun and loving human who isn’t shy to talk about their multifarious identities and experiences. Kit opens up about some serious issues as well, like rape and mental health, and how these experiences have shaped who they have become, where they found strength in adversity, and how they’ve managed to overc...
Nov 30, 2018•1 hr
On this episode I speak with Ace Allure, a professional tease, event coordinator and aquaflirt at Oasis Aqualounge, and burlesque performer, who opens up about how she became involved with the sex positive communities from an early age and what these experiences have helped her discover. Ace discusses her work and what she does at Oasis, the events she runs and participates in, and how her work helps fulfill the ever growing list of kinks she’s developed and discovered. She talks about her early...
Nov 25, 2018•58 min
On this episode I speak with Ashley, a webcam model, rope bottom, and overall kinky and sex positive human, who talks about her experiences entering into kink and bondage, and mastering sexual self-control through edging and periodic abstinence. Ashley talks about her early desires to be bound and restrained and how these manifested into her life almost by chance. She discusses how she found out about rope bottoming and what the experience was like for her. She talks about her work as a webcam m...
Nov 17, 2018•54 min
On this episode I speak with Pandora, a book keeper and personal trainer who has spent much of her life denying her polyamorous inclinations for the sake of satisfying the norms she grew up with surrounding love, sex, and pleasure. Pandora opens up about her experiences having been married and monogamous for most of her life, and having felt that she fundamentally denied her deeper desires to explore her sexuality, sex, pleasure, and the liberty to love multiple people. She examines the norms an...
Nov 09, 2018•53 min
On this episode I speak with Lauren, an artist who crafts leatherwear, performs burlesque, is involved with the burning man community, and navigates the sometimes murky waters of poly, kink, and BDSM. Lauren talk to us about her work, what she enjoys most about creating, both in her workshop and on stage, and how her artistic life intersects with the sex positive communities. She examines the sometimes unpleasant aspects of navigating poly, kink, and BDSM, and opens up about how poor consent and...
Nov 05, 2018•52 min
On this episode I speak with Kat, an academic and sex therapist who offers some insight into why sex positivity is important for her, and how it helped shape her career choice and relationships. Kat discusses her academic and personal interests in polyamory, kink, and BDSM, although given her profession as a sex therapist, she ends up mostly questioning me. We discuss the nuances of polyamory and how it plays out in relationships, how people turn to polyamory as an independent choice and how som...
Oct 26, 2018•1 hr 2 min
On this episode I speak with Dave and Gary, two cis men who cohabitate and have navigated the sex positive communities together to learn new things about themselves. Dave and Gary speak about their entry into the sex positive communities, their experiences navigating different aspects of these communities and how they have learned, broadened their perspectives, and experimented to discover what felt right for them. We get Gary’s perspective as a monogamous person on his understanding of polyamor...
Oct 19, 2018•1 hr 3 min
On this episode I speak with Lewis, a fellow academic and professor, who opens up about how he navigates polyamory, kink and bdsm, with some academic nuances. Lewis discusses how he discovered non-monogamy fairly late in his life despite a persisting notion that monogamy never truly captured his way of being, dating back to high school. He dives deeply into his experiences, feelings, and pivotal moments that have shaped the way he now understands relationships, sex, and most of all himself. Lewi...
Oct 15, 2018•1 hr 10 min
On this episode I talk with Eugene and Alexis, a married couple from Toronto, about what it's like to have a marriage and participate in the poly and kink communities, and how to navigate relationship communication about sex with others. Eugene and Alexis open up about their first sexual experiences, how they met, and eventually got married, and how their sluttiness developed communally as an activity that brought them even closer together. They discuss what it’s like to be married and play with...
Oct 04, 2018•1 hr 1 min
On this episode I speak with Greg and Edith about their relationship as polyamorists, their former marriages, and how they envision a future for poly folks. Greg and Edith open up about their former relationships, having been married and monogamous, and how their divorces led them to seek other opportunities in the sex positive and poly communities. They discuss their first date at Oasis Aqualounge, and how that first experience led them to form a relationship where they seek to explore their he...
Oct 03, 2018•54 min
On this episode I chat with Lilly, a Swedish ballerina, who emigrated to Toronto and discovered her kinks and fetishes in the process. She takes us through her experiences and how she navigates all her intersecting dynamics. Lilly discusses how she became a “kinky, polyamorous, slut” after a Tinder date in Toronto. How a kink/fetish test awakened her interest in BDSM and moved her interests away from vanilla sex. She captures the nuances of polyamoury from her experiences and relationships, and ...
Sep 26, 2018•54 min
On this episode I speak with Nick about monogamy, and why it sometimes fails, how he discovered polyamory and came out, and we discuss some issues of consent. Nick gives us the lowdown on having been married for 17 years, having a child, and then realizing that monogamy did not work for him. He opens up about the difficulties of transitioning from monogamy to polyamory and the sense of relief at having discovered a space to feel good, physically and emotionally. He talks about his experience com...
Sep 24, 2018•1 hr 4 min
On this episode I speak with Cupcake, a human from Toronto who shares some insights on the experiences, dynamics, and politics of being in polyamorous relationships. Cupcake delivers a very well versed understanding of polyamorous relationships, from her experiences, readings, and having been around a diverse array of poly folks. She displays some of the communication techniques that are especially valued in the poly community, from being open minded, honest, critical, and unassuming. In this wa...
Sep 23, 2018•1 hr 6 min
On the first ever episode of intellectual erection, I interview Toronto based webcam model Vixen Vu about her experiences with pornography, web cam modelling, sex, kink, bdsm, and relationships. Vixen Vu talks about what it’s like to play with herself on camera, how she got into the industry, what her kinks and fetishes are, and where all this sex originated from in her life. She also discusses what it’s like to be polyamorous, the liberating and enjoyable aspects of her romantic relationships, ...
Sep 14, 2018•44 min
