If you don't know who you truly are, the essence of what defines you, then good luck! A broken identity is a broken life. Be an Esther and win back your husband when you embrace the truth of being a child of the King. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your com...
Sep 11, 2020•28 min•Ep. 628
One of the glaring omissions in the book of Esther is God. Yes, you are reading this correctly! We do not know who wrote the book of Esther. If you read it, you are not going to read about God. Fact-check me on this one. The rest of my notes are in the VIP Inner Circle membership . 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley (me), a growing library of videos, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community o...
Sep 10, 2020•19 min
Welcome to Be an Esther and Win Back Your Husband online experience! It is an honor to be part of your journey in winning back the heart of your husband. I want to share something important straight away, which may come as a shock to you……... I am not a woman. Phew! Got that off my chest! The rest of my notes are in the VIP Inner Circle membership . 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley (me), a growing library of videos, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your co...
Sep 09, 2020•15 min
You know that thing you swore you'd never do because of how much you were hurt by it from your parents? Today we learn how to stop doing it ourselves. The rest of my notes are in the VIP Inner Circle membership . 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley (me), a growing library of videos, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the rela...
Sep 07, 2020•26 min•Ep. 627
For real! You might be unaware of a force hell-bent on destroying your family. The VIP Inner Circle membership brings you 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a growing library of videos, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/#section-1597255271154...
Sep 04, 2020•58 min•Ep. 626
What's the source of your failed attempts at turning your relationship and life around? A curse or a consequence? Listen and find out. The VIP Inner Circle membership brings you 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a growing library of videos, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. https://www.smalleyin...
Sep 03, 2020•22 min•Ep. 625
If we claim to follow Jesus, this command is unavoidable and perhaps the most important one! The VIP Inner Circle membership brings you 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a growing library of videos, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/#section-1597255271154...
Sep 02, 2020•16 min•Ep. 624
What are the CHOICES we make leading to a miserable life and how do we solve it?
Sep 01, 2020•13 min•Ep. 623
How on earth can your selfishness ever contribute to the happiness of other people? If you want the rest of my notes for this podcast, the downloads mentioned, and more importantly, weekly support and encouragement for your deepest relationship dreams. Join the VIP Inner Circle today! Change is a process and takes time, a VIP Inner Circle membership is the process and allows you the time to build the relationship you want. START NOW https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/#section-1597255271154...
Aug 31, 2020•16 min•Ep. 622
It's a moment I'll never forget, still one of the most embarrassing, humiliating experiences haunting me to this day. If you want the rest of my notes for this podcast, the downloads mentioned, and more importantly, weekly support and encouragement for your deepest relationship dreams. Join the VIP Inner Circle today! Change is a process and takes time, a VIP Inner Circle membership is the process and allows you the time to build the relationship you want. START NOW https://www.smalleyinstitute....
Aug 28, 2020•22 min•Ep. 621
At 18-years-old God broke me of the worst sin of all! If you want the rest of my notes for this podcast, the downloads mentioned, and more importantly, weekly support and encouragement for your deepest relationship struggles...join the VIP Inner Circle today! Change is a process and takes time, a VIP Inner Circle membership is the process and allows you the time to build the life and relationship you want. START NOW https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/#section-1597255271154...
Aug 27, 2020•13 min•Ep. 620
It was war and a threat to my life and the risk, eternal separation from God! If you want the rest of my notes for this podcast, the downloads mentioned, and more importantly, weekly support and encouragement for your deepest relationship struggles...join the VIP Inner Circle today! Change is a process and takes time, a VIP Inner Circle membership is the process and allows you the time to build the life and relationship you want. START NOW https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip-inner-circle...
Aug 26, 2020•11 min•Ep. 619
Mark and Christine thought it would be a great idea, and they were wrong! What did they do, and how did it end? If you want the rest of my notes for this podcast, and any downloads mentioned, more importantly, weekly support and encouragement for your deepest relationship struggles...join the VIP Inner Circle today! Change is a process and takes time, a VIP Inner Circle membership is the process and allows you the time to build the life and relationship you want. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com...
Aug 25, 2020•15 min•Ep. 618
Choice. Believe it or not, you always have a choice. Even when it involves joy in hurtful or difficult circumstances. Learn how to choose joy today! If you want the rest of my notes for this podcast, the downloads mentioned, and more importantly, weekly support and encouragement for your deepest relationship struggles...join the VIP Inner Circle today! Change is a process and takes time, a VIP Inner Circle membership is the process and allows you the time to build the life and relationship you w...
Aug 24, 2020•18 min•Ep. 617
Taking your marriage to the next level requires something of you, discover what that something is today! If you want the rest of my notes for this podcast, the downloads mentioned, and more importantly, weekly support and encouragement for your deepest relationship struggles...join the VIP Inner Circle today! Change is a process and takes time, a VIP Inner Circle membership is the process and allows you the time to build the life and relationship you want. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/#secti...
Aug 21, 2020•22 min•Ep. 616
Today is about joy. I bet you did not see this coming! Your relationship can feel scary at times. Are we going to make it? Is he/she ever going to change? Will I survive my current circumstances? Where does your joy, confidence, security, satisfaction, calm-in-the-storm come from? Read more at www.smalleyinstitute.com If you want the rest of my notes for this podcast, the downloads mentioned, and more importantly, weekly support and encouragement for your deepest relationship struggles...join th...
Aug 20, 2020•29 min•Ep. 615
John's been a bad boy! He's allowed something destructive into his mind, but today we learn how to get rid of it! Would you like ongoing support and encouragement for your relationship? Join the VIP Inner Circle today! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip-inner-circle
Aug 19, 2020•17 min•Ep. 614
"The most important thing in life is to stop saying 'I wish' and start saying 'I will.' Consider nothing impossible, then treat possibilities as probabilities." Charles Dickens wrote that, and this week you are about to learn the most important strategy for your relationship to succeed. Before you become flooded, and incapable of loving each other well, take a Sacred Pause. It's really the only way you can get through difficult conversations and come out closer than ever. Get personal help for y...
Aug 18, 2020•16 min•Ep. 613
The Urban Dictionary defines repulsive as, "Something or someone that is gross and provokes disgust; disgusting." Let me ask you something, is this your goal each day you wake up lying next to the person you chose to spend the rest of your life together? Join the VIP Inner Circle and get personal coaching live throughout the week! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip-inner-circle
Aug 17, 2020•14 min•Ep. 612
When is the last time you heard, "You never do anything! I have to do everything around here!" Or at least some version of an irritated, angry, frustrated, overwhelmed, or disgusting statement of fact leaving you feeling like a failure or judged. Today, together, we are going to eliminate this kind of hullabaloo. Get the help you deserve, become a VIP Inner Circle member today! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip-inner-circle...
Aug 14, 2020•10 min•Ep. 611
Join the movement! Become a VIP Inner Circle member today and get the help you need for the marriage you want. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip-inner-circle
Aug 13, 2020•14 min•Ep. 610
In a six-year longitudinal study performed by John Gottman and Sybil Carrère, they discovered that they could predict the likelihood of a couple’s divorce by observing just the first three minutes of a conflict discussion. Join the VIP Inner Circle: https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip-inner-circle for daily live Q&A with me!
Aug 12, 2020•15 min•Ep. 609
The joy of difficult conversations will lead you to the marriage you want. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/the-joy-of-difficult-conversations
Aug 11, 2020•19 min•Ep. 608
Today we learn how to have a difficult conversation. You’re going to learn about, wait for it, cue the dramatic music...the the soft start-up. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/how-to-have-a-difficult-conversation
Aug 10, 2020•11 min•Ep. 607
I’m continuing in the series, The Warriors Marriage, today is perhaps the simplest concept and the hardest way to be a warrior in your marriage. Your marriage is hard, circumstances seem impossible, now get over it.
Aug 04, 2020•20 min•Ep. 606
Today is the 2nd part of my series on the warrior’s marriage, and you’re not going to like it...well...you’ll eventually like it but first I have to shove a few things down your throat for a second, maybe a minute. “Welcome to the Inspiritaitonal Comedy podcast with Michael Smalley, learning doesn’t have to be boring!” https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/weapons-of-mass-destruction-the-warrior-s-marriage-part-2...
Jul 27, 2020•12 min•Ep. 605
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Jul 23, 2020•3 min•Ep. 604
All the notes and extra goodies available on this podcast episodes page: https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/the-warriors-marriage-part-one Who are you? Developing a powerful sense of your identity.
Jul 20, 2020•25 min•Ep. 397
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May 20, 2020•8 min•Ep. 395
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May 19, 2020•8 min•Ep. 394
