The first step in letting go in love is identifying the actual problem or issue you need to release...and there are three ways you handle it causing chaos in your life! 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more . https://www.smalley...
Apr 22, 2021•36 min•Ep. 688
Today’s show features professor Kris DeJeet as he joins me for the second episode in Release, the power, and freedom of letting go in love. Why is today important? As you’ll hear, what other choice do you have when life becomes overwhelmingly miserable. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more . https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip Are you struggling in your marriage with... Difficulty communicating and asserting your ne...
Mar 30, 2021•42 min•Ep. 687
The first of a new series I'm calling ¡Release! It is one of the most fundamental things we have to learn to do in our relationships...but most of us want nothing to do with it! Instead of deeply connecting with our partner we choose to behave in ways that only sabotage our deepest need - to feel connected and loved. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more . https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip Are you struggling in you...
Mar 19, 2021•34 min•Ep. 686
Ever been in a no-win scenario in life? You feel the loss of control and nothing you do can make the pain stop? Me too! I've got friend, pastor, and psychology professor Stew Grant on the show! Don't miss it! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your p...
Mar 08, 2021•38 min•Ep. 685
My friend and colleague sent me a devotional he wrote for himself. I knew instantly it would bless anyone willing to listen and believe! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/a-devotion-about-trust
Jan 08, 2021•14 min•Ep. 684
The conversation I overheard this morning upset me so much I finally had to record again!
Jan 06, 2021•15 min•Ep. 683
Challenge accepted! One word can make all the difference in the world to your relationship! For the notes and more, https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/what-is-one-word-that-can-change-my-marriage
Dec 15, 2020•12 min•Ep. 682
You need to hear this one! Gaslighting, laziness, and more can be dealt with if you are willing to do what works! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/how-do-i-stay-with-a-miserable-spouse
Dec 14, 2020•13 min•Ep. 681
The final strategy may be (ok...it is!) the best part of the entire Unbreakable series! Now don't mess it up.
Dec 10, 2020•19 min•Ep. 680
You are in a precarious position, things are getting better, but... Now is the time to rebuild friendship and lean into your new normal.
Dec 09, 2020•22 min•Ep. 679
You need to know the right questions to ask and answer because the wrong questions will lead you down a path of destruction!
Dec 08, 2020•25 min•Ep. 678
If you feel betrayed in your relationship then follow these steps and wait for the miracle!
Dec 07, 2020•27 min•Ep. 677
Here's what you have to do to have a chance at reconciliation after a traumatic wound.
Dec 04, 2020•18 min•Ep. 676
Any type of betrayal can cause emotional distress, but you might experience lingering trauma when someone you depend on to respect your needs and generally help safeguard your well-being violates the trust you’ve placed in them. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/unbreakable-wounds-vs-betrayal
Dec 03, 2020•25 min•Ep. 675
The thing you want most from your spouse is often what is broken the most! Trust. A new series is about to start, Unbreakable, Three Proven Strategies to Overcome Hurt, Betrayal, and Broken Promises So You Can Trust Again!
Dec 02, 2020•5 min•Ep. 674
An answer to the question, "Where do you get help when the only reason you are still married is that 1) divorce is too expensive, and 2) homicide is illegal. (No, this is not a prank question. The only reason I have stayed this long is the above. I have gotten some really bad advice over the years, most of it from 'Christian counselors' and clergy.)"
Dec 01, 2020•18 min•Ep. 673
A special interview with Jeff Reeter! Countless books focus on leadership. Numerous podcasts and TedTalks speak about leading others, leading organizations, developing leaders, and so on. But before you can lead others well, much less discover real success or leave a legacy that others will remember you for, you must first learn to lead yourself.
Nov 25, 2020•36 min•Ep. 672
A deep question and an answer needing to be heard! 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip
Nov 16, 2020•19 min•Ep. 671
As always, there is something you need to ask yourself first. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip
Nov 13, 2020•13 min•Ep. 670
Just because your wife didn't get the grand gesture of love... 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip
Nov 12, 2020•13 min•Ep. 669
You may not be a rule breaker...until you watch this! And learn how to actually calm down someone you've offended. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip...
Nov 11, 2020•12 min•Ep. 668
This question was meant to be! While putting my notes together my wife did something that totally set me up to negative belief her to death! 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more .
Nov 10, 2020•15 min•Ep. 667
The guy asked the question! You can't blame me for the answer. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more .
Nov 09, 2020•13 min•Ep. 666
The answer that launched a thousand ships, filled by men, all asking the same question. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to ...
Nov 06, 2020•15 min•Ep. 665
"How much should I ask about an adulterous relationship that has ended?" If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationshi...
Nov 05, 2020•13 min•Ep. 664
"Sexless marriage. How can a spouse deal with this when they are not willing to talk about it and not willing to go to counseling? Married 9 years, no intimacy in over 4 years, and maybe 20 times in the other 5 years." If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your co...
Nov 04, 2020•18 min•Ep. 663
If the word "submit" sparks a firestorm of negative emotions, then you really need to watch this one! If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as y...
Nov 03, 2020•11 min•Ep. 662
Gentleman, you better be doing these three things or you are missing out! If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationsh...
Nov 02, 2020•14 min•Ep. 661
It has to stop if it is true. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Lear...
Oct 30, 2020•16 min•Ep. 660
It saddens me to answer this question. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Cir...
Oct 29, 2020•16 min•Ep. 659
