S5 Ep44: Breakups: Why They Suck & How to Cope (According to Science)

The Hoes are all together to discuss breakups, why they freakin’ suck, and how to deal with them.
Bae(s) of The Week: @randybaby11
Hoe(s) of the Week: @giveherthephd24, @thatsdifferenttye, Emensa, @king_himself, @90skindofworld, @itstarekali, @Alicia_flower_child, Ophellia, Jolana W, Kwetz

Self Care Tips:  Stop editing yourself to fit another persons narrative. It’ll make you bitter, especially if they don’t notice it. 
Cute Date Idea: Hit up a Botanical Garden
Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Break Ups, How to cope with them (get the fuck over them) and Why they suck

Points of discussion include: Why break ups suck, according to science
The Stages of a Breakup and how to process
The additional level of trauma with breakups that involve cheating 
How to get to know yourself again after a break up

Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rodecka tells us about how her ain’t shit ex cheated, gas light her, and general behaved like a dispicable human being. 

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RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
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Break Up Articles
https://www.inverse.com/article/31463-love-addiction-science-antilove-drug
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5378292/
https://www.pnas.org/content/pnas/108/15/6270.full.pdf
https://lifehacker.com/the-science-behind-why-breakups-suck-and-what-you-can-1460495310
https://drsoph.com/blog/2018/8/2/the-very-real-pain-of-breakups-why-they-hurt-so-badly-and-what-you-can-do-about-it
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MUSIC
 Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by
  Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa

Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR
End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co

ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Retracts-all-the-positive-things-she’s-ever-said about-Bryce-Samantha
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