The hoes chat about Ramadan for queer muslims, venturing into the wonderful world of Only Fans, sex affirmations, harmful LGBTQIA healthcare legislation, when grief and horniness collide, porn binges, safe guarding our mental and physical health while on the frontlines of that Rona, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Chlotown Brown (Cholotown Brown), Stin K (Stinka), @IG_Hoodgoddess (Hood Goddess), Nigerian Hair (Camille), Tawiwi and Martini (Tawanna and Martina), Marissa L (Zoom), Monica P (Bil...
Apr 29, 2020•52 min•Season 6Ep. 16
The hoes chat about conspiracy theories, sex work during the pandemic, MTV Cribs virtual dates, opening up about mental health in your relationship, sheltering in place with toxic family members, quaranting with your partner, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Briana (Ballsanna), Jason (Vorheezy), Aurien ( an AUROAA ?! ), Shaun (Tell All), Melini, Martini, Tougher than Nigerian Hair, Dr. E, Earlini, and Tawiwi! And Sweepstakes winner Diana Diaz! Bae of the Week/Self Care Tip: Check out journalis...
Apr 15, 2020•59 min•Season 6Ep. 15
The hoes talk about about the FDA ban on blood donations from men who have sex with men, the sweetest virtual date, navigating solo sex while your home with kids, dickheads on dating apps, how to get over ghosting, de-attaching yourself from dick, the beauty of volunteering and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Adaeze (Amethyst), Camillion here camillion there tougher than Nigerian hair Rosemary (Pink Diamond), Jordan (23), Tawiwi, Martini, Tina Belcher, Ray and Ash (aka Chuck and Pikachu), and Chr...
Apr 08, 2020•53 min•Season 6Ep. 14
The Hoes talk about how to have sex during a pandemic, the beauty of masturbation, virtual drink and draw dates, how to get out of your head during sex, fulfilling your civic duty, a 2 year anniversary of abstinence, nonconsensual edging and much more. Hoe(s) of the Week: T Ray Ray (Terell), K - 1 Visa (Kaeli), Dimitri! (Marble), DWHOSED?! (Dara), Tawiwi (Tawanna), Mont-gizzy! (AL), and Martini (Matrina) Self Care Tip: If you live in the US, fill out your census. Fuck That (Currents Events): A d...
Apr 01, 2020•1 hr 5 min•Season 6Ep. 13
The hoes chat about sex trafficking and sex work….theres a big difference and its important that you understand that, social distancing dance parties and karaoke sessions, lost your job during COVID-19 -- we can relate, pandemic dating SUCKS, sex robots are the PERFECT quarantine buddies, THE FUTURE of romance, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: AL (Mont-gizzy), Erika (Eazzzzzzy), Karla (K- 2 Visa) Self Care Tip: Dance! Here are some instagram accounts to follow who host virtual dance parties: @...
Mar 25, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Season 6Ep. 12
Check out The Suga, a new podcast from Stitcher! Actress, model, and producer Tika Sumpter and award-winning digital business leader Thai Randolph are teaming together to create a space for modern moms of color. A celebration of sisterhood and motherhood, The Suga is a safe space where moms, moms-to-be, and those undecided can laugh, learn, and love on each other as they navigate life. Listen now in your favorite podcast app!
Mar 23, 2020•6 min
The hoes talk about about managing coronavirus related anxiety, Good sex positive legislation in the US, glass dildos, intimate partner violence in the times of COVID-19, cute social distancing dates, job hunting as a gen Zer, and more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Tia (Tina Belcher), Samantha (Scaff Beezy), Jenn (Kylo Jenn) Camillion here tougher than nigerian hair (aka Camille), Devon (Nightwing), plus Martini, Tawiwi, and Earlini Self Care Tip: The four step guide to managing corona virus related anxi...
Mar 18, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Season 6Ep. 11
The Hoes talk about love (or lack there of) in the time of coronavirus, Cute dates to commemorate Women’s History Month, what do when you’re looking for a third but you kinda hate all the people your partner wants to court, finding sex positive friends when you’re over the age of 50, the beauty of gay parties, and more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Melyssa D - (Mel D), Ophelia K (OK-K-K-AYYYYYY), Sarah (Saturday Night Sarah), T-Ray Ray, Argent (Sargent B!), Charmayne (Charmizzy), Sid (Sid the Kid), Earli...
Mar 11, 2020•1 hr 12 min•Season 6Ep. 10
The hoes talk about the importance of a solo bae-cation, dealing with the stigma of an HSV-2 or a genital herpes diagnosis, cocktails and coffee dates, AND we finally answer the age old question — how much are you motherf*ckers really paying for dates? Hoe(s) of the Week: Caroline (Timb Cackalacky), Kaeli (K - 1 Visa), Karla (K - 2 Visa), Golden Ambre (The bawdy), Tawiwi, Martini, Mel Lady (Melini), and Earline (Earliny). Self Care Tip: Schedule a bae cation with yourself (inspired by @danielleg...
Mar 04, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Season 6Ep. 9
The hoes chat about teen parents and the NYC board of education, when your adult child tells you they want to become a porn star, cute dates for artsy people, plus we answer the age old question — Are there any decent, single, non-homophobic straight men??? Hoe(s) of the Week: Eddy R (Double D), Gustavo M. (Gus Fring), R.D. Lang (The Supreme), Jas (Jazz Hand) Fuck That (Currents Events): The NY department of education’s new initiative to build lactation rooms in schools for teen parents PLUS a b...
Feb 26, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Season 6Ep. 8
The hoes chat about expressing gratitude, Zaya Wade, puberty blockers and the mental healths of young trans kids, what to do when your date robs a bank, what to do when the comedy show date turns dark, dealing with jealousy, finding your g-spot and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Tawanna (aka Tawee-wee), Matina (aka Martini), Tamaj (aka Panini), BigEYEKnows All (#MustStayWoke...niggas creepin), Camillion Here Camillion There Tougher than Nigerian Hair, T Ray Ray, Vana Rosas Aguirre (aka Bad Bitch...
Feb 19, 2020•1 hr 1 min•Season 6Ep. 7
The hoes chat about how to ghost and let people know you’re only DTF with care , the new bill thats been introduced in congress to study the safety of sex workers, dating people who complain TOO fucking much, biphobia, battling back against self deprecation PLUS we watch some awful porn together. Hoe(s) of the Week: Camille (aka Camillion here Camillion there tougher than Nigerian hair) and Sydnee D (aka Syd Deez Nutz) Self Care Tip: Check out @whatswrongwithmollymargaret on Instagram for textin...
Feb 12, 2020•1 hr 5 min•Season 6Ep. 6
The hoes chat about the life and times of Bayard Rustin -- the Black gay civil rights leader who went to jail 70 years ago kinda just for being gay, cute dates for film nerds and history buffs, how rape culture hurts men, sexuality and anti-depressants, sexuality, weight, face sitting and body image, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Terrell J (tee ray ray), Raymah, Ash, and Tawanna, & Dyme 203 Fuck That (Currents Events): California lawmakers ask Governor Newsome to posthumously pardon gay...
Feb 05, 2020•1 hr•Season 6Ep. 5
The hoes chat about how folks in 2020 are defining and navigating political beliefs on dating apps, shame and nuanced approaches to dating, losing friendships after pregnancy, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Emeka and Danielle E. Self Care Tip: A reminder: Be gentle with yourself. Fuck That (Currents Events): How dating app users are considering their personal politics when it comes to finding potential partners. Topics Include: Tinder, OK Cupid, Climate Change, and Sam’s deep personal shame....
Jan 29, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Season 6Ep. 4
The Hoes chat about why you don’t need to stay hard for 4 hours, how antiquated ideas about sex and sexuality hurt da boys, the new Netflix film about a Black Cam Girl in the early 90s, group sex, and shitting yo pants. Hoe(s) of the Week: Kitty L and Amber R. Self Care Tip: Manage your expectations Fuck That (Currents Events): The man who took bull stimulant to stay hard and the new book that reveals some obvious truths about what sex, love, and dating means to young men. Viagra, erections, the...
Jan 22, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Season 6Ep. 3
The hoes chat about sleep, the young Black sex trafficking victim who’s facing life in prison for killing her trafficker, nude models and body shapes, dating while misanthrope, and PoliDICKZ aka your run down where the candidates stand on sexuality and gender. Hoe(s) of the Week: Tamika and Elizabeth Self Care Tip: Akua gives tips on how to improve the amount and quality of sleep that you’re getting Fuck That (Currents Events): Justice for Child Sex Trafficking victim facing life in prison for k...
Jan 15, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Season 6Ep. 2
Happy New Year! The hoes chat about porn watching habits of 2019, media literacy, Butt Stuff, Anti-depressants and sex, the Get Sam’s Groove Back Challenge and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: @Wowow_vanaa and all the signal boosting homies, Our Patrons, Alia Sterns, Yewande A. Whitley H, Alicia T, and Kyrstal C Self Care Tip: Practice Lateral Reading, Media Literacy and Fact Checking Fuck That (Currents Events): PornHubs annual user data round up and Vice’s annual “what people are putting in thei...
Jan 08, 2020•1 hr 14 min•Season 6Ep. 1
The hoes do a deep dive on what sex, love, and dating has looked like in 2000s and the 2010 and predict what’s to cum in the 2020s. Bae(s) of The Week: Sam’s Fav Podcasts Podcasts you should listen while we are on break: QueerWOC, BagLadiez, Marsha’s Plate, Tea with Queen and J, A Little Juju Podcast, Ms. Vixen, Man Up, Flash Forward, The Black Guy Who Tips, Sexually Liberated Woman, 1619 Project, Stush an’ Bush, Not Yet & In Those Genes Hoe(s) of the Week: Everyone who made this season poss...
Dec 05, 2019•1 hr 38 min•Season 5Ep. 59
Two Spirit Trans Femme Indigenous Rock Star Quiahuitl Villegas joins IHU to talk about growing up queer and punk, having a spiritual gender awakening, reconnecting with indigenous roots, Traditional Afro Latinx Music and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: @turtlexxo, veryone who wished us happy bidet; Angela D, NCSD Folks (Lakita, Leandrea, Matt, David, Desiree), PLUS Sophia and Chloe and Annie, and all of our new listeners Self Care Tips: Flex & strengthen your introspection muscle Cute Date Id...
Nov 27, 2019•1 hr 41 min•Season 5Ep. 58
Scientist, Youtuber, Intersex person, and Gayest of all Gays, Babalwa Mtshawu joins Akua and Sam to discuss her journey being an Intersex queer person living in South Africa First, Sam and Akua give some intersex 101, including definitions, condition descriptions, and misconceptions. Points of interview discussion include: Discovering that you are intersex, South Africa Khossa, Family dynamics, Coerced Intersex surgery, Androgen insensitivity syndrome, The Medical Industry and surgeons, Menopaus...
Nov 22, 2019•1 hr 47 min•Season 5Ep. 57
Note: The guest of this episode now goes by Arrows Fitz and uses he/him/they/them pronouns. Filmmaker, model, and Youtuber Ari Fitz joins IHU to talk about their gender journey to coming out as non-binary, growing up queer, sex on reality TV, navigating accountability on twitter ad much more! Bae(s) of The Week: INNER HOE UPRISING! Hoe(s) of the Week: Lucky W, Whitney, Tamika C. Self Care Tips: Have monthly check in’s with yourself and your partner(s) Cute Date Idea: Make weighted blankets toget...
Nov 13, 2019•1 hr 52 min•Season 5Ep. 56
The Hoes chat about science baes, getting away in nature, seasonal affective disorder, anti-depressants and sex drive, hiring a sex worker, body hair, coming out to your child, virginity pacts, and more! Bae(s) of The Week: @lab_shennanigans & Dr. Nadya Mason Hoe(s) of the Week: Happy Birthday Tamika C! & Kai P, Kitty L, ImSoLovelee, Ashlee Blackwell & Xavier G Self Care Tips: Akua gives some tips on how to help combat seasonal affective disorder Cute Date Idea: Go for a getaway in n...
Nov 06, 2019•1 hr 28 min•Season 5Ep. 55
On the eve of Halloween Afrofuturist, Scholar, Visual Artist and Ultimate Philly Jawn Zalika U. Ibaorimi joins Rebecca and Sam to discuss horror, technology, Afro Surrealism, sexuality, Christianity and much more! This is the part in our #OccultOctober series Bae(s) of The Week: @thouartanuli and @kieraplease and special shout out to @mototcityprettycreative Hoe(s) of the Week: @Wittywit & Jasmine MP Self Care Tips: Take a Kink Test With your partner. & If you’re broke stay your ass at h...
Oct 30, 2019•1 hr 47 min•Season 5Ep. 54
Filmmaker, Goth/punk bad ass and Horror film connoisseur Monika Estrella Negra joins Sam to talk about the intersections of Black Womanhood, Queerness & Horror. Bae(s) of The Week: @AmorousEbony Hoe(s) of the Week: Waciuma Maina, Mel Lady, Gustavo Self Care Tips: Take a Self Care Quiz Cute Date Idea: Attend a mixology class with bae Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Filmmaker and Horror film expert Monika Estrella Negra and Sam speak about the horror genre from the lens of Black Queer Womanhood. P...
Oct 24, 2019•1 hr 34 min•Season 5Ep. 53
Akua and Sam give you a quick rundown of Horror film genres to prep you for todays episode “Black Women are THEE Final Girls” with Monika Estrella Nega.
Oct 24, 2019•37 min•Season 5Ep. 52
Witch, Cunty Conjurer, and podcaster Juju Bae joins Rob and Sam to talk about all things at the intersections of African Traditional Religion and sex. Bae(s) of The Week: Shelly Ann Fraser Pryce, Simone Biles, and Allyson Felix Hoe(s) of the Week: October Sex Trivia Attendees Cute Date Idea: Try on Halloween Costumes Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Juju Bae joins the hoes to talk about Hoodoo, Ifa, and sex, love, and dating thru the lens of spirituality. Points of Discussion include: African Traditi...
Oct 16, 2019•1 hr 45 min•Season 5Ep. 51
On a very spooky episode of Inner Hoe Uprising all four hosts come together over a metaphorical campfire to trade hoe-rror stories. Think “Lore” meets “Are You Afraid of the Dark” meets hoe-tales. Bae(s) of The Week: The Carnival KVNG @omgitsalphie Hoe(s) of the Week: Samantha B., Carla P., Melissa C., Aida J., Chris J., Carly & LoveAlwaysANg Self Care Tips: Make your house (or room or sleeping space) a home Cute Date Idea: Hit up The Worst Case Scenario Experience in Philly or hit up a surv...
Oct 10, 2019•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 50
Rob and a Sick Sam are together to chat about navigating trauma in relationships, dating burn out, solo polyamory, getting ghosted and more! Bae(s) of The Week: Roselyn of Loving Solo Hoe(s) of the Week: Lis20182019, Zuri Love, & @S_Hero4Hir Self Care Tips: Get comfortable with discomfort Cute Date Idea: have a chilli making competition Fuck That (Currents Events): Is there a Gay Gene? Fuck Me (Our Lives): ROB Self Doubt and Negativity in a Relationship How to Vent to your partner Going thru...
Oct 02, 2019•1 hr 39 min•Season 5Ep. 49
Journalist, Activist, and Sex Worker N’Jalia Rhee aka The Blasian Bytch joins the hoes to discuss life after a coma, the pressure to go into vanilla work, pro-sex worker activism, race, gender, ethnicity and size in sex work and much more! Bae(s) of The Week: The FDNY woman graduates Hoe(s) of the Week: Yewande A., Anna T. Christina C. Zeziljah P. Lakisha W, Samantha B, Carala P V, & Melissa C Self Care Tips: Ground. Yourself with a non-fiction novel Cute Date Idea: Plan each others thrifted...
Sep 26, 2019•1 hr 31 min•Season 5Ep. 47
Your Big Titty Goth JoyFriend This week Zuri Love -- a Black non-binary goth nerdy babe chats with Akua and Sam about escorting, full service sex work, companionship, and other forms of sex work. Bae(s) of The Week: Marquise Wilson Hoe(s) of the Week: Vicki W, Carly, Jason G, Destiny E, Rosemary & KWezt, Tampa Hoes Notorious Vick, The Lone Ranger, Clit tv, and our potential people from Virginia, @daninicole, @_dooleynoted_, @NikaMiraEst, @HighQPersephone (asha), djyellabone, Joi_not_joi, Ims...
Sep 11, 2019•1 hr 14 min•Season 5Ep. 46
