Feminista Jones joins Akua & Sam to talk about kink, race, patriarchy, sexuality, and the historic and cultural complexities of being an African American woman into BDSM. She also tells us about her upcoming book “Reclaiming Our Space: How Black Feminists Are Changing the World from the Tweets to the Streets”. Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Points of Discussion include: discovering the difference between bottoming and being a sub, patriarchal norms influencing views on d/s relationships, person...
Dec 19, 2018•1 hr 4 min•Season 5Ep. 14
Akua & Sam answer listener letters! Bae(s) of The Week: @itsashforde & @dapperpenniless Hoe(s) of the Week: Leigh Ashley (PAH), Katherine Wood, Oleaser, Graberuh, Shaheen W, and the sex trivia attendees Self Care Tips: Reenforce your boundaries with yourself, Swap your ACV toner with Rose Water, Reminder that it’s cool to be a work in progress Fuck You (Your Lives): We answer your listener letters. Topics Include: How to navigate BDSM communities as a virgin? Cuckquean tools Do not liste...
Dec 05, 2018•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 13
Akua, Sam, & Rebecca are at Wig Crucifix Studios to workshop Sams love life, talk about a recent break up, and lament over closed strip clubs. Bae(s) of The Week: @shezuschrist, Who Tells the Story of our Future Panel, The Podcast Baddie Brigade, Black femmes at Werk It, and BRUHMove + LuvStory Hoe(s) of the Week: @ogStefani, @princeshortyfly, Aly Lew Self Care Tips: How To Take Care of Yourself During the Holidays: 1. Reenforce your boundaries 2. Take care of yourself 3. Remove yourself fro...
Nov 28, 2018•1 hr 39 min•Season 5Ep. 12
Sexual Health Educators Omotayo, Janelle, and Alex join IHU live to talk about how to hoe safely. This episode was recorded live at the Not Yet Series’ Sex Positivity Showcase TOPICS INCLUDE: What’s the difference between STI’s and STD’s, How long should you wait to have Sex after STI treatment? Re-Testing, Anti-biotic Resistant Gonorrhea, What are the most common kinds of STIs? Mycoplasma Genitalium is a thing, How often should you be getting tested?Sight specific STIs and testing, Can you get ...
Nov 21, 2018•1 hr 26 min•Season 5Ep. 11
Graduate student in biology, Anna, joins Akua & Sam to talk about what its like dating and learning while being a black woman in the realm of STEM academia. Bae(s) of The Week: Kym Oliver and Olajumoke 'Jay' Abdullahi Hoe(s) of the Week: David M, Leigh Ashley & Sydney C. Self Care Tips: Sam’s 4 C’s of Anxiety Coping Mechanisms: CBD Oil, Cold Brew, Consuming the News while Working out & Calling on your Ancestors. Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Guest Anna discusses sex, love, and dating w...
Nov 16, 2018•1 hr 47 min•Season 5Ep. 10
Rob & Sam shoot the shit on what's going on in Robs life overseas. Points of Discussion include: Garbage communication skills in men, issues communicating about sex, When your new partner triggers thoughts about your old partner, institutionalized relationships, entering into a poly relationship with another non binary baddie, sexual assault classes in the military, finding feminists in the military, Robs to do list when they return home, memes, rob-eoke, being brolic, recycled nudes, Robs s...
Nov 08, 2018•40 min•Season 5Ep. 9
Virtual Reality Artist Leah joins Akua & Sam to discuss her art lab Motherlode and their work in VR sex education. Bae(s) of The Week: Riesling Wine, Money & Nikeeta (QueerWoc), Diamond Stylz (Marsha’s Plate) Hoe(s) of the Week: Meghan C, Molly D, Diamond Stylz, Sidney M, Julia C, Natalie, and Everyone who came to the Halloween Bash! Self Care Tips: Listen to QueerWOC the podcast Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Leah Roh of the AR/VR/3D Art Lab Motherlode talks to IHU about sex ed in virtual ...
Oct 31, 2018•1 hr 19 min•Season 5Ep. 8
Fanna and Amie of Raseriet join IHU to discuss feminism, anti racism, and life as black woman living in Northern Europe. Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Raseriet podcast, Race relations in Sweden, Elections, The Nazi Political Party, racial violence. Svart Kvinna Instagram account and book, micro aggressions, creating safe spaces for black women in Sweden, White “Allies,” How cold is Sweden?, being the only black person in your village, Season Affective Disorder, “Hoes Don’t Get Cold,” being tokeniz...
Oct 24, 2018•1 hr 7 min•Season 5Ep. 7
Tori of Phi Nu Kappa Sorority Inc joins Akua and Sam to discuss what its like to be apart of a LGBTQ non collegiate Greek organization Bae(s) of The Week: Kayvis D, Hilary J, Jay H, Yewande A, Latinos who Lunch. and Latinos Out Loud Hoe(s) of the Week: Inner Hoe Uprising Self Care Tips: Delete what doesn’t serve you and consume things that make you feel good. Fuck It (Topic of the Day): LGBT Sorority and Fraternity Organizations with Tori Kendall. Points of Discussion Include: Phi Nu Kappa Soror...
Oct 17, 2018•1 hr 12 min•Season 5Ep. 6
Akua & Sam talk about depression, waiting 10 hours for dick, alcohol and sexual assault, sex while grieving, fucking in college and much more! Bae(s) of The Week: Scottie Beam Hoe(s) of the Week: J., Alia Sterns, Aria, Surya A, Eye Sore, Sammy Bryant, & Shanell E. Self Care Tips: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Here are some resources that might be useful to survivors and loved ones of survivors. Recognizing Intimate Partner Violence: https://everydayfeminism.com/2014/12/re...
Oct 10, 2018•1 hr 53 min•Season 5Ep. 5
Phone Sex Operator and founder of Hoe University Tay Footman joins Sam and Rebecca to discuss founding a company that aims to train folks in becoming phone sex operators. Bae(s) of The Week: Megan Thee Stallion Hoe(s) of the Week: Britt, Feminist Fatal, & Aly Lew Self Care Tips: Free Condom Finder Websites Courtesy of Britt https://npin.cdc.gov/widgets/condomfinder/#/ https://save.lovetoknow.com/Get Free Condoms for Teenagers_Online https://www.teensource.org/condoms/free https://knowyo.org/...
Oct 04, 2018•1 hr 18 min•Season 5Ep. 4
Sam, Akua, and Rodecka unpack queerness, talk about the rising STD rates in America, chat about religious f*ckboys, and more! Bae(s) of The Week: Whoreible Decisions, Vagesteem, CUNTCAST, TheSexually Liberated Woman, Kinks with Keke, The Hoe Phase, CockTales, Sexual Flavas Hoe(s) of the Week: Stephanie H, Kiara Sylvester, Patrice Peck, The Sex Expo Attendees Self Care Tips: Diet Culture is a capitalist scam that you don’t have to buy into to be happy or sexy Find out your Arousal Type Fuck That ...
Sep 26, 2018•1 hr 45 min•Season 5Ep. 3
Cuckquean Shayna joins Akua & Sam to talk about the sexual excitement of watching your partner f*ck someone else. Bae(s) of The Week: Janelle & Omotayo of Sippin & Spillin, Molly of Cup Queens, Ryan of Healthyish, Faye of Ryan Health Network, & Jasmine of Waysted Studio Love & Light: Londonn Moore Kinard, Sasha Garden, Celine Walker, Antonia English, Cathalina Christina James & Vanity Hoe(s) of the Week: Prisma, Ashley, imari, Amani, Danny & Cleo Self Care Tips: Set a...
Sep 19, 2018•1 hr 26 min•Season 5Ep. 2
The Hoes are back from summer vacation! Bae(s) of The Week: Y’lan Noel & the hosts of Marsha’s Plate Hoe(s) of the Week: Gee-Laurie H., Meira H, Calvin Pierce Jr, Addie & Anna, Monique, & Tayo Self Care Tips: Take a MF break when you need to. Fuck Me (Our Lives): Vacationing with bae, getting laid off, fucking an old crush, trauma, and hoeing in the DR Other topics discussed include: Insatiable, academia, Insecure, Pose & American Horror Story HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #...
Sep 12, 2018•1 hr 21 min•Season 5Ep. 1
Sam pops in with an update on the Hoes RODECKA ON EXPLAINED Catch Rodecka’s Cameo on Netflix’s Explained episode “The Female Orgasm” INSECURE SUNDAYS AT LUV STORY Sundays at 9PM-12AM at 894 Wyckoff Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11237 SIPPIN AND SPILLIN: UNCUFFIN SZN Catch Sam Moderating a discussion of masturbation and heath sexuality The purpose of Sippin’ & Spillin’ is to create a safe space for women of color to empower themselves to take control of their sexual health. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/s...
Aug 23, 2018•9 min•Season 4Ep. 30
The Hoes are going on vacation for the rest of the summer! Here’s one last hoorah before we return in September. Bae(s) of The Week: Tasia Morgan & Sis We Eatin Hoe(s) of the Week: Everyone who attended Inner Hoe Uprising Day & Night, Tea with queen and J, Bag Ladiez, Perfect Kast, We Come from Queens, Enter the Minds Fuck water, Uberlube, Lelo, Funky Junk Wipes, Jae walk Jewels, Estephanie, Emojibator, Babeland, @dashketchum, @ a real gi, Mistress Thick, Siku, Jasmine, Spinelli, BostonC...
Aug 09, 2018•1 hr 7 min•Season 4Ep. 29
A panel of black masculine folks of size discuss sex, love, and dating while being a “big n*gga” Bae of the Week; Ruby Johnson and PolyDallas Millennium Hoes of the week: Dea W., Madison P., Antionne M, Anna N., Kia, Amelia H., Calvin Pierce Jr, Jasmyn Elliott, Opulence Abundance,TWQJ, We Come From Queens, Enter Tha Minds, Bag Ladies, The Perfect Kast, & @Amani Richardson Selfcare tip of the Week: Massage your back with a Softball Fuck It (Topic of the Day): growing up big, growing up to be ...
Aug 02, 2018•1 hr 36 min•Season 4Ep. 28
Jimmy Hill, CEO and Founder of Xrysalis, an annual gathering created by and for Queer, Transgender, and Intersex People of Color joins Akua and Sam to discuss the importance of cultivating queer black healing spaces. Points of Discussion Include: Cultivating spaces outside of the white gaze, bridging gaps between queer black people, black tokenism in white activist spaces, what to do when restorative events are over, the importance of nature in healing spaces, public nudity, meditation, yoga, an...
Jul 19, 2018•53 min•Season 4Ep. 27
Rob chats with Sam about securing the bag, being brolic, when your career field is hella white, hella male and hella racist, wanting to be courted, falling in love with the idea of a person, hot and cold lovers, a lack of feminists in the military, teaching people about your identities, and more! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. Inner Hoe Uprising Day & Night Party (July 28, 2018): $20 for ...
Jul 11, 2018•23 min•Season 4Ep. 26
Rodecka, Akua, and Sam discuss emotional labor, summertime horniness, 3 date rules, falling victim to ghosting & more! Bae(s) of The Week: Janicia & Queen Hoe(s) of the Week: Dea W, Rianne, E.L Smith McPetty, Addie A., Kia, Tandrea, Kellik Dawson, RubyWrites, Feminist Fatal Bossier Mag Self Care Tips: Sit with your emotions — name and claim them. Take up space verbally and physically and don’t feel shame in doing so Fuck Me (Our Lives): falling off your diet, doing emotional labor at wor...
Jun 28, 2018•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 25
Our first Rob minisode! Rob chats with Sam about being transgender in the military, fasting during Ramadan, military hoe-ing, tinder in Germany and more! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. SOCIAL MEDIA Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: InnerHoeUprisin Rob | Personal IG: @panafrican.bootyscratcher | Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god WEBSITE InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A BI...
Jun 19, 2018•16 min•Season 4Ep. 23
A round table discussion with 4 fat femmes on the intersection of being a person of size, as it pertains to sex, love, dating, and romance. Bae(s) of The Week: Bag Ladies, We Come From Queens, & J Hoe(s) of the Week: Love Fanatic, Lidia B, Virginia C, Becky C, Gloria B, Lindsey B, & Taylor Jordan Holmes Self Care Tips: Tips for thigh chafing Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A round table discussion with Rebecca, Siku, Diamond & Fees about intersection of being a fat femme, sex, love, dati...
Jun 14, 2018•1 hr 30 min•Season 4Ep. 22
The Hoes talk ugliness, International Sex Worker’s Day, Cuckqueaning, being naked, courting, homie-hopping, resenting an ex and more! Bae(s) of The Week: Rihanna Hoe(s) of the Week: Ayanna C. & deadbinch Poly Dallas Millennium Winners: TexanCaliGirl, Alien227, AngelicaSaint, Doula Jai, & Hon.E.Bunch Self Care Tips: Take a break from social media Fuck That (Current Events): Is the mother of Drake’s child “ugly”? What does it mean to be Ugly, International Sex Workers Day, SESTA/FOSTA, Pay...
Jun 07, 2018•1 hr 16 min•Season 4Ep. 21
The Hoes talk capitalism woes, a pregnancy scare, talking versus texting, catching feelings & more. Bae(s) of The Week: @papaganda, @derekachadwick & @ashleighchubbybunny Hoe(s) of the Week: Karen, Danielle Ellis aka lawyer bae, Lily Zheng, Roselyn, Amberlynn R, Jasmine K, Calvin Pierce Jr, Rob & Eli Saddiq Self Care Tips: Don’t let capitalism turn you into a machine Fuck Me (Our Lives): independent monogamy, abstaining from dick, a pregnancy scare, old anniversaries, anger issues, h...
May 30, 2018•1 hr 15 min•Season 4Ep. 20
Solo Polyamorous Relationship Anarchist Roselyn joins Akua & Sam to talk about being solo poly. Bae(s) of The Week: Doria Ragland Hoe(s) of the Week: Moon Witch, Christina B, Cheyenne W Self Care Tips: Prioritize those difficult conversations you’ve been avoiding Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Roselyn about solo polyamory. Points of discussion include: cohabitation, traditional marriage, intentional space between partners, individuality, living alone, economic insecurity, an...
May 23, 2018•48 min•Season 4Ep. 19
Non monogamous unicorn and parent Evita joins Sam and Akua to discuss being in triads and raising children while poly. Hoe(s) of the Week: Melissa P, Lauren H., Huwie K, JM, Rueben, Milton K, Samantha J. @cupcaketellem @empressshida @fannandownorrby @timimiemarak garumpy_gaby saramakeba, cococherry mango, and all Apple Reviewers! Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Evita joins us to discuss triads, unicorning, parenting while poly. Points of discussion include: Opening a monogamous relationship up, coup...
May 17, 2018•1 hr 13 min•Season 4Ep. 18
Sex therapist and open relationship coach Ruby B. Johnson joins Rebecca & Sam to discuss polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Bae(s) of The Week: Salty (Keryce, Claire and JingYu) Hoe(s) of the Week: Diamond and CupcakeTellem Self Care Tips: Use scrubbing gloves in the shower Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with sex therapist and open relationship coach, Ruby B. Johnson about polyamory. Points of discussion include: becoming a sex therapist, polyamorous misconceptions, white folks ...
May 09, 2018•1 hr 34 min•Season 4Ep. 17
Part one of our Polyga-May series. An exploration into polyamory and ethical non monogamy. In this episode Akua, Sam, and Rodecka discuss: Bae(s) of The Week: Kehlani, Janelle Monae, and a brief discussion on pansexuality. Hoe(s) of the Week: Hilde, Sx Noir and a #PodinLiveNYC shout out Self Care Tips: Cayenne Pepper Cucumbers Fuck Me (Our Lives): Our experiences with polyamory. Points of discussion Include: finding out your friends are in a poly relationship, constant communication, family memb...
May 02, 2018•1 hr 11 min•Season 4Ep. 16
Rebecca, Akua, and Sam discuss FOSTA/SESTA, lesbian porn, Hoe Season, BDSM, abstinence, and more. Bae(s) of The Week: Young MA Hoe(s) of the Week: Boston Come Thru, TWQJ, QueerWOC, Marsha’s Plate & Bag Ladies Self Care Tips: Revel in your wash day routine Fuck That (Current Events): FOSTA/SESTA puts sex workers at risk for violence, How to support sex workers, Young MA directs a porno set to one of her old mixtapes Fuck Me (Our Lives): a Dom/Sub relationship, when a one night stand hits you ...
Apr 20, 2018•55 min•Season 4Ep. 15
Rodecka & Sam are joined by Sex Tech Entrepreneur Lidia Bonilla to discuss women in sex tech, sex robots, toys and more. Bae(s) of The Week: @_kayswole and Melissa Lozada-Olivia Hoe(s) of the Week: SGuilb, MaxA, Diamond, Travis T, Ashley J, Renee R, Bryan B, Intellegent AJ, Jason EG & Money Self Care Tips: take off those tight ass jeans, sweat the small stuff Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A Conversation with Sex Tech Entrepreneur Lidia Bonilla. Points of discussion include : where do you k...
Apr 11, 2018•58 min•Season 4Ep. 14
