Civility

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Hello, civility in one sense is among the most valuable virtues in society. The skill to discuss topics that really matter to you with someone who disagrees and somehow get along. In another of its senses, when civility describes the limits of acceptable behaviour, it can reflect society at its worst, when only those deemed civil enough are allowed their rights, their equality, even their humanity.

And as we'll hear, civility is a slippery idea that's fascinated philosophers especially since the Reformation, when competing ideas on how to gain salvation seem to make civil disagreement impossible. With me to discuss the idea of civility are John Gallagher, Associate Professor of Early Modern History at the University of Leeds, Phil Willington, Professor of History at the University of Sheffield, and Theresa Bijam, Professor of Political Theory at Oriel College, University of Oxford.

Teresa, so that we can hold on to this during the discussion, can you give us your definition of civility at its best?

Well f even at its best I think civility is sort of notoriously difficult to define. There are many different senses of civility that come up historically, many of which we'll no doubt come on to, but I would define civility and I think civility as we invoke it today as describing a particular social or conversational virtue, and it's one that's pertinent in particular to the practice of disagreeing.

and disagreement on questions that we consider to be in some way fundamental, as sort of touching on how we believe and belong and really go to the heart of our differences with other people. So unlike other conversational virtues with which it's often linked, so we might think civility is akin to politeness. Or akin to courtesy.

Civility, I think, is distinguished by what we might think of as its minimal character, as the minimum degree of courtesy that's required in a social situation, or even sometimes in its negative character as sort of the absence of insult.

as opposed to anything more demanding. And so we might think of civility as mere civility in this sense. It's the virtue that's appropriate to our disagreements with our bad neighbors, our e our ex-spouses, or indeed sort of members of the other party or the other religious sect, the people that we're sort of constrained to interact with, but maybe if given our own choice, would prefer not.

Um what's the origin of the word? Did the Greeks and the Romans have anything to say on this matter? They did. They d as ever they did. So civility in English derives from a Latin term, so the term civilitas, which referred to a kind of um art of good government or more specifically the sort of the the behavior of becoming a virtuous citizen. So the Latin for citizen is So we see that as the root of civility. So the keyvase was the member of the Kivitas, the sort of civil society or state.

So civility in that sense was the virtue necessary for good citizenship of people who are living together in a particular kind of settled community under a shared form of government and particularly a kind of shared law. And this corresponds imperfectly to the Greek idea

of the political sort of politicae, so the life of the citizen in Greek political thought as living in a distinctive kind of community, the polis, as a kind of self-governing political community. And in Greek thought, the polis and the citizen was understood in contrast with the non-Greek barbarians who did not live in polis, who did not live in these settled communities, who did not sort of live in these self-governing and free communities.

but rather lived an unsettled, wild or slavish form of life. So again we're Barbarians. Exactly, barbarians. So barbarians simply is the Greek sort of way of saying that these people who are not Greek speak a language that sounds like nonsense. It sounds to cultivated Greek ears like bar bar. But so even there we can see going back way into ancient political thought, the civil is understood also in an not just in a minimal but an oppositional

So the civil is defined in contrast with the uncivil as the barbarian, the savage, and so to say that someone's uncivil is to say that they're worse than impolite. It's saying that they're potentially beyond the pale of kind of a shared civil wave. Thank you very much. Join John Gallagher.

Can you take us a giant leap forward P to Erasmus in the sixteenth century and how he developed it? Absolutely. So Erasmus of Rotterdam is an extraordinarily important

a biblical and classical scholar um of the early sixteenth century and kind of a major figure in uh debates around the Reformation that's kind of kicked off in fifteen seventeen. And the reason he comes into our discussion is because in fifteen thirty He publishes a little book called De Civilitate Morum Purium on the civility of children.

And this is a gorgeous little Latin guide that aims to teach children how to be civil, because the thing is anyone with small children will know is that they are fundamentally uncivil and brutish and animalistic and they must be civilized.

So this is a book which takes the child and attempts to teach The rudiments of good behaviour from, you know, not putting dirty fingers uh in the shared dish at dinner, uh not blowing one's nose publicly around other people so that's a little bit more than a little bit this snot lands on them. Um so all of these kind of basic things, but also tries to tie them to learning to behave in a very strictly hierarchized

and regimented society. They're attempting to teach the child what to do with their body and their speech so that they don't offend their betters, so that they aren't over familiar with those beneath them as well. So it's a guide to behavior and a guide to how to live in society. Can we talk about Skipro Erasmus to Luther?

who seems to have had no time at all for civility. How does he fit into what we're going to talk about? the kind of decorum that people like Erasmus are calling for. This idea that you should um Keep your words within the bounds of appropriateness and acceptability. And Luther, including in his attacks on Erasmus,

is very interested in insult. Um he is so he's in a major debate with Erasmus around free will and salvation. Um he is willing to use uh insult to suggest that Erasmus is not fully Christian, to suggest that these are fine words but Stupid ideas like dung being served on gold and silver plates, and that's classic Luther, that bringing in of excrement and the bodily and of filth.

Because at the same time as you've got codes of civility emerging in the sixteenth century that are about having more control over the body and our animal functions, you've got someone like Luther who's kind of throwing that out. um and invoking um bodily functions to attack the devil, the pope uh and all of his enemies. Is there a sense in which he sees a civility as the enemy of salvation? really setting up a dynamic that we'll see.

um with a number of religious reformers across the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries. So whether that's with John Calvin and the insistence on admonition of sinners And right up to um the Quakers, George Fox, the insistence on only ever referring to people um as thou and the the refusal to use titles of authority or nobility, not even doffing one's cap or taking one's cap off in a place of uh a place of worship or a place of respect.

So we see kind of throughout the Reformation this refusal of civil behaviour um as a way of insisting that salvation matters more.

Thank you very much. Phil, around this time in the 16th century, an Italian book, the Book of the Courtier, Uh, how did that fit in? So Castiglione's Book of the Courtier is a parallel story to uh the one that John's telling about Erasmus, I guess. The important thing about the courtier and a few other Italian books at the time by Stefano Guazzo and The Silver Conversation and Della Casta What they're doing is they're shifting the emphasis on political behaviour that Teresa was talking about.

into s the social social realm more generally and civility is applied to these conversations and demonstrated in conversations in all kinds of social interactions and Castiglione's book um The Courtier is probably the Uber book of this genre. It's interesting because it's rather than writing in the Latin or um simply translating, say, Cicero, who talks about similar kinds of things.

and propagating it that way. He he writes it in the Italian and it then gets translated into vernaculars around Europe. So as well as shifting civility from the political to the social, he's also shifting it from the Latin to the vernacular languages including English and demonstrating that a people beyond the absolute elites can actually strive to achieve it. So what you have as well is the foundation of a really important genre In early modern culture.

of the conduct book literature, which um people go to to learn how to be civil, learn the kinds of rules and so on, and skills in particular. It's not just rules, it's skills of conversation. and behaviour that John's talking about in terms of Erasmus and education. And that becomes a key aspect of Renaissance autodidactism, which is a really important feature of the Rena Renaissance. People wanting to improve and better themselves.

But it did it have a great success. And I know we still read it we still read it at university these days. And translated texts across Europe. of the ri I mean it's on a par with the Machiavelli's The Prince or um Moore's Utopia for example. And this is the age of popular print as well. So you have lots more people becoming literate and being able to access this kind of material in print. Yeah.

Did the ideas about behaviour spread therefore into a broader society? Was it more about manners than anything else? I mean as Teresa mentioned, uh civility starts off in terms of a civic and civitas. And I mean throughout this period and then in accelerating thereafter you have lots of institutions and institutional structures where civility is expected as a norm of behaviour. So guilds, corporations, trading companies, inns of courts, universities, they all expect these standards of civility.

And of course all the people, the men mostly who are going through them will learn those expectations.

We can come to Thomas Hobbs now, who's an influential in this argument. Can I turn him on you first, Horizon? Yeah, absolutely. And before I maybe get into the specifics of Hobbes' arguments about civility and actually more particularly incivility, might be helpful just to connect it to the um Erasmus and Luther discussion that John was

Bringing up. I mean, so Erasmus's diagnosis of kind of the problems of the Protestant Reformation is not that it's simply a problem of Protestant theology, the fact that Luther is criticizing Catholic Catholic Orthodoxy for Erasmus, it's specifically that Luther is doing it in this deliberately uncivil way, hurling insults. not only at those who disagree with him, you know, his fellow monks and friars, but even the Pope himself, calling the Pope the Antichrist.

and anyone who follows him, an anti-Christian. And so Hobbes, a century later, when he's thinking about the problem of peace and how we coexist in a civitas or state, He's thinking about this in the context of an English civil war, which Hobbes viewed as a religious war. So Hobbes was very much persuaded by this kind of Erasmian analysis. The problem isn't The fact that you know,

Puritans disagree with Anglicans about how the Church of England should be governed, is that they do so in this deliberately contemptuous and insulting way. They hurl insults at each other, not just at each other, at their lawful sovereign, and in doing so they corrode the sort of tenuous or fragile social bonds that make peace possible. So in his various works of political philosophy, Hobbes actually sort of diagnoses incivility in in the specific sense of insult or what he calls contumely.

as a major obstacle to peace. so much so that he actually posits as a fundamental law of nature that no man shall revile or deride another, or speak in a hateful or contemptuous way. But Hobbes doesn't think that in order to live peacefully or unmurderously it'll be enough for us just not to insult each other,

He thinks that we actually need to go further. So in his work of Latin political philosophy, um called De Kive or of the Citizen, he describes what he calls the animus quillis or civil spirit. and this he defines as the willingness of individuals not only to observe a civil silence, on controversial questions, so simply not disagreeing with one another about religion, but also their willingness to conform themselves to whatever the sovereign says.

should be the orthodoxy, specifically in religion. So it's agreeing to agree, and this is what Hobbes understands by sort of being civil or being civil in spirit. Agreeing for the sake of Yes, it's peace that he's after, isn't it? Absolutely. Peace is the great thing that he seeks. Right. So through civility will g will give you peace. Precisely. And so civility in Hobbesian political philosophy is really about the civil as the peaceful.

in contrast with the violent, in that famous kind of Hobbesian picture of the state of nature as the war of all against all. So in order to live together peacefully, we not only must not insult each other, Hobbes thinks that disagreement itself is the problem. As he says in De Kiva, the mere act of disagreement is offensive. So in order to live peacefully, we better get religious disagreements off the table. Okay, John, um say in the seventeenth century

There's a feeling that civility could be superficial. It could be mere politeness or good manners. Can you tell us about that?

Absolutely. So from really the earliest stages of civility discourse in the sixteenth century and all the way through the seventeenth, there's this niggling fear that civility is just plain hypocrisy. Um there are accusations against those who practice civility and courtesy. There are accusations that they are simply flatterers and this happens when we're talking about kind of political structure as well.

Um there is also this idea that civility is dissimulation, that this is a kind of lying, that it is to hide what you really think and to hide what you really are. There's also a set of concerns about civility as this art that creates this impossible tension between the inward uh and the outward. And a lot of writers defending civility say, well actually, you know, civility only works as an outward performance because it reflects

um what's on the inside, but its critics will say, well actually because the you know, civility is is just putting this on because you're kind of rotten all the way down. So dissimulation, dishonesty and falsehood are kind of being uh accusations that are lobbed at civility constantly. And the other thing that does happen though is that Civility in England is seen as something that's worryingly foreign.

So we've seen how Castiglione is used you know Castiglione's book comes over from Italy. Over the course of the seventeenth century the models of civil behaviour that are increasingly popular among the English uh are French. And you see from the late sixteenth century where

that civil gentlemen are attacked for being Italianate, and they'd as sooner kind of draw a rapier on you and enter into a duel. By the later seventeenth century they're fops, they're Frenchified, they're pseudo Catholic, em and they're absolutists in disguise. So it's a danger to national identity as well. For Hobbes, the hypocrisy of civility is precisely the point. It becomes a kind of virtuous hypocrisy and conformability that makes

civil life possible and it and it's you not unravel that a bit more well so Hobbes basically thinks that look, you know, we can't control what people think. Thought after all is free. Within the confines of our individual skull Our thoughts can roam o over anything, filthy, profane, sublime, whatever. But we what we can control is how we manifest those thoughts outwardly. So for Hobbes, the virtue of civilities precisely is that it governs the outward performance.

of our especially f in the performance of worship in religion. He thinks, believe whatever you want in your mind, but when it comes to worshiping God or worshipping or respecting the sovereign, you must conform your private to the public. conscience. And it's not incidental in this case, or not a coincidence, that Hobbes, when he so he spent the civil war basically safely i with the the royal court in exile in Paris, when he returns to to London, people think him a suspiciously

frankified, Frenchified character. He speaks English with a French accent, and so he seems to be a civilitarian, embracing a kind of French foppery and absolutism and hypoc hypocritical dissimulation in religion. Do you think there's a paradox here, Phil?

Tolerance can become intolerance of those who don't go along with tolerance. Yeah, I mean civility and tolerance are similar in that respect. How do you make people

who don't want to be civil, civil. And how do you make people who don't want to be tolerant tolerant? And uh it's very interesting what what John and uh Teresa are saying about the mid seventeenth century because I think Yeah, so it's the same kind of issues and the same problems that a different group of people are responding to and they

they turn to um civility as a way of doing it as as well and it's very complimentary in some ways to to Hobbes although Hobbes I think is regarded as an atheist for his position as well because he's he's so dismissive of people's inner spirituality and enthusiasm and so on.

But what you what you have even in say in sixteen forty eight you have um comprehensive Presbyterians, if you want to call'em like that, someone like Edward Bowles, who is aware of these huge tensions and these huge differences that have caused this these massive conflicts, not just in in Britain and Ireland, but also in Europe. And th he applies the the concept of circumspection, which is a kind of religious adaptation, if you like, of the self control of civility.

and and pleads with his fellow Presbyterians to be circumspect in all their dealings and so on and think about their words in relation to other people's and other people's faiths and accommodate other people as much as possible and when it comes to the restoration in in sixteen sixty. Edward Bowles is one of the favourites to actually become the next senior dignitary, if you like, in within the re the restored church because of this comprehensive position.

unfortunately he dies. But there's a there's a group of bishops called the they get to be known as the Latitudinarians who have a similar sense of as long as you have a an agreement over the fundamental points of doctrine, such as I don't know, the Trinity or th there's a God and so on, you can disagree about insignificant or indifferent things. And it's really interesting actually, going back to what John was saying about Erasmus, is that

One of the leading latitudinarians is Gilbert Burnett, who ends up becoming the chaplain to William of Orange when he comes over. But William Burnett translates Utopia in sixteen eighty four. Utopia is obviously Thomas Moore who writes Utopia is a a very good mate of Erasmus. This is just before Luther and the Lutheran onslaught on civility.

But in Utopia, and this is what Burnett's saying, you have religious toleration in the sense that people can believe exactly what they want as long as they comply with some central tenet. And as long as they don't go on the street and try and convert people by force. or use demagogy to persuade them to change their faith. So there's this almost retrospective grabbing of this Erasmian civility, bringing it forward into the latitudinarian position in the sixteen eighties.

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change things radically in this respect. You're nodding. Yes, I think massively so. So you've got um you know, as Teresa has mentioned, you've got this way in which civil discourse has broken down where you've got kind of obscene publications like Mercurius Fumigosis, which is kind of larded with insult and profanity, where you've got parliamentarian soldiers

desecrating altars by placing their naked bums on them on this kind of thing. So this has been occurring, but you also have a sense, you know, in sixteen sixty, the royalist Richard Alstree writes a book called The Gentleman's Calling, and he starts from the principle that This is all about reconstruction, that you've had such an utter collapse of gentility and of social hierarchy, and from sixteen sixty the restoration onwards. hierarchy has to be rebuilt somehow.

And a form of godly civility might be the way to do that. But he says, you know, the levelling principle, but also all of the the crimes and sins uh of a puffed up uh gentry have demolished the hierarchy as was in England, and now it is the role of all good royalists. to rebuild it from scratch, so to find a way of being civil, of being honest, but in a way that returns to a kind of dreamt of status quo and a kind of a social hierarchy as it was beforehand.

Well it it's just you know, Andrew Marvel, the famous uh restoration poet. his biggest insult or criticism that he could make at the bishops who were responsible for this profound incivility in terms of not making space for other um denominations and not making listening to other voices was that they were rude.

So rude is a severe criticism in the Restoration period. Just take these points up between you whenever you're So to go to the question about um civility and toleration, so the picture that we've been painting here is of

you those who are appealing to civility in general in this seventeenth century in England are those who are opposed to religious toleration, sort of broadly construed. The idea is that if we permit people to disagree publicly. about religious questions, then inevitably we will descend not only into a war of words in which we hurl Lutheran style insults and scatological images at each other using this great advancement in communications technology, the printing press,

But from there, it's but a hop, skip, and jump to the all-out destruction of civil war. That's the Hobbesian picture, and although few people would admit to agreeing with Hobbes on this,

I think this is really almost a kind of consensus view. You cannot have a civil society that is also a tolerant society. But what happens in the seventeenth century is that people that we might expect to be the most sympathetic with Luther, so these evangelical, hot Puritan Protestants, a few of them begin to see that if they are going to be able to claim toleration for themselves, they're going to have to sort of reclaim civility too.

And so one of the most interesting people in this regard is a hot Protestant called Roger Williams. Who's sort of a very close contemporary of Hobbes, although a much more obscure figure, he is theorizing civility from the perspective of someone who is seen by almost everyone around him as paradigmatically uncivilistic. He's an evangelical Protestant who's constantly calling people sort of followers of the papal antichrist.

accusing them of worshipping the devil, et cetera, et cetera. But he's doing so in the British colonies of North America on the colonial frontier. Absolutely. So Roger Williams is known today, if he's known at all, as the founder of the colony of Rhode Island, which becomes the state of Rhode Island. And effectively what happens with Williams is he is so uncivil

to his fellow Puritans in Massachusetts Bay, that they end up banishing him in the dead of winter, and he survives only through the hospitality of the local Native American tribes, so the Narragansett and the Wampanoag. And so Williams finds himself in this sort of somewhat uncomfortable position of realizing that actually there is more civility among the unchristian pagan inhabitants of the New England wilderness.

than among his fellow Christians in Massachusetts Bay. And this leads Williams to pioneer an argument which we'll later see again in John Long. Which is effectively to say society can tolerate not just varieties of Christianity, but it can tolerate even sort of non-Christian religions. For Williams, he thinks.

the most paganish, Jewish, or Mohammedan qu consciences, even Catholic anti Christians remember he's a kind of Lutheran, he sort of believes that Catholics follow the Antichrist, can live together if they but keep the bond of civility. And ultimately when toleration triumphs by the end of the seventeenth century, it's with this idea that one can be civil.

without being a kind of good Christian. Can we move to Locke here? So that same argument we see it in Locke's famous letter concerning toleration published in sixteen eighty nine. So Locke effectively says, look, it's not religious diversity that's the problem. It's not the fact that people disagree on these really fundamental questions and sort of argue and compete with each other in in in the domain of religion.

it's that they do so in a way that violates this code of civil conduct. They do so in an uncivil way. So he says, if men g b just keep the softness of civility in their dispute. then we can peacefully coexist together in religion. And so Locke, his toleration is not quite so extensive as as Williams is, but he nevertheless he says, you know, if we may speak frankly as becomes one man to another, neither pagan nor Mahometan nor Jew.

should be restricted in his civil rights on matters of just because of m um differences in religion. Yeah, but Nana Rama have said it's not what you do, it's the way that you do it. Exactly. It's the manner of disagreement, not the fact. And it's quite neat that at the same time as Locke is kind of theorising toleration and civility in that context.

He's also, much like Erasmus, writing on children and education. So he writes in his Some Thoughts uh Some Thoughts on Education, which is one of the most influential educational tracts of the modern era, huge North America and elsewhere. He is a man.

sceptical about maybe the the fripperies of civil behaviour, but even Locke at the same time as he's got that scepticism urges parents to send their children to dancing masters because he says that that is the best way to learn the carriage of the body, that you simply need to be able to perform bodily civility in the exact same way um that Erasmus was arguing over a century before.

Did civility become something that you had to pursue and join in order to be accepted in acceptable societies? Absolutely. So civility and the language of civility

disperses throughout society, um, across the early modern period. So if you look at what what what late dates are we talking about? So w throughout the sixteenth and seventeenth century, but if you start to look at um the records of church court disputes, so kind of parish level disputes of people having, you know, barnies in villages.

Um in the early seventeenth century they are already using the language of civil and uncivil. My neighbour has my neighbour has behaved in a most uncivil way towards me. She is a most uncivil woman, meaning that she's not honest, that she's not chaste.

And there develops this market across the seventeenth century, uh, as Phil mentioned, for manuals, for books that will teach you how to be civil. But they start to kind of penetrate all kinds or all aspects of society, so you can learn to be a civil shopkeeper. Uh you can learn to be a civil housemaid. You can learn to be a civil servant. Who teaches you? Who's who's giving you this learning?

So there's a wide variety of people writing these manuals. So for instance, uh you'll get William Scott writes an essay of drapery, which aims to teach merchants and shopkeepers this kind of behaviour. You'll get Hannah Woolley writing for serving maids and gentlewomen at the same time. So

regular working authors are finding a way to teach civility across the board. If you're learning a new language, your Latin grammar will contain material on how to act civilly. Um and if you go on the Grand Tour or if you go and uh undertake educational travel. that too becomes an education uh in civility as well.

Phil, is there much evidence of a reaction against civility at this point? There's plenty of positions you can take or forms of sociability you can adopt. But you have Greek models like the Hatara and the Komos, which are very ritualized and quite abusive.

masculine forms of drunkenness which be get taken up in the early seventeenth century by English soldiers and and groups, privileged young men who are causing havoc in taverns and so on, often learning these ideas and these ritualized behaviours abroad on the continent, um, fighting the wars. you have ideas of making merry, where you would go to the alehouse

and you would engage in banter, usually drunkenness again, or good fellowship. That's another kind of category of behaviour where you wouldn't necessarily conform to rules of civility. And then you have more philosophically probably engaged positions a bit later. like libertinism, um which Alfred Benn is the poet of, I suppose, Rochester is the central figure. And they are more deliberately uncivil or anti civil in a kind of ideological way.

So picking up on that and making sort of explicit something that's been implicit in a lot of what we've been saying, um civility is a code of civilized conduct or kind of virtue of civil conversation combines elements of equality and hierarchy in interesting ways. So we are meant to abide by this code of civility

so as to have the kind of conversation that can take place between those who are free and equal. A conversation that is absent domination. But in doing so we're also expected to conform ourselves to the hierarchical codes of behavior on the basis of our place within the kind of status quo. And so this is really clear in the case of

considerations of gender. So the sort of another example of the consummately uncivil person, or maybe let's say, the paragon of incivility in this period, would be the female prophet. who insisted not only on speaking on the basis of her direct line to God, but doing so in a way that was at odds with the feminine ideal of civility as being exhibiting a kind of comely infeminist silence.

Right. Starting with you, John. How did this civility we've been talking about slip into ideas of civilization? Yeah, so you know, civ civility is uh for uh people in the sixteenth and seventeenth century something that you can bring people to, that you can reduce people to civility. And so for very from very early on it becomes a tool and a language of domination.

um this idea of the barbarous against the civil. So we have in Ireland, for instance, with the English presence in Ireland, the Irish are characterised as barbarous.

uh and rude and needing to be brought to civility. So we get this with people like Edmund Spencer. Uh is very, very clear that the rude and wild Irish need to be tamed um and brought to civility and to civilization. And You know, when we have massacres, for instance, of British settlers in Ireland that's seen as being a collapse and a failure of the civility that and the Protestant civility the plantation was meant.

to bring in. At the same time or around the same time at the beginning of the seventeenth century, with the growing English presence in North America. you see the same exporting of this language. So you see in kind of early communications around for instance the Virginia Company um and the presence in in the Chesapeake and around you see the language of rudeness, of barbarity and of savagery being used to describe indigenous Americans.

Just to agree with John. I mean, so the the idea of civilization, the term civilization really comes in kind of the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, but from the beginning, and when I was talking earlier about the sort of Greek sense of um of political life as opposed to the life of a barbarian. There's this sense that the uncivil is rude, unruly, violent, dark Superstitious.

all of these things and all of these antonyms come in and inform the ideal of the civil person over and against those. And we can think of this as maybe the kind of the dark side of civility or civility talk. to appeal to civility is always to kind of raise the spectre or the possibility of needing to suppress

or exclude the uncivil other. I th I may have used I think I used the phrase earlier, beyond the pale, to describe the uncivil person as beyond the pale. It's a really suggestive phrase because it derives from the kind of Latin palace for stake or fet.

So the person who's beyond the pale is the barbarian living beyond the fence. And of course, in the in the case of Catholic Ireland, it was the idea that the sort of savage an Irish barbaric Catholic lived beyond the pale of sort of anglicised, civilized Protestant Dublin.

I mean I think I th one of the things we haven't talked about so much is the the idea of the civil conversation, which is a kind of literary genre, a learning tool of the skills, but also a kind of formula for how you can engage with people who you have serious disagreements with. And I mean one of the probably the grossest misapplications of civility just going on from what John was saying about Ireland and the early Americas was the s the slavery complex.

And the fact that civility played into part of the justifications of why we could turn black people into chattel property and so on and treat them so inhumanly. with civility as a justificatory point. for that kind of nexus and the development of the slave economies. um in Barbados and in the Caribbean and and then in over in America as well.

So going back to this idea of the civil conversation which um Guazzo, one of Castiglione's Italian compatriots, introduces into the vernaculars in the sixteenth century. you find this guy called Thomas Creon, who's a sugar trader, so involved in and complicit in the slave trade. in sixteen eighty four, a civil conversation between an Ethiopian slave and a Christian his master. And what you find is that the enslaved person leading the discussion and following civil conversation norms.

is able to um convince and show the Christian master that how inhumane and how uncivil and how brutal the treatment of the slaves has been and how they can reach a point of not ab abolition but amelioration, um, based on their conversation. So you have the perfect civil conversation being applied to the most imperfect, if you like, application of civility. at a at a quite an early date. And that's I think that's a an important skill to relearn.

I mean th this idea a Williams is such an interesting figure because he encapsulates all these different discourses of civility we've been talking about. the civil as opposed to the barbarous or savage, the civil as opposed to the violent, and the civil as kind of the way of life of the urbane sort of merchant in in London, because he's the son of a merchant tailor born in London. And um who speaks of John Milton.

myriad different languages and it's precisely his facility with languages that allows him to master Narragansett language. So his first his first publication in sixteen forty three is what's called The Key into the Language of America. And what it is is it's a fascinating sort of handbook of

culture and ways of life as a way of trying to open up what seems like savagery from the perspective of Protestants of old England to show that actually civility is there in the new world among the so-called savages.

Can we say more about John Rawls? I think Teresa can. I mean so we've been talking in a in in a in a loose way about this developing sense of um a link between civility and toleration. We see it in Roger Williams, we see it in John Locke, and we see it in um sort of even in twentieth cent twentieth century liberal political philosophy. So John Rawls is the most famous philosopher of liberalism.

He too sort of picks up on civility as being the key to coexistence between people who disagree deeply, especially disagree deeply in religion. in his book political liberalism, he talks about what he calls the duty of civility and he imagines it specifically as the willingness of the members of a secular liberal society to Conduct their disagreements only on the basis of a a shared commitment to l secular liberal principles of justice and their willingness.

not to bring in their kind of partial religious commitments or authorities in the course of conducting their political debates. So again, civility as um keeping the sort of the uncivil in this case, the religious out. I mean another guy who d another philosopher who is working in the same ballpark is his Habermas and his idea of um the kind of the bourgeois public sphere and so on which was criticized

at the time for being elitist and gendered and so on. But in terms of the underlying principles, which are probably taken from ideas of civility, going back to the ancients, and then thinking about the crisis of our public discourse at the moment in the Western world, at least, both in terms of our demagogic leaders and areas of discussion like social media and so on. you can see that y you need some kind of recourse to civility to s reform or improve the way in which we talk to each other

about so many different issues, I think. So there's a kind of paradox that comes up again and again of sort of civility being essential for the possibility of tolerance on the one hand, but also the way in which civility talk and especially accusing people of incivility becomes a tool of intolerance. We could coexist very well together in the midst of all our differences, so long as you sort of

Shut up. Can I just go across to you, John? What aspects of civility would you jettison if you were asked to lighten the load in the b in the balloon? Today I think there are two. One is the use of appeals to civility as a means to silence people by saying, You are being uncivil, therefore I don't have to listen to you But maybe more controversially

You know, the historical sociologist Norbert Elias argued that the early modern period witnessed a civilizing process and that people were urged to feel more shame um about, you know, bodily functions and other things. There there's a kind of rise of shame across this period. And maybe counterintuitively, I would like to argue that we should

bring back shame in civil discourse. You should be ashamed to lie in public. You should be ashamed to slander opponents in filthy terms. And I think that, you know, we have witnessed a collapse of civil discourse at the moment, in part because we have lost the ability societally and politically to force those in power to feel shame for shameful acts and shameful words.

So, bring back shame. That's what I say. Do you pick that up? I th I think that's a really good point. And and and those the basic principles of accommodation and self-knowledge as well I think are really significant, but shame is definitely. The way to go. Is there is there can I ask keep asking you to for for a moment, is there any way in which you think you think public civility is diminishing? Or is it in a steady place or where are we?

Yeah, I think that, you know, we have for all their problems, we have centuries of discourses about tolerance and learning even when it's difficult to to live together. I study immigrant communities in sixteenth century London. And I think we are witnessing a sustained chipping away of kind of hard won ideas about how you live with neighbors who are different to you even if you don't like it.

And I think that there's for all that there are painful and violent legacies of civility and these ideas, I think there are also things that are worth keeping about yeah, how you live with difference and how you thrive in difference.

Do you want to take that? Yeah, I mean just to go back to the question of sort of what I'd jettison and what I'd keep with civility, I think that one of the aspects of civility that's worth reviving in the midst of this kind of contemporary crisis of civility, especially in sort of very um polarized democracies like this one is recovering the kind of mirreness of mil s mere civility, the sense of the kind of minimal

nature, civil behavior, civil disagreement as meeting a low bar grudgingly. And I think that that's what Roger Williams really saw in Appealing to Civility, was that we've got to be able to live together peacefully even with those people that we regard as damn. Mm. Right. And we've got to be able to maintain the sort of possibility of coexistence.

while also remaining convinced that our neighbors are going to hell. Um, there's this wonderful uh example of this in from Williams' own life, which is that he remained convinced throughout his life, even though he was impressed by the civility of the the American Indians, that they were participating in devil worship. But nonetheless, upon one of his returns to London in sixteen fifty one, he brought with him a petition on behalf of the Narragansett people for toleration

So that they kn may not be forced from their religion. Again, Williams thought this religion was devil worship, but nevertheless, to to he thought it must be tolerated that they could live together sil civilly with that which he could not approve. Last word from you, John. Well actually that makes me think a little bit of uh Montaine, Michel de Montaigne, the French essayist, in his a in his essay on cannibals.

Um where he, you know, says that you've got these kind of sixteenth century discussions of supposed cannibalism um in the Americas, but he looks at the French wars of religion on his doorstep and these kind of hecatunes, these extraordinary massacres that are ongoing. and poses the question of where barbarity really lies. And I think you see a way in which these discourses can be used to to turn the mirror on European society. And that kind of critique I think is extraordinarily powerful.

Well thank all of you very much indeed. Thanks to Theresa Bijan, John Gallagher and Phil Withington. In our time now takes its annual break and we'll be back on the eighteenth of September. Have a good summer and thanks for listening.

And the In Our Time podcast gets some extra time now with a few minutes of bonus material from Melvin and his guests. What did you not say? Did you think you didn't have time to say that you would like to have said? I think I didn't talk as much about the social spaces that civility penetrates.

But actually John picked up on some of those spaces with your when you mentioned the shopkeepers and gender relations and so on. So the parallel trajectories of the political, the religious and the social.

uh are really interesting and John mentioned Hannah Woolley, who wrote um she was probably the most successful writers full stop in the later seventeenth century in one of her um conduct books called The Gentle Women's companion from sixteen seventy three, which was co written with her publisher Dorman Newman, so it's not quite clear which who's written which bits, and she's she was quite cross that he'd written probably too much At the time.

She defined civility as as gentle plausibility and also a science of the right understanding of ourselves. and how to dispose of our words and actions in the proper place and time. And I think the fact that that kind of sensibility and that sense of expectation of self knowledge and self awareness

it's penetrating. This is about how to talk to equals but also how to subordinates to talk to mistresses and mistresses to talk to subordinates and so on. But that went right down societally. What didn't There was a little town I was brought up in.

Underneath the congregational church that's where they had the what they call the socials, which are the dancers. One trumpeter who'd been in the army, one guy who played the drums and made a living by painting posters. And we danced to that, and learned how to dance to that.

And the interesting thing, reading about this and coming to this, is that I went out from when I was a little boy, from an eight to nine, you would go to somebody and say, may I have the pleasure of this dance? And then you go and lead them back to the chair. And I think that was common in what could be

call uh uh working class communities, it had gone to that extent. Is that uh is that idealistic or do you think there's some something in that? No, I mean I think there is there is a a huge penetration of civility through the social order.

I mean the dangers i uh going back to the issue of making people civil who don't want to be civil, the reformation of manners is part of that process and that was often quite a persecutory, alienating process because y it is, you know possibly for a civil society's good and so on. So there's there's always that tension be the between the social control and the power.

and and the empowerment and the the improvement that people might get from it. I mean the idea of civility is that it it enables you to succeed in social situations as well. But at the same time it's reproducing this the inequalities that structure those situations.

And that's a kind of massive paradox I think. Yeah. I I think I think the problem is that when the aspirational element of civility and the exclusionary element of civility come together, right, you define civility in an ever more demanding way. while also preserving this sense of the insi the uncivil as intolerable. Yeah, that's right.

Or you change what it's called and you develop politeness and you develop spaces where you can be something that looks very like civil, but some of the people who are starting to get a bit close aren't really allowed to enter or to participate in the same way. Absolutely. That's right. I mean, I wish I could have said a bit more about um the kind of tolerant and civil society that Roger Williams himself founds in the New World, sort of the the the colony of Rhode Island.

Absolutely. So um so Rhode Island, I mean, i is interesting for a lot of reasons, but basically i the Williams' colony, it it's the most tolerant society that the world never is absolutely R in the seventeenth century it's the most tolerant society the world had ever seen and actually would see for a long time thereafter. In Rhode Island there's no established church.

And on top of that there's a kind of what we would think of as equal protection. So everybody enjoys the same and equal rights of free exercise, free association, and also free expression. And so what happens in Rhode Island is you get this very kind of idiosyncratic of of mere i picture of mere civility.

to its critics, Rhode Island just seemed they called it the um they called it Rogues Island and l latrine of New England. Basically all of the religious riffraff and castaways, as well as American Indians, were sort of living together. in a way sort of where they would sort of disagree freely on the sort of most fundamental questions. But for Williams this was kind of the key point. Civility had got to be understood in contrast with and sort of as different from

spirituality or spiritual goodness. So to be merely civil was not the same as being a good person, a good man, or indeed a good Christian. I I think there's also um a danger because of very powerful narratives like Elias' civilizing process. and things like that, that we've approached civility as this blanket sort of ideology which everyone is always pressing down on people the whole time. But of course in reality people go to different social contexts and situations.

and they behave differently.'Cause I you know, I mentioned there's those different kinds of interactions that you can have that were valorised. You know, people could do one be civil and part of civil society in one part of their day and they could do something else in the other part of the day. You know Hogarth, William Hogarth painting the um modern midnight conversation.

where you have all these very civil and respectable men absolutely out of it at twelve o'clock at night in S is it St John's Coffee House or something like that? You know, juxtaposed that with the the conversation pictures that he also painted, s some of which were the same people with their families or with

civil people. You know, people have these different situations. There's a a very good article about this uh kind of occasional politeness, occasional civility, occasional wit and so on. It's not a ki it's not a constant And it's not like your mother watching you the whole time, twenty four hours a day kind of thing. and and and monitoring your behaviour. People are different in different contexts.

I think it would have been really interesting as well in that context to talk a bit more um about travel and particularly about the Grand Tour because this is one of those places where the bounds of civility are tested, where people come into contact in close contact with people who are different religions to them, where you have to make snap decisions. Like you're a Protestant in the streets of France and the Blessed Sacrament is being carried past you.

Do you take off your hat and kneel? Or do you attempt to kind of, you know, withstand it as a good Protestant? What's the right thing to do? And it's really interesting because if you look at the two kind of major foundational texts for the Grand Tour in England,

So Jean Gaillard writes The Complete Gentleman, which is kind of all about how you should do this kind of um travel, but he is coming off the back of an extraordinarily problematic and difficult period of travel with the young gentleman, Sir Philip Percival.

which got so bad that Gailard gets dumped in the middle of France um and has to travel home on his own. So it's kind of a long break up letter in one way. And but the other person who's really famous in this is is Richard LaSalle. So Richard LaSalle's

is an extreme he's the person who comes up with the phrase the Grand Tour. He's an extremely well-regarded guide to Italy um and to Italian art and culture. And but he's Catholic, he's Catholic priest. And you have this idea that you know, through travel and you have places like spa towns, like cities like Rome, where people have to work out everyday in occasional civilities because you cannot constantly be at war with your tour guide or your tutor or your valet.

And then you're expected to bring it back to England. What you learned from that and and turn it into a proper English civility with no flavour of fun. And also Final word if we understand civility is these skills, these social skills, then when Hannah Woolley is defining her science in the sixteen seventies.

It's precisely being able to understand context relative to other contexts and adjusting your behaviour accordingly that's the key. It's not having a blanket set of rules like using a fork in a certain way. it's been able to adjust to these situations as and when they arise and I guess that's the empowering aspect of the of the ideol of civility as a as a sort of social ideology. Well thank you all very much again. Thank you. Thank you. Enjoyed that video. Yeah, it was really good.

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