Hey everybody, it's Graham and it's Friday, which means today we get to bring you another trending clip. The clip you're about to hear is trending on our Instagram right now. Hope you enjoy this week. Danica Patrick What does Danica Patrick look for in a life partner? Well, I think you just want to be with someone that reciprocates, right, someone who's going to love at the same level and the same same way or
the way that you need it, right. I mean, there's like a, you know, great book called the five love languages. And you know, everybody receives feels love or receives love, you know, in a few variety of different ways. And so, you know, if you're, you know, love tank stays full based on that. And you know, I think ultimately the most important thing is that you want to grow together.
And you know, I feel like over time, like I've observed that if you don't, if you're not growing together in the same way, it doesn't work. You can be super compatible, not compatible, it doesn't matter. It hasn't worked out in the past. So what matters is that you want to grow in the same way. You want the same things because that's, I think people kind of grow out of each other. They grow in different directions, or one grows and one doesn't. And then you just end up going
not for me anymore. Like I can't stay here. I'm, I have to keep going. And and so I think that's, I think that's like a fundamental core necessity for a partner. Why do you think it works with Aaron? Well, I think we want to grow in the same way. I mean, it's not like we've got, you know, 15 years of marriage to tell you that it worked out, but I've believed that we want to grow in the same way. We both have the same interests. We both have the same core beliefs and opinions and our
we're open minded people. And while we we do have a lot of hobbies, the same, we have a few different ones, but generally we're like similar people. And but most importantly, we want to, we want to grow. How strange, if at all, is it for you to all of a sudden be with somebody who you know has the same level of fame as you and also had an extraordinary amount of financial success? Well, I finally found someone who pays for things. There you go.
That's never happened, ever. Like, I would buy dinner. Literally. Yeah. Listen, wait, somebody. Never bought dinner. Super uncomfortable, yeah. Like, I mean, I would buy dinner most of the time. It was super uncomfortable in the beginning with Aaron like to have him paying for things because it was so out of the norm for me. And you're sure that's just not you setting the precedent that you want to buy dinner? It's just a pattern. Like I had to break that pattern of like, I got it.
Like, let me take care of you, You know, like, that's how I do it. But I think it's also good because no one's really done that for him either. And so, you know, we both do stuff. But yes, he pays for most things. What? Do you think each of you like about one another? I really think it's that we both are interested and interested in similar things and that stems from being open minded people, you know?
Yeah. Like it all really started with me asking if he was stalking me on the astral plane and then it went from there. So. Yeah, exactly. Because people don't know what that means, but he knew what that meant. And then it just went from there. And we were like, Oh my God, you what? You know, but that what you like this. Oh my God. Like we're like, we had to been friends for six years, 5-6 years and like just friends as in
like, hey, how's it going? Or like, oh, Congrats on the game or good race or you know, sometimes I didn't hear from for a whole year and then I'd hear from a couple times the next year. I mean, it was very sporadic, but definitely friend based. And so, you know, it's just one of those things where we both went what we're interested in, in unique things that not a lot of people are. And we're also very open minded people, so, you know, we love to
learn and educate ourselves. And so, you know, when he buys me books called like the holographic universe, I'm like, this is awesome. You know him. I mean, and I don't, I think people generally know this about him, but maybe not at the level like I love that he's smart. I mean he is a super and super intelligent person. I love to grow and sew and learn more and he can help me do that.
Your sister, in an article I read from many years back, was quoted as saying I always wanted to be a mom, where that's not really something she's had. Meaning you How's that desire changed over the years on your end? I mean, kids have crossed my mind since I was in my, you know, early 20s for sure. Like, you know, you come across some cute kids along the way like, oh, that's cool.
Or you think of the idea of it and you're like, you know, I was always very focused on racing and was never going to quit racing for it. But like, surrogacy crossed my mind plenty of times and, you know, it just was not in the cards for so long because of, you know, two people have to want to sit, want the same thing. And it never was like that did. Her having kids. Yeah, hurricanes, like I, yes, I mean, they're so fun.
They're just so great. And so I, I love seeing her kids and they make me inspired to, you know, want them because they're fun. They they're, they're really just amazing little human beings. As always, thanks for listening. To see more trending clips from my team, go to youtube.com/graham Bensinger.