Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Ian Kerner , sex therapist and author of the groundbreaking bestseller She Comes First, He Comes Next, and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. They talk about why his 2004 classic is still changing bedrooms two decades later, how the clitoris remains misunderstood, and what makes sex truly great. We discuss: - Why She Comes First is still a global bestseller 21 years later - â The science of the clitoris and its internal structures -...
Nov 13, 2025â˘1 hr 1 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 14
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Amanda Dames , the kink consultant and sex & relationship coach, for a deep dive into the world of kink â from power dynamics and negotiation to choking, bondage, chastity, and aftercare. Amanda, a former dominatrix and current coach for couples and individuals, breaks down how to safely explore desire, communicate boundaries, and find confidence in both dominance and submission. We discuss: What a kink consultant actually does and how ...
Nov 06, 2025â˘59 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 13
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@ â sexwithalexa â ) â sits on the couch with Robyn Silber â â a former Google software engineer who slept with 70 men in 10 months and then realized sheâs asexual. Robyn opens up about her âslut era,â sexual health, discovering demisexuality, navigating autism and dating, and why sheâs now working to help lonely men build real connection. We talk about: Dating younger men and having 70 sexual partners in her first 10 months in NYC Sexual health: chlamydia, BV, yeast infe...
Oct 30, 2025â˘44 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 12
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with Haley Jakobson , author of Old Enough , bisexual Dream Girl , and OCD Princess , to talk about friendship, therapy, OCD, and sex. Haley opens up about how her OCD has shaped her relationships, sexuality, creative life and how vulnerability and repair have transformed her friendships and intimacy. We discuss: The importance of friendship and why it can be even more transformative than romantic love Learning to fight and repair conflict wit...
Oct 23, 2025â˘1 hr 3 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 11
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with Nina Divina , Mama Muse and founder of Haus of Muse , for a powerful and playful conversation about confidence, burlesque, sensuality, and how to be the main character in your sex life. We talk about: What âcunt is an energyâ really means and how to embody it Overcoming body image struggles and learning to love your reflection How to be the main character in your sex life and in everyday life The power of adopting a persona to boost confi...
Oct 09, 2025â˘48 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 10
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with Jeff Perla , host of Oh Dear Iâm Queer , for a candid, funny, and unfiltered conversation about queer sex, dating, and intimacy. We discuss: Morning hookups, blowjob confessions, and the idea of ânut clarityâ Seeing Jeff's nudes & live reactions Snapchat vs. Instagram, hookup apps, and why Jeff made hoe cards while Alexa makes hoe friendship bracelets Bold ways of flirting IRL Fire Island and Hamptons stories, including Jeffâs secret ...
Sep 25, 2025â˘1 hr 1 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 9
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Ali Weiss , New York native, host of Tales of Taboo and unapologetic oversharer, for a raw conversation about rejection, vulnerability, and why weâre all obsessed with the forbidden. A funny, honest, and deeply relatable episode on being human, craving connection, and owning your messy truth, why rejection stings less when you know yourself, and how vulnerability can be both a calling and a curse. Ali opens up about running her anonymous conf...
Sep 18, 2025â˘55 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 8
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is back in bed with Vee, co-host of Girls Gone Deep and almost-certified somatic sex and relationship coach, for a juicy conversation all about sexual fantasies . We cover: Why fantasies are so important for a fulfilling sex life The difference between fantasies you should keep in your head vs. the ones you might want to bring to life Veeâs wildest fulfilled fantasies (from MFM threesomes to DVPs and even public play at Broadway) What itâs really like to ...
Sep 11, 2025â˘1 hr 6 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 7
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with certified sexologist and Wonderlust founder Natassia Miller for a deep dive into one of the most common struggles in relationships: mismatched desire. We break down why sex can get boring in long-term relationships, why the honeymoon phase always fades, and how to actually reignite passion with your partner. From exploring fantasies to reducing the mental load, this episode is a roadmap for couples who feel like theyâre not having enough ...
Sep 04, 2025â˘53 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 6
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Elle Chase ( @theellechase ) , certified life coach, sexologist, sexuality educator, author, and one of the most respected voices in the body acceptance and body neutrality movement . Together, they unpack how body image affects intimacy, relationships, and the ability to feel sexy in your own skin. In this episode, we dive into: The difference between body love and body neutrality Baby steps to start feeling sexy when you donât love your bod...
Aug 28, 2025â˘55 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 5
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Laura DesirĂŠe â absolute stranger, intimacy coordinator and pleasure educator â for an unforgettable conversation about how sex, grief, and shame shape our identities. In this episode, we dive into: What intimacy coordinators actually do on film sets and why they make sex scenes better, not worse Why Hollywood has failed at portraying female pleasure and how it should look instead The messy overlap of grief and sex and how pleasure can beco...
Aug 21, 2025â˘52 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 4
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Gabriella Scaringe, founder of Cherri , to explore sexuality and vulvas in the real world â pubic hair trends, labia diversity, harmful language weâve internalized, and how better design (hello, wide-gusset underwear and swim) can change how we feel in our bodies. We get specific about what actually shows up in everyday life (the âbulge,â the âlip slipâ), why thatâs normal, and how to shop for pieces that fit and feel good. What we cover: P...
Aug 14, 2025â˘57 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 3
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is back with another deep dive into the world of dating, this time with award-winning sex educator and ghostwriter Connie Collins ( @thefirstdatediaries ) . We explore the state of relationships today and reveal what keeps people stuck in situationships and unhappy. Itâs often not about your dating profile or messaging speed, but deeper issues like fear of vulnerability and emotional shutdowns. We cover: - Understanding sexuality and how to discover what ...
Jul 31, 2025â˘1 hr 1 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 2
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is back in bed for another season and sheâs kicking things off with adult film icon Small Hands (Aaron Thompson). From monogamy and marriage to aftercare and emotional intimacy on set, Aaron shares what it's really like to live a life of performance â and what happens when the cameras stop rolling. We get deep on female pleasure, working with Owen Gray , porn myths, and how to separate real connection from performative sex. If youâve ever wondered what lo...
Jul 24, 2025â˘1 hr 4 minâ˘Season 5Ep. 1
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Beth Sparksfire â the Queen of Hacienda , New Yorkâs legendary sex-positive community and party scene. Together, we dive deep into how to be a thoughtful, respectful, and unforgettable sex party guest. Whether youâre a first-timer or looking to level up, Beth shares the real dos and don'ts from her years curating erotic experiences. We cover: What to know before attending your first sex party How to navigate consent, conversation, and energy ...
Jul 17, 2025â˘55 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 23
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Birna Gustafsson , sex educator with a master's in public health and host of Explicit Studies , to talk about the sea of sexual misinformation weâre constantly swimming inâand how to get better at spotting it. Together, they bust myths that still circulate widely online (even in sex-positive spaces) and explore how shame, purity culture, and bad science shape our sexual health beliefs. Expect to learn: The actual failure rate of pulling out a...
Jul 10, 2025â˘56 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 22
In this very juicy and educational episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with Jamie Joy , a queer, trans certified sex educator and full-blown fisting aficionado. We dive deep (literally and figuratively) into the world of fisting, from how to prep and practice it safely to the surprising aftercare and emotional intensity it can carry. We also discuss: How to prep for fisting (from hygiene to headspace) Differences between vaginal and anal fisting Safety tips, including g...
Jun 26, 2025â˘1 hr 8 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 21
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Thea Rose , host of Seggs Talk Radio and founder of a new STI testing startup, to talk about what it really takes to build a sex-positive businessâfrom scratch, with heart, and without losing your mind. Thea opens up about her messy, honest path as a multi-hyphenate creator, how she juggles podcasting, launching companies, and staying grounded through burnout, ADHD, OnlyFans, and entrepreneurship in a taboo space. If you've ever wondered what...
Jun 12, 2025â˘55 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 20
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Allie Hoffman , founder of Catch The Feels âa viral in-person dating experience helping people ditch dating apps and reconnect with their bodies, emotions, and intuition. We dive deep into Allieâs groundbreaking âfour systems of knowingâ and how we can use the body, emotions, thoughts, and inner truth to date with more clarity and self-trust. Allie opens up about falling for poly men while being deeply monogamous, breaking her pattern of choo...
Jun 05, 2025â˘48 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 19
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined once again by photographer, ethical slut, and emotionally available king Matthew Kayman for a raw and wildly entertaining deep dive into threesomes, pegging, vasectomies , and how men can do better in sex and relationships. We go deep about what it means to unlearn toxic masculinity and embrace a more present, consensual, and pleasure-focused approach to sex. Matt opens up about getting pegged for the first time, navigating group sex with intent...
May 29, 2025â˘1 hr 1 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 18
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with NYC-based photographer, ethical slut, and reformed cheater Matthew Kayman for an honest, reflective, and hilarious conversation about evolving from messy dating patterns to intentional, kink-informed, and transparent relationships. We unpack his shift from monogamy to polyamory, navigating play parties, unlearning toxic masculinity, and figuring out how to explore power dynamics while remaining ethical and emotionally available. ⨠In this e...
May 22, 2025â˘1 hrâ˘Season 4Ep. 17
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by sex educator, performer, and self-proclaimed âdildo slingerâ Dirty Lola ( @dirtylola ) for a raw and hilarious conversation about shame, sex, and self-acceptance. From growing up in a naked household to navigating deep religious trauma, Lola shares the journey of becoming a fearless advocate for shameless pleasure and body confidence. We get into: Her early sex-positive explorations and yesâhigh school sex parties! The complex layers of body ...
May 15, 2025â˘1 hr 5 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 16
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Catherine Drysdaleâsex & relationship coachâwhoâs on a mission to help women and femmes unlearn the âgood girlâ scripts that keep them small, quiet, and out of touch with their desires. We talk about: ⢠What âgood girl conditioningâ really means and how it shows up in our lives ⢠The difference between Good Girl Conditioning and being a "good girl" in a power dynamic⢠The pressure to be nice, palatable, and liked (and how that impacts our r...
May 08, 2025â˘1 hr 1 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 15
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is back onboard the Temptation Cruise! In this episode, Alexa reconnects with Mario Cruz , Cruise Director for Temptation Cruises , to dive even deeper into what makes a lifestyle-friendly cruise such a unique, exciting, and welcoming experience. Recorded live from the February 2025 sailing, we chat about: How Temptation Cruises create a safe, respectful, and fun environment for all guests Tips for first-timers: how to navigate nerves, set boundaries, and...
May 01, 2025â˘58 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 14
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Alex Fine , educator, activist, parent and founder of the pleasure-forward brand Dame , to talk about how to find the sex toy that actually works for youâand how to confidently use it, whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner. Alex shares how Dame is redefining pleasure with intentional, inclusive design, and we get into how to move past shame, communicate your needs, and create sexy experiences that center your pleasure. Whethe...
Apr 24, 2025â˘57 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 13
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with bisexual writer, sex expert, and chaos king Zachary Zane for a juicy episode all about how to suck dick like a pro . Whether youâre a total beginner, looking to level up your skills, or just love talking about pleasureâweâve got you covered. Zach shares his most helpful tips, wildest stories, and hard-earned wisdom from both personal and professional experience. We talk technique, confidence, communication, and why good oral isnât just abou...
Apr 17, 2025â˘59 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 12
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with world-renowned sex educator and author Kenneth Play to talk all things oral sex on vulvas âtechniques, mindset, communication, and pleasure-maximizing strategies. Known for his viral videos, global workshops, and author of Beyond Satisfied , Kenneth breaks down how anyone can become a more confident and skillful oral loverâno magic tongue required. In this episode, we discuss: The most common mistakes people make when going down on someone ...
Apr 10, 2025â˘1 hr 2 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 11
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with writer and relationship expert Hayley Folk to talk about an unconventional but increasingly popular relationship setup: living separately from your partner. Why do some people thrive in separate spaces? What are the benefits and challenges? And is this a better setup for non-monogamous relationships? We also dive into one of Hayleyâs most viral Cosmopolitan articles â what to do with your exâs nudes . Should you keep them? Delete them? Ask ...
Apr 03, 2025â˘45 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 10
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Miss Lauren to talk about how to take charge in the bedroom, tap into your confidence, and explore power dynamics in a way that feels fun and natural . Whether youâre looking to spice things up or just want to feel more in control, this episode is packed with practical tips and expert advice on owning your desires . We cover: How she got started and what it's like working at a dungeon. How to start dominating your boyfriend âeven if youâve ...
Mar 27, 2025â˘55 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 9
Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Lindsay Wynn , founder of Momotaro Apotheca , a brand dedicated to holistic vaginal health and wellness . After struggling with recurrent BV and yeast infections with no long-term solutions in sight, Lindsay set out to create products that actually support vaginal and vulva healthâwithout harsh chemicals or unnecessary shame. In this episode, we have a raw and informative conversation about all things vulva health, vaginal wellness, and sel...
Mar 13, 2025â˘59 minâ˘Season 4Ep. 8
