¶ The Damage of Dishonesty
Cause it's like for you to lie to me, this was calculus. Versus you just telling me the truth. Right. You know what I mean? And keeping it with honey. And let's also say that even if you're withholding information, that's lying to me. Like if you purposely leave out things and you're not telling somebody something, that's still fucking lying.
Like if you're like leaving out information that somebody probably should know. Like if you like meet somebody and they don't tell you that they have a girlfriend. That's lying. And they be like, oh, you didn't ask. My nigga lying by omission. It's lying by fucking omission. And I you know, I date older guys. So I you think that once guys hit a certain age, they'll keep it real with you and be honest about the way they feel because
One thing I don't feel that way. No, but honestly, one thing I'll say about me, especially lately, I feel like a lot of times I'm going into these situations because I'm really trying to change it. Believe it or not, I really fucking am because I've done the moment where we need the video. I'm serious because I've done my I've done my dirt. I'm not the perfect partner. I know that, but I know what I want and I know in order for me to get the results that I want, you have to change.
It's like what what what's the lo what's the little saying about insanity? The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting a different result. I'm not gonna be insane. So I know I have to change.
I have to but I know I have to change myself to in order to get what I want so I know I need to So like the last couple of situations that I was in, like, I was like, okay, you know what, let me do the right thing, let me put my right foot forward and really try and it's like it just slapped me in the face'cause I feel like People say one thing like they'll be like, Oh, I'm ready for this, I'm ready for this, but in in actuality, you're really not.
You're not ready to be talking to somebody because of another situation that you have. You know what I'm saying? It's like, why couldn't you just be honest and be like, you know what? This is what I want. Cause I have this going on. Like, why you didn't just say that in the beginning? Why can't people just be honest? Because they fear, oh, oh, I might lose her or she might not fuck with me. But guess what? But then you also might lose.
Exactly. Either way it goes, the truth will always come out. So when the truth comes out later, you done fucked up. You done fucking fucked up. And that's one thing I just hate. I just feel like
¶ The Nuance of Truth in Dating
I'm not gonna say, I mean, everybody lies. At the end of the day, everybody likes to be like, oh, I'm a real ass nigga. I'm a real ass bitch. I'm solid. I'm fuck that. A hundred percent of people lie. One hundred percent. There's no such thing as a hundred percent real ass nigga, a hundred percent real ass bitch. It's just not. Let's just keep it 100. You know what I'm saying? So it's like, but I feel like there's certain things. There's sometimes there's things that you can leave out. Like.
You know what I'm saying? Like if you are just like casually dating somebody and like say it's a first or second date and you just fucked somebody last week, you ain't gotta tell them that. Like that's a little stuff.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like so little shit like that don't come to I mean duh, you know I was fucking before I met you. You thought you think I was out here not giving this pussy to nobody? Not giving the pussy a I mean I'm just saying though, like I feel like that's common knowledge. necessarily need to be displayed. We're all adult T.
We all times out of ten, we all was fucking somebody before we started dating this new person. Right. And you probably might have a situation where you still fucking this person. But I feel like Once feelings get involved, I feel like that's when honesty needs to step in. I prefer people to Let me know. What's your But I'll well I'll I'll say this.
Yeah, from the jump. But some just we might not even be end up being like a thing for real. Right. So th I mean so that's what I'm getting at. Like if we're not gonna end up being a thing, that conversation doesn't need to be had. But I feel like after one or two days
You can tell like, okay, you know what? I really fuck with this person and I wanna see where it goes. Yeah. So once you tell once you can tell that you kinda fuck with me, I feel like that's when honesty needs to kick in. And you need to be on some shit like Yo, what's up? Like, I'm just letting you know this is what my situation is, and this is what I got going on, but this is kind of what I'm wanting.
But niggas just wanna tell you what you wanna hear, like, oh no, man, I I'm ready to go all in. I'm single, I'm not fucking with nobody, I don't really kick it with nobody like that. Whole time you got a whole bitch that's sitting at home wondering what the fuck you are on Twitter sub tweeting you.
¶ Confronting Male Deception in Relationships
And then this is what men do men and one niggas always got a situation. And two, niggas don't even They are they're never real'cause let me tell you one thing. Not only are they not telling the new girl about the old girl, but they don't even have enough respect for the old girl to be like, Hey, you know what?
This is not what I want. Or this, you know what I'm saying? Or I'm cool on this. I'm I I want to date other people. Like they don't even have the right to be like, okay, you know what? Even if you just start talking to somebody, I'm sorry, my thoughts are everywhere because y'all I'm really. Even if you're dating somebody and it's a new situation.
And y'all start off and things are really fucking great. And then maybe it don't work out and y'all just want to be friends. Men are just never clear. They can never say, hey, you know what? I really fuck with you and I want us to still be friends. I want us to still be cool, but I don't think we should be like that. You know what I mean?
And it's like they still wanna fuck you. Like even if they know that they not gonna be with you and they know that they don't see the shit going over, they still To that pussy. So ain't nothing. But Garfield not even that good. I told y'all Garfield yourself sustained. I am. I said Garfield. I'm speaking for myself. Garfield is very mediocre, goddamn. God damn it, you ain't got the lie, the pussy is not and there's so much pussy out there. But it's bad. Mm-hmm.
I'm crying and I'm laughing. Tell out a cushion for the pushing. I'm fucking dead. So niggas be shook. They'll be not before. I'm fucking dead. I'm just uh I'm just annoyed with I I was rapper Bay came to Atlanta the other day and we just had a good conversation and we were just really talking about just everything like that's my nigga like I'm not gonna lie that's my nigga to the death But I'm just starting to realize like I don't think we'll ever ever be together