I See's Daily Game. It's a production of iHeartRadio. What's up to Sights Tea. You're listening to The Daily Game, the compilation of motivational quotes I've collected over the years that I've found inspiring and helped me through the game of life. Today's quote comes from the French aristocrat Antoine Descente ex superre. This is a quote that I've been saying for a while, and I never knew exactly where
it came from, but now we do. Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but looking outwards together in the same direction. I'll change it for Antoine, It'll be relationships do not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outwards in the same direction. Because love comes in different flavors. You know, you love your mother, you could love your father, you could love your kids. But a relationship you have to be on the same page, so the two people have to see a future that's similar.
I mean me and Cooco, we've been together over twenty years. But if she wanted to live on the beach and I wanted to live in the woods and the mountains, that's a deal breaker. Because even if I did live on the beach, I would be unhappy, so that relationship would be one sided. If both people see the same view of the future, you have the potential for a long, loving relationship. I always say that most of the judgment
calls you make in a relationship will be artistic. That's what are you going to eat, how you guys gonna dress, how you're going to decorate your home, where you're gonna live, What are you going to do for vacation, What do you guys do? What music's what do you do for entertainment? These are artistic calls. You have to have similarities oppositees a track, but they don't stick. You have to be similar and have similar visions of the future. You have
to look out in the same directions. This doesn't mean you have to be identical on everything. I might like one kind of music, Coco might like another kind of music. That's not a deal breaker. But the vision of the future, your kids, and what you guys want has to be similar. So, as the French aristocrat said, love does not consist on gazing at each other, but looking outward together in the same direction. I one hundred and ten percent agree with this.
You have to find somebody who shares the same vision of the future. Here's the problem. As we grow, our ideas change, and that's the fear in a relationship is that I might want to do this for the first ten years, but the next ten years I have a shift in what I want. And that's called human nature.
And that's why all relationships are crapshoot. Because you look out in the same direction doesn't mean you will continue to look out in that exact same direction for the next thirty, forty fifty years, whatever you guys plan to be together. This has been another ice cold fact from me iced tea. Listening again tomorrow when I drop some wisdom on your ass till then, stay safe, stay smart, and stay knowing you want the same goal. At the
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