I love the conversation Laverne’s admission has given rise too. A lot of it is shallow and obvious in its call to action (cancel Laverne) so I’d like to provide a deeper perspective rooted in compassion and consideration. I discuss: Dating Across Political Lines The Intersection of Politics and Dating How people relate to their oppressors The Challenges Faced by Black Trans Women How black folks relate to white folks Dating preferences within a white supremacist world REFERENCES Laverne Cox vide...
Jul 24, 2025•43 min
The thoughts I unpack: Race obsession is wasting my time White supremacy is a game you only win if you refuse to play the power of focus and attention in how my reality shapes itself around me REFERENCES Black Skin, White Masks - by Frantz Fanon African Americans, Epigenetics - https://youtu.be/KKaukv_JLX0?si=dtsctkrtQlky8Xw1 Candice de Meza (real vs true quote) - https://www.instagram.com/candicedmeza/?hl=en Pendulum. Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland History of Patriarchy - https://youtu.be/...
Jul 02, 2025•54 min
On this episode I answer a listener question on how to build intuition. I discuss: the connection between intuition, self-trust, and self-esteem. building self-trust through small consistent actions, respecting one's bodily needs and signals. logic and intuition collaborating embodiment’s role in intuition practical steps to strengthen Intuition Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be do...
Jun 22, 2025•18 min
Abraham Hicks’ Law of Attraction methodology is great. But what about its limitations? This episode explores this question through a Reddit post and listener feedback. I discuss: the importance of cultural contexts in spiritual teachings race and visibility in the spiritual industry healing vs self blame fate vs free will energy exchanges reality transurfing and pendulums REFERENCES Friendship breakup with God episodes: https://www.patreon.com/posts/87-consequences-103583371?utm_medium=clipboard...
Jun 08, 2025•23 min
WHAT A MOVIE. Indigenous spirituality! Culture Vultures! Connection with the land! Sinners is SHOUTING at you to get connected. Nyakwezi joins me to discuss how the movie addresses: Spirituality and Race Vampirism as an allegory for White Supremacy and Colonialism The beauty of black skin on screen The whitewashing of Christianity The demonization of African Spirituality Music, Dance, and Cultural Erasure Cultural Appropriation Sex Positivity and Feminine Pleasure Violence, Resistance, and Redem...
Jun 01, 2025•1 hr 2 min
Hi!!! Been practicing processing my emotions and wanted to discuss that process: self concept and self esteem is directly related to your in/ability to process emotions emotions aren’t identities the power of envy how language obscures understanding - autistic vs allistic speech: direct and literal vs indirect and metaphorical body domination is colonial reconnecting with your body embodiment precedes emotional processing body pendulums as divination REFERENCES: Self Esteem episodes: 97 and 133 ...
May 25, 2025•53 min
Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i There are MANY ways to ...
May 19, 2025•7 min
So it turns out lies - even the little white ones - have immense consequences on our abilities to build a self esteem! I discuss how lying: challenges our sense of personal authority decentres ourselves is a form of manipulation that robs others of choice causes moral injury builds an immoral and cowardly world has short term social benefits but long term self-esteem consequences REFERENCES: Ep97 on Building a self esteem: https://www.patreon.com/posts/97-process-of-107234216?utm_medium=clipboar...
May 02, 2025•25 min
This episode is a buffet of topics! I want to explore shame, jealousy and envy. I think all 3 have their place and can be incredible for self discovery. We can lean into them to much though, and also weaponize them (with good intentions but to bad ends). I discuss: envy and jealousy have bad PR haters online and what externalized jealousy says about us co-creating on the internet white guilt, fatphobia and shame Check out Sighswoon’s episode on shame referenced below REFERENCES: Video discussed ...
Apr 25, 2025•23 min
Today I discuss transitioning from overthinking to embodying and integrating what we already know: Trusting life’s journey and using feelings as a guiding system Letting go of a tightly controlled life, experience presence, and embrace the spontaneity and serendipity of life. Balancing action with faith, and shifting the approach from a driven, goal-oriented mindset to one of trust, alignment, and presence. The power of astrological transits, the Role of Spiritual and Celestial Support The gift ...
Mar 31, 2025•17 min
The discourse around people who’ve never had serious relationships is…interesting🤔. Let’s unpack: feeling embarrassed about being single/ never having had a serious relationship heteronormative fairytales personal growth outside of romantic relationships the abundance of love everywhere embracing your romantic timeline trusting divine timing REFERENCES: Made It Out Podcast (where the audio clip is from) : https://youtu.be/VbyZRaI1-jQ?si=4iM80UOtZNuWoV42 YouTube video on singleness: https://yout...
Mar 24, 2025•36 min
I’m so grateful for life! Today as I celebrate the gift of life as a human bean, I reflect on: feeling comfortable being observed in an emotional, sensitive, sincere, vulnerable state submitting to my emotional range life is an algorithm REFERENCES: Bashar - https://youtu.be/QJLRLx0cTOQ?si=EGpN6T573QmwjYyx Hitomi Mochizuki (vulnerable youtuber) - https://youtu.be/wsokB7lalJk?si=Pee5903iuTa96_PG Join Patreon starting at $1 Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging...
Mar 17, 2025•29 min
The transits in my 5th house (play, pleasure, vitality) have been BLESSING ME. I’ve been going out and making friends and spending time with strangers, and I’m loving it. I’m learning a lot about how to be present and world-build/community-build both physically and energetically/ I discuss: challenging internal biases making friends to survive the cold political front the joy of hanging out with strangers you’ll never see again friends vs. fellowship do you need friends to share the same interes...
Mar 10, 2025•23 min
Today’s plate is a buffet of various topics explored through examining my astrological transits for February: spiritual layering integrating astrological transits into daily life using astrology as a tool for navigating life's ups and downs the importance of having a spiritual practice christianity vs. Christ REFERENCES Friendship Breakup with God (Ep87 + 88): https://www.patreon.com/posts/87-consequences-103583371?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_crea...
Mar 03, 2025•28 min
Miss Nicole NEVER misses. Go give her your duckets NOW. I discuss: Heteronormative settling sex vs. love: can the love of your life also be the best sex of your life? (no) honest representations of women in film freedom through kinks chasing acceptance leads to a lack of fulfilment REFERENCES Nick White Australian Comedian (NPC example) - https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6at1-5xzAv/?hl=en Front Porch Swingers (swinger podcast) - https://open.spotify.com/show/1sHEE5zd5NmY7wjwBFqXT2?si=788588c613e8...
Feb 24, 2025•24 min
Phew! I discuss Ep7-10 couple by couple and unpack the prevalent themes: emotional detachment people pleasing how trauma impacts romantic relationships Sex before marriage, feeling betrayed by the Church Lying to create power imbalances and to manipulate References: All about Love - bell hooks people pleasing episodes https://open.spotify.com/episode/5YEnUjuQ0gDrr3nTU7Kc0n?si=2e719cd327104e24 https://open.spotify.com/episode/20gvsf2PFGGiBtjdwV5f9p?si=0c88a1f343fe42d2 Join Patreon starting at $1 ...
Feb 10, 2025•43 min
Truly can’t believe people voted 🤡 in again! So what now…Keep your chins up though. It’s the year of PERSONAL POWER. References: Dimensions explained - https://youtu.be/nnaTaIiji7w?si=BdcmNyGV3KPaxTXY Hitler and Trump - https://youtu.be/nfWwyZLTOaI?si=ppEaDYmhTuw8Xx2b Woman who taught self defence to Palestinian refugees - https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Ei183paAIMAsj8g7HndX8?si=b5701cff9e9d4b0b Join Patreon starting at $1 Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and enga...
Feb 03, 2025•31 min
This year I’m prioritizing presence, peace of mind and self belief, so LOTS gotta go. Enjoy, sweet stoats, and thank you for making my 2024 so fabulous and magical!! Join Patreon starting at $1 Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic Instagram: for more ISWIS musings follow https://www.instagram...
Jan 27, 2025•31 min
Ultimatum Season 3 has me HOOKED. A case study on patriarchy, desperation, lust, lies and misplaced hope. The full hour is on Patreon. I discuss: settling for scraps rather than being single the dangers of lacking emotional intelligence bypassing sadness for rage unhealed childhood trauma what happens when you lack self worth sex, sexual orientation and manipulation the fallout of men raised by the patriarchy Buy this full episode for a once-off fee, or join Patreon, starting at $1 Thank you Pat...
Jan 20, 2025•27 min
This year I engaged in spiritual experiments and documented them on the “becoming “a spiritual scientist” series exclusive to Patreon, episodes 100,101,103. I was exhausted by feeling so disempowered and waterboarded by life so decided to look beyond the veil myself. What’s the nature of existence? And how much control do I really have? In this episode I present the conclusions of my experiments, specifically: manifestation and timeline jumping the nature of existence the body and 3 dimensionali...
Jan 06, 2025•54 min
A follow up from Ep90 recorded in May, we reflect on what 2024 has taught us about : people pleasing boundaries reciprocation conflict friendship breakups projecting References: “Ep90 People Pleasing Causes More Conflict Than It Resolves” - https://www.patreon.com/posts/90-people-causes-104431194?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link Nassim Haramein | Learn To Harness The Power Of The Universe - https://youtu.be/ITxZUQWT2EY...
Dec 30, 2024•30 min
Join Patreon for $1 for more Pop Culture Round-up episodes, posted weekly-ish. PCR is available on all paid tiers. On this episode I discuss: social murder anti-revolutionaries anti-intellectualism liberals References Hysteria Podcast: https://youtu.be/2wXI8cNBHSw?si=3fW3fZf77JphAwpi Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Dec 27, 2024•15 min
WHAT A YEAR! This episode I discuss the spiritual routines I incorporated into my life that have had a profound impact on my connection to my higher self. I discuss Breathwork, yoga nidra, channeling, sound baths, dream interpretation and morning pages. Themes discussed liminal space the power of presence unlocking psychic abilities purging and clarity Links Jaliessa Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3yyybxiu9zUp2jwevb6kqW?si=38772d8a253b4be4 Flex Mami : https://instagram.com/flex.mami B...
Dec 23, 2024•29 min
Okay Ultimatum Season 3 is EATING CHILE!!! The full 90mins is on Patreon. We discuss: fetishization colourism and internalized racism gender bias control in relationships the dynamics of age gap relationships manipulation emotional repression Buy this full episode for a once-off fee, or join Patreon, starting at $3. Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.c...
Dec 16, 2024•32 min
Fellow People Pleasers we are NOT leaving 2024 without learning how to boundary set. People pleasing and boundaries have been directly linked with my own self worth, self concept, sense of self, respecting my self, and STRENGTHENING my intuition, intuitive abilities and my connection to my Higher Self. Like I hear her more clearlyyyyy, come on!!!!! This is necessary work. Boundary setting is an energetic practice and bears sooo many fruits. SO LET'S DO THIS. 💥 how to recognise toxic relationshi...
Dec 09, 2024•16 min
In upcoming episodes I'm going to be building on ideas of embodiment, losing people but/because of gaining self-love, and spiritual awakening. Today's episode lays the groundwork for these themes. I discuss some of my developments in: Boundaries with self Processing resentment through body work and dreams Dream interpretation Friendship breakups and self respect Proprioception and ignoring the body’s cues 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:42 Why there will be “No Love is Blind DC” Reunion *sprin...
Dec 03, 2024•24 min
Episode is postponed! We'll discuss Ep12 + the reunion in one episode next week or the week after. In the meantime catch up with the Love Is Blind tea - specifically, TYLER and his 673 kids - via these links (available to all free+paid patreon members): https://www.patreon.com/posts/vol-6-114883413?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link Patreon is closed to new subscribers from October 31 2024, until 2025. If you want to joi...
Oct 28, 2024•5 min
Things have gone from bad to WORSE. We discuss Ep10 and 11, with no spoilers beyond Ep11 (but we do discuss a reddit theory about Tyler and his sperm donor situation). Trouble in paradise for Taylor and Garett, Tantrums and misunderstands between Tim and Alex, bullying in the air with Hannah and Nick D, and a lack of clarity between Tyler and Ashley - is the man a dad or not, come on nowwwww! The full 2hr episode is on Patreon which you can buy for a once-off fee, or become a monthly subscriber....
Oct 21, 2024•54 min
Have these men lost their rabbit ass minds?!!! We discuss ep 5 from when they leave for vacation, all the way through to half way through Ep9, with no spoilers beyond Ep9. Raw sex, military drama, the ick, no retirement plans - we unpack this and more on this episode. The full 2hr episode on Patreon which you can buy for a once-off fee, or become a monthly subscriber. Topics: Monica and Stephen: hypogamy, tense relationship Dynamics, cheating Hannah and Nick D: Compatibility Issues, childishness...
Oct 14, 2024•51 min
This season is COOKED! Hard to get through but fun to discuss. The full 2hr episode on Patreon which you can buy for a once-off fee, or become a monthly subscriber. We discuss Ep1 all the way through to half way through Ep5. We end after the couples meet and before they go on holiday. There are no spoilers beyond Ep5. We discuss: First Impressions of the Show (we hate it but are committed lol) Leo and Brittany: manipulation, coercion, Jewish Guilt, epigenetics Hannah and Nick D: White beauty sta...
Oct 07, 2024•51 min
