Back from a quick trip to Ghana, FK & Jollz start off this week’s episode by letting a few Nigerian corporations feel the sharp edge of their tongue and emotions because of their bad services - airlines, telcos, power companies… nobody is spared. They then dive into a weekend recap and solve some dilemmas before talking about how early it is for a couples trip and reminding everyone about the importance of safe sex. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while lis...
Oct 16, 2024•2 hr 6 min•Season 6Ep. 45
This week, the bounce is joined by Dunni & Dele, siblings who work together to run their family owned business, Celebrations (@celebrationsng), a gifting company founded 35 years ago. After solving some heartbreaking dilemmas (look out for the lady suffering from PTSD after living with a violent sibling) and laughing at crazy confessions (what do you do when a one night stand steals from you), the amazing sibling talk about building on your parents dream, running a business in Nigeria and wh...
Oct 09, 2024•2 hr 20 min•Season 6Ep. 44
This week, the bounce is joined by the one and only OG before IG, Baba Hafusa and Alaga himself, Reminisce. They discuss where he has been and why he takes time between projects before giving some interesting advice to some of our listeners. Reminisce and the ladies then discuss what it's like being a young veteran, his experience going to Hajj and debate the differences between men's and women's experience of the world and each other strongly before talking through his exciting new project, "Su...
Oct 02, 2024•1 hr 48 min•Season 6Ep. 43
The bounce is back in Lagos so you know what that means - weddings, engagement parties & mistakenly partying in the club till the dawn of day. On this week’s episode, the girls express their “excitement” about their first few weeks back in their favorite place on the planet; Lagos. You also get your favorite story times and a chat about the essence of boundaries in professional, platonic & all kinds of relationships. Unfortunately, this is also the finale of your bonus episodes for the y...
Sep 28, 2024•45 min•Season 6Ep. 42
On the bounce this week, FK and Jola ponder on the power of friendships, relationships, partnerships and the magic of deliberate human collaborations that inspire collective success. The ladies read submissions from listeners on their experiences with supportive friends, partners and guardians and inspire some thought about the people in your life that helped you move the big blocks that were instrumental in shaping your story. This episode was brought to you by Chivas Regal. Drink responsibly, ...
Sep 25, 2024•48 min•Season 6Ep. 41
This week, the bounce is joined by our friends Tolly T and Audrey of The Receipts Podcast! The ladies talk about the charms of Nigerian men, the fear of confessing love first, hiding insecurities behind righteous indignation and careless comments from friends who have hurt or stayed with you long after the conversation. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a revi...
Sep 21, 2024•1 hr 42 min•Season 6Ep. 40
This week, the conversation is many parts insane and all parts hilarious. With just each other for company, FK and Jola empty their minds of all thoughts unfit for human attention. They introduce their new vertical “grownupicity”, wonder about the standard kissing operation methods and if waxing ladies should begin to charge based on surface area. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app yo...
Sep 18, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Season 6Ep. 39
This week’s episode is very throwback in nature, a random collection of thoughts and bizarre chatter from your favorite girls. The conversation roams from recent shenanigans to musings on stomach sizes and how much of a turn on capable men are. Enjoy. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a review, share with everyone you know and if you also watch on YouTube, sub...
Sep 14, 2024•55 min•Season 6Ep. 38
Fresh off the high of their shows in the UK & Ireland, FK & Jollz give a recap of the live shows and lessons learned. Dilemmas include a lopsided bum saga and a 30 year old who feels their life is stuck in reverse. The girls round up the show with a conversation on how to combat the pressure to make the most of the last few months of the year. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever ap...
Sep 11, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Season 6Ep. 37
This episode, Jola and FK talk about what way too many things, because that’s what happened when there’s no guest to moderate the madness. After dreaming of big podcast money (shoutout to Alex Cooper), they tackle dilemmas of thieving family members, the mistake of missing your ex, suppressed long term love and unwelcome body licking. Finally, the ladies posit who they would be if they could change their personas for no reason at all Buy tickets to our London Live Show tomorrow London - 8th Sept...
Sep 07, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Season 6Ep. 36
This week, FK and Jollz are alone with their thoughts in the studio and of course, some chaos. After dreaming about athletic careers that never were, they tackle some tough family dilemmas and discuss the true meaning of giving your friends grace. Buy tickets to our UK Live Shows which are only a few days away Manchester - 6th September - https://www.manchesteracademy.net/order/tickets/13373867/i-said-what-i-said-live-in-manchester-manchester-academy-2-2024-09-06-19-00-00 London - 8th September ...
Sep 04, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Season 6Ep. 35
This week, FK and Jollz are joined by their friend and repeat guest, Alma Chronicle! After tackling dilemmas about difficult polygamous families and people thinking they can do better than their current partner, the ladies discuss what it's like to start life over in a new country and how to plan for a year-long sabbatical. Buy tickets to our UK & Ireland Live Shows Dublin - 1st September - https://takeyourseats.ticketsolve.com/ticketbooth/shows/873664046… Manchester - 6th September - https:...
Aug 31, 2024•1 hr 58 min•Season 6Ep. 34
This week, FK & Jollz are joined by everyone’s culinary guide and recipe champion Sisi Yemmie , an OG in the content game and an all round fabulous babe. After taking on a few dilemmas about estranged parents and overly available boyfriends, Sisi Yemmie talks about having a surprise twin pregnancy, creating amazing and relevant food and lifestyle content for a decade and living life in the public eye. Buy tickets to our UK & Ireland Live Shows * Dublin - 1st September - https://takeyours...
Aug 28, 2024•1 hr 59 min•Season 6Ep. 33
This week, FK & Jollz are joined by Dodos Uvieghara , an amazing makeup artist and one of Nigeria's most prolific content creators. After tackling a dilemma about cantankerous inlaws, the ladies get into the world of content creation and makeup artistry as well as what new motherhood has taught Dodos. Buy tickets to our UK & Ireland Live Shows * Dublin - 1st September - https://takeyourseats.ticketsolve.com/ticketbooth/shows/873664046… * Manchester - 6th September - https://www.mancheste...
Aug 24, 2024•1 hr 28 min•Season 6Ep. 32
This week the bounce is joined by the one and only Chigul for a spectacularly hilarious 2-hour episode as the best agony aunt ever. After recapping a friend of the pod, Dimma's gorgeous weekend over the weekend, Chigul helps solve an array of crazy dilemmas before ending with a hot rant about the never-ending crimes of Lagos landlords and other partners in wickedness, agents. Tickets to our shows in the UK & Ireland are out now. Get for you and your friends here Dublin - 1st September - http...
Aug 21, 2024•2 hr 19 min•Season 6Ep. 31
This week, FK & Jollz are joined by their friend, hypeman extraordinaire and party starter, Soji. While constantly declaring his undying love for FK, Soji helps solve some dilemmas (he makes them worse, to be honest) and walks through what it's like being a party starter and hypeman! Buy tickets to our UK & Ireland Live Shows Dublin - 1st September - https://takeyourseats.ticketsolve.com/ticketbooth/shows/873664046… Manchester - 6th September - https://www.manchesteracademy.net/order/tic...
Aug 17, 2024•1 hr 58 min•Season 6Ep. 30
This week, the podcast is joined by the baddie queen of vibes, Ashley Okoli! After giving some sage advice, Ashley talks about growing up in Ojo as a first daughter, dropping out of university and treading the path less beaten with not just makeup and fashion, but also life. She also introduces us to her film "Gemini Confessions" and explains what it's like to live life on vibes! You can buy tickets to our London show at Hackney Empire on September 8th right here - https://www.hackneyempire.co.u...
Aug 14, 2024•1 hr 41 min•Season 6Ep. 29
Welcome back Tolani as our first bonus episode guest! Years ago, she first came on the show to talk about the struggles of being an overworked and underpaid party usher while at University. Now she's back to talk about building an event planning company, being a newlywed and what it takes to mak sure your party is popping! Dilemmas this week include career decisions, assuming you're in a relationship and giivving people you love embarrassing or hurtful feedback. It was a hilarious episode as usu...
Aug 10, 2024•2 hr 36 min•Season 6Ep. 28
This week's episode started light and bubbly but got quite serious towards the end because if your girls are not anything, they are multifaceted! The episode began with a recap of a friend of the pod, Dimma's wedding in Enugu. Dilemmas this week are all over the place, from a young man who has reconciled with his dad behind his siblings' backs to a young lady tired of her friends always having conversations about men and a young man trying to own FK's spot. The podcast ended with an honest discu...
Aug 07, 2024•1 hr 49 min•Season 6Ep. 27
Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, it has happened! In August and September, to celebrate the podcast's 7th birthday, ISWIS will release 2 episodes a week! So for the next 8 weeks, you will get a fabulous extra episode every Wednesday and Saturday. What can we say, you girls are deeply benevolent queens! So get ready guys, it's about to be double the trouble, fun and absolute insanity! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter...
Aug 03, 2024•15 min•Season 6Ep. 26
Happy International Friendship day! This week is all about the ups and downs of friendship! After a mini celebration of FK's half birthday (yes, it's a thing!), your favourite girls get into dilemmas (as usual) before reading your incredible submissions on some of the most amazing and hurtful things you've experienced in friendship. FK & Jollz also discuss managing the expectations of your friends, and the pressure aesthetically pleasing hangouts and grand gestures place on perfectly amazing...
Jul 31, 2024•1 hr 36 min•Season 6Ep. 25
This week, FK & Jola are joined by Gbemi & Mayorfit, two fitness and wellness practitioners! After discussing some dilemmas involving a possessive mother-in-law & a lady worried about her friends not liking her romantic partner, they enter the world of fitness and wellness! The guests are honest with Jola about her hopes to lose 15kg in 10 days, creating a better relationship with food, different body type, aesthetically driven gyms and the different types of fit fam communities. Als...
Jul 24, 2024•2 hr 25 min•Season 6Ep. 24
FK & Jola are all on their lonesome this week, sharing deep wisdom. After discussing their active weekends and laughing at England's inability to bring it home unsuccessfully, they delve into dilemmas before ending the podcast with some experiences of having tough conversations. Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a review, share with everyone you know and i...
Jul 17, 2024•2 hr 10 min•Season 6Ep. 23
Your favourite girls and Harmony are back and it's a deeper and more serious chat. This part of the episode is all about reviewing the year so far in a truly befitting gbeborun manner by splitting into categories, grading them and being honest about why you're feeling the way you are. The hope is that being honest about where you are and why you feel the way you do will help you think proactively about how to improve the second half of the year. Ladies and gentlemen, get ready to get deep! Don’t...
Jul 11, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Season 6Ep. 22
This week's episode was so fun and intense (and to be honest, long) that we decided to split it into two. FK and Jollz are joined by Harmony Adenipekun, a lawyer, luxury event planner and all-around bag of fun! In part one, they discussed crazy wedding expectations and weekend shenanigans before giving their two cents on a wide range of dilemmas like being "less intelligent" than your partner, in what time frame you divulge sensitive information about yourself to a potential love interest, and w...
Jul 10, 2024•1 hr 58 min•Season 6Ep. 22
This week, your favourite podcasters are joined by hit producer, Big Rage to discuss where we can find love (Jola was right, there is love in Ebeano) before getting into a heated argument about "modest dressing" and to what degree people can have a say over what you wear. He also spoke about his career trajectory and experiences as a producer as well as the future project he is excited about Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twit...
Jul 03, 2024•1 hr 54 min•Season 6Ep. 21
Season 6, Episode 20 Guess who's back from a quick holiday! FK & Jollz catch you up on their early summer shenanigans, before going into a series of lamentations about Nigeria and low expectations and solving some dilemmas (look out for the woman whose husband got carried away with her sister's BBL). The bounce is back! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a ...
Jun 26, 2024•1 hr 47 min•Season 6Ep. 20
This is a hot and steamy episode! As usual, Jola & FK update you on their recent experiences before diving into some really interesting dilemmas (look out for the one where a friend feels left behind) and talking about shit etiquette - where, when and how do you shit around those you love, like or lust. Honestly, this podcast is truly the gift that keeps on giving Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 sta...
Jun 19, 2024•1 hr 50 min•Season 6Ep. 19
It's the podcast's 200th episode (well, sorta kinda in an ISWIS mathematics way) and no better way to celebrate than a brand new installment of the crowd favourite, "Secrets & Lies". Submissions range from spicy to hilarious and very vulnerable but through them all, Jollz & FK are there for you! Don’t forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast on Twitter! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to and leave a review, share with ev...
Jun 12, 2024•2 hr 15 min•Season 6Ep. 18
This week, the bounce is joined by Ahmed and Faith; two incredible young people. They discuss their weekends before giving some pretty fabulous advice to some crazy dilemmas and then diving into an honest, hilarious and vulnerable conversation about what it means to be blind in Nigeria and how organisations like the Bethesda Home for the Blind continue to do the Lords work in helping them attain and maintain independence. Kindly check out the Bethesda Home & School for the Blind. They have b...
Jun 05, 2024•2 hr 22 min•Season 6Ep. 17
