Cleaning, Ironing, Washing

Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Sorry it's late, that is my fault. I got my hair done yesterday and I it's great, well, thank you, but you know, like, okay, when you're a woman, you can't just like pop into a place really quick like my girl who Jenny knows she books out so far in advance, so I was like, oh I have I don't ever book it like I should, Like I should just every time I get my hair down, book it for however long from that point and just be done. But I don't. I wait until my

hair is so gray that I'm like, I need it done now. So all she had was like an eleven fifteen on this past Monday. I'm like, I need it done, Jenny. I'm sorry, no i' and then not a big deal. I just it cuts it so close to my show too, that I went in yesterday with like mostly wet hair. It's like, oh man, this is but anyway, good grays are gone and I'm feeling good nice. It looks lovely. And Jenny's mentally not here. She's

physically here, mentally gone because she's gone on vacation. I still have a day left of work, but I have a lot of stuff to prepare to be off for work because of holiday stuff coming up. So it's like, yeah, i still have like a day left of work, but I'm doing like a bunch of stuff to be on top of things while I'm out. So but that does mean that the podcast next week will also come out like a little bit later on Tuesday. It'll still be about Tuesday, but Ginning

gets back Monday night. It's so annoying to me that they don't just give us July fifth off, and I know we talked about it. What this must be like a corporate thing? Are there all? Can they only allow so many days off the year or something? I don't know. That's a good question because I was looking last night. They're so greedy because it's a leap year. So the fourth is on a Thursday this year, obviously, and last year was on a Tuesday because of the leap year. Yeah,

I'm pretty positive we had the third and the fourth off last year. I swear I don't remember, but probably. I also know obviously they added June teenth, so like in the past couple of years, so I think it's swapped, and I understand June and teenth is much more important than us getting off the fifth of July. Yeah, but can't we do both? Is

my question? Is there some corporate rule that says you got to pick five five company holidays a year and that's it, Like, come on, I don't I know, I don't get it, and i don't know if I've said this on the podcast before, but like it's off. It's often hard for Andrew and I to plan trips because he's a I'm busy right now. I can't go anywhere type of person where I'm I'm like, I need three months in advance to be able to plan certain things because of how my job

works and whatever. But we can usually bank on holidays being slow for him because nobody's looking at houses over the fourth of July, over Thanksgiving or whatever. Right, So I was like looking at the schedule and how it was a Thursday this year, and I sat there and I'm like, I'm literally not going to do anything for the fourth it being in the middle of the

week, knowing I have to work Wednesday and work Friday. It just is not like conducive to a schedule where like I'm going to go out and watch fireworks and have a good time. But I got to get home and get to bed and be up in the morning. And so I mean I should say that like at this point in my life, that's where I'm at.

That didn't stop me in the past, because I'm definitely the year I sliced my foot open on Big Gallen, it was like a Wednesday or Thursday, and I came into work the next day, but that was that was the most chaotic day on earth. Yes, So okay. So Steve was already off, he was on vacation. He was on vacation. Jenny had come to work with basically gangrenous just like infection, huge gash like two gashes on

my feet. She was pale, and on top of all of it, I got into a car accident at the like outside of Caribou Coffee on my way into work. So I was like late, but not like crazy late, but just late enough where Dave had to start the show alone yep. And he's like looking at Jenny, like you need to go to a doctor immediately because it was so bad, and I like didn't want to leave you

guys hanging. So I was still doing stuff and Dave's like, Jenny, leave it now, I will be fine for like ten minutes the ballon gets here. I remember walking down the hall in the skuy brunt that used to work here saw me and he's like, are you okay? And I was like, I don't know, Like I'm leaving though, but I was about

to pass up because it was Yeah. I don't know if I was just in my head at that point or what was happening, but I did not feel well, and so yeah, I ended up in the er getting stitches and being scolded by the er paramedics and doctors of you dumb ass, why were you not here twelve fourteen hours ago? Not like like I literally just slept overnight in pure pain. Thought it was just a cod it'll be fine. Nope, it wore doubt. You got to help your foot. So

that's exciting to get to keep my foot. But this is a warning to anyone who's doing crazy things on the fourth of July. Safe. Go in and get stitches right away if you feel like you know there's a chance to that. Don't just throw some gray goose on it, bandage it up on a boat and be like let's go. Yeah, who would do that? Claw? Who would do that? I don't know? I don't know really,

but yeah, can I say though? Also with this trip coming up, I have talked many times about how we're supposed to do this very long hike yep, and I don't think it's gonna happen because, Hi, the weather is supposed to be like one hundred degrees and I've been watching the weather and I'm like, at first, I have been wanting been monitoring so excited for it makes me so sad for you. So I was monitoring it for

the last like month, kind of like seeing what the averages. And granted it's in the mountain and I'm looking at the city that is by, so it probably will be a little bit different. But it was like probably going to be in the eighties and already at eighty I was like, that's kind of hot to do, like a pretty long hike. Yeah, yea. So now I've been looking and it is like ninety nine one day, one hund and another day it's going to drop it probably, So I just I

don't know what to do. I'm going to talk to my friends because one

of my really good high school friends lives out there with her husband. Yeah, I think that they're planning on doing the hike with us, or at least they're going to do some of it with us, and so I kind of want to see where they're at or what they think and stuff about the conditions, like when is planned, b then planned because we're still going to do the original hike that I wanted to do, which is still like a nine anile hike that one or is it a totally different It's no, it's

about so it's like once you get to this one lake that was like the original lake, and then the hard like the super hard part of the hike is like past that leg. Yeah, so that it's called Cold Chuck Lake, and that's already like kind of on the harder scale on all trails of a hike because there's elevation gain and stuff, but that one doesn't. It's not intimidating to me. And so then like if we just stop there and turn around, then that was like the original hike we were going to do.

But then I saw you can keep going and do the the enchantments is what it's called. And so I don't know, we'll see. I'm like trying to not there's like part of me that's like maybe I should feel relieved that I'm not going to put my body through such a crazy hike on a vacation and like, maybe I should actually just relax and enjoy a vacation for once. Yeah, that's not my personality. Andrew and I are like go, go, go, and we want to see and do everything that we

can, and we love hard things. So if I'm at a beach place, I am so fine being so lazy. And anyone I've ever dated in the past that they can be lazy for so long. Yeah, but I can literally like couch rot on a beach chair for the entire day. I'll wake up, I'll listen to a little audio book, I get a snacky I can pass out for hours. And I think it discussed the men I've been with throughout my life. But like, if I'm in a city, then I still need a midday break. I cannot do like six am to

midnight. I have to have a little siesta. Yeah you were a little relaxing in the middle of the day. Oh yeah, I love everything about that. Change my underwear because you know, I probably sweat through it. That's important. That's why women pack at least like three times the amount of underwear that they need. You just never know how many times you're changing it and whatever else might have. I know, for a fact, on every single vacation, I will wear at least two pair of panties every single day.

I don't know if I've ever gone that far, but I would say I'm sorry, And why because you don't kouchie sweat as much as me. No, Because I do things like go to Tihiti and then I'm in a swimsuit a lot, so then I'm just like in a swimsuit, or then I'm in a dress. You should fucking burn that swimsuit at the end of that trip, seriously as much of my fucking life as I did on that trip. That's why I think I actually could still do this hike, because

Tahiti was insane and it wasn't just like hot. It was like the moment you started walking ten feet, you were drenched in sweat because it was humid as shit. I've been on trips like that and it's it's miserable. The one that immediately comes to mind was like a New Orleans trip that I did with my friend Abby and then our friends that we know, Amy James and Dona Valentine, and I mean I couldn't. There was never like there was

the only time and I can remember, that's how bad it was. The only time I wasn't sweating profusely was we did one of those fan boat banks. Yeah, the swater. That was the only time on the entire trip I wasn't dying. Yeah, that is not fun to me. I just feel like I stink the whole time. I feel when I get hot, I get my stomach. It's hard and blowdy, it's weird. I hate

it. I don't know. Yeah, no, I mean I feel you on that, but no, I'm not usually change in mind just twice a day if I don't have to. Yeah, that I'm grosser, though, I think I think I might just sit in it longer than you might. Oh mo, I'm pretty gross Honestly. Two times probably isn't enough for What's like when I was in Spain, I had to like peel my clothes off when I'd come back. I was like, oh God, this is disgusting. I'm trying to decide if I want to tell the story or not.

I'm going to tell it. It's really disgusting. Yeah, okay, you've literally told maybe the most disgusting story ever on this podcast already. So I've never talked about STDs before though, that's okay, okay, I've never had an STD. I haven't either, which kind of spoils what I'm about to say. Oh my elder roommate did. Yeah, No, I've had friends who have had yeah, chlamydia. It was, Yeah, hers was chlamydia and it was I remember she went in. She'd take like a quick like

a drink. It was like a drink, and then like in seven days it was cleared and she had to contact anyone obviously she'd had sex with to let them know, because I guess men don't show signs like women do. Yeah, uh right, in most cases, I think, yeah, I think some people do. So here's the story. Though. It was going to be my twenty first birthday, and I had recently engaged in a sexual

act with a gentleman yeah who. I was nervous because even though protection was used, he was a football player, and so I was like, how much did it actually protect me? And I started having issues down there and I was like, oh my god, I got an STD. What were the issues? Was it itching or discharge? Yeah? And so I am like, ugh, this is so disgusting. And I remember being at the Mall of America trying to find clothes for this trip to Vegas, yep,

And I was like pulse at what was happening down there. And I had gone and got tested because I was like, okay, I gotta get tested, like something's not right, and I everything came back negative. Everything. It absolutely had to have been a bacterial infection. Something it had to have

been. And I don't know if it just like had pit past the point of it being detected by the test or something, because I would get those every once in a while because I, like I wasn't in a relationship, so I would go really long periods of time without having sex in college, and then when I would have sex, it threw off my pH and so like anyways, I've had bacterial infections. It's just what happens with women when

their pH gets thrown off, and probably other reasons too. So I'm like trying on clothes though at them All of America, and I'm not kidding you, Like I was ready to throw away my underwear because the situation was so bad, and I like get the results back that it's negative. And I was like, great, cool, whatever, but I'm still dealing with this. Yeah, and I'm going to Vegas for my twenty first and Lucky and I had gone away from the most part of that guy. Yeah, but

I had just swept my ass off in Vegas. Was still like a little bit of issues, and I mean whatever. I was pretty much blasted the whole time because it was my twenty first, so I just drek it on and didn't care. Yeah, but I don't know if I've ever felt more disgusting in my life in those weeks trying to figure out, like what is wrong with me? And I'm telling me, like, now you're fine, It's just you're like whatever, lady, I'm telling you the same normal for

me. All right, good. I've had to go through one hundred paramount I'm buying under where I can't afford this lifestyle. Something is wrong with me. We well, we were in town for the fourth of July. My sister last minute was like, Hey, can we come visit. I was like, actually, we have no plans. Nice. So I'm actually excited because they get intomorrow at like four o'clock. But it is so random because, like I said, I will work on the fifth Cold Haas it off,

so they had this weird role. I was talking about this off the radio before we started to doing our podcast, where like they won't let us take off the same day, so like, if Dave is off, Jenny can't take off. If I'm off, Colt can't, So Colt has the day off. And I always think it's a little weird because some shows when

they just take all their vacation at the same time yep. And part of me loves that idea, and part of me hates that idea because part of me is like, I don't want to base my vacation around someone else Colts brother in law's wedding, right, But I also hate being in I hate doing the show without Cult and he hates doing it without me. It's a little different on the morning show because you have other people, Like if Dave was off, I didn't mind doing the show with you and Steve or you

and Drake or whatever, but it is you're just alone. It's so bizarre. I hate doing the afternoon show when Colt is on vacation. Yeah, and by the way, hate I've never done it. This will be my first time. Oh yeah, why I'm acting like this, like it's so off. I mean, it'll be fine, we'll get through it. But it's not a mouse in my pocket. Yeah, well I'll make promotion instructor Ted still to a cup of things with me. Is he around though, because I thought he would go up to a cabin or something. Yeah,

I think he. I think he's seeing Friday off. But next week I think he's in there. You go, I got such a double check. You should probably check with them. I know. Hey, so I'm going to need you to come in and hang out with me for four hours every day. Yeah. So, are you guys gonna like boat it up while they're here or what are you thinking? Maybe a little boat action. We're going to like excelsior the Fourth of July stuff, maybe mound for the fireworks.

I don't know. But is your niece and nephew coming to yep? Yeah, the whole fan, the whole famuh My. So, Jake and I we had sex two nights ago or two days ago, and I think we've talked about this before. We don't play music, and during the love ever, never ever ever put music, there's like no sound but us and a fan blowing on and so we're like, all right, let's go do this. And I was like, should we put music on? And he goes, sure, why not? And I was like, what do I

put on? Because I don't have like a playlist, And he goes, what about Sabrina Carpenter? And I just started laughing and I was like that feels creepy. I was like, are you envisioning? He's like no, I'm just we both like that song like put on her radio And anyway, it had been a minute since we hooked up. It was brief, so I could count like the number of songs and I go, oh, I go, maybe that's why we don't put music on you how quick? It's

so bad that it was quick. That's totally fine. I do not mind quick sex too, I am. I do not need a fucking horse and Pony show. Yeah, we both got ours. I was like, I would rather be quick because I can get on about my scroll on on my phone or do whatever I need to do. There are times, sure, but like for the the majority, I like a quick sesshon, I totally agree. We played Woodja on the show earlier, and so one of the options was Joe Biden, but oh, just in period, would you Joe

Biden? Would you know? It was would you have sex with Joe Biden? But you get a free week somewhere anywhere in an airbnb and whatever country you want? And I go a week. No, He's like, okay, a month. And I was like, is there a time limit on the sacks? And he goes, all right, fine, he goes like an hour ago an hour yeah, like say like that, yeah, like saying that that would like be a good amount. I was like, I was thinking five minutes. Yeah, does he think that that's a short amount

of time? Like think he did kind of think that, And I was like, I'm sorry, absolutely not. I do not think never ever ever. So anyways, I am on your side. But the thing is is that I think, well, I'm a little bit more selfish in this aspect. But we do a lot of like heat in the oven up kind of sexual act. We did that, yeah he o. And then that was where I was like good. And then he came to Poundtown Jenny. Yeah, so the Pound Town part, I'm like, baby, you can do

two pumps and be done. I tell yeah that you is fine. I can tell He'll be like, uh's gonna happen. I'm like, great, yeah, good for you, right, like just do it baby, Yeah, And like sometimes like I feel like, I don't know, I get nervous sometimes because I know Andrew probably doesn't want me to say in all this, but I feel like he holds off a little bit because he thinks he

needs to. Yeah, I want to be like, let it and blow now obviously if you haven't had any pleasure yourself and at last like two seconds, because I would think we've all had an experience like that, you do feel like, well, that was a waste of my energy to even lay down and put my clothes, Like my hair got a little snarley for what Yeah, not necessary, but for the most part, yeah, don't care.

Let it be heard around the world. The if if I knew every time we were gonna do it it was gonna be an hour, I would say no so often probably same. I know that's like way too long.

But I also my brain works in such a producer mindset now of a morning show and timing of things, and it's like something I need to like try to figure out how to turn off when I in my personal life because like I base my days off of like Okay, if I do this by this time, then this can happen, and then this will take this long and

it's it's like detrimental to my weekend sometimes. Yeah, but I feel like with sex a lot of times I'll be like, oh, okay, Like I know that I need to be at this at like nine thirty am on like a Saturday or something, and I was like, and it's already eight, which means we only have this much time to do what? And then I get in my head about things. Yeah, and I'm like, and then it takes away from the moment. And so I, yeah, I

want quicker sex. But then if I know that there could be a time limit, yeah, then I'm stressed about Okay, I need the freedom to go as long as I want, but also as short as I want to, that's fair. I typically don't like, uh, I think we've shared, we've talked about this. For I prefer morning sex, but like that's a limited situation for Jake and I in away because of Olive. But I typically don't like hook up right before I go do something because I just like

don't want to deal with anything aftermath. Yeah, cleaning, ironing, washing, are you ironing? Your flapstone or what we got a little wrinkled? God? Which flaps are you talking about? You know which flaps I'm talking about? Oh, you shouldn't put an iron on those? You thanks? Yeah, there's so sensitive. God, I didn't show you this. I'm gonna see if I it's this awful flaast material. No, but I burnt myself steaming something. Were you steaming it when it was on your body?

Gitty? What the fuck? Who does that? Oh? You can kind of see the geese her upper thigh because rah. I know it was pretty bad, but honestly didn't hurt that bad. Like it hurt in the moment, but then afterwards it was like fine, Like you know how you touch a crew. You're way too old to be steaming clothes on your body. Myself, I was going to an event, yeah, and my I was going with my girlfriend and she was like, oh, so I'm working out and then i'll go home, get ready quick, and I'll come get you.

I'm like, sweet, Well, she'd like, didn't I thought she was gonna have to shower and do her hair and all this stuff. And the next thing I know, she's like, Okay, I'm on my way and I was like, fuck, like I am not ready, and so I put this dress on. It was so wrinkly. I was like, I don't have time to whip this off and like, steam it not on my body. So then I did steam it on my body and I immediately

burnt myself. And then I did take it off and I was able to do it not on my body in time for her to pick me up and still be ready. So I learned a lesson, did you? And I, yeah, I won't do that again. I've done like a quick iron with a hair straightener on something, but like it'll be like pulling the dress out doing like the little flat iron thing, and that's pretty rare because I

don't especially now, I don't really use a flat iron anymore. Like ever, by the way I was going to say, I wanted to recommend something, so I talked about it on like the radio show. So you may have seen the video, but I technically graduated from therapy. I did see that video, congratulations. So basically it was just like you could always have

something to talk to your therapist about. But she feels like I'm like set because it was kind of like before I would be like like I wish therapy was today, you know what I mean, like I need to talk to someone today, Like almost every day needed someone to talk to and it's gotten, you know, and she's she knows this each time, like at a

certain point, was like, Okay, let's not meet every week. Let's meet every three weeks, then every six weeks, then every eight weeks, and I mean the last time we met was probably over eight weeks, maybe three months ago, and so we always at the end we'll look and see when we want to meet again. And she was like, I'm gonna let you think about this. Do you want to set an appointment? I go, I feel like I don't need to have an appointment, and she goes,

I thought the same thing. But I, you know, wanted you to feel that way, because if you wanted to, we would have them. But she's like, I just feel like you have the tools you need now. Doesn't mean I don't need therapy, doesn't need them. I mean, I'm never going to spiral have anxiety or different things. She's like, but you can set up an appointment with me if you feel like you need it. But like I was, like, it became like a thing on

my calendar. I'm like, oh, I have therapy. Like I wasn't looking forward to it because I didn't have something weighing on me that I needed to talk about. And so I was like, this is just crazy that I'm like technically, you know quote unquote grind, which is every therapist's goal to have you not need them regularly. But she recommended this book because one of the things I have is I have like some built up anger over various things. And I will sometimes usually if I'm laying a bed at night or

whatever, I start thinking of these things that anger me. They're in the past, and it's kind of like why am I doing it? Like I'll rev myself up over nothing. And so she recommended this book, and I wanted to share it on the podcast because I'm probably actually gonna make my book club read it because she says she would recommend it to every single woman ever. I'm sorry, it's gonna take me a second to find it, probably because I wrote it in my notes app and now I'm like where I should

just look where. I texted it to my friends Donn and Amy. But she also the woman the author also has. She's like a bunch of podcasts. What the hell. I'm just gonna look at the text us and to Amy and Donna because I sorry, you're fine, Amy, Donna group text. Okay. So it's called The Dance of Anger, okay by doctor Harriet Lerner, and it's l E R N E R and if you go to like, I just have audible. So I just downloaded. I haven't listened to it yet. And then she says, if you like, look up

podcasts and type in doctor Harriet Learner. She's on a bunch of people's podcasts talking about different topics. But the reason is, like the Dance of Anger, it's like for women, and like anger, we have built up over certain things. And like, I don't know, Like I said, I haven't listened to it yet, but she says she thinks every woman should read it. So I just wanted to recommend it. I downloaded it and I haven't started it yet. Okay, I want to hear about it once you

read it. Yeah, because I'm still in the midst of a katar. Yeah, I know I need a life, and so I like, I am curious about that because I do the same thing where I'm laying in bed at night and suddenly I think is something that has already passed. Yeah, and I start getting like upset about something. And then because of my anxiety, I started thinking about things that bad that could happen in the future because

of something that happened in the past that was resolved. And so yeah, that was one of So I always thought I leaned more depressive than anxious, but I guess I've learned that a lot of my quote unquote spiraling. And she's like, you keep using that word spiraling. It's it's been anxiety. And I didn't know that about myself because my parents are such depressed people or always have been. That I just assumed and I'm like a negative glass half

full. But one of the things I was doing was I was like looking at something in the future that I wanted, like a goal, and I was kind of obsessed with it, and it would make me angry daily thinking about it. And I was like, this is not healthy, and she's like, because you're living in the future, which is literally anxiety, She's like, you have to quit living in the you know, she didn't say

it like that, It never yet. And so in this recent session, I had said, like I've come to terms with I need to just be okay with what I'm doing right now. That is mean I don't have goals, but like I was, it wasn't a healthy goal. It was like a it was like I said, I was making myself angry that I hadn't like achieved it yet, and that was unhealthy. And so it was kind of like, I need to be okay with living in the present and what I'm doing, and if that's miserable, then I got to look at things

different. But I'm not miserable in the present, and I have to let go of And this will be like really vulnerable and honest on this podcast. We don't talk about it a lot. I still get in my head a lot about the difference of mornings and afternoons, because in my mind, mornings will always be more prestigious than afternoons, and that is a mental struggle. I have a why does that matter? That's very inside, that's very radio. The outside world doesn't care. No, they don't go, oh,

she's afternoons. Yeah fuck. Because also afternoons isn't a bad time slot there. There's always been two drive times for people, mornings and afternoons. So it's kind of like what is this about? Is this like a whole pride thing is this? And so it's a there are some deeper things there. And so one thing I have to like, who cares? Fallin? Who cares if you're doing afternoons instead of mornings. A you still are doing a job, you like, you're with a partner, you like, you're making

good money, you're happy. So what you're mentally making yourself unhappy? And also it's not to say I'll never do a morning show ever again, but I need to be happy with where I am right now. And so that's kind of like one of those like mental struggles I've been dealing with. And that's like, I don't know, it's a weird thing to stop thinking about. So I feel like we all go through like so many different phases in life, and a lot of people base something that they're looking forward to or

that they're reaching for, being career based. Yeah, and so I think, like I was thinking about it, and like this goes back so far. It's like in middle school, high school, I was trying to get good grades so I could get into a good college. So I was always stressed out about school and stuff like that. College comes I wanted to get good grades and get a good job because I thought that that's how it worked. Found out that really how it works. Yeah, Yeah, I have

to like get out there and get internships and network and whatever. So that was like what I was focused on in college. In my twenties, I kind of was like the party girl and was you know, hooking up with dudes and doing whatever and kind of dating and stuff, and that was like kind of a focus for me, with career mixed in. Now I'm like fully career based much more, but I also have like a good relationship.

So it's like you're always reaching for something and if you're thinking too hard about it constantly, then yeah, you're going to find like unhappiness in your present. Yeah, but I just think that that is how life works, to be honest, Like I understand where your therapist is coming from with a lot of the stuff, and like it's very worth it to be like, Okay, you need to like not be thinking about the future and whatever constantly, But it is part of life to always be looking to what's next. It's

just how it is. Yeah, until you're dead, God, because then I don't happen. Then I don't know, if it's just immediately you're just cleared of that anxiety, that would be great. I don't know. That's what I pray for. I've that I if I reached the age of like seventy or something, I hope that at that point in life, I'm like book everything. I don't care. I'm just living till I'm not. Yeah, I hope that that is. I probably won't. I'll probably be anxious

till the day I die. Yeah. Did I leave the stove one when I was biking my cookies. I don't know why you sound like that, but you do make a good cookies. So I put that into your world. Thank you. You're welcome. I don't know if I'll still be baking when I'm like too old and senile. I'll probably like, I mean, drunk Jenny burns Tilapias, old snowl Jenny might burnt cookies, you know what.

And that's something to look forward to. Did you have anything else you want to add before we wrap up today's episode, yes, really quickly. So. I had a wedding over the weekend and I had a poor choice in the dress I wore. Why it was too short? Oh no, And I like tried on a few different dresses, and I have a few weddings this summer, so I was trying to decide what makes the most sense

for each wedding. Yeah, one's outside ones whatever, and this one I was like, Okay, this will probably be the best one for this wedding. Well, of course, like it was above the knee in length and it was more of like, you're not body con super tight, but it was a little bit tighter, and I was like, okay, I'm gonna wear this. It's cute, tried it on, walked around the house. I was like, I can do this. It's not like riding up whatever.

But when it comes down to it, any dress that you have to somewhat worry about in the end, you shouldn't wear it to a wedding, especially not if you're trying to dance. And also the back was kind of open, so I wore this blazer over top it because I was like, seriously scared people were gonna be judging me because of how short, and then the back was open and stuff. So I'm sweating, Oh god, I'm

but I'm still dancing and having a good time. And at one point this older woman comes up to me like somebody's aunt and she and I was like, oh my god, is she about to say something to me about my dress? Like, and she goes, I just have to say, And I was like, here we go. She goes, you have the most disciplined electric slide I've ever seen. She's like, everyone else was just doing whatever, and you were the only one pretty much staying on the bead and

doing the right mood. And so she was giving me a compliment. But I was so funny. I've never heard someone be like, you have the most disciplined So anyways, learn a lesson. Don't wear a dress that you might have to be worried about. It's so true. The moment you think I'm going to be uncomfortable in this, you probably are. Just don't put

yourself through it. Every time I wear sequence, I regret it it like will always if it's like a strapless thing, chop up my fit like underarm skin, and I hate it. And it always like I never think sequence are that flattering on the body. I feel like the bulkiness of the material makes me look bigger. Yeah that's one of those takeaways I have, Yet

I didn't know that's so true. About sequence dresses I wore but I love them for like a New Year's party once and I felt like it made me look just like frumpy and like didn't accentuate the curves that it was supposed to. Like never again, yeah, like I'll see them in stores and I'm like, Okay, maybe like someone super super super super super right can pull this off. But like, I don't know, it's just not not that you can look great and everything. But I just think Jenny was to me,

no, you and anyone who is you can thank you. I just feel like it isn't the most flattering though a lot of times. All right, well, Jenny, have a great trip. Thank you. Catch up with you on Tuesday and see how the heat stroke hike went. Yeah, god, Okay, thanks for listening.