058: I Just (Found Out My Fiance Has a Secret)! Now What? With Tabatha Perry

Have you kept a secret from your partner? Or was a secret kept from you?  What happened when it finally came out?  In this episode that’s exactly what our guest Tabatha is sharing with our audience.  Finding out a secret about her fiance the day before their wedding!   It’s a doozy of a story that is PACKED full of lessons.  

Tabatha Perry is the ultimate go-to for women that are the non 9-5ers. She encourages and equips women that are wanting less chaos and to get their daily life on track! With over 15 years of experience in the Criminal Justice System, 20+ moves under her belt, has a Masters in Social Worker, girl-mom, wifey and Life Coach, she's got advice that will make any day less stressful for the woman juggling many balls in the air! As a professional over-thinker, she's learned how to simplify her day and loves helping women create simple & small edits in their daily life so they step into their fullest God-given potential!  

Listen in as we talk about:

• Her career in the criminal justice system led to her career as life coach. 
• Her historic relationship pattern of not choosing good men and being a fixer in the relationship. 
• How she met her fiance and was pursued by this man she wasn’t looking for.  Quitting her job after 3 months to move in with him in Alaska. 
• Shared a story with her the day before their wedding which unveiled a secret about his lifestyle, with prescription drugs.  
• Conflicted about what to do. Do they get married? Does she leave? 
• The details of how he got into using 
• The shame involved in keeping secrets. 
• The importance of having good friends to confide in to help her process this information. 
• The reach substance abuse has on a family
• How she moved forward with her wedding and enjoying her wedding. 
• A second secret revealed itself several years later in their marriage  
• How important it is to support partners in their recovery

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