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I Don't Know Her

Avery V. Mead and Rita Vigilwww.idkher.com
Avery and Rita are on a mission to share the stories your history books left out. Every episode they tackle the brave, complicated, courageous, and important stories of women you've probably never heard of, but you should have. Many of our episodes specifically highlight women of color and LGBTQ+ folks. Join us. Find your new heroes.

Episodes

PARK RANGER - Betty Reid Soskin

AV and Rita are back! Catch up with our intrepid hosts as they talk about the extended production break and tell the story of Betty Reid Soskin - the oldest living Park Ranger. There is way more to her story than wearing Park Service green though.

Dec 10, 202158 minSeason 4Ep. 5

SURFER - Margo Godfrey Oberg

The hosts start the episode with a discussion on the double standards applied to female bosses. Then Amanda digs into the story of the first woman to become a professional surfer--Margo Godfrey Oberg. Margo paved the way for women to become big wave surfers. Please support us on Patreon: https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast...

Oct 01, 202155 minSeason 4Ep. 4

MOUNTAINEER - Annie Smith Peck

Do you believe in ghosts? Spirits? Psychics? The hosts discuss the supernatural and the spiritual world at the top. Then Rita tells the adventurous tale of Annie Smith Peck, a professor and mountaineer who proves that it’s never too late to make your dreams come true.

Sep 24, 202151 minSeason 4Ep. 3

ACTIVIST: Madalyn Murray O'Hair

Rita ushers in the new season with some insights into apologies and why they’re so damn hard. Then Amanda tells the story of the infamous Madalyn Murray O’Hair, the Most Hated Woman in America. You think you know her story, but you have no idea. Please support us on Patreon & consider purchasing our merch. https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast

Sep 17, 20211 hr 23 minSeason 4Ep. 2

UPDATE - What we did on our summer vacation

Rita and Amanda update folks on all the goings-on in their lives since the last season and there is A LOT to say. Amanda had top surgery, Rita’s son started junior high, and there were some unexpected twists and turns, including the loss of two important people. Catch up with them in this first episode of the fourth season of IDKHer!

Sep 10, 202147 minSeason 4Ep. 1

ARTIST - Inji Efflatoun

The hosts talk about the disappointment of a respected local business owner and ally dropping a bad hot take. Then Rita tells the story of Inji Efflatoun, and Egyptian artist and political activist in this season-ending episode. Support us on Patreon and get sweet merch at TeePublic: https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast

Jun 11, 202157 minSeason 3Ep. 32

ACTIVIST - Kitty Cone

Rita shares her love for makeup YouTuber Jaime French. Then Amanda dives into the complex story of Kitty Cone. Diagnosed with muscular dystrophy at 15, Kitty eschewed her conservative upbringing to become a political organizer and disability rights activist best known for her work on the 504 Sit In.

Jun 04, 20211 hr 32 minSeason 3Ep. 31

MATHEMATICIAN - Hypatia

Rita & Amanda discuss the #metoo moment in the beer industry. Then Rita tells the tale of Hypatia, a philosopher, mathematician and astronomer who taught a generation of prominent thinkers, but whose life was tragically cut short.

May 28, 202155 minSeason 3Ep. 30

AUTHOR - Mary Cronk Farrell

We’re switching things up this week! Amanda interviews Mary Cronk Farrell, author of 8 books about women you’ve probably never heard of, but you should have. The two talk about why they’re drawn to telling these stories, revisit Irena Sendler (S1:E17), and discuss Mary’s new book, Close-Up on War: The Story of Pioneering Photojournalist Catherine Leroy in Vietnam . You can pre-order the book now! Visit https://www.marycronkfarrell.net/ for more....

May 14, 20211 hr 6 minSeason 3Ep. 29

DANCER - Tempest Storm

The hosts lambast the current fashion trends at Target & bemoan the fashion mistakes of their youth (that are currently being repeated!). Then Amanda tells the tragic & inspirational tale of Tempest Storm, the Queen of Burlesque, who was born into poverty in rural Georgia & rose to the height of burlesque, crossing paths with Elvis, JFK, and Marilyn Monroe along the way. Support us on Patreon and TeePublic! https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast...

May 07, 20211 hr 20 minSeason 3Ep. 28

ACTIVIST - Sybil Stockdale

At the top of the show, Amanda shares a demoralizing experience being misgendered at work. Then Rita tells the surprising story of Sybil Stockdale, a Navy Commander’s wife who organized a grassroots campaign to take on the U.S. government & hold them accountable for the missing & imprisoned during the Vietnam War. Support us on Patreon and TeePublic! https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast...

Apr 30, 202150 minSeason 3Ep. 27

CROSSOVER - Women Who Sarcast

On this special crossover episode, the hosts talk with Kathy Barron of Women Who Sarcast about podcasting, queerness, labels, and of course, Britney Spears. Enjoy this scintillating conversation about feminism, politics and more.

Apr 23, 202146 minSeason 3Ep. 26

COMEDIAN - Fanny Brice

The hosts talk about inappropriate questions. Then Amanda tells the tumultuous story of Fanny Brice, the original comedienne who paved the way for all female comics who came after, and whose life story was memorialized in one of the most iconic Broadway shows of all time--Funny Girl. Before Lucille Ball and Carol Burnett, there was Fanny Brice. Support us on Patreon and TeePublic!

Apr 16, 20211 hr 32 minSeason 3Ep. 25

MUSICIAN - Poly Styrene

At the start, the hosts talk about the tragedy in Georgia and we have some good news for our Patreon subscribers! Then Rita tells the story of punk rocker Poly Styrene. Before Bikini Kill and Kathleen Hanna was Poly Styrene, a biracial teen girl who single handedly changed the face of punk in the 70s and paved the way for the Riot grrrl movement of the early 90s. Support us on Patreon and TeePublic!...

Apr 09, 20211 hr 1 minSeason 3Ep. 24

Anna May Wong & Masako Katsura

After the killings of 6 women of Asian descent in Georgia, Amanda & Rita decide to revisit the stories of two Asian women you should know, but perhaps have forgotten. Anna May Wong was a brilliant, beautiful actress who was the first Chinese-American Hollywood movie star who became the first Asian American to ever be the lead of a television show. Then, Masako Katsura was a trailblazer in the world of billiards, competing among some of the most talented men in the industry and cementing her titl...

Apr 02, 20211 hr 21 minSeason 3Ep. 23

PROFESSIONAL BASEBALL PLAYER: Toni Stone

The hosts talk about workplace double-standards and how sometimes we assume people are allies when they aren't. Then Amanda tells the story of Toni Stone, who became the first woman to ever play professional baseball. Support us through Patreon and Tee Public! Find out more on https://www.idkher.com/.

Mar 25, 20211 hr 42 minSeason 3Ep. 22

WARRIOR NUN: Ani Pachen Dolma

The hosts talk about where the line is between bearing witness & reliving trauma. Then Rita tells the story of Ani Pachen Dolma, nicknamed the “Tibetan Warrior Nun.” Ani became the tribal leader of her clan after her father’s death, helping to fight the invading Chinese. She was imprisoned and tortured for many years, but miraculously didn’t give up. Support us through Patreon & Tee Public: https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast

Mar 13, 202158 minSeason 3Ep. 21

ACTIVIST: Belva Ann Lockwood

At the jump, the hosts discuss murder shows--why we like them & why they're problematic. Then Amanda tells the story of Belva Ann Lockwood, educator, activist, attorney & the first woman to run for U.S. President. If you'd like to support us, please follow us on social media, subscribe to our Patreon, or purchase our merch! You can find all of them on our Linktree .

Mar 05, 20211 hr 41 minSeason 3Ep. 20

ARTIST: Debora Moore

The hosts discuss monogamy & its challenges at the start. Then Rita tells about Debora Moore, a glass artist based in Seattle who is one of the first Black women to work in the field at a professional level. If you like our show, please support us: https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast

Feb 26, 202152 minSeason 3Ep. 19

JAZZ MUSICIAN: Melba Liston

At the top of the show, Amanda shares an infuriating incident of "pushback" in her school against Black History Month. Then they tell the story of Melba Liston. Liston was the first woman to play trombone in a big band (that wasn't an all-female band), and went on to become a respected and prolific jazz arranger, who worked with the most well-known and beloved musicians in the game. From Dizzy Gillespie to Quincy Jones, Liston is the one who arranged the music that made these men as famous as th...

Feb 19, 20211 hr 14 minSeason 3Ep. 18

CHEF/RESTAURATEUR: Cecilia Chiang

The hosts discuss the NY Times recent "Framing Britney Spears" documentary at the top of the show. Then Rita tells the fascinating & complex story of Cecilia Chiang, who revolutionized Chinese food in the United States. Please support our show by subscribing to our Patreon or buying merch on Tee Public. Find both on our Linktree .

Feb 12, 20211 hr 17 minSeason 3Ep. 17

ACTIVIST: Claudette Colvin

Rita gets deep at the start of the show--she shares a question her therapist asked her that she isn't able to answer. Then Amanda shares the story of Claudette Colvin, a teen girl who refused to give up her seat on a Montgomery bus, nine months before Rosa Parks, and she was one of the plaintiffs in the landmark case that made segregation on public transportation unconstitutional. But her story was purposely overlooked and overshadowed. Support our show by becoming a Patreon subscriber or buy so...

Feb 05, 20211 hr 40 minSeason 3Ep. 16

FASHION DESIGNER: Irene Lentz

Amanda shares something personal at the top of the show today. Then Rita tells the remarkable story of Irene Lentz, a fashion and costume designer who became a one-named powerhouse, dressing the likes of Ingrid Bergman, Ginger Rogers, and Lana Turner. Her story is equal parts inspirational and tragic. Please consider supporting us by subscribing to our Patreon or purchasing items on our Tee Public store ....

Jan 29, 20211 hr 6 minSeason 3Ep. 15

GOVERNOR & WAR CORRESPONDENT: Carolyn B. Shelton & Louise Mack

Amanda tells the story of Carolyn B. Shelton, the first woman to step in as an acting governor of a state in the U.S. And Rita tells us about Louise Mack, a gossip columnist turned first female war correspondent. Subscribe to our Patreon to get this and other bonus content material! https://www.patreon.com/idkherpodcast

Jan 27, 20219 min

DIVER: Vicki Draves

Amanda tells the story of Victoria (Vicki) Manalo Draves, a Filipino American woman who made history when she won two gold medals in diving, becoming the first Asian American to ever win a gold medal (and the first woman in diving to win two!). Bonus content includes discussions of mean girls, being petty, and some of the worst things the hosts did as teens. Check out our social media and subscribe to our Patreon: https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast

Jan 22, 20211 hr 1 minSeason 3Ep. 14

MATHEMATICIAN: Amalie Emmy Noether

Amanda makes an impassioned speech about why we need to do better at understanding how people become radicalized. Then Rita dives into the story of Amalie Emmy Noether, a German Jewish mathematician who continuously pushed against sexism and anti-Semitism in academia to eventually change the foundations of mathematical physics. Find out more about our show and support our Patreon! https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast Listen to the Bundyville podcast by Leah Sottile if you want to know more about whi...

Jan 15, 202155 minSeason 3Ep. 13

CHEF: Edna Lewis

Our chatty hosts spend the start reminiscing over Christmases past. Then Amanda tells the story of Edna Lewis, the First Lady of Southern Cooking, and the true pioneer of the farm-to-table movement (at least according to Amanda). https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast Follow us on social media: FB: facebook.com/idkherpodcast Twitter: @IDKHerPodcast Insta: @idkher_podcast...

Jan 08, 20211 hr 20 minSeason 3Ep. 12

ENTOMOLOGIST: Maria Sibylla Merian

The hosts discuss their approaches to confrontation before diving into the fascinating story of Maria Sibylla Merian, an entomologist who was one of the earliest European naturalists to observe insects and illustrate them accurately and beautifully. Plus, some friend facts are learned! Learn more at https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast

Dec 25, 20201 hrSeason 3Ep. 11

ACTIVIST: Mary Ann Shadd Cary

The hosts weigh in on the asinine WSJ op-ed that criticized Dr. Jill Biden for using her rightfully earned honorific. Then Amanda talks about Mary Ann Shadd Cary, an outspoken activist, lawyer, and teacher who became the first Black woman publisher in North America and the first woman in Canada. More about I Don't Know Her, including our Patreon here: https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast

Dec 18, 20201 hr 19 minSeason 3Ep. 10

INVENTOR: Margaret E. Knight

They're baaack! Join Rita & Amanda as they discuss their Covid journeys, why they're forever Team Pacey, and an update on merch! Then Rita tells the delightful tale of inventor Margaret E. Knight. https://linktr.ee/idkher_podcast

Dec 11, 202058 minSeason 3Ep. 9
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