What happens when a strong, independent woman learns to submit—not to a man, but to Christ—in marriage? In this heartfelt and honest episode of the I AM HER Podcast , Pastor Lisa and her daughter Bekah sit down for a raw and real conversation about what it truly means to be a wife in the Christian faith. They open up about the challenges, surprises, and spiritual growth that come with stepping into marriage for the first time—from navigating the balance between leadership and submission to learn...
Jun 07, 2025•44 min
What happens when your closest relationships are also the most challenging? In this raw and heart-led conversation, Pastor Lisa and her daughter Bekah open up about navigating seasons of friendship, spiritual growth, and one of their toughest moments—when love, calling, and family values collided. This episode is a powerful reminder that true connection is forged through adversity, discernment, and a whole lot of grace. Join the Arise Community Today: https://www.skool.com/arise-women-community/...
May 03, 2025•49 min
What happens when you are released into your calling? In this heartfelt episode, Pastor Lisa and her daughter, Bekah, dive into the challenges, triumphs, and powerful moments of releasing the next generation into their divine calling. From rebellion to revival, Bekah shares her incredible journey of transformation and how faith paved the way for her bold leap into ministry. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation packed with wisdom, laughter, and lessons on obedience, trust, and stepping into you...
Apr 05, 2025•44 min
We’re so excited to share a big change—I AM HER Podcast is now hosted by your favorite mother-daughter duo, Pastor Lisa Kai & Bekah Lagafuaina! In this episode, get an exclusive sneak peek into the powerful Arise Women’s Conference with a snippet of Pastor Lisa and Bekah’s inspiring message. Don’t forget to grab the Download Drop Card to access all the full messages from Conference. Tune in now and join us on this exciting new journey! Find books by Lisa Kai: https://www.LisaKai.Tv To partne...
Mar 02, 2025•23 min
In this inspiring episode of the I AM HER Podcast, Pastor Lisa shares her journey of stepping out of her comfort zone by joining a Pilates class, embracing growth, and trusting God through challenges. She reminds us that true transformation happens when we face our fears and lean on God for strength (James 1:2-4, Philippians 4:13). Discover how to set spiritual and personal goals for the year, commit to daily prayer, church involvement, and serving others. Pastor Lisa shares relatable stories, i...
Feb 01, 2025•17 min
We’re diving deep into the power of vision and intentional living with Lisa Kai and Naomi Craft. Ice Breaker 1:41 - What’s one word or phrase that encapsulates your current vibe? • Naomi : Down to earth • Pastor Lisa : Calm, consistent, solid 2:27 - What is your go-to karaoke song? • Naomi : Caught Up in the Rapture by Anita Baker • Pastor Lisa : Ladies’ Night The Power of Vision Scriptural Anchor : Proverbs 29:18 - “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” Living Intentionally 4:20 - Pasto...
Jan 04, 2025•38 min
What does it take to live courageously for God in a world full of distractions? Join Pastor Lisa Kai as she unpacks the secrets to embracing your God-given purpose, letting go of what holds you back, and stepping boldly into a life of faith and freedom. In this empowering episode of I AM HER, Pastor Lisa Kai invites us to an intimate Girls' Night In gathering, where she shares her heart and vision for the Arise movement. She opens up about what it truly means to live courageously for God in a wo...
Dec 07, 2024•1 hr•Ep. 72
In this powerful episode of I Am Her, Lisa Kai opens up about an often-overlooked but deeply impactful season of a woman’s life: menopause. Through candid insights and faith-centered wisdom, Pastor Lisa shares her experiences with this transition, from surprising symptoms like brain fog, hot flashes, and hair loss to how she’s leaned on her faith and family for support. This episode explores practical steps to navigate menopause gracefully, from health tips to conversations with loved ones, all ...
Nov 02, 2024•40 min•Ep. 71
In this episode of I Am Her, Pastor Lisa Kai discusses the struggle of impatience and how it can cause us to miss out on God's incredible plans for our lives. Drawing from her own experiences—whether it was the urge to rush her wedding day, the anxious wait for life-changing news, or even the heartache of longing for a child—Pastor Lisa shares how she learned the beauty of trusting in God’s perfect timing. Through the story of Sarah in the Bible and other personal moments, Pastor Lisa reminds us...
Oct 05, 2024•25 min
In this episode of the *I Am Her Podcast*, Pastor Lisa Kai sits down with the Arise Ministry Core Team for an intimate, live conversation. They reflect on over 14 years of leading Arise, Inspire Church’s women’s ministry, and share personal stories of faith, leadership, and community. Tune in for encouragement and inspiration to embrace your God-given identity and purpose as a woman of faith. Find books by Lisa Kai: https://www.LisaKai.Tv To partner with me in bringing the word of God around the...
Sep 07, 2024•43 min•Ep. 69
In this episode, special guests Bekah and Elijah dive deep into the intersection of ministry, marriage, and the music industry, sharing their personal journeys of navigating these two passions while staying aligned with God's calling. They discuss the challenges and blessings of balancing a career in music with their commitment to serving God, offering practical insights on maintaining spiritual integrity in a secular industry. Discover how open communication and spiritual alignment within their...
Aug 03, 2024•47 min•Ep. 68
In this episode, Deja and Chelsea will explore how to balance honesty with compassion in your relationships through the concept of “Speaking the Truth in Love.” They’ll discuss the difference between a “Jalapeño” and a “Sugar-Coater,” helping you discover if you’re more inclined to be straightforward and fiery or gentle and sweet, and why both approaches are essential. Additionally, you’ll learn to identify the different levels of friendship, from the close-knit primary circle to the broader ter...
Jul 06, 2024•42 min•Ep. 67
In this all new episode of the I Am Her Podcast featuring a special TISHA TAKEOVER with one of Pastor Lisa Kai’s besties, Tisha Lehfeldt! In this unique and exciting episode, the tables are turned as Tisha steps into the host role and interviews Pastor Lisa right in the studio. We delve into the inspiring and influential stories that have shaped her journey and discuss the experiences that have made her who Pastor Lisa is today. Enjoy, grab a matcha tea latte, or your favorite beverage and let’s...
Jun 01, 2024•58 min
In the latest episode of the I Am Her Podcast, Pastor Lisa Kai explores the Secret Sauce of Relationships and Friendships, drawing parallels between our connection with Jesus and our bonds with friends. She underscores the enduring presence of Jesus, reminiscent of a true friend who never leaves or forsakes us, and encourages seeking friends who embody Christ-like qualities to enrich our lives. Find books by Lisa Kai: https://www.LisaKai.Tv To partner with me in bringing the word of God around t...
May 04, 2024•36 min•Ep. 60
In this engaging catch-up session in the latest episode of the I Am Her Podcast, Pastor Lisa Kai and her dear friend, Tisha Lehfeltd unpack the transformative events of the past year since their last conversation. Tisha shares her journey battling cancer, inspiring women to perceive even the most challenging news as opportunities for heavenly intervention. Tune in as Tisha urges listeners to seize each day and overcome obstacles with the reminder, "You've got another day!” Find books by Lisa Kai...
Apr 06, 2024•57 min•Ep. 64
In this episode of 'Fierce and Anointed: Leading with Purpose and Power,' join us as we delve into the unique journey of two remarkable women, Pastor Lisa Kai and her guest, Pastor Marie Silva from Freedom House Church in California, who leads a multi-site church alongside her husband, Pastor Josiah Silva. In this episode we listen to Pastor Lisa and Pastor Marie share the power of stepping out of their comfort zone and saying YES to the call and role God has anointed them for, not just as wives...
Mar 02, 2024•45 min
Join Pastor Lisa Kai on the I Am Her Podcast as she preps for the Arise Conference, engaging in candid conversation with her makeup artist and great friend of 12 years, sharing insights and excitement about the Arise Conference coming up in Honolulu, Hawaii. Get ready to delve into their intimate chat as they reflect on the significance of Arise and their enduring friendship. Stay up to date on all things Lisa Kai: Website: http://www.LisaKai.tv Instagram: @lisakai...
Feb 14, 2024•49 min•Ep. 62
In this episode, we hit Part 2 of “Things I wish I Knew” with Lisa Kai as she sits at the coffee table with four young women leaders of Inspire Church, sharing insightful gems on her journey as a young leader, navigating singleness and relationships, all while passionately pursuing a life centered around Jesus. Check out Part 2 of this episode with Lisa Kai and let’s lean in! Stay up to date on all things Lisa Kai: Website: http://www.LisaKai.tv Instagram: @lisakai...
Feb 03, 2024•34 min•Ep. 61
In this episode, Lisa Kai sits at the coffee table with four young women leaders of @InspireChurchtv sharing insightful gems on her journey as a young leader, navigating singleness, and passionately pursuing a life centered around Jesus. The intimate conversation creates a bridge between generations, fostering unity and passing down valuable wisdom within the church community. Check out Part 1 of this episode with Lisa Kai and let’s lean in as they converse on all things, life, singleness, and p...
Jan 06, 2024•38 min•Ep. 60
Pastor Lisa Kai shares a deep and heartfelt message on what it looks like to seek the lord and to trust in him. Engage in this word as you get to not only hear what it looks like to seek HIM but to also be able to identify other women in the bible who took the leap of faith and trusting in Gods timing and Gods plan even in the midst of uncertainty and the unknown! Stay up to date on all things Lisa Kai: Website: http://www.LisaKai.tv Instagram: @lisakai #lisakai #qualified #Jesus #family #lead #...
Dec 02, 2023•46 min•Ep. 59
In the latest episode of the “I AM HER Podcast”, titled, “Ain’t No Hood Like Motherhood Part 2”, listeners are invited to Pastor Lisa Kai’s living room as she is gathered around four mothers from Inspire Church Staff share their heart and experience’s from motherhood, to marriage, to ministry life, and learning how to balance life as a whole! So sit tight grab your coffee or your favorite latte and tune into this engaging conversation with Pastor Lisa as she closes in on Part 2 of, “Ain’t No Hoo...
Nov 04, 2023•35 min•Ep. 58
In the latest episode of the "I AM HER Podcast," titled "Ain't No Hood Like Motherhood Part 1," listeners are invited into an intimate conversation where Pastor Lisa Kai and four moms from the Inspire Church Staff share their experiences and insights on motherhood, careers, marriage after having kids, and the vital journey of maintaining intimacy with both God and your husband. This candid discussion offers a valuable glimpse into the challenges and joys of balancing various roles and responsibi...
Oct 07, 2023•36 min•Ep. 57
There are going to be moments in our life, when we are going to have to walk through somethings with someone that we never thought we would have to walk through with them. But it’s in those moments where you fight, pray, content, fast, and walk through the fire together, ultimately knowing that God will be your guide and always on your side! In this new episode of the I Am Her Podcast, prepare yourself for the tears, the passion, and the love, you are about to feel as Pastor Lisa Kai, and one of...
Sep 02, 2023•34 min•Ep. 56
It’s in the hard times, in the seasons of betrayl, or I times where you feel like you are in a battle, are you willing and able to “Walk It Out” with God and trust him? In this new episode of the I Am Her Podcast, take some time to truly listen to the heart behind her words and what it looks like and takes to trust the path God has you on, and walk it out! For more on Lisa Kai, visit: www.LisaKai.tv
Aug 05, 2023•27 min•Ep. 55
In this all new episode of the I Am Her Podcast, we get to imagine ourselves sitting in the auditorium, amongst other women, gleaning from the heart and wisdom of Pastor Lisa Kai. In this episode she talks about a word we sometimes don’t like to hear. The word is, Submission. Pastor Lisa shares a powerful word that will make you laugh, cry, but also lean into the heart of this message and grab the gems of her words! For more on Lisa Kai, visit: www.LisaKai.tv
Jul 01, 2023•22 min•Ep. 54
In this inspiring new episode of the I Am Her Podcast, we are honored to feature the dynamic Pastor Marie Silva, the esteemed Senior Pastor at Freedom House Church in California. Pastor Marie's powerful speaking style and extraordinary faith make her a true force to be reckoned with. With a heart that beats for revival and a genuine desire to see people embrace their relationship with Jesus. Hear Pastor Marie’s message on the story of Noah and his unwavering obedience and how this story can stir...
Jun 03, 2023•50 min•Ep. 53
In this episode of "I Am Her with Lisa Kai," Lisa sits down with special guest Bianca Olthoff to discuss what it means to be a woman of influence in today's world. As an author, speaker, and social justice advocate, Bianca has dedicated her life to empowering women and promoting social change. During the conversation, Lisa and Bianca discuss a range of topics, from the challenges of balancing work and family life, to the importance of building a supportive community of like-minded women. They al...
May 06, 2023•31 min•Ep. 52
In this all new episode of the I AM HER Podcast. Today we get to dive into a phenomenal and impactful episode with Pastor Maria Durso from New York City. If you know Pastor Maria or have gotten a chance to hear her preach, you know, everyone needs a “Mama Maria” in their life. This is an episode you don’t want to miss! Sit back, grab your coffee, take a walk around the park, get in a workout while leaning into this episode as Pastor Lisa and Pastor Maria talk all things, Holy Spirit and leaving ...
Apr 01, 2023•32 min•Ep. 51
In this episode Pastor Lisa Kai sits around the table with Darian and Maria Tellez, Inspire Youth’s Youth Pastors/Directors of Inspire Church. They discuss everything from dating, marriage, sex, dating apps, and the importance of waiting. This episode is for every generation, whether you are single or married or dating, this one is a gem! For more on Lisa Kai, visit: www.LisaKai.tv
Mar 04, 2023•51 min•Ep. 50
Check out this new episode on “Spiritual Flabbiness”. Pastor Lisa Kai, talks about what it looks like as a New Years resolution to get back in the gym and working out. But what about signing up for God’s Gym?! What does it look like in your own life to get more spiritually fit?! Maybe what you did last year, isn’t going to work this year! Let’s work out those spiritual muscles and see all that God can do through you! Arise Conference 2023 is just around the corner. We have both ONLINE & in-p...
Feb 04, 2023•22 min•Ep. 49