All good things come to an end… This was a hard one to record. I wanted to overthink my decision. I have been trying to force something that I knew in my heart wasn’t what was best for me. I wanted someone to tell me what to do and how to do it. I definitely tried to overthink what to say, but ultimately, I knew that if I didn’t do what I knew I needed to do and just get it out there, I would not be serving you to the fullest. If you want to stay connected, be sure to join my email list: https:/...
Dec 04, 2024•9 min•Ep. 249
In the decision lab right now, I have women who are tackling a whole host of things… Parental relationships. Posting on social media. What to wear. Feeling unworthy of love. Hating ourselves to be better. Spoiler alert… Hate and judgment of yourself are never going to get you anywhere!! All of these things impact our lives and, therefore, directly impact our decision-making patterns. They compile. They add up. They influence every part of our life. So what do we do about it? Get on the waitlist ...
Nov 20, 2024•18 min•Ep. 248
I am guessing most of you know, or assume you know, who I voted for. We all feel passionately about who we voted for and why. At this point, everyone has big feelings, so let's be kind. Now that the election is over, I have several concerns, the most immediate being that we take a minute to make decisions that are in alignment with who we are and not made in haste driven by anger, joy, rage, excitement, pain, or entitlement. What we saw happen last election season with the white house being stor...
Nov 13, 2024•17 min•Ep. 247
Know a decision needs to be made but not sure what decision to make? I got you boo. It feels like a lot when we know a shift needs to happen in your life but don’t know what exactly to do. You may feel stuck, overwhelmed, and insecure. You may feel unworthy or undeserving of the thing that is calling to you. Whatever it is that you are feeling, this episode is going to help you see it, acknowledge it, and start moving forward. In today’s episode, I will be sharing 5 things to be aware of to get ...
Nov 06, 2024•21 min•Ep. 246
When the decision means releasing your identity and stepping into a new one, today I am sharing four things that feel scary about making a decision that feels like it is requiring us to release an identity we have been carrying. Join the BOLD Diggers Membership and get the Holiday Boundaries Class for FREE! https://nextbestdecision.com/bolddigger Get on a free call with Jess! https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/healingcall...
Oct 30, 2024•20 min•Ep. 245
Here’s the truth about your procrastination and chronic fatigue… It isn’t because you are lazy. It isn’t because you lack motivation. It has nothing to do with you, your ability to make stuff happen, or your worth, (because you are a badass and nothing can take that away from you). But if you are wanting to understand why you are always feeling tired and constantly procrastinating, this episode is for you. Start 2025 off powerfully with me and a room full of people ready to leave old patterns of...
Oct 23, 2024•15 min•Ep. 244
Decision Overload, ie - anxiety, stress, sleepless night, overthinking, the ADHA spiral… We have all been there and done that. But how did we get there? How can we tell we are in it? How do we pull ourselves out of it? Today I am sharing four ways to get yourself out of decision overload. Start 2025 off powerfully with me and a room full of people ready to leave old patterns of decision making behind to embrace a life that feels really freaking good by joining me at the Decision Lab Experience ....
Oct 16, 2024•23 min•Ep. 243
Your New Year's Resolutions are getting you nowhere because you are doing one or more of these four things. If you want to feel fulfilled and successful next year, start making these shifts now! Spoiler alert: the last one is the basis for all the rest and what is really holding you back. Get on a call with me. YOU DESERVE IT! https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/connectioncall Grab your ticket to The Decision Lab Experience today! https://nextbestdecision.com/decisionlabboise...
Oct 09, 2024•21 min•Ep. 242
Creating a life you don't want to leave. If you dread going home. If you are feeling unsafe to feel the feels. If you are powering through until _______. If everything feels overwhelming. Then this episode is for you! Schedule a call with me today, and let's see if a Decision Day or 1:1 Coaching is right for you. These spots won't be available for long, so make that decision and take action now! https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/connectioncall The Decision Lab in real life will only b...
Oct 02, 2024•32 min•Ep. 241
Do you relate to today's guest? Tamara Hawes Woods is the founder of Cȯcomadre, a career and personal development platform designed to help women who are STARs (skilled through alternative routes) and SEEkers (those who lack skills, education, and experience) to achieve their dreams. She created Cȯcomadre on the heels of a personal and catastrophic financial loss that left her with only $3.59 in her bank account. Tamara experienced firsthand how difficult it can be for a capable, unpaid caretake...
Sep 25, 2024•31 min•Ep. 240
Let’s talk The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. I have LOTS of thoughts about this show because I have watched it… Well, you will just have to listen to how many times I have watched it. And let me tell you, these women are making some decisions. We can all agree on that. HA! Many of which we ALL have opinions, but there is only one decision made (by two people) that really got to me. Get on a call with me. You deserve it. Please don’t convince yourself you are wasting my time. Don’t let your brain...
Sep 18, 2024•25 min•Ep. 239
We all have excuses that we carry. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why you are carrying this excuse? Is it serving you? Are you ready to release it? Join me as I tackle some of the top excuses I hear for why you can’t take aligned action in your lives. Then send me a message or drop a review, letting me know which excuse you are ready to let go of. Can you guess which excuse I use most often? I can help you release the excuses that are holding you back. Join me in the LAST round of The Dec...
Sep 04, 2024•21 min•Ep. 238
My friend, what communities are you a part of? Church? Family? Friends? Culture? Work? Are you sitting in them or GROWING in them? All of these communities have a unique impact on YOU. Therefore, it is important to be intentional with the communities you are a part of. Time to ask yourself some hard questions about your communities. Get signed up for the FREE Workshop happening TODAY! It is the last one this year. Register here! Missed the workshop but know you want the awesomeness of The Decisi...
Aug 28, 2024•21 min•Ep. 237
How do you leave trauma decision-making patterns behind? Trauma comes in many forms, shapes and sizes. Therefore it impacts each of us in different ways and often leads to people pleasing tendencies, self sacrificing to keep the peace, and taking responsibility for other people’s thoughts, feelings and emotions. Which then directly impacts our decision making and lands us in Trauma Decision Making Patterns. How do we leave trauma decision making patterns behind? Find out in this episode of Your ...
Aug 21, 2024•29 min•Ep. 236
Addiction to blaming others. We all do it and probably always will. Why do we do it? How does it manifest in our lives? What do we do with it? Why does it matter? Join my favorite guest and me as we chat about all things that go into the blame game. Ready to leave blaming and victimhood behind and take control of your life? Get signed up for the FREE Workshop happening August 28th! It is the last one this year. Register here! https://nextbestdecision.com/workshop...
Aug 14, 2024•41 min•Ep. 235
The Cost of Inaction… There is a side effect from inaction that you are not considering… By not investing mentally, physically, financially, you are giving up time, energy and connection to yourself, your kids, your family, friends, career, whatever it is that brings you joy. Today I am tackling three common excuses for inaction. Are you guilty of one or all of these? Wins people are having in The Decision Lab: “I realized that even in the hard times, I can still make decisions that are best for...
Aug 07, 2024•21 min•Ep. 234
At church a few weeks ago, a lady said this to me and it has stayed with me and inspired this episode. Today we are going to have a quick chat about this one thing that you think you need to claim the life you want but that you don’t really need at all. It is time to stop asking for this… You can get the results the ladies in the Lab are getting by making one simple decision… Get on the waitlist for The Decision Lab TODAY! https://nextbestdecision.com/waiting Not sure if The Decision Lab (or the...
Jul 31, 2024•15 min•Ep. 233
I can tell you what your problem is... So many of us have over loaded our lives. We have filled it up by doing all the things without creating the space to know if it is in alignment with what we really want. But we forget to do this one thing to find true joy, peace, happiness, and fulfillment in life. Ready to create some space in your life? Get on the wait list for the decision lab TODAY! https://nextbestdecision.com/waiting Not sure if The Decision Lab (or the FREE workshop) is for you? Find...
Jul 24, 2024•17 min•Ep. 232
We have done all the things without questioning… We have followed the path. We have overloaded our lives. We have shoulded all over ourselves and allowed others to do the same. And we are left with what? Resentment. Anger. Bitterness. Here is what to do about it. We are three weeks into the decision lab, and here are my favorite takeaways so far… “I was really surprised at how many times I sat in my should, and it kept me from doing something. I feel like I am more conscious now.” “Ready to rele...
Jul 17, 2024•16 min•Ep. 231
We have all been there and done that… We have sat in a big old pile of should when it comes to our age and the timelines we envisioned for our lives. We should our pants by: Comparing ourselves to where we thought we should be in life. Comparing ourselves to others. Comparing ourselves to where society has told us we should be. It is time to clear ourselves up, put on a fresh pair of pants, and embrace what it is you actually want outside of the should. Are you shoulding on yourself?! Not sure?!...
Jul 10, 2024•20 min•Ep. 230
We will all have regrets. They are an important part of life! They provide us with information so that we can keep progressing towards what is in alignment for us. And while regrets are a part of life, there are ways we can learn to have less of them and most importantly, learn to not dwell on them or beat ourselves up for having them. Want to know where and how much you are shoulding on yourself? Get your free Should Score by taking the 5 minute “Should Quiz” here....
Jul 03, 2024•30 min•Ep. 229
People had life-changing breakthroughs and ah-ha moments during last week's workshop, and I didn't want you to miss out! So here is one of the recordings from last week. (Minus a couple of bonuses and the Q&A. What can I say? It pays to be there live!) Your Next Best Decision is just around the corner, along with clarity, confidence, and concision. Don't wait another minute to take action! Get signed up for the decision lab before doors close! nextbestdecision.com/decisionlab Get signed up f...
Jun 26, 2024•40 min•Ep. 228
A story you need to hear, but I really don’t like sharing. It was the HARDEST decision of my life and was made at the lowest of lows. But it is by far one of the best decisions I have ever made. Last chance to make your next best decision for the rest of your life... https://nextbestdecision.com/workshop Missed the workshop? Don’t tell anyone but you can get signed up for The Decision Lab today! Where you will make one decision over the next six weeks to embrace a life of decisive decision-makin...
Jun 19, 2024•19 min•Ep. 227
I know you have been told it is all your fault. That you are the one that makes “bad decisions”. That your feelings are wrong. Your thoughts are wrong. Your intuition is wrong. But here is the hard truth: IT ISN’T YOUR FAULT! (Not what you thought I was going to say, eh?) You may believe that your decider is broken, but I have good news for you: it isn’t, and neither are you. You aren’t too much of anything, and your decider is always right… maybe you just need to start trusting it a little more...
Jun 12, 2024•17 min•Ep. 226
Do you ever ask yourself, “How the heck did I get here?” I ask myself that on the regular. Sometimes it is in awe of how awesome things are in that moment and other times it is in complete overwhelm. Today I am tackling this topic in regards to the shift in the podcast. This decision has been a long time in the making. We were just waiting for the right timing to pull the trigger and make the change. Maybe you can relate?! Listen in to hear all about how I got to this point and what ultimately p...
Jun 05, 2024•22 min•Ep. 225
This week, we finally have Matt and Steve back on the podcast, talking about something none of us saw coming. Stay up to date by joining The Daily Decider. https://theboldlogic.com/dailydecider ------- Be sure to follow us on Instagram and Facebook ! -- You can find the podcast on Apple , Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts...
May 22, 2024•35 min•Ep. 224
Thais Gibson is here to share her experience growing up as a high-functioning addict. Listen in as she shares how she took that addiction as an opportunity to go create the Personal Development school and help others to find their way to healthy relationships. The Personal Development School is a leading global online institution that empowers individuals with tools for self-awareness, subconscious reprogramming, and life breakthroughs. Founded by Thais Gibson in response to high demand, the sch...
May 08, 2024•34 min•Ep. 223
TH and Jessica met when Jessica started dating TH’s best friend from high school. They became fast friends. Not only that, their husbands were friends and while traveling, raising kids, and doing life together appeared to be perfect, something was not right in either of their relationships… And while the truth set them free, it was not an easy thing to navigate. Listen in as they share their story and how they are making it through all these things! ABOUT exEXPERTS Above all else, exEXPERTS and ...
May 01, 2024•41 min•Ep. 222
Cameron met her forever partner when she was 40 and couldn’t wait to start their life together. But then, on their honeymoon, her partner started getting texts from the other woman, and she realized that maybe this wasn’t what she signed up for… It left her asking herself, where is the handbook for stepparents and co-parents?! And since there wasn’t one, she created the closest thing you could hope to find. Cameron Normand is CEO of Stepfamily Solutions and host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast. T...
Apr 24, 2024•38 min•Ep. 221
Karen and Catherine both personally experienced the anxiety that comes from finances during divorce and decided to do something about it. Taking Catherine’s financial background and Karen’s law background, they developed Divorce Solutions, and they are here to help you feel empowered as you navigate the financial ins and outs of divorce. Co-founding a fintech company that would revolutionize the divorce sector was not what either of us set out in life intending to do, but our experience, skills ...
Apr 17, 2024•34 min•Ep. 220