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After the electric chemistry of our first encounter, we couldn’t wait to see this professional swinger couple again and the second date even surpassed the original. From the moment we walked through the door, the energy was different: confident, playful, and deliciously charged. What started going to a basketball game, but our return to the sexpartment began with light teasing that quickly escalated into a night to remember! With years of experience, guiding every move, they orchestrated an even...
2023’s greenest night started with Mr & Mrs. DTW getting a chance to listen in on us recording our episodes with Jim & Elaine. We then head to a pre-party dinner with Stacy & Brett, Mr & MrsDTW, Jim & Elaine, Echo & Falcon. Back at the Sexpartment, we change where sneakers replaced heels before heading to the club. One lap around the club, Echo suggests to a wide-eyed younger couple the magic word: orgy . They might not join, but 10 of us do and Elaine wastes zero time dr...
In this raw episode we dive headfirst into one of the lifestyle’s most nerve-wracking moments: the day a parent finds out and isn’t thrilled. Kicking off with the real life situation that just happened. We ask the question, “Do you deny it? Defend it? Or just nod, smile, and change the subject?” We explore the emotional tightrope of denial (and why it rarely works long-term), the pitfalls of launching into a full-throated defense (it can backfire spectacularly), and the art of the graceful exit ...
In this episode we unzip a recent episode of the Naughty Gym podcast where hosts Scott and April, joined by guest Luna, dive into the art of handling rejection with grace and confidence. They unpack a real-life scenario, where a couple navigates the complexities of propositioning only one partner in a “hot wife” dynamic. The discussion explores whether couple play was always on the table, if rudeness played a role, or if mismatched expectations led to the awkward moment. With practical tips, the...
In this episode of Hump Day Quickies : Swinger Confessions , we relive Jim and Elaine’s blindfold fantasy on Jim’s birthday, March 10, 2023, the most meticulously planned swap yet! What started with one drink and steamy makeouts between Nessa and Elaine escalated quickly: spooning neck kisses, Elaine blindfolding G, and Jim’s intense eye contact as he went down on Nessa with Elaine’s vivid play-by-play. Nessa rode Jim cowgirl while Elaine raved to blindfolded G about her perfect ass, leading to ...
Ahoy, mateys! In this sizzling podcast episode, we are back with a story time where we relive our pirate-themed escapade at a lifestyle club, starting with Ariel’s birthday dinner alongside Dominick, Ariel, Echo, Falcon, and new couple Stacy and Brett, whom we connected with online that afternoon and invited on the spot. Tensions bubbled early with Nessa in a funk that Brett’s knee-touching may be irking Dominick, but the group’s vibe carried into the club’s sexy pirate night. Not everyone embra...
This week’s episode of Hump Day Quickies is a wild ride through the inbox as we dive headfirst into listener emails that bring the heat, the laughs, and a few cringeworthy moments. From a candid request about my infamous “sex sounds” to unpacking some hilariously uncomfortable situations, we’re laying it all bare with our signature mix of humor and heart. The listener mailbag never fails to deliver, and we’re tackling your boldest queries with unfiltered honesty, giving you the juicy details you...
In our unzipping of the third episode of Ron and Holly, we dive2 into the awkward, exhilarating, and sometimes noisy world of swinging, unzipping their evolving perspectives on the lifestyle. We kick things off by reflecting on their first-time play experiences, exploring whether that initial plunge is always a clumsy affair or if familiarity with partners can smooth the way. From the cringe-inducing moments of early encounters to the surprising comfort found in knowing your playmates beforehand...
We dive back into the electric world of Las Vegas with Ron and Holly, unzipping the juicy details of their second appearance on from Season 1, Episode 14. Holly steals the spotlight with her wild tales of uninhibited Vegas nights, where fun takes center stage, leaving safety-conscious Ron on edge, waiting for that crucial “I’m okay” text. The episode explores the highs and lows of their adventures, from boundary-pushing moments at clubs to unexpected experiences in the couples room, all while na...
This week on Hump Day Quickies , we rewind to season 1, episode 11, revisiting Ron and Holly’s first visit to the “sexpartment.” The episode dives into their unconventional journey, exploring how a threesome helped them heal from infidelity, alongside discussions about “relationship chicken” and the thrills of people-watching at a sex club. From Ron’s quip about not claiming to be the best without delivering to their playful challenge of naming three Beatles, the couple’s chemistry keeps the con...
This week we dive into a role-played lifestyle coaching session with Lauren Hayes, exploring the rollercoaster of emotions that come with navigating lifestyle choices. From emotional sovereignty to the challenges of lifestyle compromises, Lauren guides us through the complexities of managing feelings like joy, sadness, and jealousy. We discuss the power of “parts work,” drawing parallels to the movie Inside Out , to understand how our inner characters shape our experiences. Lauren’s insights on ...
In this week's episode, Lauren Hayes, an author, podcast host, and swinging lifestyle coach, joins host G to share her vibrant journey in the swinging and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) world. From her start as a coach to her book For Better or Even Better (cue the drinking game every time G says “book”!), Lauren dishes on spicy moments like a poly friend’s flirtation, navigating “vibes,” and flaky Vegas connections. They also dive into newbie dynamics, the evolution of bedroom talk, and the bold EN...
Jayson from That Other Lifestyle Podcast is back, and this episode is a wild ride through the highs and lows of the lifestyle! We dive into the world of newbie hunters, cherry-popping couples, and the frustrations of ghosting, while Jayson dishes on why bold moves like “whipping it out” can tank the vibe. From navigating adult friendships to the art of “reverse dating” and keeping expectations low, we cover the juicy details of what makes the lifestyle tick, with plenty of laughs and real talk a...
In this episode of Hump Day Quickies, we sit down with Jayson from That Other Lifestyle to explore the wild, wonderful, and sometimes challenging world of swinging. We kick things off with a nod to bananas foster… yes, that decadent dessert somehow sets the stage for a night of adventure??? Jayson shares his journey, starting with why he and his wife opted for a no-swap approach initially and how she eventually took the lead in their explorations. Their first separate room experience was a thril...
We’re back from Naughty N’awlins 2025, spilling the tea on our spicy adventure! We tackled our naughty lists—think elevator blow jobs, strap-on assists, and skipping in the parade. Did G confused Disney guests with kisses and play with new partners. Did Nessa have any bartender makeouts and daytime quickies, but the fun was nonstop? We dive into swinger support groups for navigating the lifestyle’s highs and lows. Reid Mihalko and Rina Star’s workshops were a game-changer—communication tips and ...
In this jam-packed episode diving into Naughty N’awlins day 4, we recap our partner swap sleepover with Nick and Elizabeth that finished off with sweet beignets. We head to the Boot Scooting Rodeo for a bit before a wardrobe change for the infamous day 4 foam party and the Swamp. The rain had us in a bit of a delay, but New Orleans kept us entertained! When we finally arrived at the foam party, we had a ton of fun including an unforgettable make-out session with another fan. We dive into the cha...
In this recap of Day 3 at Naughty N’awlins, we dive into a whirlwind of spicy, emotional, and unforgettable moments. The episode kicks off with a breakdown of Reid’s 3somes, 4somes and moresomes class, where we share a front-row seat to his expert tips on navigating the dynamics of threesomes with confidence and communication. Things take an emotional turn as Nessa opens up about her unexpected emotional crash, sharing raw insights into the vulnerability that can surface in the lifestyle’s high-...
In this spicy episode of Hump Day Quickies : Swinger Confessions , we dive into a whirlwind of steamy encounters and vibrant events from day two of Naughty N'awlins 2025. The episode kicks off with tales of Reid’s Rough Sex For Nice Folks class, setting the tone for a wild ride. We discusses our participation in the men's and women's panels, offering insights into the swinger lifestyle. Then off to the bar takeover at Bourbon Heat, where the energy was electric. G gets an opportunity to talk wit...
Naughty N'awlins 2025 kicks off with a bang! A hiccup at the Speed Dating event doesn't derail our fun as we dive into the vibrant energy of this swinger lifestyle convention. We sit down with the owners of Oasis Aqualounge for an exclusive and accidental chat. Two devoted listeners get our help crossing off some spicy and hilarious items from their Naughty Lists. The vibes soar at the Drinkery Bar Takeover, where we mingle with more fans, share steamy kisses, and even check off a Naughty List m...
We finish our amazing road trip to Naughty with Nick & Elizabeth. With pit stops at 2 breweries, we knock off 2 more states from Elizabeth's list and even get in a stop at Buc-ee's. After checking into the Astor, we head to the Accidental Swinger's meet and great. Then off to Colette where we see a bunch of old friends and enjoy a quiet night before heading back to the room. Email your questions to Nessa here to be part of "Ask Nessa". Please subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. You ...
Our amazing day in Panama City Beach, Florida, was packed with excitement! We started with the comforting aroma of fresh coffee, thanks to Elizabeth, setting the perfect tone for the day. The beach was our haven, soaking up the sun, vibing to great music, and unwinding in the warm breeze. Even G got swept up in the fun, taking a dip in the Gulf’s inviting waters! After our beach adventure, we freshened up and retreated to the bedroom to fulfill G’s playful bunkbed fantasy. Listen in to the sound...
Our 2025 road trip to Naughty N’awlins kicks off with a flight to Disney World alongside Nick & Elizabeth. We dive into the reality of Disney: it's exhausting, not as glamorous as you’d think, and definitely not “sexy.” But there's a silver lining, there’s something truly special about experiencing Disney with your closest friends and seeing them enjoy something you love so much. Once we've had our fill of Disney, we hit the road to Panama City Beach. Not even an 8-hour traffic jam can stop ...
It’s that time again… As we’re gearing up for our epic 6-day road trip to Naughty N'awlins 2025, the excitement is through the roof! Before we hit the road, we’re sharing on our highly-anticipated challenge lists for this year. These lists have been heavily requested by YOU, and we're ready to take on the wildest, craziest challenges New Orleans has to offer. Are you heading to Naughty N'awlins this year? We want to hear from YOU! Send your challenge lists to us on the Naughty website and let us...
Ben & Mary return to the sexpartment for the second part of their interview with the help of Elizabeth for the once again absent Nessa. In this episode, we unpack the emotional complexities of desire, body image, and connection in the lifestyle. From the pressure of preparing for big trips and weight loss goals, to navigating libido shifts, nudity comfort, and playful surprises — we explore how new experiences can challenge our confidence and our relationships. We dive into the highs of New ...
Mary and Ben recount their unconventional entry into the swinging lifestyle, initially sparked by infidelity and Mary's desire to rebuild confidence and reconnect with Ben. Their path involved navigating bi desires and overcoming self-esteem issues, leading to a transformative Vegas trip. They discuss their evolution from social swingers to their first full swap after eight years, emphasizing the importance of communication, comfort, and finding the right connections despite the initial rocky emotional state.
In this lively episode, the we dive into the spicy world of Reid, the Sex Geek, who’s bringing nine electrifying classes to Naughty N’awlins. From Rough Sex for Nice Folks to Group Sex and Blow Job Grad Schools, Reid’s lineup has everyone buzzing with excitement. The hosts are particularly hyped for Rough Sex and Threesome Grad School (Elizabeth already snagged tickets!), and they can’t stop raving about Squirt Grad School after Reid’s captivating pitch. Other classes like From Flirting to Fucki...
In this lively episode, Amber and Jason continue to dive into their escapades as the enter the world of ethical non monogamy, blending humor, vulnerability, and candid reflections. Amber steals the show with her vibrant energy, leaping into the spotlight like a superstar at a Super Bowl bash. From jumping into a crowded bed to sparking conversations with funny shirts, she navigates the room with confidence, though she wonders if her center-of-attention tendencies are evolving. Meanwhile, Jason, ...
Get ready for a tantalizing episode as we’re back with some steamy stories and candid insights! Jason and Amber come to the sexpartment to share the thrill of driving past places tied to past rendezvous and sparking “what if” thoughts about the butterfly effect of life-changing years. Whether it’s picking up someone at a bar, choosing the right app for your area, or ripping the band-aid off with a dance floor make-out, we emphasize there’s no one “right way” to navigate this lifestyle—think gas ...
After Amber’s jaw-dropping confession about her fling with Ben, G and Nessa bare all about their own past affairs! G reveals how innocent flirting spiraled into a less than steamy hotel room encounter with his best friend’s wife. Nessa dishes on her secret year-long romance with a co-worker. One got caught red-handed—guess who?—while the other’s partner remains in the dark. Email your questions to Nessa here to be part of "Ask Nessa" . Please subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. You can ...
Drew and Amber return to dig deeper into their episodes "Enough" and "Soup" where Amber is caught cheating with her sexy gym partner "Ben". When Drew wakes up early, he calls Amber to say good morning. When Amber doesn't answer, her location shows that she is not where she was expected to be and Amber's cover story quickly unravels as Drew finds a year of sexual messages on Amber's computer. Is a strong lifestyle relationship able to survive this breach of trust? Email your questions to Nessa he...
