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How You Do Dad

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Welcome to How You Do Dad, a podcast hosted by Minghan, Dennis and Jon as they take on the wild journey of balancing being dads while trying to be just - guys. Join this trio, as they share their ups and downs of their new lives as parents - navigating the unpredictable twists and turns together. We’re all still figuring this thing out, but we’ll share what we’ve learned so far.
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Episodes

#S2E7 ARE DADS HIDING THEIR STRUGGLES? ft. Bryan Botak Chin & Iherng

Here’s a look into how we celebrated Father’s Day weekend at Daddy Day, our first ever How You Do Dad live podcast event! With our friends Bryan(Botak)Chin and Iherng, we took a look at how the guys are navigating the precarious balance in their family and personal play time. Juggling the guilt of alone time, and how they keep the family involved. Diving deeper, we also had an honest check-in on fatherhood pressures—from mental health, to relationships, self-identity. Join us as we learn from mi...

Jun 23, 20251 hr 36 minSeason 2Ep. 7

#S2E6 BRO-FRIENDSHIPS: DO GUYS CALL EACH OTHER OUT? Ft. Bryan Botak Chin

Join the Daddy Day Event! https://www.cloudjoi.com/shows/3334-daddy-day-2025 ⁠ This week on How You Do Dad , we’re putting fatherhood aside—just for a bit—and diving into the world of guy friendships. Joining us is the godfather of Malaysia’s streetwear scene, Bryan (Botak) Chin, as we get real about what guy groups are actually like behind the scenes. Are our friendships just surface-level? Do we talk about our feelings when the wives aren’t around? And the big one—would we ever call out a bro ...

Jun 09, 20251 hr 7 minSeason 2Ep. 6

#S2E5 WHEN YOUR CHILD FALLS SICK with Daphne Iking & Scott's

In this episode, we’ll delve into the emotional highs and lows of navigating those first health challenges. Together with Daphne, we’re featuring personal stories and reflections on how these moments shape our mission as parents—to raise happy, resilient, and healthy children. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. #ScottsMalaysia #CelebrateEveryWin #ScottsGummies #ScottsPastilles #ScottsMultivitamins #ScottsDHA #ScottsVitaminC Join Our Telegram Community! ...

May 26, 20251 hr 11 minSeason 2Ep. 5

#S2E4 WE’RE PUTTING TOO MUCH PRESSURE ON KIDS? With Daphne Iking & Scott’s

Is this a win for your child… or for you? What does “successful parenting” really mean today? In this episode, we’re joined by Daphne Iking and Scott’s to talk about how we measure our kids’ progress, why we compare milestones (even when we don’t mean to), and how to check ourselves before our expectations take over. Are we really supporting our kids—or just projecting? Let’s get honest about what it means to celebrate every win, big or small.Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this...

May 12, 202558 minSeason 2Ep. 4

#S2E3 Do we let our kids chase every dream? (ft. Scott's)

In this episode, we’re revisiting our childhood dreams and unpacking how those early ambitions shaped the dads we are today. How do we support children’s passions while instilling resilience, strong values, and a sense of self-worth? And what happens when one day they say “Dad, I want to be an influencer?” Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. #ScottsMalaysia #CelebrateEveryWin #ScottsGummies #ScottsPastilles #ScottsMultivitamins #ScottsDHA #ScottsVitaminC...

Apr 28, 20251 hr 9 minSeason 2Ep. 3

#S2E2 Do we need to let our kids fail? (ft. Scott’s)

POV: Your kid loses a game and throws a tantrum. What now? If we want our kids to win in life, they’ve got to learn how to lose first. In this episode, the dads dive into why saying “no” is one of the most loving things we can do—and how handling setbacks early helps build resilience, patience, and emotional strength. Brought to you by Scott’s, we also talk about how our kids are way smarter than we think—they pick up on how we handle boundaries, failure, and those everyday “teachable moments”. ...

Apr 14, 202554 minSeason 2Ep. 5

#S2E1 Why is preschool more expensive than my car? Ft. The Oven Cuttery

POV: You’re getting a haircut with the guys (seriously) In this episode, we’re kicking off this fresh new season with a fresh new fade! Join us as we catch up with the dads on where they’ve all been during our break, their 2025 goals as dads, and how they might start selling their cars to afford preschool. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. CHAPTERS 00:35 - Shoutout to The Oven Cuttery 02:25 - HOW DO YALL AFFORD PRESCHOOL?? 12:00 - The school culture sh...

Mar 17, 20251 hr 12 minSeason 2Ep. 1

#14 How You Do Dad Wrapped: A Look Back At The Season

In this special episode, we answer your burning questions, dive into what we really think about your comments, and reflect on the journey so far. Tune in for a candid look back at the season—what we’ve learned, where we grew, and how we’ll do dad better next time. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. ____ Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hyddannouncements ____ Welcome to How You Do Dad , a podcast hosted by Minghan, Dennis and Jon as they take on...

Dec 23, 20241 hr 10 minSeason 1Ep. 14

#13 INVESTING: RISKY FOR THE FAMILY? Ft. Iherng, with Maybank

What do dads invest in? On this episode, we’re picking Iherng’s brain on all things investing. From his most recent (and surprising) venture to his biggest failures and the lessons they taught him, we’ll also dive into the ever-present balancing act of building a future while living in the moment with family. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. #ItsGottaBeMAE Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hyddannouncements ____ Welcome to How You Do Dad , a p...

Dec 09, 20241 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 13

#12 ARE GENDER ROLES OUTDATED? FT. ALL THE WIVES, with Dyson

ARE GENDER ROLES OUTDATED? FT. ALL THE WIVES, with Dyson *DESCRIPTION:* You asked (many, many times), and we finally delivered—this is the ultimate takeover! For the first time ever, ALL the wives—Suyen, Amanda, and Jazel—are here to keep the dads in check. Who should do the cleaning? Are traditional gender roles outdated? Together with Dyson, we’re debating it all. Welcome to the ultimate husbands vs. wives showdown. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. ...

Nov 28, 20242 hr 21 minSeason 1Ep. 12

#11 RAISING KIDS IN SINGAPORE VS. KL? Our Unfiltered Thoughts Ft. Amanda, with Maybank

We make fun of Jon a lot, but what do we really think about life in Singapore? From uprooting families to deciding where we’d want our kids to grow up, we’re tackling the real ups and downs of dual-city living and what happens when family life splits into two countries. With by special guest Amanda (Jon’s wife) and Maybank, we dive into the big question: is it actually better to “earn SG, live KL”? Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. #ItsGottaBeMAE Join ...

Nov 11, 20241 hr 6 minSeason 1Ep. 11

#10 WHAT ARE ALL THESE BABY PRODUCTS??? (With Supermama Lab)

Baby products. What are they, what do they do, and need to spend all this money meh? This is the episode you send to the clueless husband. Together with SupermamaLab, we’re laying out everything you need to know about keeping the baby alive. Don’t know where to start? Don’t worry, we gotchu covered. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. For more information, reach out to @supermamalab on Instagram! GIVEAWAY Check out our Telegram Channel (link in bio) to w...

Oct 28, 20241 hrEp. 10

#9 Dealing with household finances as husband and wife Ft. Suyen, with Maybank

How do you approach managing household finances—especially with your spouse? This episode, we team up with Maybank to dive into the often tricky conversations around family finances. We’ll explore how to balance transparency in spending, saving, and decision-making with your partner, as well as how to handle the financial speed-bumps that come with raising kids. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. #ItsGottaBeMAE Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/...

Oct 14, 202459 minSeason 1Ep. 9

#8 Crying Babies On Planes & Travel Horror Stories ft. Andrew Ngo (STONED & CO)

From travel nightmares to tips and tricks, we’re sharing how we survive (and maybe even enjoy) the chaos of family trips. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hyddannouncements ____ Welcome to How You Do Dad , a podcast hosted by Minghan, Dennis and Jon as they take on the wild journey of being the asian dad in this new era. ____ Follow The Takeaway Table! https://www.instagram.com/thetakeawaytable/ Follow Ming Ha...

Sep 30, 20241 hr 2 min

#7 How Do We Explain Money To Kids? Ft. Andrew Ngo, with Maybank

In this episode, we have Andrew Ngo from Stoned & Co joining us in the studio to chat about all things money with kids! Teaming up with Maybank, we’re diving into financial planning for kids. We’ll expose our childhood allowances, how it shaped our view of money growing up, and discuss the best ways navigate the trickiest question: “Dad, what is money?”. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. #ItsGottaBeMAE Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hydd...

Sep 09, 202458 minSeason 1Ep. 7

#6 Juggling our passions, poisons and work ft. Lawson (Venturi Motors)

“Every hobby need to become work meh??“ This episode of How You Do Dad takes us on a little field trip to Gasket Alley, where we sit down with Lawson, the owner of Venturi Motors, to explore turning passions into work! We'll also discuss short-term passions that emerge after having kids and how becoming a dad changes our approach to balancing work and interests. Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood. Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hyddannouncemen...

Aug 19, 20241 hr 1 min

#5 Postpartum depression, bringing the baby home and supporting the new mommy Ft. Jazel

The most careful week of our lives… Let’s dive into the rollercoaster of baby arrivals, from crazy hospital bills to our love for confinement ladies and how we navigated postpartum with our wives. We still have a lot to learn, but here's what we've got so far. Join us as we figure things out the best we can. Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hyddannouncements Follow The Takeaway Table! https://www.instagram.com/thetakeawaytable/ Follow Ming Han! https://www.instagram.com/dmingthing/ Foll...

Aug 05, 20241 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 5

#4 SHE’S GOING INTO WHAT? The daddy baby prep, water burstings and shocking birth stories.

We dive into the chaos of preparing for a new baby. From packing the delivery bag to navigating the overwhelming world of strollers, and supporting our wives through some interesting prenatal classes. We'll also discuss the shocking realities of childbirth, so brace yourself for wild stories about dilation issues, failed epidurals, week-long labors, and C-sections. We still have a lot to learn, but here's what we've got so far. Join us as we figure things out the best we can. ____ Join Our Teleg...

Jul 22, 20241 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 4

#3 Is it harder for men to be truly happy?

Does wellness truly exist in men? In this episode, we’re exploring what wellness truly means for the moderns dads. From fighting through the new pains (and cramps) of fatherhood, to balancing our passions and responsibilities and learning to stay healthy for our families. We still have a lot to learn, but here's what we've got so far. Join us as we figure things out the best we can. Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hyddannouncements Follow The Takeaway Table! https://www.instagram.com/t...

Jul 10, 20241 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 3

#2 The Silent Dad curse, guilty pleasures, and sacrificing our hobbies?

In this episode, we expose our guilty pleasures, our crazy bachelor spendings and discuss how we've reprioritised expenses after kids. How do we spend right? Do we provide enough? Is there generational curse of the silent dad still around? We still have a lot to learn, but here's what we've got so far. Join us as we figure things out the best we can. Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hyddannouncements ____ Welcome to How You Do Dad , a podcast hosted by Minghan, Dennis and Jon as they ta...

Jun 24, 20241 hr 6 minSeason 1Ep. 2

#1 Baby Daddies - Are we ready for this?

Excitement, worries, ups, downs - welcome to the first episode of How You Do Dad! This episode we dive into the early realities of the new dad life. We tackle our anxieties of starting out with no guidance as dads. From the initial awkward first few days, weeks and months to the nerve-wrecking moments of saying goodbye to the confinement lady. We still have a lot to learn, but here's what we've got so far. Join us as we continue figuring things out the best we can. ____ 🎉 HYDD LAUNCH GIVEAWAY �...

Jun 12, 202455 minSeason 1Ep. 1
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