Why creepy guys often don't get laid, even at a swingers’ club By Hord Holm . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . I've been to a Swinger Club on roughly a dozen occasions, so perhaps not enough to count myself as an expert. But perhaps enough to have observed some common behaviors, and these are what I want to address here, particularly in relation to single guys who go to Swinger Clubs. The Swinger Club Scenario What usually happens is that my husband suggests that we go to our preferred club...
Jun 23, 2025
Ms. Evangelina Vargas advises wives who want to be “hot.” By vargas 1 1 1 . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . This topic comes up more often than our society is comfortable with. To illustrate the matter, imagine the scenario of a couple of 50 year old English gentlemen down at the corner pub; when one of them says; “Nigel, I don’t know how to say this, but I have it on reliable certitude that your wife has been shagging a younger bloke from church.” To which Nigel responds with a relaxed br...
Jun 21, 2025
Do you seek to be comfortable in your body, or be just a piece of meat? By Zahra Barnes & Dr Nikki Goldstein . Listen to the podcast at How To Sex . Getting naked with a mixed social group might be a tantalizing item on your bucket list, but the options can be radically different, and lead to disappointment, even betrayal and abandonment. To the person who’s never seriously considered getting naked in a large mixed group, perhaps all the options seem the same. But where some groups, like swi...
Jun 19, 2025
Prone Positions for intimacy BY THE EDITORS OF MEN’S HEALTH. Listen to the ► Podcast at How To Sex . A fun, new sex position is an easy way to immerse yourself in a sexual experience. Take a much-needed break from stressing about work or the state of the world by attempting something adventurous in the bedroom, like the many sex positions you’ll find on this list. (Don’t worry, we also included fan favorites like missionary, cowgirl, spooning, and doggy style. Which positions should you try next...
Jun 17, 2025
Creative positions for intimacy: Standing or Sitting BY THE EDITORS OF MEN’S HEALTH. Listen to the ► Podcast at How To Sex . If you suddenly have an itch to try some new sex positions, we’re not surprised. When we recently surveyed 1,229 American men about their sex lives, a third of respondents said they’re feeling more sexually experimental now than before the pandemic began. According to Justin Lehmiller, Kinsey Institute researcher and member of the Men’s Health Advisory Panel, stress could ...
Jun 15, 2025
How Many Positions Have You Tried? By silk stockings lover . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . Several classic books detail the dozens of positions for fucking. In the 70’s, The Joy of Sex was a big hit. It inspired great fucking, and some occasional trips to the emergency room, with some embarrassing admissions, especially at the Catholic hospitals where nuns circulated and prayed for injured patients. But most couples fell deeper in love with each other, and late night tv ratings dropped, ...
Jun 13, 2025
Don’t give up on what used to be a good thing. By Ashley Welch & Kara Leigh Smythe, MD . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . There was once a time when your relationship had magic. That spark of romance, anticipation, and bonding. You’ve invested so much, until things somehow went south. It might have been a major incident, or a slow drifting away from each other. It might be a personal health issue, or a forced new environment for the two of you. We’ll look at home treatments and try to r...
Jun 11, 2025
The dating world’s been flipping on its head. With input by Blonde&Balanced and Dinsmore . Listen to the Podcast at How To sex . Clearly, western culture has started failing to secure our survival. We saw it in western Europe, late in the last century. Plus, totalitarian Asian governments dictated it. We quit having enough babies to replace ourselves. We quit teaching our younger generations that a big part of existence is, creating more existence. We delegated out so much of parenthood, tha...
Jun 09, 2025
What should a man know before he dates a nymphomaniac? With Clint Jahn & Olivia Bury . Listen to the podcast at How To Sex . Most people do not understand nymphomania. It’s real, but it’s not a mythological magic power. Nor is a Satyriasis. There is a vast difference between a woman who enjoys sex and has a high sex drive and a nymphomaniac. When referring to a man with the same obsessive sexual compulsion, the correct term is: satyriasis. Nymphomania is reserved for females. The overarching...
Jun 07, 2025
Too much of a good thing. It appears she has persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) By Brian Alexander . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . The other day, a few media outlets in the New York region covered the story of a woman who can’t seem to stop having orgasms , which would seem joke-ready but can actually be a nightmare. Doctor Brian Alexander files this assessment; While the New Jersey woman’s condition has not been formally diagnosed, it appears she has persistent genital arousal d...
Jun 06, 2025
The keys to open up some pretty wild doors. By heel licker & By Bats and Glamour . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . He's asked you to talk dirty, but you don't know how. So your lover has asked you to talk dirty to him. You may think of yourself as kinky and that you have a dirty mind but when you try to talk dirty the words just don't come to you. If nasty talk doesn't come naturally to you then this how-to is for you. Keep in mind is that he is a guy, his mind is dirtier than yours. D...
Jun 05, 2025
How you can get your woman to squirt. By Alice_Roissy & dirtyjoe69 . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . Today we’re discussing the manifestation of female ejaculation, or what’s commonly called ‘squirting.’ Many a woman has been subjected to shame & humiliation by an ignorant lover who assumes that the chick just pissed in bed, in the middle of lovemaking. The truth is, He caused it more than she did. And he should actually be proud of his superior coupling skills. Bless his darling h...
Jun 04, 2025
Young Brittni shares tips and advice on the art of deepthroating. By Brittni4u . Listen to the Podcast at How-to Sex . On the internet in general, there are several stories and guides posted on the subject of giving blowjobs. Many of them are great and give various techniques and opinions on how to enhance oral sex on a guy. Once again, I'm not claiming to be an expert, especially at the young age of 22, but I do have skill, experience and above all, enthusiasm. In this post, I'm focusing on the...
Jun 03, 2025
How you can get your woman to squirt. By Alice_Roissy & dirtyjoe69 . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . Today we’re discussing the manifestation of female ejaculation, or what’s commonly called ‘squirting.’ Many a woman has been subjected to shame & humiliation by an ignorant lover who assumes that the chick just pissed in bed, in the middle of lovemaking. The truth is, He caused it more than she did. And he should actually be proud of his superior coupling skills. Bless his darling h...
Jun 02, 2025
A textbook For the Art of fellatio. By Bee cee . Listen to the podcast at How To Sex . The old world of centuries past, had a trusted process of passing on skills from one generation to the next. Apprenticeships were an effective way to learn through practice. The concept is still used in many trades, But today it also incorporates testing and demonstrations of skills acquired, in order to be certified by an oversight guild or trade association. We’re instituting this same concept of mastery, to...
Jun 01, 2025
What really happens when you take someone’s sex juices in your mouth? By BareAmy83 & LePenseur . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . Today we’re talking about the thrill of ministering to your sex partner’s wonderful playground right between two legs. And today we’re discussing the oral delight to the mouth. This is the safest sex act involving penetration. The first report comes from BareAmy83. She’s so delighted for all the health benefits she derives from her man’s semen. But it’s her s...
May 31, 2025
How to train a man to love cunnilingus. By cd prosper ot . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . A lot of women love to have their pussy licked as much as or even more than having a cock fill their cunt. And if you have a man who loves to go downtown every chance he can get, great! But what do you do if your man either won’t do it, won’t do it right or long enough or if he treats pussy-licking as something obligatory and a mere prelude to sticking his cock up your twat? Well, don’t just complain...
May 30, 2025
Why she loves to pleasure his cock, and how she does it. By AnaLeePleasured . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . I have always found it odd that there are women out there who do not enjoy giving a man a blow-job, especially if it is the man they love, or are in love with. Personally I just cannot imagine anything nicer than the experience of sucking a beautiful hard, or soft cock and knowing that my efforts are being enjoyed. I believe it is an honor and a privilege to be allowed to pleasure ...
May 29, 2025
It may be time to let the girls out of boob prison. With Sam EscobaR , Tonilyn HornunG , & CQt Rose . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . With their pokey underwire, thick straps and sweat-trapping cups, bras are not always the most comfortable thing in the world. Sure, getting a bra that properly fits can do wonders for your boobs, but there's nothing quite like going without one. While there are certainly some folks who simply can't go bra-free, whether it's due to comfort or size, the o...
May 28, 2025
No matter your size, you can make it work for you. By PolySwingerWife . Listen to the Podcast at How-to Sex . We’re taking plenty of time for this issue, because it has a lot of myths, yet it impacts much of how we interact. In the same way that busty women often carry themselves in a confident aura, and often intimidate other women, Some men have a confidence that is tied to their ‘package’. Men who don’t have super-sized packages, sometimes feel a significant lack of confidence. Never mind tha...
May 27, 2025
No matter your size, you can make it work for you. By Dancing Sprite . World Data.info , Risia Skye , & nh play guy . Listen to the Podcast at How-to Sex . We’re taking plenty of time for this issue, because it has a lot of myths, yet it impacts much of how we interact. In the same way that busty women often carry themselves in a confident aura, and often intimidate other women, Some men have a confidence that is tied to their ‘package’. Men who don’t have super-sized packages, sometimes fee...
May 26, 2025
A discussion of Womens’ Breasts and Sexuality By CARLY STERN , HANNAH ORENSTEIN , Nondescript In CT , & zipado 321 . Listen to the podcast at How To Sex . We’ve spent a good amount of time and attention on a man’s physiology and the impact on sexuality. Now lets discuss a woman’s breasts. They are often called tits, a term originating from the French word, tetons. You’ve also heard the terms; boobs, knockers, puppies, milkers, bust, mammaries, and other slang descriptives. Let’s start by dis...
May 25, 2025
What every man wishes you knew By almost . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . There are articles in abundance on what women want and need. There was even a movie recently, with Mel Gibson, about our secret feminine thoughts and desires, men spend hours trying to figure us out and what we need, but do we try to figure them out? You don’t see many about what men need and want, and they can be as mysterious to us, as we are to them. All women think they need to do is, rope ‘em, hog tie ‘em and t...
May 24, 2025
A general guide to the core of a woman's sexual desire. By Lillianna Morgan . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . Written for all men who wish their wives/partners would have more sex with them, and for all women who wish the men in their lives knew how to really please them. Frustration; it's a bitch; it can be good, really good, or very, very bad. The idea is to make the sexual frustration great for her, so that when the time comes, she is so wild for you, the sex is mind blowing for both of...
May 23, 2025
A few things that gross me out about porno myths By LargoKitt . Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex . What I HATE About Porn Right up front let me make it clear that I watch erotica, read erotica, and write erotica. Please scope out my stories or poems or even my art and I think you will be pleased. Porn is very ancient stuff. Prehistoric people were making images designed to turn them on, and I'm sure they were sitting around the campfire and telling spicy stories. Motivating people to do the d...
May 22, 2025
