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How to Have Threesomes

Key author of How to Have Threesomes, and co-host Lily answer important questions about non-conventional relationships: How do we balance freedom and commitment, wake up and feel truly alive in our relationship, have more laughs and fewer fights? The How to Have Threesomes Podcast answers hard to ask questions about relationships and threesomes with frankness and immediacy. Key and Lily open up about their failures and successes so that you can skip past the mistakes and go straight to achieving a happy and healthy relationship.
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#61 - Master M - Threesomes at Tantric Events and a Threesomes in a Long Term Relationship

M is a calm down to earth guy who talks about a few of his threesomes including an MMF and FFM, he is a professional chef, massage therapist, circus artist, and teaches Shibari partner acrobatics at Tantric events. He is very inspiring and an all around beautiful soul. Loved having him on the podcast How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…a...

Jul 01, 202550 min

#60 - Matt B Murray - MMF Threesomes, Fucking on a Gravestone and More

Love the intense energy Matt B Murray Brings, in this podcast about life after reality TV, his views on open relationships, MMF and FFM Threesomes, Threesomes with his girlfriend and best friend, fucking on a gravestone impotence, possessiveness and so much more. If you want to find Matt on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_b_murray If you want to find Matt on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/matt_b_murray/ How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable....

Feb 24, 20251 hr

#59 - Joe - Mastering Relationship Communication for Threesomes and Beyond.

Joe Tandle is a relationship communication master, we talk about helpful frameworks for non-monogamous couples, triads and more. Check out Joe's tool the connection map https://www.theconnectionmap.com If you want to find Joe on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/joe.che.tandle/ How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily The How to Ha...

Feb 24, 20251 hr 14 min

#58 Jaymin - From a Vow of Celibacy to Threesomes While Married

Come along for Jaymin's incredible story from taking a 25 year vow of celibacy to sexuality at its most open and indulgent. He shares what he's learned over the years, beliefs and wisdom that anyone who's in or interested in an open relationship should know and put into practice. You can find more about Jaymin on his instagram or website linked below: https://www.instagram.com/iamjayminjpatel `https://www.jayminjpatel.com/eys How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now: howtohavethreeso...

Feb 17, 20251 hr 15 min

#57 Threesomes - Anna Interviews Us!

It has been years since a guest has interviewed us. A lot of our original ideas and opinions have changed. Anna asks thought provoking questions like.. Why don't we sleep with men, or do we? Are we worried about giving away our tips and techniques. Does Lily compare herself to other girls? What kind of tinder bio's / girls are we looking for? We tell sexy stories about recent encounters all over the world and more. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachab...

Oct 30, 20241 hr 31 min

#56 - Japaneese Love Hotel What's it like?

What is a love hotel like? Key and Lily went back to Japan in this podcast they talk about, Japanese sexuality. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now! docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms ...

Oct 23, 202414 min

#55 - Jay - How to Have Threesomes With Your Current and Ex Girlfriend

Jay is one of the most open minded and interesting people we've had on our podcast. He drops wisdom bombs and tells us his legendary story of how he had multiple threesomes with his current girlfriend and his ex girlfriend. We talk about having interactions with men, burning man and much much more. This was definitely one of the best sex talks we've had yet and is an episode not to miss How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arra...

Apr 07, 20241 hr 15 min

#54 Japan - Hentai, The Biggest Sex Store in the World, Soapland and Sexuality

Key and Lily spent a month in Japan in this episode they talk about hentai, what's inside the biggest sex store in the World, soapland and about the seemly shy way some women act sexuality. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now! docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=s...

Mar 18, 202428 min

#53 Strip Theatre Japan - What's It's Like Inside

Key and Lily Travel to Japan and experience a new culture and sexuality. The first of our series about sex tourism in Japan we go to a strip theatre, a Japanese style strip club, and have mixed feelings about what we saw. Join us. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now! docs...

Feb 19, 202436 min

#52 Temptations Mexico, Swinger Clubs And The Lifestyle With Lisa

Lisa talks swinger clubs, her experiences at Temptations club in Mexico, lifestyle and lot more kinky and fun stories. Lisa has been a unicorn, done swaps, threesomes, foursomes, moresomes, been monogamous and tried many things in between. Learn from her ideas and knowledge of open relationships. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-l...

Jan 28, 20241 hr 15 min

#50 Pixi & Daddy - Kinky Open Marriage

Pixi & Daddy are going to be our new best friends. The depth of their knowledge, life experience, and love for each other make this a particularly special episode. During this podcast episode, we talked about open relationships, play parties, the kink world, managing jealousy, group sex, boundary setting and so much more. Seeing the love and connection between these two is simply inspiring, the level of mutual trust and respect is something every relationship should strive for. Pixi's social...

Nov 18, 20221 hr 22 min

#49 Eri Kardos - Relationship Agreements

Eri Kardos is one of the most highly referred relationship coaches in the Pacific Northwest and worldwide. Eri has delivered hundreds of self-development presentations, workshops, unconferences, and private coaching sessions. She regularly partners with corporations, universities, business groups, and community organizations to bring light to how communication and connection is inherently tied to success. She is passionate about applying her years of experience and understanding to help people i...

Oct 17, 20221 hr 15 min

#47 Pelvic floor specialist Jenna

A deep dive into the anatomy of female pleasure and the pelvic floor. Our guest Jenna is a holistic sex coach, yoga teacher trainer, and pelvic floor specialist. This is a very educational episode on the technical "how to's" of breathwork, mindfulness and pelvic floor strengthening. Jenna was kind enough to also offer our listeners her free orgasm workbook! https://www.jennaswitzer.com/free-orgasm-workbook You can also find her on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/jenna_switzer/ How to Hav...

Oct 09, 20221 hr 30 min

#48 Tiny Tiny Handjobs With Pleasure Coach Erin

Erin was one of our favorite guests yet! From kink and sex parties, to open relationships, threesomes and more, Erin has endless stories and wisdom to share. She was in a lesbian relationship for over 10 years and is now exploring her sexuality as a unicorn and facilitator of group play parties. We talked about porn genres, how to become multi-orgasmic and tiny tiny hand jobs ( lol ) How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-thre...

Oct 08, 20222 hr 1 min

#46 You Are Not The Prize

A short rant from Lily about reframing your mindset and how to market yourself better to potential unicorns. This and more inside episode #46 How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe75efA6m-fVgD57meLc...

Jul 24, 202211 min

#51 Open Marriage With Igor And Gretta

Igor and Gretta are the most solid couple we have met in a long time. We walked away feeling renewed faith in open / non conventional relationships. They talk about how to start off a relationship as open, from night one. Their book recomendations: The Ethical Slut - https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379 Black Mirror - Striking Vipers How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threeso...

Dec 06, 20211 hr 13 min

#45 Nightclubs Are Shit

Nightclubs are shit for meeting people or more accurately for meeting unicorns. Why you ask? Tune in to find out. Also a blast from the past as an ex threesome girl visits us. This and more inside episode #45 How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups...

Aug 19, 202124 min

#44 Wild Majick - Guest Interview

She's not afraid to speak her mind and this episode is not for the faint of heart. Majick is one of the wildest guests we've had on our show, prepare to be entertained. MMF, FFM threesomes on camera and more this girl has all the stories. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily The How to Have Threeso...

Jul 09, 20211 hr 7 min

#42 I Asked Her to Marry Me!

We got engaged!!! How will this affect our threesomes? Our relationship hasn't been conventional so obviously our marriage wont be either! We talk about this and tell you the story of how it happened. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now! docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…...

Jun 11, 202132 min

#41 Collector of Secrets - Helen Guest Episode

Our first guest who has not had a threesome but makes up for it with some of the best stories yet. She is the collector of secrets, a beautiful french girl in Bali who has lived a lot of life! Find Helen on Instagram @heleneclabecq How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily The How to Have Threesomes ret...

May 20, 20211 hr 40 min

#40 The Pickup Game

The masters of pickup exposed. A deep dive into the good and bad of the pickup world. What can we learn from it? Lily and Key share opinions from the movie The Pickup Game. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now! docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing How to Hav...

May 05, 202122 min

#39 RBDSMA an Acronym That Will Make Pleasure Better

This friend is one of the sweetest, most caring people we know. She's had a threesome with three girls and no men, and is a first time guest on our show Her interesting relationship setup is something not to miss. An most importantly acronym that will help make any relationship better BDSMA. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.co...

Mar 22, 20211 hr 9 min

#34 Humans Are Not Monogamous - Sex At Dawn

An overview of the book: Sex at Dawn It seems like in todays culture that women trade sex for protection / shelter and status and from the males Sex at Dawn challenges this standard narrative and says that is not a biological truth but a cultural idea. The male looks for signs of youth, fertility, health, absence of previous sexual experience, and likelihood of future sexual fidelity. In other words, his assessment is skewed toward finding a fertile, healthy young mate with many childbearing yea...

Dec 16, 202031 min

#31 My First Threesome

Key and Lily talk about their first threesome and how they made it happen. Some other show notes. -Having a threesome is as common as owning a cat. 1 in 5 Americans have one. -Making the first move: Make it obvious. Don’t leave it up to interpretation. -Don’t chase girls, let them come to you. -Don’t do it because you feel obliged to. -Have difficult conversations with food. -Don’t lose your best friend, just have the hard talks. Be good at receiving hard information. How to Have Threesomes Vide...

Oct 31, 202036 min

#28 How To Photograph Naked Girls

We teach you the do's and don'ts of taking photos of naked girls. This is a mid week episode that may not be applicable to our wider audience. Many people question how we end up with so many beautiful naked girls around us and in this episode we tell you how. (Trust is key) How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily The How to Have Thr...

Sep 24, 202013 min

#27 We Set Unrealistic Standards

How we set unrealistic standards for ourselves and for others. How passive income helped us to create a free spirited lifestyle. We explore the concept that the less partners you've had, the more sexually satisfied you will be with your current partner. Fun facts from the book Everybody Lies: Big Data, New Data, and What the Internet Can Tell Us About Who We Really Are - by Seth Stephens-Davidowitz - https://www.amazon.com/Everybody-Lies-Internet-About-Really/dp/0062390856 Remember to comment th...

Sep 15, 202024 min

#26 Donald Trump Had A Threesome

Where high net worth individuals go for discreet sexual encounters? The President of the United States, Donald Trump and allegations of a threesome in a NYC brothel? High end brothels in Hong Kong. Does being rich mean you have more power in a relationship? All of that and more in episode 26 of the How to Have Threesomes Podcast How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily howtohavethrees...

Aug 30, 202014 min

#25 Rapid Questions for our Gay Guest - Jacob

We rapid fire a list of questions to our first gay guest, Jacob. If you listened to our last episode with Jacob you'll notice that we didn't get around to asking our normal questions. Find Jacob on Instagram @Jacobito__ How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taki...

Aug 10, 202014 min

#23 How to Tinder - As a Couple

Tinder - Everything you need to know about looking for threesomes on tinder: Getting banned, other dating apps, areas of the world and how they affect your chances, show your face or no? Link profile or no? Male or female page? First lines? Copy and paste or write something unique? Where to go on a first date, Tinder scams and people trying to get free nudes. How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes Arrange a video coaching call wi...

Jul 19, 202036 min

#22 How to Manage Jealousy

How to manage jealousy in a relationship. Before bringing in another girl, it's important to know how to talk and how to argue with your partner. ----- Inner work Jealousy comes from our own insecurities, not what your partner is doing. Remember that you are unique and that no one can give your partner what you have to offer. Even if someone else is better looking or richer than you, you might be kinder or more caring. Never undervalue what you bring to your relationship. If you feel triggered i...

Jun 28, 202039 min
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