That's What He Said Part 2

And Dmitri, I know you love this one. I do love this because this is when the listeners sending their questions via email men at at I heeart radio dot com, and we just you we read them and we just answer them and I feel like we're talking directly with people. So that's that's my fame. We've always tried. That's what we say. This is a podcast to serve the community, and so we get bombarded with questions, um, guys and girls. They want to know what dudes think about this? Why

do you guys do this? Why do guys think this way? Why do they act this way or not act this way? So we go through all these questions, we picked the ones that we think can serve the community the most, and then we dive into them. So this is that's what he said. Round two. The question one from Christina she wants to know about gray hairs. My boyfriend of five years has had some gray hair popping up for

a while now. He seems insecure about it, even though he thinks, even though I think he's a silver fox. Do I offer him help to diet? A Halloween custom from now on? Him covered up Elvis Presley from the seventies, giant Giant Giant mane on that dome like Wayne Newton. Wayne Newton's got great. I love it. No, it depends how old he is. Well he wanted. No, she's after he's insecure. She offered to help him diet. He know she loves it. She should not offer to help. She

thinks it's hot. She should convince him to keep it. He's insecure about it. Yeah, but she loves it. So Number one, if she loves it, she should not offer to help him get rid of it. That first second, I agree, should convince him to keep it and say, by the way, I think it's totally sexy. That's what she should tell him. And yes, yes, she should uh let him keep it up to him. Hold on a second,

men's rights, man's rights. I think we should say he wants to look a certain way, you know, with his hair color whatever, it's important for him to feel like something. Then yeah, he could diet, but he's insecure about it. How does she help him not be insecured. I'll tell you this. I've had like a couple of gray hairs popping in. I just yanked me too, when a gray hair pops in, I yanked them to send a message to be careful when you yank your hair out. Be

careful when you yank your hair out. Guys, it doesn't always come back. Send this guy a picture of me. He'll be happy with whatever. Harry's guy. So I think it's a I think you let him. I don't. I wouldn't say diet. I don't think. I don't think I'm not into that. Just let it come out. You gotta do whatever he wants to do with his hair, you know what I mean. But it's okay for her to tell him how hot he looks with it. Every everybody needs a good ego boost. Okay, let's get what about you, Danielle.

Do you like gray hair? Like, let's get a woman's perspective, from a female perspective, do you like a little bit of salt and pepper? I think it's so sexy. Really that What is it that's sexy about it? I don't know. Maybe it's a sign of wisdom, you know, like you're a little more mature and you're I don't know, I think so brilliant. What about So that's that's coming from a married woman, Hanna young? Single? What do you look

at like? Well, she's not because she's gonna be like I like silver hair on my dad because that's our age. We don't know how we do well. I'm only twenty, but when I look at my parents and they have gray hair, I give them for it. So Hannah's Hannah's saying diet, Danielle saying, no, I guess it's just a stage of life. Though not that much older than Hannah didn't say you that old, I said, without without revealing

your age, how many years older are you? Then? I think I'm ten years older than by the way, she just says she was twenty. So you've now revealed nine years old. There you go, perfect. Okay, when did you start liking gray hair? Man? I would say I've always liked gray hair. I think it's cool. I will say I don't like all like all grey. I like salt and pepper. Right, there's a little bit of a difference. Okay, we'll say that. Your moving on a new question from Amber.

Amber wants to know about multitasking. This is a great one for us dudes. Here, can guys we should do something else while we answer this. Yeah, well, Gavin's eating kit cats, so perfect. We are talking can guys multitask? Where do the responsibilities fall in the household? Et? Well? More on the wife, more on the husband. So two questions. First, can guys can guys multitask? Of course? Yeah, definitely, Yeah. I think women can multitask better, but I think guys

can do it for sure. I actually the guitar at the same time. That's all one thing, all right. I have a goal of cooking at home as i'm as I'm cooking cleaning at the same time, So you're multitasking, So definitely guys can do it. Okay, what about this? Where do the responsibilities fall in the household? Equal more on the man, more on the woman. That lies in your strengths. Listen, if one of you cooks better, if one of you likes to clean, that's each individual a couple.

I think you got to figure that out. And just do what what is suited to your strong suit. Like it doesn't have to be like women should do more, men should do more. Figure out what in your couple works best, and you do the things that are good for you that you can do, and and the other one does the said. I agree with that, but I also think you you pick up the slack wherever it's needed. You know, like if if there's a lot of laundry, I mean we're talking about the household, like I'll go

do all the laundry. And if I'm not on the laundry that day or that week, then my wife will go do it the laundry. If you like doing laundry, you could do laundry all the time if you want. Rick, I'm pretty sure you have a delivery service for your laundry at your house. For instance, we were getting ready to come to Vegas and Rick was like, honey, where's my sweater? It was in the hampers it So He's like, honey, in Vegas, why did you need a sweater? I didn't

watch your sweater. It's degrees in Vegas. I agree with you, Dmitri. I think you just I think naturally in a household you're gonna gravitate your strengths. Like I feed our dogs, I walk our dogs, Like that's something I like doing. Um, I'll do that most of the time. My wife will do other things. She's very much about the core and um, that kind of stuff. So I think you just kind of figure those out. I don't think it's man has to do everything or woman has to do everything. I

just if you find your roles within the household. That's my take off. Let me ask you a question from a guy's point of view. So I like to barbecue. I like to cook and stuff. But I've been to houses where like the wife will barbecue and the husband won't. How do you, as a guy, because barbecue tends to be a guy's thing, how do you feel about that? Would you be all right if we all came out of Brooks, if we all came out of your house,

would Julianne be working the barbecue? Jewels can barbecue, I love? Would you be okay with that? Yeah? I would. I love barbecue and Jules can barbecue certainly. Um. But also when we my wife and I love to host a lot, so we'll quite often have like Sunday Fundays at our house and we'll have pool party and barbecue and invited one of those I have not Wow, But I have two friends, Christie and Haley, that will always champion the barbecue. And I'm like, I can barbecue guys. They're like, no,

we'd love to do it. So I have to friends that love to barbecue, and it's they're fantastic cooks, So I have no problem with it. Man or room barbecue fantastic and other than the barb with But you like a nice steak? You do like a nice steak? Man do? So do you barbecue inside your hotel rooms? It's so hot out here, I just throw the meat out on the other good thing is so you have wait, so you have at Okay. Another question from Lindsay. He said

he needs alone time. That's the title of this question. So I've been dating a guy for about two months and we recently had a conversation about him needing alone time. I'm a twenty eight year old, he's thirty two years old. We see each other three to four times a week, so I'm guessing they don't live together. I obviously don't mind him or I don't mind giving him alone time because I need it too. But should I be seeing

this as a red flag? He's been single for five years and I'm about a year out of my separation. Question is he saying he needs more alone time or that's the right amount of alone time is three to four days a week? I don't know, just see each other three sounds like it sounds like he if he's asking for a loone time, then that's yeah, that's yeah.

I think that's somebody for three days, and you want more alone time than after two months, that's supposed that's that should still be in the sweet spot, like getting to know each other, and after two months you're like, I need a little more space. I'd say, I hate to say it because I feel badly, but that sounds like a red flag. Like when you say it, though, like you're so honest, thanks funny, especially with those glasses on, he's very he looks very studio. I would say, I

agree with you, Dmitri. I think, I think, um, I think two months in if he's he should be like pulling towards you if I really liked you, and two months in if he's like backing off a little bit. He's either scared of this becoming some sort of committed thing. Um or he's just not into you and doesn't want to take there. Maybe he's not in that stage of life. And the other thing is she said she's out of

her relationship, her separation, divorce one year. It's possible he thinks she's not ready like maybe he maybe he feels like she's just going full force because she's I don't think that's it, because otherwise he'd have that conversation with her about it versus saying he needs more alone time. Don't you see what the kid says? Okay, let's trying to find the answer inside of somewhere. Danielle is clearing

him away. Okay. Here from Waite Newton. Later, here's a question from Sam and he wrote that he's a male because that name could go either way. Sam is a guy and he talks about reaching out to his ex. Um. He said, my dad had his prostate removed due to cancer. I asked my ex to pray for him because we're still very close, but my ex didn't even respond. What are your opinions on contacting my X during rough times? And how do you feel about online dating? So? What

what do you feel about contacting your ex during rough times. Listen, rough times are rough times, right, So you do what you need to do. If if Sam felt that's what he needed was to reach out to the accident asked for them to pray for his dad, and that's what Sam needed, So I'm fine with that. The fact that the X didn't respond, I think that's not I don't think that's great. I think at least right back and

say I will thinking of you. Whatever if you if you don't want to leave any kind of lead on there, I think you respond something that's a difficult situation. I don't have a problem with Sam reaching out in a moment where he needed somebody. Yeah, I don't think reaching out as a problem. I think depending on how the marriage ended or the relationship ended, I think it's also

okay for the X to not respond, you know. I think it's you know, I mean, yeah, everyone cares for people and and it's your ex or whatever the case may be. But I think depending on how the it ended, I think it's talk about space. It's space for that individual not to have to reply. We're not sure if Sam's reaching out outside of that case either, Yeah, and we don't know how long I don't know how long. Um, they've been separated, could be a while, but I doubt

it's that long. If he's reaching out to this person in this moment in a need, it's probably not an X from seven years ago, you know. Um. But yeah, I don't see an issue with it. I mean, you nailed the Dmitris in the time of need. Um. You know, it's a tough time for his father, a tough time for him, So you reach out to somebody. Maybe this is the person that he is or was closest to in his life. And I'm guessing, I don't know. I'm guessing maybe the father knew the ex, they had some

sort relationship, so he there's a personal connection there. I mean, you know, we don't know these things, but that's what I'm That's what I would guess. Possibly. So another question from S. This person's name is just the letter S. Do you want to do the online dating? Okay? Sam, also want to want to know, UM, how do you feel about online dating? Terrible idea? Why? I believe in meeting people in the real world so that you can

see the physical interaction as well. I think I think uh gestures things like that make people better or worse looking and allow you to have that chemistry more naturally read just showing up. Ye. Dmitri thoughts on dating app I think if you're at a point where you're looking to hook up with somebody, go for it. Otherwise I think it's not the best thing for like to find a relationship. Rick, I don't have a problem with it.

I think it's good. Yeah, I mean kind of swipe left, swipe right, get rid of the good, keep the good, get rid of the bad, keep the good and uh and then go do with Gavin saying, and meet him in person and have a human interaction. You've been married fifteen years. Don't know how the dating apps works? So well? Is it swipe up and type down? Ran, what do you think? I don't agree with Rick. It used it as a filtration process to get to the point where

you have the face to face interactions. I would say, my brother in law met his now wife on Tinder, so I've seen a success story and okay, then I take it all back. You know what that's called a Tinderella? Oh my god. We actually that is from my father refers to her as is Tinderella, and he said that

at the wedding in his speech, that's that boy. The reason I know that, as guys, I had a buddy who actually Um paid for the upgraded subscription of Tinder, where you could, if you were to travel to Boston in a week from now, you could start looking at people in Boston already. So he's like, I'm just looking for Tinder Ella's birth. So dating apps, I'm fine with it. Do what you're like, there's it's a modern way of dating. Whatever. I just believe in whatever connects you with the right person.

Like you said, you're was brother in law, whatever, he found the love of his life through a dating app right on. I mean I was, you know, I was settled down, I got married or engaged and stuff before dating apps came out, so I never used them. But I know from back down, I know dating is hard. I know meeting people as hard. So listen, if that gives you a leg up, I mean, what the hell

take your advantage. I will say that Gavin Um does more of a live action Tinder where he just walks around and looks at people and he pushes them to the left or he pushes them to the right. It's a physical swipe. No, but I think I think, listen, it's a horrible like dating is tough, man. Whatever, whatever you can do to help make it easier for you, go for it. I agree with that. I think I think you said it. It's an opportunity just to meet

more people, no doubt about it. It's certainly maybe you don't have a lot of time, maybe you're you know, career, maybe whatever it is, maybe you have kids, whatever it is. Uh, potentially meeting somebody could be difficult. And this is just the way. It's, like you said, Rick, it's a modern way. The world is changing. The world is definitely changing, plus a new platform to meet somebody. Plus I mean, look, how many people try to start relationships based on just

meeting somebody at a bar? You know what I mean? It's kind of yeah, it's sort of counterintuitive in a lot of ways. You know, you know, hey, how are you? You know, it's really what's the difference and what's the difference between meeting someone in a loud bar or seeing someone's picture and they're reaching out to them? And I mean you're basically working on the same thing. Maybe one you're sober and the other one you're not. Oh you say so? You could be, so you think people not

be sober and be looking. I guarantee people are using dating apps while they're drinking. Here's a question for you, guys. I think there's a real negative connotation that dating apps are a place of hook ups are Like why why is there that connotation? Why can a good person with the intention of meeting a love of their life not beyond a dating app? Why is what is it culturally looked at? Like dating apps are just a hook up place.

I mean, in theory, it's almost the same as having going on a blind dave by being set up by your friends. I mean, you're you're registering by that app, and you're getting somebody's information that you don't know who they are, and then you're meeting them and talking to them and then off you go. Well, think about the way we just compared it to go into a bar

to meet someone. When when you went to a bar, did did you Did people really say, Oh, they went to a bar because they wanted to meet the love of their life. No, they want to bar because they want to hook up. So really it's not much different than what people are saying about the dating apps from what they would say about meeting someone out like happy right in the bar. So I mean, I think and I think it breaks down to the different types of apps.

I think different apps probably have a different connotation. I think Tinder has more of a hookup I think, and I'm sure e Harmony isn't known as like the place to get laid, So I think it depends on the app too. I think there's a connotation for different apps. So here's here's a question for you. Where does this app fall? D MS in Instagram? That's a real gray

area of that one. It's a gray area because it's a it's an easy way to reach out to someone that you don't have their contact info right, Um, So it's not always that type of thing, but it's also got a shadiness factor to it. You know what I want to do right now? I want to go through Gavin's MS. Let's do that. You don't get I don't want to because I'm afraid we're gonna open up and there's gonna be one from Rick that says, what do you think of the sweater? Is this all right? For

the five guys? I would love to see what's in your d M s, Buddy, I have an interesting story for you, So tell me a d M story. I have to so a good one though. I had a fan come out to a show one day and uh and say to me and talk to me as if we were like intimately involved, you know. UM. And I was like, okay, well, nice to meet you. She's like, meet me. We've been talking for months and months and months,

and I was just gonna sayah, was her name, Ruth? Yeah, And apparently it's sad, really and apparently somebody is like people start these fake profiles, you know, Oh she catfish you know somebody. No, somebody was being me somewhere else, either on another profile or it could have been maybe an employee using an account or something. UM, and had

this interaction with this person. They were talking for months and months and months and then they're literally standing right in front of me and um acting like we have this relationship going, you know. And I was like, wow, I'm really sorry. I honestly I don't I think we know each other, you know. And she was just mortified. So apparently somebody, somebody was catfishing her using Gavin took her enough to my exactly, and she thought that there was like a relationship there or some kind so God

knows like what you know she was sending. God knows to what extent that had. You know, what old How old was this UM fan? She was like thirty years old, you know, like this is like a woman. So she thought she thought this is something like I'm Gavin and Gavin to Gran I are flirting and DM like where we got this? Literally and there wasn't you at all. That's literally horrifying. Yeah, And she was standing right in

front of me like with her friends. She's probably like, oh my God, with her friend or something, you know, and it was kind of like a horrible like a horrible moment for her. I mean, I was embarrassed. I bet I bet it's Ryan. I bet Ryan runs the guy. I bet your Ryan has a fake Brooks that he goes out like people. He's like, oh I just lost some more money. I'm almost broke. It's a go fund me love, Ryan. Can you tell us do you have any other like Instagram DM awesome story to tell us? UM?

Probably not. I mean, you know, people reach out to you, and you know they do hit on you. You know, obviously you're you're in the business, you're you're in the business, and um, it's flattering. I mean, it's flattering, but it's obviously that's not the right place to be doing that.

Here's here's a question, though I've met I've met a lot of exceptional friends people I've been a fan of their work or what they do or the content they created, like something or an athlete and that I've reached out to on solciers like love what you did there, love what you said there are something big fan, You're awesome, and then have connected that way and had too like

blossom friendships from that. So why can't somebody do that in a romantic way if if you loved somebody music or something to them, I'm sure, I'm sure it could happen. I mean, I've certainly never made any celebrity friends like that. That's interesting that you can do that, because I'll I would send messages like, yo, man, should have caught that. That was a big play. You blew the game. I hadnt a beer, I had money on the game. You live in Vegas. You owe me a steak. That's what

it is. I wonder they don't respond that, man. Okay, moving on. The next question is from s so we don't know what the full name is s. But the next chapter of my life is this question. I'm thirty and within the past few years I lost my mom to the dreaded sea word and my boyfriend of four years was arrested on multiple charges of child pornography. It took two years of self discovery, but now I am ready.

I'm ready for my person and my life partner. I'm not the person who randomly dates or hangs out of bars looking for love. If any of you were deeply ready for that next chapter in your life, ready to commit to a conscious relationship, where do you begin and where do you meet like minded people? So this is just just a piggyback, like we're just talking about dating apps. Like I said, why can't you meet a like minded person on a dating app? But let's say it's not

a dating app. Where could you meet somebody looking to have a serious relationship. Where in the world would you go? Grocery store? Church? Where would you go grocery stores? I have to say, like, you know, you go to the grocery Store's definitely you can tell a lot about something. You can really there is you really can't tell a lot about people at the grocery store. Do tell well, if you see, I mean, which one they're at, which i'll they're at. Are they buying stuff to what they're wearing?

You know what I mean? You pick up a lot. You know what I mean, You can pick up a lot about a person, certainly from where they're shopping. Are they buying stuff to make a raw like freshmeal? Are they buying frozen dinners? Are they buying stuff for I mean, listen, you've been following me around. You go the stoffer his man which thing? If you go to a bar, right and you see a guy you don't know what his

story is, maybe he took his ring off. You go to the grocery store and you see what he's buying. You see if he's buying stuff for kids lunches. So you're right in that respect. You can tell a lot more at something like that, as opposed to out and about. It's kind of a behind the scenes where do you meet somebody? Get let's get back on top of where

I think. I think the best way to go for S is to go through like the friend network and see where that goes, you know, and start talking to them and asking if they can hook him up on like blind dates or they have any friends out of something in common and take that route. That's what I would just like, Like Mitch just said, that's how a couple episodes are going. Yeah, and he said he went through his role, you know, quote unquote Rollodex and just

spread the word, Hey, I'm looking. If you happen to know anybody you think would be a good match, that's absolutely I think that's great. That's yeah what Mitch said. I think that's the way to do it. I think, for s wherever you found that ex boyfriend, stay the away from that. So I don't know, well, and I think, yeah, the child pornography. I think. The other thing is, you know, there's a lot of people, I think more than we know, that find people at their workplace, at their job, you know.

And I think a lot of people get connected that way and then they get married or they fall in love, and then one of them goes and takes another job so they're not working at the same company, and that's how they get and they get together like the ultimate romance. Jim and Pam from the office. Yes, yes, they sat there looking at each other across the cubicles. Isn't that where most like a relationships start or things like that at work? Isn't the work thing the place? Don't know?

I was in a locker room for fifteen years of twenty three dudes, I didn't have mind, didn't start handful of relationship here A very specific type of scenario sot every not every job has a locker room with just all one. You know where I would? You know where? I would? Honestly, I think I think any sort of like organization like a gym. Yeah, Like I would love to meet somebody at a gym because it means this person is active, they're healthy, they value health and fitness.

I would go there. The beach is a great place to meet somebody. Like living in l A the beach, there's always action down. People are active and outdoors tough. So how do you how do you meet someone? How do you approach someone at the beach and you're underpaths? You lay your towel down right next to them. Yeah, what's wrong? We're going to say hi? It's because it crosses al it crosses a creepiness. Like I'm at the beach with my friends, like and someone comes up and

it's like hi, where else? Give us one more each, you guys, give us one more place where that outside of a dating app or whatever, you could meet like you mentioned church, the gym, the grocery store, these types of places that they seem to be a natural sort of Yeah, because great, one you have a common interest. You don't have a dog? Yeah right, that's probably a little weird. You could just go sit there. You just

go there and go I like dogs. Yeah, so I think any place, any place you can have a common interest, yeah, Jim dog Park. Yeah. I would not rule out Vegas though, guys. I mean you could go to Vegas and find somebody. Do we have a story there? Rick? No, I know you as a teaser like that, Ves, I'm gonna help find something meaningful, I said, the story behind those worlds.

It's just you know, I got to Vegas and I got a d M from Gavin to Graw and then said, hey, I want to hang out, and I don't know if it's the real Gavin de Gras or a fake one. We're gonna get some more you guys questions, but first we need to take a quick break. Fab fit Fun is a woman's lifestyle subscription box filled with full size, premium beauty, lifestyle, fitness, home and wellness products sent to you straight to your doorstep. They take the hassle out

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not gonna answer that question, but Gavin smiling. Let's buddy, I think it's happening every plead the fifth. I think it's happening everybody. That's all, okay, okay, y, that sucks. Get more specific. I thought you were really intimate at one point, Brooks, and I'm wearing your T shirt right, and you were. Then I came home one day and you were in somebody else's T shirt. Because I'm not an excel, he found a speedo when the law made really insignificant, it wasn't. It wasn't like if you're in

excels now, I can't compete. It wasn't a team that. It was definitely moving forward with your life. It was a speedo to honor Rick Dmitri. You have you been cheated on it? Or have you cheated before? Yeah? I think, like like Gavin said, I think everybody has. I think when you're younger, you don't necessarily know how to You're not mature enough to end a relationship. So I'm sure everybody has ended a relationship poorly when they were young and uh, yeah, yeah, I'm sure it's happened, you know

when you're younger. Yeah, Ryan, yep, I was cheated on in a college relationship. I do not know. To my knowledge, I don't know that I've been cheated on. No ex girlfriend or anybody has said and I have never cheer I'm I value loyalty big time, not only in a relationship but but in friendship as well. Um, do you want to kiss a woman who has stuff on her lips?

What does that mean? Amy? I think it might mean bright red lipstick, hot red, like super red lipstick, or just very just a lot of lip Okay, a lot of lip. Hell yeah, yeah, boy, doing works on King of course Dmitri I would say, just after Gavin's answer, move on, Okay, Okay, that's nailed it. Okay, have any of you ever seen someone you liked in a crowd and would you ever do anything about it? Hell? Yeah?

Why not? Wait that you liked in a crowd? Yeah, like if you were seeing say you were saying to have any of you ever seen someone you liked in a crowd? This is probably for you up in the state and who she's looking at me? I like, all of you, any takers? Anybody? Next? Anybody is this? And then no hands? Next question? No hand this side of the room. Guys sleeping on a tour bus with my father. No hand. This is what happens that no hands go up and he looks at this tech guys like, is

this my gone? Mike? Check? Is this my gone? Okay? Does anybody have stuff on the lips? Anybody? Next question? Worst thing you can do during a date and during sex. The worst thing you can do during a date and during sex probably fart that's up there. Probably the pacy during sex. Nothing like I think just being rude on a date, like ordering early you know, being a dick, being a douchebag. Yeah, getting up, leaving, bailing on her. Talking there, Yeah, talking on your phone sex would be

looking at somebody else on your phone while farting. There you go there on your on your on your paid tender app while you're on the game. I have one talking about an X talking for once. Brooks and Ryan just agreed. Know. The ordering on the menu thing is a real thing too. A buddy of mine when he first started dating his now wife, we went out for Margharita's.

We both ordered a house Margharita. She ordered the Cadillac with the patron and I'm like, come on, like we just were slumming it on the regular stuff and You're like, and we had He had no money at the time, and that really bothered me. So that's no. No, she's a high class gets bad or order a high class drink? Can I ask you another ques, buddy? Let level up like like this. This is this is the long long, the TACKI money line thing. Okay, this is off topic

a little bit. What about people have these wedding parties and they want somebody to buy certain dress to where certain be at certain locations. I mean they the bridesmaids have to buy their own dresses a lot of times, right? Is that this is the way it works almost all the time, the bridemaid. You think that's a little I know it sounds I maybe speaking at at a turn a little bit, but it seems a little That seems a little douche to me to expect people to come

up with, however much money to pay for that. But yeah, weddings are a clown show. They cost like thousands of dollars. You're making people spend money that they might not have, you know what I mean. But he's down with that. He's like, I remember, I think I think you kind of Gavin, I kind of think you know your audience and who your bridesmaids are, who your best you know, best man, your groomsman. Know you kind of know what's

going on, and you who you choose. You sort of start thinking about that and whether or not you go get the Cadillac margarita or the house margarita, and you know your audience. I think, Okay, good, I'm relieved by that. Moving on turn on or offs for women? Turn on? Oh wait? What was what's a turn on? Um for a woman? Like something that woman can do that is a turn on for you. You guys know about smexy? Is it smexy? Smexy? It's smart and sexy. It's the

new hot thing. Uh. The name alone as a turn off, sort of like a librarian. See, that's how guys think. No guys can be like, hey, I just met this girl. She was so smexy. Guys, check this out. I think of a whole another day. Let's go turn on. What's something that a woman can do to turn you on? Sense of humor that can make me laugh? That's probably a tall order. He's describing himself. They have good hair. I do like converse about personality type. I like sarcastic.

Really they give given Yeah, sarcastic, nice figure, you know, not overly in shape, but not like just comfortable with themselves Like yes, like me, I'm not overly in shape. Sometimes I'm comfortable with myself, but right now I'm very Thanks Ryan. I think a nice a nice set of heels, and a nice out on a date. That's sexy. It's a turn on I want to turn off. Then you get home, the heels come off, the toes go in the mouth and open a little toe cleavage. You know

what I mean? Ryan, one day, I hope you're bold enough to try it. There's a challenge. He's bold enough to let you suck his toes. No, come on, Dmitri, Hey, just making sure we're all clear. When you're done, do you apply a little bit of lotraman just to be like, yeah, okay, let's go with this one. Turn Offs? Turn offs? What's something a woman can do that does a turnoff for a man? I don't like the like the injection, but

like duck lip, Look, that's not my favorite. Boat talks too much botox some chick that's on our phone the whole time. That's annoying. But you know, it's a big turn off to me. The gum snapping, Oh what are you talking about? Napping? Like you know, when you're like, you go go out to eat somewhere and somebody's like snap and then in the cloth napkin looks terrible. It's close to me. What else, Ryan, what's a turn off? Yeah?

The collagen injections agree, like, and it becomes slippery slope where they just continue to get bigger and more absurd looking to me, and it looks I don't like people who are unaware of their surroundings, Like, don't talk loud if there's other people there, don't you know, don't just be aware of other people around you, be more sensitive to other people who Okay, here's one. Is being a bad kisser a deal breaker? Yes? What if? What if she's maybe good at other things? She's just a bad kisser,

bad kissing. I don't see how you move on from there. Well, maybe you move on because this kissing is bad, the kissing. How do you skip for a space? I mean, it's you know, I feel like kissing is part of the chemistry, you know, you know, it's like if you hit us, you hit one to the gap. But the fielder is kind of almost there, and you're like, this could be a double but maybe he's a single. I better around. I gotta turn this into it double tough. That kissing

is a deal Is it a deal breaker? Is a question. I don't think it's a deal breaker. No, you gotta kind of I think you're right, Brooks. You need to kind of continue on and see what happens. So this this full transparency, this question. This lady says just because she can't kiss doesn't mean she can't suck. That is in my notes right here. Answer that's I just wanted to propo. I just wanted to like full transparency with that question. So, now, what do you think love comes

off for Ryan? Yeah? I think you give it time and you hope it progress gets better. I agree with that. I don't think it's a deal breaker. Stick your tongue down further and see what happens. Oh my god, Um, that's a deal breaker. Rick jam and his tongue gun. Here's here's I like this question. There's no such thing as bad sex, just like there's no such thing as

bad pizza. Agree or disagree? Disagree. There's pizza that leaves you unfulfilled, and there's therefore the sex that leaves you unfulfilled and the food that's bad, Like you want to enjoy it. You want a good pizza. You don't want a bad pizza. You don't want a mediocre pizza. Yeah, there's there's such a thing as bad sex. Okay, I think there is such a thing as bad pizza too. By the way, Yes, okay, how about this one another rapid fire. I'm single, thirty seven and dating for about

half my life. Have been told that having children could be very difficult to give my age, those odds are even lower. Now, when do I or should I ever bring this up when dating? She doesn't want to have a kid? No, she does want to have it. She doesn't. She's told that it might be difficult for her now given her age at thirty seven, the odds are even lower. When should she bring this up when dating a guy? First date? Second date? Six months in? I think, what

do you think? Amy? Six months in? Why? I would say that's like the appropriate time. But this show is called How Men Think? So I should be quiet. I think she should put it in her in her bio on Tinder. No, I'm kidding, No, I think I think when it comes up like don't don't want that because you never know? And what are you gonna do? There's such a thing as as going too fast. You show up on the first day, you said, by the way, I don't know if I can have kids. It's like, well,

I wasn't even thinking that, So slow down. Yeah, I think you need to follow the path of the date. Why not just where t shirts said say I need a baby now right now? And on the back maybe I can't what all right? Ryan? What do you think when should she bring it up? I think so much of this depends on your age. So she's thirty seven, if she's dating guys of a similar age, I think that will dictate how early on you bring it up.

So if if you're thirty seven, I think you could bring it up fairly early because your physiologically it needs to happen soon. So if you're not freezing your eggs and you were up against the clock, presumably a guy at that age may want to have the same conversation, may want to have a family sooner rather than later, And he similarly doesn't want to bring it up because

he thinks there's a six month rule. And so if you feel strongly about it, like unless you're doing it in a very I don't know, in a in a weird way, I think you've got to bring it up. And if if the guy doesn't want to be with you, then you don't want to be with him anyway. So I think there's an organic way you can bring it up that's genuine to say, yeah, I'm interested in having a family, Like there's no harm in that. That's an

honest question. You talk about your niece's nephews, cousins, whatever I think as a kid, where'd you grow up? You know? Here we go marriage. A couple of marriage questions. We have four married men in the room. I won't say the one that's not married, um, but I can tell you about the four that are unhappily married up. But this actually applies to you too, buddy, This actually really applies to you. Do you believe in having a pre nup? Oh?

It depends. It depends if you've got, if you've got, if you're you have a different career or a career that's further long than the person's gonna deal with. It depends financially where you're at versus where the person you're going to be married. Two is that I think that it's important. So it's important for someone like me. If I'm marrying someone who isn't in a position like like I am, right and someone else who maybe has a lot more than I have, I would probably think the

same thing. You know what I mean? If I was to marry someone who is a billionaire, I'd want him to have I actually would want him to have a pre nup so they would feel like there was authenticity there. So do you think that you'll if you should. You don't want anybody's stuff, you know what I mean, You don't need anybody. Should you get married? Do you think you would have a prenup? I would you? Yeah, Dmitri, what do you think? Hold on? Hold on before we

move on? How do you? How? And when would you bring that up? Probably before you uh, right before the I have to make babies right now on the first date. Well, now I'll be in line at Earth Cafe. Now you can just have a listen to this episode of the podcast and she'll know. Yeah, now you just play the podcast exactly. I would basically pass him the menu with a prenup attached. I'd say, go to page three. Oh sorry, I thought that. I thought that was it's a go menu.

That's my prep. And I she said if she said, I love you and and and this predump signifies you questioning my undying love for you and my motives, and I'm I'm offended by it. I cannot sign this. And I want to continue on and marry you because I love you. But I cannot sign this because I feel like you're questioning. And I would say, and I let me counter that with you can demnonistrate how authentic that is by agreeing that you know this truly is just

about the way you feel about me. I have to say I agree with Gavin Ye so I look at a prenup as essentially just a declaration of assets. This is exactly this is like I had a full life before I met my wife. I earned some money playing a sport. I worked my tail off for that. Sure of course earned a lot of money. Ryan, So you have a prenup with Julianne, I am not going to disclose that. I believe in that. Listen. I don't know

if he does, but but he might, I believe. I think if you come into a position, I think if you're in a relationship with someone who has the same amount, it's not as important if you have the same basically amount of assets or or financial worth or whatever. It's one thing. I think if you're twenty two years old, you both are coming from not having any money, not having a career, you're coming up together, A prenup may

not be necessary. Maybe two people with starting relationship at literally the very beginning of their adulthood, moving into their adulthood and and developing a true life together starting from essentially their childhood, you know, which is different than being forty years old, um, having a career, owning homes or businesses already, and then getting into a serious relationship with somebody. I think that was just I just think it's in essence, just do you think the same way if the woman

had more yes, I would, yes, what about of course? Yeah. I think it's again to what you're saying, Rex, it's more of like a transaction. It's a business asset transaction and the other side. I mean, I think what's happened is we've crossed the two the asset transaction with the feelings of love, and mixed those two and saying, oh, well, you don't love me because you want to sign this transaction, you know, or you want to do this this thing. It's like it's like buying a house. No, it's listen,

we're here, we both want this to work. We're gonna do our best. If for some reason this doesn't work out, let's just leave with what we came with. Yeah, it's it's yeah, I agree, Like it's it's just a state of the union, a declaration of no. This is what I've done in my life up to this point. This is what I've earned or purchased. This is what I've accumulated in my life. This is just stating that's where it's at. You you haven't been a part of most

of this, maybe some of it. Maybe you've been engaged for a while or dating, so some of that. But this is what I have done. This is also what you have done, and I don't deserve any of that. You did all of that before you ever knew my name. It's really simple stuff, you know. It's like you said, logical, yea, it is logical, and I don't I don't really see

it to be part of marriage. I think it's it's just because divorces have been demonstrated to be so uh so much of a punishment to someone in a lot of those scenarios, So you know, you shouldn't be getting

punished because relationship didn't work out. Um And so I think that's why people really got into this whole prenup thing, is you know, someone might have come in as a higher earner and someone else wasn't a higher owner, the relationship failed, and then essentially that person was financially punished for being the higher earner in the in the relationship, and I don't think that's right, and I don't think it's a I don't think it's a demonstration of not

being in love or believing in the relationship. It's just there should be no incentive for failure, and I think if one person is going to actually be incentivized for it to fail, you're more likely to fail. I think it's something that happened between my wife and I think she wouldn't want any of the money that I don't make from this podcast any other but she also wouldn't want the money that we owe to do this that I don't want to leave her with a billy bill

to do this podcast. We need more sponsor. Okay, it's funny you mentioned that because I have been build for one of these shows. Here's another one. How did slash? Would you choose an engagement ring? How did you? I'll answer this one. So when my girlfriend and I my now wife, we're talking about getting engaged or like that we were committed, um, I asked her. I was like, I have no idea what to buy you for a

wedding ring or like an engagement ring. I flat out asked her, I have no idea, and I was like, think of it this way. If I asked you, or if you were to buy me a fishing boat, where would you start? And she goes, I have no idea. I don't know anything about fishing boats. I'm like, exactly, that's how I feel about a ring, So please give me. I want you to have the ring that you want that you gonna look at the rest of your life and love. Give me some guidance on that, and she

gave me, I can I prefer this shape? I prefer an oval. I prefer like a rose gold band. And then within that I had flexibility to choose, but I had the framework of what she preferred for an engagement ring. So she got her ring. Where's your fishing boat, dude? I have I have an awesome Yeah, I have a dream. But I bought it myself. I bought it myself. That was in the prenup. How would you go about buying

an engagement ring? I would just I would probably ask the person behind the counter what would make them say yes, and then just go and they would say a gun store, ga, how would you do it? How would you do it? Let's say, let's say, would you ask your signor partner I would say, give me your best Cubic Zirconian right now. No, I'll chime in, because Gavin's always clearly Clearlyvin is struggling

with how did know? I think a lot of it goes to, you know, walking around with your wife and you you know, they they sort of start leading you into that path, right, you know, so they're they're taking you out to certain stores, they're showing their friends, you know, you're a certain age, thirty two or whenever you're getting married, and they're like, oh, what's your name? Gotta three carrot diamond with baguettes on the side, and oh, I would

really like that. And they start doing the homework, and then they start giving you feedback and you it's your job and your responsibility to start picking up on that. Well, you've done this, So is that what happen? Is that how you did it? Yeah, that's that's what I did.

I basically for a while, I just kind of paid attention and took notes, like mental notes, and the same thing when when they like if I saw if she commented on her friend, if any time one of her friends got engaged, I listened to their conversation about the ring because they sort they just talked about it. So then I just kind of took mental notes and paid attention to it and then made my best, made my best effort, my best guess, and I literally took six

months of becoming basically a certified gemologist. I'm not exaggerating, Like I was calling diamond wholesalers, jewelers, and I was like, give me this. So I knew she wanted a pair. You're more diamond you could have picked out. That was all I knew was she wanted a pair, and I was gonna do everything from there. I knew no Halo, and I was calling people. He showed up and she was disappointed because it wasn't a pair of diamonds. Did

you guys, Halo? Do you know what that I was getting into Melee Micropave, I'm talking about culate and girdle and symmetry on a pair. Symmetry is big fluorescence like you name it. And these people were gonna kill themselves dealing one of them Robins Brothers. This is really good for the show. Actually keep going. No, I mean I literally spent six months like finding the exact diamond that I wanted, and I finally found it to me it

was a reflection of me. That diamond was going to be like, it's a reflection of you, all right, And then the jewelry don't come back. Were sorry, they said, we have died. I don't. I disagree with you, guys. I'm on Ryan's side here. I love the work that you put into it. Keep going please. So I ended up finding a jeweler in Georgia, the state of Georgia, uh, and wired the money, had it fed X to me,

which was a nerve racking experience. But I designed the whole thing myself and was really his profiles, the stones cut with his hair like cookies. It's like cookies. Sorry, buddy. The thing is, it's like, I don't know about you, but it to that at that point in my life, was the most money I'd ever spent on one single thing. Like it was a big deal that I had worked my ass off to save for. So I wanted to be proud of it, wanted to make sure it was perfect.

The funny thing is like two years later, the setting was platinum and she decided she actually wanted rose gold, and I was so annoyed that she wanted to change the band that I had worked so hard to create, but we've done so it's all good. That's cool, That's really cool. Okay, I want to that's awesome. I love that the divorce. Do you get that ring back? Only the only, the only, the platinum part? Okay, hold on, I want to get a woman's perspective on this. So

we have producer Torri here. So, Tori, were you to get engaged, would you tell the guy what you want? Would you just hope that he picks something out? How would you go about it? Um? I'm huge on surprises, so I wouldn't want to know anything. But I have a huge opinion, So I just wanted to read my brain car part. I kind of have like stubby fingers. I feel like, so I kind of need a big time How do you break that to a guy when you're I know we're young and still working there, but

yet you kind of want a nice ring? Sore? Is a nice ring? That is an important idea? Just read my mind? You know, I feel bad for your future fiance. I wouldn't even know who he is. Know how you set that up? Because you say, hey, you know, like I want a too carrot diamond or a one car or something something reasonable if that's reasonable in most people's budget.

But then you piggyback that our side by side with two kids, so you can say, hey, we want to I want to have kids, however your marriage is going I want to have kids, and then you're like, okay, I can build one next to that, or if we

have two or three kids. That's when you start getting and I think it actually means more to your wedding ring is like the center pieces yourself, your bride, your wife, and then the two other diamond rings diamonds or whatever stones you put on the side or representing the rest of your family. Sounds like you want a jewelry jewelry store. Ryan just texted me that whole answer. So you want the guy to know what you're thinking. You want him to pick the right the right shape, but you also

want the big ring. Where will you find such a guy? I don't know, bless his soul, but I have I'm also really bad decision making because I'm so low key that I'm like, whatever you want, babe, But then I if I get it, I feel like I'm terrified. So basically, if you if you proposed to me with the diamond or what do you call that? Ryan? Ryans not parents? Yeah, okay, baby, it's a pear shape like I wouldn't want a pair, So I think you should let It's like I know myself,

I'm just going to say whatever you want. I want to, but then I know as soon as I get it, I'm not gonna want Probably, I think it will become second nature, like your friends are gonna start getting engaged, and then you'll be like hmm oh well, and then you'll just start talking about it. Turn in Dmitri and Demitri listen to it. Why don't you go to a hand stylist and see which shape looks best on your hand? Is there a hand stylist? Think you need to give

some direction in terms of cut? The shape of the samond is like a pretty big deal that you should be able to figure it at least that out, and let the guy do the rest. Amy, how about you? Because I feel I want I'm really looking forward to this answer when there's the gentleman that calms the whole storm and proposes. I don't know that I want to get married. Okay, well should you? But I just want a diamond band. That's all I want, just the band,

the diamond band. I have a friend that has with one diamond for each of your rex is because I've got to call them all the time. So there's the there's the engagement ring, which is like that's the to do and then when you get when you get married, then you have the band that's the promised ring. But you you know the or something like that in high school. For a while. I like the idea of even like, look there is this is what's so weird. I do love the idea of like someone i'm with wearing a

wedding band. There's something real sexy about that to me, But I don't know. I mean, yeah, I would. I just want a diamond band, and then I want him to wear I actually like what you wear, Brooks, because it's like that big dark band. I actually, well, I have a wedding This is a Yeah, I have a wedding ring like a rose gold or whatever. I like that. But this this is like a ten dollar silicone ring. This company just sends them to me in it I wear I work work, yeah, and I would trash my

wedding ring if I wore it. But I like having a wedding ring on even when I work out. Um, so this is just a great one. Sometimes a break like if I don't get married and I find like I love my life comes back to be so happy. Yeah, but he says, um, okay, now one quick thing, Rick, do you actually know what the you were mentioning the rings of marriage? Do you know the three rings of marriage? No, it's the engagement ring, the wedding ring, and the suffering.

Oh jeez, Louise, Okay, here's a great question. I really like this question. Is asking a dad for his daughter's hand in marriage? That's scary? And is it that important? Yes? I was scared less, but I had the best time doing it. It was just it was so cool and so much fun. I was nervous as hell driving. We were meeting at a restaurant, like at a bar and

just kind of having a casual drink. I'm pretty sure he knew what was going on, but it was just when we had the conversation, you know, we were sat down, had you know, you know, the bs back and forth, and then it was like, hey, you know, I want to I want to marry I want to marry your daughter. You know, is that okay with you? And he was like awesome, this is great, you know, blah blah blah, And it was over pretty quickly. But it was a

very great it was a very killer experience, like awesome, awesome, Yeah, totally, Dmitri. Yeah, I don't think it was that scary. I think it's a nice thing to do, and I think I'm glad I did it. It's actually it was actually my wife's um stepfather. Uh so I actually asked her mom who raised her, and then her stepfather both at the same time. And I thought it was nice. It was a nice thing to I wasn't too nervous, as a little nervous, and he actually made a joke and said no. He

said hell no, but he was obviously joking. So what about what about you? You have daughters? I have three daughters. Yeah, would you like their future partners to ask you? Would you prefer that? Yeah? I would. I mean, yeah, I think it's a nice thing to do. I think it's a nice, like you said, a nice bonding thing and

respectful thing. I don't think it's important, like I don't mind if they if if they he proposes to her first and then whatever, I think, you know, I don't think it's about to me, I don't think it's about me, so I think, you know, if he wants to do it, then I'm totally open to it. But would you prefer it? Would would that? Would you see that as a sign of I think it would be a pretty cool because it sets up a nice relationship as a father and son in law. As I considered my wife's father almost

a friend. We had an unbelievable relationship in many ways because I didn't have a father, and he kind of became a surrogate father too in that way. But I think what what my strategy was. I took uh, he my father in law and his or my mother in law, so my wife's parents both together. Jesus Christ, thanks for making this simple. It's early. Sorry, I'm still thinking about

the diamond and the gemology stuff and my hair looks good. No, but I took them both on a walk and asked them both together, which I know my mother in law really valued that. It wasn't in today's day and age like it seemed progressive. So could to me something about it makes me uncomfortable? I'm not sure I would. I don't know what you mean on whose part? If you're like I'm thinking about myself and then if somebody's gonna go ask my dad, yucky. No, that's the past for me.

No really, Yeah, but you also said you want to get married. I'm not. I don't want that. I definitely. I don't think my dad would care, because he knows me so well that he I am uncomfortable by it. I don't know why something is triggering me right now, as you. I've never thought about it before, and I attention I do not want the person to ask my dad now. Well. I also think you're you know, it's not like when you're really young. I think that the

parents worry more about who they're gonna marry. I think you're well establishing your career, and I don't think that your parents are like, oh, I hope she has someone that will take care of her, because you take care of yourself. So I don't think it's like they'd be that worried about if you out like it was a good decision. I think they'd probably be all right with it.

So the question was is it that scary? I did it to my father in law and I wasn't scared at all of it, even if he said no, I wasn't scared of that because I love I loved his daughter, I loved my now wife, and I was gonna do it anyway. But so it's not that scary. Yeah, I don't like bees dead lips, I don't like bees man um, but I will say, like you said, Rick, it's a really cool moment. It's a really cool moment. I did it.

I actually asked my father in law out on the balcony of our lakehouse, which is where I proposed to m Yeah. Yeah, I didn't never never, I never applied. Tried to ask him in the boat, but he wouldn't get the boat with me. So that's probably a good idea on his part, because I mean, but I think it's I think it's super cool. I think as from my standpoint, it was really enjoyable to just honor him and his role in his her life and his continued

role in her life. Um. And then someday, if I'm a father, I would love to have that moment if I had a daughter and she and she was to get married, if he was to ask, I think it'd be really Yeah. I think I think it's super cool. I have a daughter and I would just I would want that. I love that you go swimming with sharks, and yet you're like, oh bees, man, you know what it's because, dude, when I was younger, I was out

golf and I ripped the ball into the bush. I went in to get it and I got stung by two bees and one was right on the ear low and it just scarred me. Yeah, that's like, I hear you. Yeah, I just didn't like I had a similar experience in the other. And then this is another category called other. This is where we throw the mixed bag of stuff. Do you wash your hands after using the bathroom? Particularly you're a nation, Can I take this one gold baby?

Go a friend of mine and he's told me, no, why would I wash my hands after I take a piss? I wash my hands before I take a piss. It's my hands that are dirty, it's not what I'm holding when I'm taking a piss. And actually there's some sound logic to that. I will tell you if I'm at the urinal and there's no one else in the bathroom, it's an like fifty percent of the time, No, I'm not going to wash my hands. The other like, then there are sometimes when I'm like do I want to

bother myself, But there's a guy in the stall. I'll put the water on, put my finger underneath two or three times, so it sounds like I'm washing them, and I'm like, I'm not getting my hands with this guy thinks I am what an idiot? You really got him castanzas. But I have a thing about that, so I definitely wash my hands after I go pee. But do you flush the toilet? If it's yellow, let it mellow, If it's brown, flush it down? Is that what you're saying?

Probably flush the toilet every third time, wait for which it depends. Did you eat asparagus that day? You know? Because I don't want to waste the water? Conservative? What about this? Let me ask you this question, gentlemen, Let me ask you this question. Because it's possible to go to take a leak without touching it, you know, unzip the pants, you can pull boxers down, hook it around, boom. It's possible. Do you wash the hands in that situation?

Tor is looking at me like, what the hell? No, Because I'm playing on my phone at the same time. Mine comes out of the ankle, So the urine comes out at the ankle. Because he teys himself. He's so nervous. Okay. Moving on from that, I don't know if that's gonna make the shore that's gonna get cut. Okay, moving on to another other question, breastfeeding in public acceptable, attractive, not accepting? What do you look at? Can answer that one. I'm fine with it. I have no problem whatsoever. Are you

seeing the boob here? Sure, it doesn't matter to me, honestly, like it's you're feeding a baby? What do I care? Okay? Can we be I mean, I mean to have zero problems with it whatsoever. That's the normal side of me. The other side of me is like, you can't not creep out and like try to look at the boob. We didn't discuss whether we were trying to look. Are we okay with it? Yeah, we're totally okay with it,

But you're also kind of peaking. Who doesn't want to see that even though there's like a six month old on it. I'm fine with people doing it. I don't. I don't have a problem with it. I mean, I know some people think it's gross. I do not. And obviously I have four kids, so you know I'm well versed in breastfeeding. But I mean if you're at the airport, like some people are like, oh my god, look at that over there, and it's like, but look at the

other way, there's some fat ass and chilies. How went on a on avocado egg rolls, right Southwestern egg rolls, like jamming him in his face, Like that's grosser than what's happening over on the other side. A buddy of mine told me he knew it was time to start working out and that he needed to lose weight when his kid crawled into bed and crawled up to him and put his mouth on his own boob, and he was like, no, it's it's dad. It's not mom, it's dad.

And he's like, that's when I knew I had man boobs. It was time to and this and this buddy of yours, brick, the only thing I have about about breastfeeding is like you have the kid that's too old, you know. I think that's when it gets weird, Like like nine he saw. I was at the beach other day and like there was literally like a five year old that rolled up to his mom and started like going at it, and I was like, dude, what's up with that? Interesting kid?

Wrote a skateboard to go breastfeed and rex like that kid's too big, I can't see the boob. My thought on it, my thought on it is I have I mean, I'm not a woman. I don't have kids, But if so, I don't even know. I don't have no idea what they would go through. So if you need to do it, go ahead and do it. Like, imagine the stress on a mother. Strain on a mother to look after a kids, feed a kid? What like? Who am I to say that you can't do it with I don't know what's

going on in your how busy? Yeah, is it better for the kid to be hungry because you can't you don't want to look and see that? Like, get over yourself. I agree. So, okay, this is a great question, A nice segue from that. Rick, I'm gonna lead with you when we boob guy or leg guy or leg guy everything in between. Oh jeez, why do you say it like you're ordering. I didn't say the biggie biggie menu. Dmitri just left the studio. Boom guy or leg guy. I think this is a question. I think it's such

a tough one. Man. I have to decide right now. Or can I think about it on the plane or I mean I have to choose, Like I mean, I like it all. I like legs, I like the breasts, I like the butt, I like the face, shoulders, arms, elbows, forearms. Okay, I mean that doesn't help at all. Ryan, I would say leg guy, le guy for you, boom guy, leg guy or toes guy. I think I'm a leg guy. I think I think the gateway to the toe. It's a long thoroughfare on the highway to the toes. And

gave me to the leg bro. Not if your ultimate goal is the toe. I wouldn't say that's my ultimate goal. Oh Gavin needs a new T shirt. Yeah, I I there's there's something very sexy about a beautiful pair of legs. I find it very crazy. Yeah, I agree. Um Dmitri, you say, like, yeah, Aby, Aby, what do you think I'm wearing shorts? What? Two more, you're wearing short shorts. You're showing off them legs. Sure, sure we should get narrow as a sponsor. Um thoughts on stretch marks, whether

she has had children or not. I don't even understand you mean, like, are we saying marks that we think it's kind of gross or to be honest with you, like at that point in time, it's just that's kind of the fact of life, and that's a reality. And if you're really into that person and you're doing whatever you're doing with that individual, then it doesn't doesn't really bother me. So what if you weren't super into them, Like you saw a girl who's super pretty, but she

had like you could see a little cellulite. I don't have a problem with I think you need to look in the mirror because I'm sure there's something wrong with you if you're being that particular about someone else. Look in the mirror and you'll find something about yourself. Ryan what Ryan Bryan has tried. He won't yan he perfect? Look at him. This was in the news. Recently, Courtney Kardashian posted a photo. Look I'm I'm I'm hip to this guys, come on, can you stop making the stretch marks?

And she embraced it, and she was praised by people for not doctoring the photo and just owning the fact that, yeah, I have stretch marks, but I'm fit and like this is what it is. It's kind of like the same as a as a dad bod, Right, you know what I mean, It's like we're all in quasi shape and but I still have a gut and I don't I don't think. I don't find any correlation to stretch marks to a dad bot, I stretch marks is a physical thing that like you gave birth, like you're like that

was something that's a that's a I don't know. I don't see how you correlate those, Rick, How did those correlate somebody giving birth to getting lazy? Coming from brooks Like I'm just wondering. Yeah, I don't know. Just give the old glass is a good pay? How about this one? Is food the way to a man's soul? What should she attempt to make? So? If food is the way to your soul, is it? And if it is, what should she make for you? Is she a good cook?

Or is she just attempting to make something? But she's not a good cook And I'd rather have take out, But I would love me. Can you help this guy? I would love a chicken farmer sian a little carbonara pasta. I'm a chicken farm guy. I don't think it's the gateway or what is it? The uh? What is the food away? To a man's soul. I don't think it's the way to a man soul. For me, it's like, don't be so obsessed with oh my god, I ate a carb or just food is great. It's not the

way to the soul. But it's like, don't be don't be uptight about it. Like you want chicken parm, have chicken parm? You want to like make sure you eat nice you know, good foods that you enjoy. And don't you think it's sexy A gal that can cook? Yeah, hell, yes, yes, it's hot as hell. Yes. My my wife is an exceptional cook. She can go in the fridge and like every meal is different, every meal. She's never made the

same meal twice. She'll go in the fridge and find some things, whip it together, and I'm like, oh my god, that's delicious and it's very healthy. And that cannot cook. We're a special cook. We're special to amy. Would you if if you knew a guy it was important to a guy, If you knew it was important to a guy, the guy you really liked, would you try something? Um? No, I have a nice lady who cooks, and she drops it off at my house, and it seems like I

cooked it, so we're good. Okay, your mouth was moving, but it sounded like something R would say. It's like, if you're not a good cook, fine then but if you are a good cook, it's a plus. Like my man will always have a delicious, home cooked meal ready for him at all times. I just didn't prepare. That's

a bad statement. I didn't prepare it. Why No, that just like threw me into like the fifties, and I was for having the refrigerator full of healthy, great delicious food, but I don't cook it, so I will handle figuring it out. What he's saying is that the guy should also be sure, like that can be my job. I have no problem with that being my thing, making sure the food is, the refrigerator is stocked, and the meals are planned. I just can't cook it. Yeah, I don't know.

I mean I I we my wife and I we basically like kind of trade off like their their nights where I'm like, oh, I want to make a you know, slowly smoked ribs or you know, something like that, and she's like, I want to do resulted tonight. I think you just kind of traded off on back and forth. I don't think it's This is my job and I need to make sure that the fridge is stocked, and I'm going to cook every single night because I'm gonna satisfy you. Like, that's not how we work. I might

not want to do the garbage. I don't know where the dishes. I'm just saying, like, if that's gonna be gonna be my responsibility, totally fine. I just can't cook. I suck at cooking, but I'm totally fine to take the responsibility on being the organizer of that. Let me say this, So I were talking about a couple different I agree with you. My wife and I alternate cooking like barbecue. I'll and I'll say this, her cooking is

way way better, like way better. I I did like barbecue and it's kind of and then just steam some vegetables and it's kind of plain. But um, she's excess same here. But I'll say this to any gentleman out there listening. The cooks don't clean. So if your wife or or if you're um girlfriend cooks for you, step up and clean. That's what I'm saying that in our house, that's how I say I cook doesn't clean. My wife cooks dinner, she can go read a book, going to bathtub,

whatever she wants. I will clean the crap out of that kitchen if she puts in that effort and cooks dinner, and I hope that it's it's reciprocated. If I put that effort in and provide a plate for her, I agree with that. I don't mind doing that. But you know what my dad used to say. He'd say, you put so much work, and you made this beautiful meal. Finish off the job. Make that the whole special night. Ready, finish off? No no, no, meaning he cooked. My dad said,

I cooked a nice meal. I'm gonna finish off this nice thing, and I'm gonna do the dishes myself. I'm gonna I'm gonna do the whole thing. Yes, that part, and let's let's go with the first person that we believe. Cut that part. I see that, I see like fully

treating somebody. But I also think that, like, if somebody provides you with the meal, it's such a nice thing to say, I'll clean this up you I have I have like a anal rick thing where I basically will cook and clean seem to it's just like I've trying to be the most efficient and effective. I do as well. I like cooking and being the one providing and feeling like this is an unbelievable mele that I just provided for you. That's fulfilling. Yeah, wait till your son pushes

it away and you're like this sucks. I don't like hot talks, Dad. I'm all for it all. I think it's a give and take. Like it doesn't have to be. The cooking doesn't have to be, the dishes don't have to be, the garbage don't have to be. This as long as like everybody's in it, I don't even care. I'll do it all. I don't care. I'll do it. Okay, you reek of desperation right now. Maybe I'll do it.

I'll alter excess for all the recipes. Maybe it's it's eighty five at night as we record this come back, so when we go to the Light Household, when we have the how men think dinner at the at the Light Household, who's cooking? I'd probably if we were to do that, I'd probably like to barbecue. I'd love to put a bunch of like filets on the barbecue for the gents. How do you like your filet Dmitri Rick Ryan, don't give it. Damn, you're gonna get what you get.

Gets the hockey Peck snuck out because he had to go buy a pair of shoes. I just think everybody should know he's he disappeared a few minutes ago because he had to go buy some booths. I like a dry aged and I like it medium rare. You get that pit barrel? Have you ever seen those pit barrels? Like a thirty gallon drum that you basically hang the meat through these rods but charcoal or wouldn't bottom, and you just leave it in there for no, I have not four or five hours and it just you don't

ever have to touch it. It's literally the best thing cooks in the barrel. It cooks in the barrel. Yeah, it's so. Do you guys have a smoker? Basically that's what it is. Yeah, we've lost, we've lost. I need to go to the air we lost Amy. Rick's got to go to the airport. Doesn't have a flight to smoker. I just met her. Okay, that was awesome. Thank you guys for your questions. We always appreciate listener questions. We will throw ourselves on the flames here and answer these

for you guys anytime. So thank you. Keep writing us these questions. We'll try our best to answer them. And Ryan, you love myself, take care of myself and everybody else. I like that from Ryan, Love thyself, take care of thyself, comb thyself's hair, screw everybody else, and see you back here next week. Play with thyself. Okay, this one's done. Put this one is done.