Bringing Sexy Back

So Tory, Danielle and I also produce Intimate Knowledge with Brooke Burke and Megan King Edmonds, and they are going to do the exact same thing that you guys are about to do, and they don't know what's happening either. We are going to ask you fifteen pretty wild questions about sex and we need you guys to give totally true answers so we can learn the male perspective and then the intimate knowledge ladies are going to do the exact same questions so we can understand how women think.

What do you guys think? Can we block my mom's subscription to the podcast before we answer these? Um, your mom doesn't listen, You're fine, Yeah, we love it. Let's do it. Let's go. So we have had Brooke, Megan, and Leela, the host of Intimate Knowledge, ask you guys the questions and you will do the same for them. So after you listen to this episode, click over to Intimate Knowledge and you can hear the ladies perspective. So are you guys ready, Yeah, of course, ladies take it away.

Hi boys, it's the girls from Intimate Knowledge and it's about to get real. It's Brooke, it's Megan, and I'm Sex and Intimacy Coach Leela Deville. Here we go. First question, who taught you the most about sex and how to please a partner? I would have to say that would be Um, I guess that would be To be honest, I think I kind of learned as I went, so I think i'd have to give credit to anybody that I had been with. I think I took a little

bit of knowledge along the way. Um, it's not like someone just blessed me with the knowledge of how to please a partner. I think I had to build up to that stuff in here a little bit. I think it had to do with like you're hanging out talking to your buddies and like he hooked up with a girl, and what did he do? And how did you do? It and all that kind of stuff, and you hear stories and guys are just hanging out talking and then like what Dmitri saying, is your personal experience by taking

those stories, or maybe it's some watching a movie. You know, what is what is James Bond doing with his hands while he's kissing what's her name? I'm just saying, Wow, that was that got me going. I had I think it was my best friend Andrew. He he deemed himself the quote unquote click commander and I'm just being real. And so he was the master at finding it and I was curious where that was back in the day and still him now, to be honest with you, but

he he was like the master of anatomy. He was like studying the vagina and knew everything about like where the cervix was and you don't want to hit the cervix and the clitoris is here and the labya, this is what you gotta do here. And he was like a freaking surgeon. He was out of his time. Andrew what's his name? And email? How many times do you want to be intimate each week? Three? Five? I'd say three intimate meaning having sex. It was intimate could be

other things. But yeah, if we're talking about just straight sex, then yeah, three to four. I think three or four. Yeah, but we're talking seven day right, not work week. So yeah, I mean five is fine, but I've told you before, it's got to fit in with like I can't just have woken up because then I gotta go to the bathroom, and then I can't be hungry because then I can't have sex, and then I can't have just eaten because I'm full. And wait, we're not planning this for you.

This was just how often do you want to eat? Endeling is on your own. I'm telling you there's a thirty minute window and every day, so it's tougher. You don't need thirty minutes. Go. What's next, ladies, what's your naughtiest sexual fantasy? Oh god, I mean these are tough. They're not something that you can just off the top of this. This is the point of the whole show. Guys. You're also talking to guys that have been married for fifteen years. I think we've given up on the idea

of fantasy. I mean I would say, yeah, laying on a beach with two chicks, but I mean it's Sandy. I mean, come on, like, no going back to the air conditioning hotel room. I mean there's something, there's something to be said about, you know, doing it somewhere where you could get caught. But you know, maybe you know, ducking away at at a cocktail party or something. Yeah, I think I think the public thing in a like an address um, changing room or something where you're in

public and you're not supposed to be doing that. They initially you say to yourself, like the threesome thing in theory sounds good. But the again, the guilt you would have with that process would be, dude, okay, okay, here you got a bed, You've got two amazingly hot chicks. You're standing in the corner or you're on a chair in the corner. You're kind of doing your thing. You're what you're directing them, you're letting them do their stuff.

You're talking about them, you're talking to them, you're telling them what you like. At the same time, you're but is your wife one of the two women? Of course, of course shaking his head. You can't ask him that, you can't ask. And then it's about like and then jumping in with them and direct you know and them telling you what they have trouble with conversations with three people, like if there's a car, like if you're in the front seat, you gotta turn to keep talking to it.

It's a lot of there's a lot to think about the rest period. Come on, you gotta take a break. That sounds that's a fantasy. I would just be I would be stressed at like, Okay, have I have I given my wife enough attention here? Like am I now with this other person? And she like wall, he looks like he's enjoying this too much, Like I can't enjoy that too much because then tomorrow when this person goes away,

it's back to like, oh, you really missed. I don't think you bring your wife into this wife in those positions. When you're with your wife in those positions, you've already had the discussion where those feelings or those that scenario does not play out. You're not thinking about that, and you guys have already figured it out and you're like you both want to do it, so you're not like, oh, yeah, he's having her better, more fun with her, that's gone. But he's so uptight to begin with. I think for

wild fantasy. Don't make it real. Don't put your wives into this. Just think about that they're asking. They asked us, what's your wildest fantasy. Now you're making it real and you're taking away from the fantasy part of it. The role playing thing, I think is is interesting to me as well. YEA, each of you playing somebody that you're not, like being something and somebody that you're not is different.

Kind of like she's the cheerleader and you're the guy that the football team picked on and she felt bad for, so she kind of gives you extra attention. That's unrelata. Sorry, I couldn't imagine that, my bad. What famous person would you want to haul pass to sleep with? Brooke Burke? Nothing to do with this being a crossover episode, right,

I don't know what you're talking about. I always think about that with my wife when we have the conversation we used to before we had kids, Like when we were driving over from Taho and we're sitting in traffic, like, okay, who would you bone? Like who would you want to have sex with? Like brad Pin or Leo or whatever, and like and then like I'm setting up the question to be like, let me tell you who I want to do that with, you know, And it's like, oh God,

Christie Brinkley and all these you know. Um, I'm just trying to think of right now, I'm thinking about who that would be. But can I tell you something? Yeah? Please? So I've done this and again this is me being neurotic, I realized, but like in my head, when that question is posted and we've done this ourselves, and she would say Bill Ransick. And interestingly enough, we ran into Bill Ransick like four times at Whole Foods in l A. And I'm like, this is actually a possibility because we've

seen this dude now four times. Like so in my head when she asked me that question, I'll say, she's my wife is tall and blonde. So I'll be like, Okay, I need to pick another tall blonde because if I pick a short brunette, then she's gonna be like, that is the complete opposite of me. So this is screwed. So because I used to think Mila Kunis and forgetting Sarah Marshall, I'm like, she was unreal. But she's short and brunette, which is the opposite of my wife. And

is that going to be weird to pick someone that can. Yeah, I like Kate Upton interesting money. I don't know because I get lost in a nostalgia thing. But maybe like a Kate back and sell Um. To be honest, for the first three episodes of the show, I thought you were Bill Ransick, so as I understand what she's coming from. It is a random one. During sex, what noises or words get you the most turned on? Oh, Dmitri? I think he said, Oh Dmitri, you go first. I would say,

like heavy breathing, this feels so good. I love what you're doing to me. Um, those are the things that start getting you going, and like this feels so good, and be harder, and there's something this is what's so funny? I mean, is it in yet? That's always a good one? Is it over? Wake me up when you're finished. I don't know. These are all they're all close. How comfortable

are you with public displays of affection? Explain? I'm fine with with basic stuff, but I don't like it to be I don't like it to get to a point where it's almost like people are watching me inside my house. Like if you want, if you want to do a kiss, you want to hold hands it's fine, but I don't I don't want to be grabbed in public. I don't want people seeing thinking like, oh I know what goes on? That to me, that's too much. Rick. I don't think

like making out in public is totally necessary. I mean, I feel like I'm at the age now where it's not. I just I don't need to do that. Um. I think holding hands or showing signs of affection in public, that's that's more attractive now than like, oh yeah, we're gonna go on the corner and you know and grab

a nice kiss. Like that's not those days are sort of over making out at our age making out and you're way way older than me, but making out as weird, like well, it makes other people uncomfortable also, and it's like I don't like when other people are like groping each other like making out. It's like all right, I will say, like making up makes me super horny, interesting you want, but not in public. I want to say,

that's kind of what starts the freaking everything. One thing like, yes, that the one thing I would say is like if going back to where you would want to have sex or in a public place, being kind of like you're not supposed to do it, like walking in a public place and like grabbing her ass and like looking around to see did anybody see that? Is like a little taste of like I like, is somebody going to see that? What are they going to think? Like? What does she think? Is?

It's a little taste that, But not in the sense of someone else seeing, but I like that in the sense of sending a message like hey, I'm thinking about this right now, and it's kind of like, oh, you know what, maybe when we get home, we've we've both been thinking about it this whole if we're not hungry or didn't just eat lunch. But yes, you have to stoke the fire. Yeah, yeah, you know what person from your high school would you want most to booty call

you today? I don't think we can. Laura Thompson, uh miss Pisco literally my maths teacher in tenth grade. She had just graduated from Penn State, and I remember I was like, how old is she? She looks like she could be my peer, Like did she? And she came in one day She's like sorry, I'm like, guys, I lost my license over the weekend. I'm like, hey, She's like out hitting it hard, like lost her license. I'm like, miss Pisco can teach me the pythagorant theorem and get

down like miss Pisco. So I don't know where she's like that. That's good. Yeah, I don't know. I mean like probably like most guys. I'd say probably Jeanette Hayne. Why did she ask for my number? Where would you like to have sex besides the bedroom? Like inside the house or you mean yeah, inside the house, outside the house, in the office. Come on, ladies, a little bit more detail. Um. The garage is always kind of cool. I mean, like

you write by your workbench at the same time. But no, it's like you get out from a date, you pull into the garage, if you're parking your car in the garage and you know, you're walking to the door to get into the house, and like think, you know, you kind of like start going right then and there, and I think there's something to be said. It's kind of sexy.

And then you don't need to like finish there. You go in and start going against the wall, and then you start then you make your way up to the bedroom. I think there's something to be said about taking a room that's not fun. And given it that kind of spin. So like spin for instance, like your kids room. But if you go like the laundry room. Listen, you don't like doing laundry, right, but then every time you go to the laundry like, oh, remember the time we did

it in here? That's true. Yeah, that's true to me. It's like it sounds great in theory, oh on the dining room table, but it's like, that's not that's that's something that happens in the movies. It's not comfortable. It hurts our best sex is like in a in a nice hotel room when everything is nice and like different, and then I can get into a nice robe afterwards,

and there is something about a hotel room. Yeah, and then sit on the porch and smoke us to Togi or something and drink a scotch and yeah, go to bed by eight. What conversation have you been putting off in your relationship? I mean just in general all or this is this? Are you guys asking aumily about sex?

So I mean, if we're not talking about sex, I would probably say kind of the future, you know, like what's going to happen when the kids are in college and they're graduating in places like that, you know, and they move on and wear empty nests basically. So like for me, it's what eight years away, and I'm already

kind of thinking about it. And I grew up in southern California and I've been visiting here a lot more recently, and I'm getting back to see my folks, and I'm enjoying what I where I live and grew up, and I'm really love l A and I love Orange County. And so we recently had a conversation on the way home from one of our during over the holidays, and I was like, hey, like, what do you think is gonna happen in eight years when the kids are in college and we're back here in Oakland and you know,

like I really like that lifestyle. You know, I chose the worst time to think to talk about it. We've just been on a road trip for like seven hours and pulling into the garage, you know, and it was like, Hy, that was a fun trip, Like I think gonna move down there. She was like absolutely not, you know, And then we got into like more of the well, I mean, what about jobs. I'm like, well, I can work anywhere.

It doesn't really matter, and you could you know, hopefully by that time we're in a position where you could we could figure something out and or maybe we split the time. And um, I know that feeling like you you work up, you have this great conversation in your head, and you throw it at the wrong time. You're like, I just shot that whole thing. Now, She's never going to take that seriously totally, and I'm serious about it, Like I want to live down in Orange County for

six months out of the year, why not? Like, I love going on the beach. I love going And she was like, I love riding my bike on the boardwalk. I love going to the beach and hanging out. And she was like, and I actually appreciate it, was honest. She was like, I don't like that. And I was like, oh, okay, So do you want to stay in Oakland and keep going to this place in this place, in this place and doing that for the next rest of our lives. I'm like, I don't really feel like doing that either.

And so thank god we got home and the kids jumped out of the car, and so the conversation and but that kids are in the car for that there at their headphones on um, but yeah, it was. It's so that's crazy. That's if you don't mind me saying, that's a pretty big because you let off with what happens when the kids are out of the house. So then it's a matter of have we grown apart? Like are we different people now? Is there something do we

even have? I felt like that was sort of like the very tip of that conversation, and and it's like, what are we going to do when that happens? And I think the other thing I felt at the time was like, have you thought about this? I don't think she's ever thought about that, Like what happens in eight years where I'm like, oh, I'm coming down here, I'm I'm friends with all of you guys. I'm hanging out. I'm seeing my folks, my brother and my sister, and it's I know, it's easy to get back and forth,

and I don't mind the drive or the flight. It's like, why not do this? Like life is short? We need to sort of start doing this stuff now. And that I don't know if that's something that has started to register and I want it to. I definitely wanted to and I'm fine with where where we live like I obviously I love the area. You know, there's things that i'm I have a great friend base there, and there's things that I do that I enjoy of course, um,

but I want both. You know what scares me about that conversation with that thought is that I get what you said. You said, what conversation do we not have or do we avoid? Is down the road? Right, Yes, I don't because our lives are so busy with the four kids and work and all this. I feel that same way, except it's not even down the road, Like I don't. We we don't have conversations about what's coming

up in the future. It's basically like put your head down and get through the day, get through the week, and so we don't have conversations is like what's happened in the summer until we get to like may like. So, to be honest, it's a it's a bit unsettling because you never discussed the future. And I don't mean necessarily when the kids are gone, because that's a long ways away. But we don't discuss the future at all. It's always just like, let's just get through this, and that's like, well,

we just keep getting through stuff. I feel the exact same way. And with summer coming up now it's our spring coming on, and then summer, it's like we know what the kids are doing, and I want to plan like these other little sidebar trips and and I don't know if that if that's a part of what she's thinking, you know, even though like I almost think she thinks I just kind of come up with these ideas and I'm like, let's drive all the way to Oregon and

drop the kids off to camp and fish along the way. Well, like, to me, that sounds incredible. Dmitri and Ryan, you guys are right invited. But I want her to be thinking about that, right But and again that's the conversation you put off. Yep, my wife has been, uh she after going through the sickness of our of our newborn recently she said, I honestly am at my at the at my breaking point. I just need two nights away with like my girlfriends soon or else I'm gonna lose it.

And I have been putting that off forever, and I kicked that can down the road every time it's brought up, because that stresses me out to no end to think that I'd be home for two nights by myself with the two kids, so I continue to try to put that off. Do you want me to come over with the four kids? No, I don't trust you. Let me just tell you can totally do it. Thank you for the vote of confidence. Means a lot coming from you. R.

Do you enjoy spanking or being spanked? I don't know. No, I've never been a spank or a spanky that's that's really worked. I don't. I'm not huge on that type of discipline. I'm not saying no discipline at all, but that that I've never gotten to that role. And I don't know. You don't talk about you don't like slapping that ass, bro? No, I guess not. It's so awesome. It's just but that's when I hear when I hear spanking, I went. I guess I went to role playing. It's like,

I don't want to pretend like you're a kid. It's basically that's where it gets weird. No, and and you know what I mean, like spanking, but I think in a nice way as we're having sex and being in the moment, like slapping is totally fine as long as you're doing it with the right Do you answer the question that do you prefer to be the spank I know, I always like, I don't think that. I don't want

to get spanked. Same here, I want to be always in a dominant role and not being submissive and being spanked, like let me run. But I will say, if she wants to go and touch other areas that aren't common, then I'm okay with that. So like, if she wants to play with my nipples or something like that, that is a huge turn on. I love that you would you mind if other areas that may not be you know, that are super sensitive that like where like my I don't love that, I absolutely love it. It's I mean,

you're okay, so keep going. I just I just told you guys everything and she is she into doing that for you because she knows you like it? Um not as much as I would like, does she? Do you have a conversation I need to have with her? Yeah, forget when the kids are out of forget the next eight years. I think I need to talk about the now wants a little more ass play. So do you do you always instigated by saying verbally to her, can you do this or does she ever surprise you in

the middle of sex. Sometimes it slips in there and you're like, this was I didn't ask for it, and it's that much better now. It's way better when you don't have to ask for it. But then if you're obviously out of certain you know, during everything, and you're you want it, then you asked for it. Rick asked to be spanked and he hopes that one of her fingers. Ben's that's all. That's good to be Trie, Thanks, buddy, welcome. How would your ex partner in your last serious relationship

describe you? Mm hmm. I mean you're allowed to say you're a dick. I mean you're probably not with that person because you're a dick, and you we're going down a certain path. Then you're like cut it off and shut it off, and you know, maybe the maybe the relationship was good, the sex was bad, or the sex was good the relationship was bad, you know, I don't I don't know. I mean, what that person would really say about me? Um? I mean, god, it's been so many,

so many years since that time. It's hard to remember. But guys, you're gonna help a brother out. I don't think I would. I don't think I would get that. I think I would get that I was a nice guy, maybe too nice, um, you know, and probably a gentleman and nice and all that. But I think probably maybe just not that I can't carr enough, but probably just went along with stuff too much and and didn't you know, initiate,

initiate anything not not. Probably probably avoided Yeah, I probably avoided like fights just because I didn't want to have him. So yeah, it's more of maybe too nice. Yeah, mine would say I am a buzz kill and overly responsible. I think. I mean we were just out of college in l A. And ultimately she was so far off the deep end and had so many issues that I finally realized and identified that I had to when she

flew home for Christmas back East. I had to call her father, who had never met face to face at this point, and say, you cannot let her come back to l A. Like she needs tremendous mental help. And he when I gave him the anecdotes, he was like okay, and he got her. He wouldn't let her come back. She called had lost her mind on me, and I was like, I'm sorry, I'm doing you'll look back on this and thank me. This is the end of us, unfortunately, but I'm doing what's best for you. You need help

in the worst way. So yes, I called your father. I did do that. And should I ask you a question? Do you think any of your neurotic nous had any to do with that? No? Zero? Like I mean, she was she went to boarding school, developed major issues at school. How did you let this one get away? Yeah? Exactly, answer this. You feel the most loved when and you

feel the least loved when. I feel the most loved when I'm noticed and things are I don't mean like tailored towards me, but like when things are like hey, I got you this stuff, and like I was just on a trip. I was saying that a couple of weeks ago, and I came home and there was like a like just we we have flowers kind of in the hallway right where you walk in the hall entry way, and typically we kind of sometimes we don't, but like she had made a big arrangement and she was like, Hey,

did you see the flowers? I made those for you? Like, like, to me, that's important and that's what I care about. Um and or hey, I know you've been traveling or you've been working hard, Like why don't you go with your buddies, why don't you go work out, I'll take the kids. You go to have some your time or go do what you want to do. UM, Like that's

important to me. Um And I forget the second half of the question, but the least obviously I mean not to give an easy answer, but when those things aren't met, like when those aren't when I'm not being noticed, like, hey, I didn't you know, like you know, like she knows that I'm gonna complain because there's a bunch of all the backpacks in the shoes and the you know, not trash, but like the Amazon boxes are all kind of building, you know, building up in the on the on the

hall entryway where it's like I'm like, dude, just like you've walked past it three times, take it out, like those are We're in this together, like living in this home, and we're supposed to Actually we should be on the same page here, or I hope we are on the same page. I don't realized We're not always going to be on the same page. But for the most part, we should be on the same page. And that's the part when it bothers me that we're not on the

same page. But I get what you're saying about, UM wanting to be seen, wanting like I don't need like a thank you or I don't need, you know, a kudos for everything that I do. But I feel like I do a lot in life and with the family and stuff like that. UM, I want to feel like I'm important. I don't want to feel like I'm just someone on the assembly line doing his job. So I like to feel appreciated. UM. And then on the other side, I don't. I don't like to feel I guess it's

again similar to what you said. I don't like to feel like I'm like I'm interchangeable, like or like I like, all right, well you did this, but if not, it would get done, you know what I mean? Because I think I think everything that I bring in life or to family or all of that stuff, I think that that I bring it to the best that I can, and I think that I bring it in a way

that you know, not many other people can. So if I feel like a well, you you know, just kind of dismissed or not, you know that I have trouble with that. Yeah, that's that's good. Okay, where do I begin gifts? I love gifts, as we know that my love language. I especially like a gift that identifies a need that I did not know I had. So my wife will say, you know, I got you this. Here's why I think you really need new sunglasses like the ones you've been wearing are ratty, or there's this or that.

Or you need a new belt like the belt you wore whatever the other day, like should look better. You need a brown leather like things that I didn't know I needed. And she'll address that and like she's put thought into it. It's not just like I got you this just because I think guys might like this. It's like, no, you ryan need this. Trust me. I wanted to rip you for the gift thing, but you actually made sense there because it's showing that she noticed the stuff that

you need and you like and getting it. I get that. What if you don't like what she's getting you? She she is really really good at gift giving. Has just just wait another ten years. Okay, next dinner some my favorite food like Thai food is an hour round trip. She'll sometimes text me at work, and she'll be like, I went and got you tie for tonight. Let's have a great night. And I'm like, that's an hour around trip. You went all the way to Malibu to get that.

Traffic on the pc H is a nightmare. You did that for me, Like, let's go. This is amazing, thank you, not not that has the tenby that I like this the green curry, and and then he gets sheets. Oh honey, it's cold. Yeah, can you drive up to Ohai and

get my lobster roll? Okay, compliments love compliments. Uh. And I like to be appreciated, being told like thank you for working hard for the family, like it really is meaningful to us and other that it makes it all worth the grind to feel like I'm doing this for someone who really values it. Yeah, I think that's important. Okay, Guys, if you could travel back in time, what sex advice would you give yourself. I don't know if it would be advice per se. I think I would probably live

a little bit. I would I would open the doors more, not be so selective when I was younger. Put it that way, that a fancy way of saying, be more promiscuous. Totally Okay, just and I don't disagree with Yeah, I think I was a little selective, like in high school college, you know, I limited myself and I sort of now regret that or whatever part of the question. So if you could do it over, as long as there was a pulse, it was fair game. Not a pulse. I mean,

the pulse would be a little bit extreme. But so you're into the pulse acrophilias. Look, everyone has everything, let's move on. That's what I said. I would explore other options. I'm gonna follow up your necrophilia stuff. Uh No, I to be honest, I was. I was not unlike you Rick, where I was like, I guess I put too much thought into it, and I was like, well, I don't know.

And a part of it was respect, Like I didn't if I knew I didn't like a girl, I didn't to like, go ahead and have sex with her because I didn't want that on me and I didn't want to think that I could be so she didn't need do things a disappointment, you know, sex with me and then saying I don't want to see again. Um, But I think I would probably not take it so serious. I'd be like, this is not as big a deal

as you're making out to be relaxed. You're young, have fun, so like we are all on the same page here, which is interesting. I mean for me. I remember my senior year of high school. Are assistant basketball coach had just got out of out of college and he was an assistant coach, and he said to all of us one day, he was like, can I give you us some advice. You're all going to college next year, Like,

have as much sex as you possibly can. There is never going to be as many females within close proximity. Like partying with zero responsibilities ever in your life. Again, like take advantage of that and be safe, but do it. But I went to college and I was dating. I was still dating my high school sweetheart was a senior in college in high school. When I was a freshman

in college. I was faithful to her and did not hook up with a single person my entire freshman year of college until two weeks before the semester wrap to go home and I found out that she had cheated on me and it was all over. So I had, like I had been faithful to her my entire year, hooked up with zero people turned down some people and then was like for what I did this all to be a good person and like she screwed me in the end, and it it was yeah, it's a joke.

It's a complete freaking joke. That's good ideal romantic vacation. Well, since I've been going first on a lot of these things, unless Dmitri you want to go, you got something all the type of her, buddy, I would say, like on one of those Maldives Tahiti Killer, a little bungalow on the beach, a bunch of water everywhere, always jumping in the water, snarkling, fishing, hanging out, sitting in the sun, going to the pool, long walks, cruising around, nice restaurants,

nice nice food, not restaurants, but nice food, and just just chill. Um. I do you like going to big cities and traveling and visiting and going to nice restaurants and stuff and seeing the culture of all those places. And I think that's a super probably probably the most valuable thing. But that's that's super romantic because a lot of people around I don't know, I mean people a lot of like they say Paris is like the most romantic spot. And I've been there and I you know,

it's um, I just didn't. I never was by myself, so it wasn't romantic. But I'm gonna go not dissimilar you, but I'm gonna take it up a little bit. I'm gonna go up the hill in Greece, nice view, short walk down to a private beach, same thing. Still little restaurants and stuff, and in the town, I think, but

I like the water for sure. It's someplace tropical. Um. I think the common thing is sort of like alone and being being alone, being no, but want with your spouse or person or you know, um, being with that person the whole entire time. I think that's the it in a warm spot, I agree, warm Spot Cabo is my happy place, as as is for my wife. We got married there. But for us it's okay. We begin first class travel, nice bloody Mary on the flight, okay, Amy,

we get there pool side, great uv. Index were tanning and and we're on a romantic vacation. So I'm not being told you shouldn't be frying your skin to this degree. It's really bad for You're gonna be really wrinkly later in life. I'm just freaking bronzing with that that Hawaiian like oily thing. Oh, it's good. Through the four you can't not have that off. So then we're we're getting into some fish tacos with the guawk and the chips pool side, get into a nice little skinny marks on

the rim. After that we got a good little buzz going. We get into a massage the hot stones, maybe a little hot stone massage. I don't think we needed the itiner ry, just the overall idea of what you would do five PM on the dot, Martinis, blue cheese, stuffed olives, and bed at about eight thirty after maybe Shark Tank on a DVR. Perfect. If you had to choose a single sex act for an entire year, what would it be? Uh? I mean I always go to the go to the

doggie style. That's just so I love it. I know this is gonna sound like I'm pandering here, but I think probably um going down, me going down. No, for a year, but you're not getting off, Like I get it as something that leads to something, but like you can only do that for a year old on that's a good point. Usually that leads to something else, So that's a good point. That's a the first first answer, come on, guys, don't make me do this. Mine would be just like now, I'm not having sex for a year,

thanks everybody. I mean, sometimes we talk about oral and it's like, I'd rather that is the beginning towards having sex, Like it's it's most filling for me to actually have sex intercourse