In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share some exciting news, discuss our wedding vows and share our experience answering questions from a worksheet we recently worked on together. To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below). Email ...
Jan 14, 2020•35 min•Season 4Ep. 66
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss everything from lacking physical and mental attraction in a relationship to man weaves to how to choose a church. Our #askHMAY episodes are lit! LOL! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked b...
Jan 09, 2020•37 min•Season 4Ep. 65
In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we reflect on 2019 by asking ourselves the following questions: (1)What was the best thing about 2019? (2) What lessons did you learn in 2019? (3) What was your biggest area of growth in 2019? (4) What are you leaving behind in 2019? (5) What is the one thing that will make 2020 better for you? To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at c...
Jan 02, 2020•39 min•Season 4Ep. 64
In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we discuss emails sent in from the wedding party. First up we discuss a relationship that has more pros than cons, but the girlfriend doesn't know if she can compete with her boyfriend's three kids. Lastly we discuss issues surrounding sexting in marriage with someone other than your spouse. To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at chec...
Dec 31, 2019•42 min•Season 3Ep. 63
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we debrief on Yvette's therapy sessions thus far and share why we schedule sex. To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are also on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube C...
Dec 26, 2019•34 min•Season 3Ep. 62
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we hear from the ghost of episode 57 and offer our perspective to a young man who snooped through his girlfriend's email. Listen in and let us know what you think! To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are also on YouTube!!! If you'd like ...
Dec 17, 2019•42 min•Season 3Ep. 61
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we examine the flipside of "Happy Wife, Happy Life!" In last week's episode, Yvette shares with Glen that many women are told if you have sex with your husband, then he'll be happy! Today they pick up the conversation there! To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voice...
Nov 28, 2019•59 min•Season 3Ep. 60
In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we examine roots of anger and how to encourage a partner without sounding like their parent. To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin10 " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are also on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe t...
Nov 26, 2019•42 min•Season 3Ep. 59
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the old tale of "Happy Wife, Happy Life." It gets pretty heavy! Listen in and let us know what you think! To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin10 " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are also on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others b...
Nov 21, 2019•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 58
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss two wedding party inquiries. In the first one we discuss God as the author of our love story, and in the second one we share our thoughts on a woman who has overcome being ghosted. To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin10 " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are als...
Nov 19, 2019•40 min•Season 3Ep. 57
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to a member of the wedding party about a relationship in which she started being intentional in her walk with Christ two years into a 4 year relationship and the effect it had! To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin10 " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on ...
Nov 05, 2019•35 min•Season 3Ep. 56
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we follow up with a member from the wedding party in regards to being a female creative, we offer advice to a young couple dating long distance and we talk arguments. To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd lik...
Oct 30, 2019•47 min•Season 3Ep. 55
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we dive into Shanti Feldhahn's book called "For Women Only." She markets the book as a glimpse into the inner lives of men. Yvette runs some things by Glen about ways Feldhahn says women can demonstrate respect to their man. Listen in as Glen provides firsthand insight to these needs, as the author calls them. If you'd like to purchase the book for yourself, here is a link: For Women Only This book actually has a partner book you may want your husband to che...
Oct 24, 2019•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 54
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we dive into a topic we've kind of avoided for a while but finally took the plunge to talk about on this platform. That is the topic of black love. We often are accused of promoting division when we use the hashtag black love, but we want to really share our heart behind the use of it as well as why we find it to be important. We know this is a sensitive topic, so we invite you to dialogue with us in the comments below. What are your thoughts on the use of t...
Oct 18, 2019•43 min•Season 3Ep. 53
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we offer our perspectives on being in an abusive relationship as well as going into debt for a loved one. Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback on the topics we discuss, please follow us on IG ( @howmarriedareyou ) so you can share y...
Oct 16, 2019•38 min•Season 3Ep. 52
The collab so many of you have asked for has finally come into fruition! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we welcome our first ever guests to the podcast. We are joined by @KevOnStage & @MrsKevOnStage from @TheLoveHourPodcast. We team up with them in this episode to offer our perspectives on dating someone you're not attracted to and dating someone who still has a relationship with their ex! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! ...
Oct 01, 2019•1 hr 9 min•Season 3Ep. 51
We're baaaaack!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss life as "influencers"... what that looks like and feels like for us. Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback on the topics we discuss, please follow us on IG ( @howmarriedareyou ) so you can share your reac...
Sep 26, 2019•42 min•Season 3Ep. 50
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we look into dating a creative, long distance relationships, jealousy, insecurities and flirting. Tune in to hear what we've got to say! The Perry's Convo Referenced (*not a podcast episode): https://youtu.be/N_ZIdCJoulY Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear ...
Sep 04, 2019•53 min•Season 3Ep. 49
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss some of the things we feel it's important to know and understand in a relationship with a creative. We use our 10+ years of being together to share some of the biggest lessons learned and understandings obtained. Check it out! Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! ...
Aug 29, 2019•42 min•Season 3Ep. 48
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we offer our feedback regarding when to add more kids to the mix as well as whether or not to stay in a relationship after you've been cheated on. Just a reminder, we are not licensed therapists. We are just speaking based off our experience of nine years of marriage. Thanks so much fir choosing to join us every week! Now let's get into this episode! Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 Email us: [email protected] We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd lik...
Aug 27, 2019•45 min•Season 3Ep. 47
In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we discuss what it's like resuming intimacy after having a baby. We offer both our perspectives as husband and wife. Per usual, we don't hold back. Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback on the topics we discuss, please follow us on I...
Aug 23, 2019•34 min•Season 3Ep. 46
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, two women reach out to us about the men in their lives. One is struggling with whether or not to continue living with her boyfriend, while the other is left hanging as the man in her life received a requested sign from the Lord about his wife. Listen in as we share our feedback regarding their situations. Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others b...
Aug 20, 2019•49 min•Season 3Ep. 45
We think it's safe to say that we all enter into marriage with some preconceived notions of what it'll be like. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take some of the notions we got from you all on IG and we discuss the reality of it as we've experienced it. In this episode, we finally have a discussion we've been avoiding for a while regarding Glen's upcoming vasectomy. You'll definitely want to listen in. Email us: [email protected] Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on Y...
Aug 15, 2019•1 hr 13 min•Season 3Ep. 44
Each of us comes into a relationship with what some might call "baggage." Some carry a weight that is a little heavier than others. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to an email that was sent to us by a listener who has something she has kept to herself for the entirety of her relationship. As things get more serious (i.e. the possibility of engagement), she inquires about whether or not she should share about her past with her boyfriend. Listen in as we give our two cents. We are...
Aug 13, 2019•53 min•Season 3Ep. 43
Yesterday we celebrated NINE years of marriage!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share nine lessons we've learned thus far on our journey. In no particular order, we've learned... Importance of Family Boundaries Alignment not Agreement Same team Spouse First Their story is not our story You've gotta train your spouse Sometimes it’s just hard A good spouse isn’t found, they’re flourished We can’t do it alone We recorded a special anniversary episode on Beleaf in Fatherhood, click here t...
Aug 08, 2019•43 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Albert Einstein said, “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about balance... is it actually attainable? Listen in and let us know your thoughts! Click here to support Beleaf's Vasectomy! We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback on the topics we discuss, please...
Aug 06, 2019•42 min•Season 3Ep. 41
We're baaaaaack!!! We are so excited to return after what feels like such a long hiatus. We're gonna go ahead and call this season 3!!! We're changing things up a little bit, so make sure you tune in to find out exactly what we have in store for you. In this episode of HMAY, we recap the day our son was born. Yvette shares more of her experience as Glen has shared his experience on their family YouTube channel. We created a playlist on our YouTube channel if you'd like to check out those vides c...
Aug 01, 2019•56 min•Season 3Ep. 1
We have been MIA for quite some time. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we take some time to update you all about where we've been and what we've been up to! Today's topic centers around the sentiment that Yvette believes that others believe 'the home is a reflection of the wife.' What do you guys think? Do you agree or disagree? Glen just doesn't get it. Catch up with us over at Beleaf in Fatherhood: Our Daughter's ER Allergic Reaction We've Decided to Buy a New Home We are now on YouTube!...
Jun 07, 2019•29 min•Season 2Ep. 19
Glen's back!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Yvette shares what she learned from her conversation with Julie who is one of the people she mentions in episode 35 as knowing Glen really well. We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback on the topics we discuss, please follow us on IG ( @howmarriedareyou ) so you can share your reactions to ...
May 16, 2019•41 min•Season 2Ep. 18
Glen is out of town, but I (Yvette) didn't wanna miss a week of the podcast. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, I take some time to answer some questions that were submitted to me via instagram. Make sure you're following us there so you don't miss a thing! We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback on the topics we discuss, please follow us ...
May 09, 2019•42 min•Season 2Ep. 17
