In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we discuss what it's like to be in a relationship with a people pleaser. The article referenced: Signs You're a People Pleaser Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below) to let us know just ho...
Sep 29, 2022•57 min
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we use cards we were gifted from Kevin ( @KevOnStage ) and Melissa ( @MrsKevOnStage ) Fredericks from their Marriage Be Hard book to answer questions posed for intentional connection. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY ...
Sep 23, 2022•56 min
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to a DM from someone asking us to help them convince their significant other that marriage is a good idea. Listen in as we discuss who benefits the most from marriage. Make sure you listen to the ENTIRE episode before turning it off. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linke...
Sep 15, 2022•45 min•Season 2022Ep. 124
We FOUND THE LIST!!! Glen has referred to the list he wrote when dating with intention. He dug it out of the archives, and in this episode we share 7 steps to creating your own list. Let us know what you think! Create your own list HERE ! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM...
Sep 08, 2022•51 min•Season 2022Ep. 123
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , our conversation surrounds an article (linked below) that seems to have everyone talking. It's basically highlighting the rise of saying, "Men need to address their deficits to meet healthier relationship expectations." Listen in as we chime in on the conversation. Let us know in the comment section what you think! The Article: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by...
Sep 01, 2022•51 min•Season 2022Ep. 122
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk loads. Who's carrying more weight? Does it even matter? This was a really great discussion on comparing the weight each partner is carrying in your relationship. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page ...
Aug 25, 2022•45 min•Season 2022Ep. 121
In this episode, we share how therapy has impacted our marriage and our personal lives. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below) to let us know just how married (or single) you are. Email us: [email protected] Leave a vo...
Aug 18, 2022•48 min•Season 2022Ep. 120
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we continue to share where we've been, what we've done and some growth notes along the way. We are so excited to be reunited with our wedding party. Welcome black y'all!!! Xo! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram...
Aug 11, 2022•42 min•Season 2022Ep. 119
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share where we've been, what we've done and some growth notes along the way. We are so excited to be reunited with our wedding party. Welcome black y'all!!! Xo! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also ...
Aug 04, 2022•39 min•Season 2022Ep. 118
We apologize in advance for the audio. We were not using our usual set up for this episode. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we sit down and reflect on some thangs. Tune in for a special announcement! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the ancho...
Dec 25, 2020•40 min•Season 5Ep. 117
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we discuss consumer versus covenantal relationships. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below) to let u...
Nov 12, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Season 5Ep. 116
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss whether or not to celebrate a milestone birthday, snitching on our brothers and whether or not it's a sister's place to address her brother's purity issues. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the ancho...
Nov 10, 2020•54 min•Season 5Ep. 115
In today's episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take to the deck of "The { } And" cards to help drive our conversation. Things that come up are who loves whom the most and hypothetical scenarios of what we'd do if the other cheated. Let's just say this conversation was very revealing. The sermon Yvette references: https://youtu.be/vhJJnsgpCZ8 Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at ...
Nov 05, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Season 5Ep. 114
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we chime in on being in a relationship with an entrepreneur as well as the value of transparency in dating relationships. Listen in and let us know what you think. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor ap...
Nov 03, 2020•56 min•Season 5Ep. 113
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share why we had to take an unexpected break. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below) to let us kno...
Oct 29, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Season 5Ep. 112
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss being in love with work versus finding love, waiting (or not) until after college to get married and processing trauma of childhood. It feels good to be back! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anc...
Oct 27, 2020•58 min•Season 5Ep. 111
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we basically give you one large "Chocolate Baby Story Time." Enjoy! 😊 Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linke...
Oct 01, 2020•33 min•Season 5Ep. 110
In this episode Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below) to let us know just how married (or single) you are. Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmai...
Sep 29, 2020•47 min•Season 5Ep. 109
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss it all... our favorite features of each other, Yvette's hopes and dreams, alternative careers, toxic people and attraction. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an a...
Sep 24, 2020•52 min•Season 5Ep. 108
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we coach a member of our wedding party on how to spit game. LOL! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked belo...
Sep 22, 2020•39 min•Season 5Ep. 107
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share a little bit about our experience with couple's therapy! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked bel...
Sep 17, 2020•45 min•Season 5Ep. 106
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss joint bank accounts, how families of origin can sabotage frames of mind regarding adult relationships, and being a supportive lover to someone who lacks motivation but has what it takes. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Se...
Sep 15, 2020•54 min•Season 5Ep. 105
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss tweets from when the season 4 premiere of Black Love aired this past Saturday. If you are not tuning into this season, you are missing out. We have been taking away so many gems from all the other couples as well as enjoying reflecting on some pieces of our own story. Make sure to check out new episodes every week on OWN at 9/8c. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thew...
Sep 10, 2020•30 min•Season 5Ep. 104
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss Yvette's nipples (lol), things we wish the church would be more transparent about and communication. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM'...
Sep 08, 2020•47 min•Season 5Ep. 103
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share with you all some of the things we've been up to over the break as well as update you on the new groove we've come into. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin10" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio ...
Sep 03, 2020•53 min•Season 5Ep. 102
WE'RE BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we jump right in answering those questions that have been sitting in our inbox. Everything from reasons to get married to whether or not you should hang out with members of the opposite sex while married. Listen in as we chat about these things, and come back on Thursday to hear what we've been up to! Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use th...
Sep 01, 2020•1 hr•Season 5Ep. 101
See you September 1st for Season 5! Scarcity Mindset Podcast Referenced: https://www.npr.org/2019/08/05/748207152/you-2-0-tunnel-vision Sign up for our email list: https://forms.gle/sQ6UhEXAqBmTNGDW9 Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app li...
Jul 09, 2020•1 hr 6 min
Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on the anchor app linked below or record an audio message to our DM's on the #HMAY instagram page (also linked below) to let us know just how married (or single) you are. Email us: [email protected] Leave a voic...
Jul 07, 2020•53 min•Season 4Ep. 99
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we pick up where we left off with episode 96. However, we brought some extra baggage with us to this conversation. Just a heads up, a majority of the edits for this podcast were removing long pauses. Some pauses I left in so you all could feel the tension. This conversation got heavy and left us feeling more defeated than the last. Let's just say I (Yvette) am looking forward to our next therapy session. Prayers welcomed. Xo! Upgrade your Wedding Party Statu...
Jul 02, 2020•44 min•Season 4Ep. 98
In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take a peek into the friend zone from the female perspective and offer our two cents to a woman who's husband says it's time to leave their church based on lack of friendship. Upgrade your Wedding Party Status by becoming a patron: https://www.patreon.com/HMAY ! Xoxo! To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code "MrsMelanin" at checkout for 10% off! Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Send us a voicemail on ...
Jun 30, 2020•31 min•Season 4Ep. 97
