How do friendships form in the most unexpected places? What happens when two people click instantly at a Fourth of July gathering? Join us as we dive into these questions with our fabulous guests, Eva Vennari and Joanna Sanchez, on "How I Met My BFF" with your hosts, Leisa and Tamara. Ever wondered how a cautious soul and an openly affectionate spirit can forge an unbreakable bond? Eva and Joanna reveal their heartwarming journey from acquaintances to best friends, sharing laughs, support, and i...
Aug 13, 2025•21 min•Ep. 77
Have you ever wondered how a single moment can spark a lifelong friendship? In Episode 76 of "How I Met My BFF," Leisa and Tamara dive into this heartwarming topic with guests Denise Willis and Talya Norman. We start with a nostalgic look back at Leisa and Tamara's own friendship origins in Fairbanks, Alaska, and the joys of a pre-social media era. Denise and Talya's story unfolds with a tale of breathwork, finger painting, and a shared journey of personal growth, all sparked by a mutual coach n...
Jul 30, 2025•18 min•Ep. 76
In Episode 75 of How I Met My BFF , we share the heartwarming story of Shaina Zazzaro and Alex Buckner. Their journey began in an unexpected way—what started as a childhood acquaintance grew into something much more powerful after reconnecting years later in a professional setting. Through shared grief and a commitment to their work at Effortlessly Healthy in Rochester, NY, Shaina and Alex built a bond rooted in trust, respect, and purpose. Their story is a beautiful reminder that sometimes the ...
Jul 16, 2025•24 min•Ep. 75
How does a virtual meeting lead to a lifelong friendship? What happens when two professionals from different cities find a shared language in sarcasm and straightforwardness? Join me as I dive into the heartwarming tale of Lori Karpman and Jenn McClaren's friendship on "How I Met My BFF." While Tamara is busy with work, I start with a personal update about my beloved dog Piper's passing and the joyful chaos brought by our new puppy, Winnie. Lori and Jenn met in a virtual networking group, and th...
Jun 18, 2025•25 min•Ep. 74
Ever wondered how a chance meeting could transform into a whirlwind romance and thriving business partnership? In Episode 73 of "How I Met My BFF," Tamara and Leisa, dive into the captivating love story of Chaya and Adam Garcia. From their serendipitous encounter at a gathering to a proposal just weeks later, their journey is nothing short of epic! Discover how personal life transformation paved the way for their instant connection and how they balance love and business. Chaya, the "Epic Love Ex...
May 07, 2025•25 min•Ep. 73
Ever wondered how a shared struggle can spark a lifelong friendship? In Episode 72 of "How I Met My BFF," Leisa and Tamara dive into an inspiring story with Jenna Udenberg and Jaime Head-MacAlister. From a chance meeting in a physical therapy pool to founding a nonprofit, these two have turned shared challenges into a powerful bond. Discover how their contrasting personalities—Jenna’s introversion and Jaime’s extroversion—perfectly complement each other, creating a friendship that transcends phy...
Apr 23, 2025•26 min•Ep. 72
Are you curious about the secrets behind enduring female friendships? Or perhaps you're wondering how to mend a strained relationship with your BFF? In Episode 71 of "How I Met My BFF," join us, Leisa and Tamara, as we dive into these questions with our insightful guest, Susan Shapiro Barash. Susan, an expert on female friendships and author of 18 books, shares wisdom from her latest work, "Estranged: How Strained Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended." We kick off with personal stories about o...
Apr 16, 2025•37 min•Ep. 71
Ever wondered how friendship can blossom without ever meeting in person? In Episode 70 of How I Met My BFF, join me, Leisa, and my co-host Tamara as we dive into the fascinating story of Yvonne B. McCoy and Andrea Stenberg's unique bond. We kick off with some fun updates—like Tamara's adventurous chickens in Montana and my own health journey advocating for regular mammograms. Then, we introduce our guests, Yvonne and Andrea, who share how their friendship began in an online coaching program, evo...
Apr 09, 2025•25 min•Ep. 70
Ever wondered what happens to your assets if you don’t have a plan? Or why a living trust might be your best friend in estate planning? In this episode of How I Met My BFF, hosts Leisa and Tamara kick things off with a cozy chat about a breakfast-themed pajama party before diving into an eye-opening discussion with estate planning expert Oscar Vasquez. Oscar unravels the complexities of estate planning, highlighting why a living trust is crucial for protecting your assets and ensuring your wishe...
Mar 05, 2025•38 min•Ep. 69
Ever wondered how a preschool orientation could spark a lifelong friendship? Join us in Episode 68 of "How I Met My BFF" as Leisa and Tamara sit down with the dynamic duo, Jenny Harkleroad and Kelli Russell. This episode kicks off with Leisa announcing her debut in stand-up comedy, before diving into the heartwarming tale of how Jenny and Kelli met. From Jenny's humorous "stalking" at the gym to their shared love for handstands and lunch dates, their story is a testament to the unexpected ways f...
Jan 29, 2025•28 min•Ep. 68
Ever wondered how to truly nurture your friendships and understand their dynamics? In Episode 67 of "How I Met My BFF," join us as we chat with Dr. John DeOca, a psychotherapist with a knack for unraveling the complexities of relationships. Leisa and Tamara kick things off with some delightful banter about Montana weather, travel tales, and Tamara's son's new driving milestone. Dive into Dr. DeOca's fascinating journey from nursing to psychotherapy, all fueled by his passion for helping others n...
Dec 11, 2024•30 min•Ep. 67
Can childhood bonds withstand the test of time? Join me, Leisa, as I dive into this question with our guests, Wendy Barr and Lori Cohen, who have been friends since... well, before they could even talk! With Tamara off at the winery, I’m flying solo today, and I’ve got some exciting news about my leap into stand-up comedy—thanks to a serendipitous encounter with a comedy club manager! Wendy and Lori’s friendship is a tapestry woven from shared childhood antics and divergent adult paths. From hit...
Nov 20, 2024•28 min•Ep. 66
Ever wondered how a psychic and a natural connector could form an unbreakable bond? Join me as I fly solo in this episode of "How I Met My BFF," while Tamara is off on an exciting adventure. Dive into the enchanting story of Carrie Roldan and Rachel Archelaus, whose friendship blossomed from an online entrepreneurial community. From Rachel's psychic insights to Carrie's vibrant energy, discover how they navigated initial apprehensions to build a friendship rooted in shared values and mutual grow...
Nov 13, 2024•26 min•Ep. 65
Ever wondered what it's like to have your mom as your best friend? In this heartwarming episode, our first-ever mother-daughter duo, Dawn Hubsher and Cher Gopman, join us to unravel the unique magic of their bond. Start off with a cozy catch-up as Tamara dives into the hustle of harvest season at the winery, while Leisa shares an inspiring moment from a women's conference. Then, dive into the heart of the episode: Dawn and Cher's journey from mother-daughter to best friends. Discover how open co...
Oct 23, 2024•23 min•Ep. 64
Ever wondered how a friendship can transcend time and loss? In Episode 63 of "How I Met My BFF," we sit down with Sheila Andres to explore the beautiful and enduring bond she shared with her late best friend, Sharon Santos. Join us as we kick off the episode discussing the recent fires in California and Montana and their impact on our communities. Then, we dive deep into Sheila's heartfelt story. Sheila reminisces about meeting Sharon during their high school years and the instant connection the...
Sep 18, 2024•38 min•Ep. 63
Have you ever felt an instant "heart connection" with someone? What happens when childhood best friends reconnect after nearly two decades? In this lively episode, join us as we dive into these questions and more with our fabulous guests, Rhonda Liebig and Jennifer Engelmeier. Listen to the heartwarming and adventurous tale of Rhonda and Jennifer, who met in middle school and instantly bonded. Despite life pulling them apart, they reunited in high school and again recently, thanks to their kids ...
Sep 04, 2024•28 min•Ep. 62
Have you ever wondered how a simple email could change your life forever? Or how a professional connection could evolve into a deep, romantic bond? In this episode of "How I Met My BFF," Leisa and Tamara sit down with the extraordinary Elinor Moshe and Daniel Darman, who share their unique journey from best friends to romantic partners. The heart of the episode dives into Elinor and Daniel’s story. From their first email exchange during a stressful period in 2021 to their seamless first meeting ...
Aug 28, 2024•36 min•Ep. 61
Ever wondered why some friendships last a lifetime while others fizzle out? Or how to turn an acquaintance into a best friend? In this episode, we dive deep into the science of friendship with our incredible guest, Jewel Hohman. Leisa kicks things off with a nostalgic look at a Rick Springfield and Richard Marx concert, celebrating their 40-year friendship. Tamara shares her vineyard adventures and excitement for an upcoming Pearl Jam concert. Then, Jewel takes center stage, revealing her journe...
Aug 21, 2024•42 min•Ep. 60
Ever wondered how a shared love for local farmers' markets can spark a lifelong friendship? Or how intention and impact can transform lives? In this episode of "How I Met My BFF" Leisa and Tamara chat with the incredible Divya Parekh, a powerhouse speaker and businesswoman who is a member of the International Speaker Network. We kick things off with some fun updates—Tamara's bracing for fire season in Montana, while Leisa's gearing up for a sun-soaked trip to Cabo (and teasing some exciting pers...
Jul 24, 2024•24 min•Ep. 59
Ever wondered what makes a friendship truly genuine? Or how to help your kids navigate the tricky waters of preteen social circles? In this solo-hosted episode, Leisa dives into the dynamics of friendships with the incredible Jessica Speer, author of "BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends): A Girl's Guide to Happy Friendships." Jessica shares her journey from observing her daughters' friendship struggles to creating a friendship program that inspired her book. Discover the concept of NRFs, the "friends...
Jul 10, 2024•23 min•Ep. 58
Are you nursing the heartache of a BFF breakup? Tune into episode 57 of "How I Met My BFF" as we dive deep with author Kristen Reed into the emotional labyrinth of friendship breakups. Kristen's book, "When Best Friends Aren't Forever," offers a faith-filled guide to healing and navigating the delicate dance of forgiveness and possible reconciliation. Join us as we explore the unspoken grief of losing a friend and how to forge ahead with hope and grace. Don't miss out on this blend of humor, hea...
Jun 26, 2024•25 min•Ep. 57
Hey there, besties! Are you ready for a tale of heart and compassion? Tune in to Episode 56 of "How I Met My BFF," where we chat with the dynamic duo Jackie Bailey and Justine Reiss. Have you ever wondered how a shared passion can spark an instant bond? Jackie and Justine dive into their story, from empowering women's voices to their exciting humanitarian adventure coming up in Tanzania! They're not just friends; they're partners in making a difference. Plus, they've got an upcoming event that c...
Jun 12, 2024•28 min•Ep. 56
Ever wondered how a simple act of kindness can lead to a lifelong friendship? Or how to navigate the deep waters of grief with grace and resilience? Tune in to Episode 55 of "How I Met My BFF" where your hosts, Leisa and Tamara, dive into an unforgettable tale with Amy Lindner-Lesser. From a fateful trip on a sidewalk in 1978 to a bond that transcends life's toughest challenges, Amy shares her 44-year journey with her best friend Liz. Discover laughter, loss, and the power of memory as Amy opens...
May 22, 2024•35 min•Ep. 55
Are you ready to rock down memory lane and discover a friendship that's as epic as an '80s guitar solo? In Episode 54 of "How I Met My BFF," we're cranking up the volume with Jay Watson and Kyle Wiltshire, whose bond is a testament to the power of shared passions and deep conversations. Join us, as we reminisce over Night Ranger and Bon Jovi concerts and dive into Jay and Kyle's 25-year-long saga that began in a college dorm room. Plus, get the inside scoop on their book "Dead Rock Stars," where...
May 08, 2024•49 min•Ep. 54
It all started with a question...as Lent was approaching, Shantell Thomas asked herself, "What can I do better?" This question led to sharing inspiration with her circle of friends. Eventually, it led to a book created by a strong circle of friends. Listen in to hear what inspiring topics these women shared from their heart. To purchase the book, visit: https://40DayResetBook.com Visit our site at howimetmybff.com Help support our show by getting some of our exclusive swag found here!...
Apr 24, 2024•26 min•Ep. 53
It all started on the first day and the last day of a mastermind. Tune in to hear how Lana & Lisa met in a zoom room and had an instant spark! Plus, get access to these Free Gifts from our Guests : The Novel Notebook: Planning on writing a novel? Grab this video & ebook to track your novel's progress at http://LanaMcAra.com The 7 Myths Keeping You from Writing Your Book Visit our site at howimetmybff.com Help support our show by getting some of our exclusive swag found here!...
Apr 03, 2024•24 min•Ep. 52
It all started in an online networking zoom room. Tune in to hear how these women found each other amongst a sea of other professionals and started a movement. Visit our site at howimetmybff.com Help support our show by getting some of our exclusive swag found here!
Mar 06, 2024•27 min•Ep. 51
It all started when two women were growing their businesses. Tune in to hear how Amanda & Diana went from a business networking relationship to a soul-level friendship. Visit our site at howimetmybff.com Help support our show by getting some of our exclusive swag found here!
Jan 24, 2024•35 min•Ep. 50
It all started when two women were learning about women's empowerment. Tune in to hear how Amy and Christelle met and become BFF's. Visit our site at howimetmybff.com Help support our show by getting some of our exclusive swag found here!
Jan 17, 2024•29 min•Ep. 49
It all started when two singers auditioned for an electric music group. Tune to hear how Annabel and Meshach met, became best friends and then eventually fell in love. Visit our site at howimetmybff.com Help support our show by getting some of our exclusive swag found here!
Jan 10, 2024•37 min•Ep. 48
