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HotRod Mess Show- "HotRods, High Heels and Whole lot of Momma Mess Meet!"

Angie B. “The HotRod Mess Diva”•hotrodmess.com

Welcome to HotRod Mess! 🎙️🚗💨

I’m Angie, the voice behind HotRodMess — where real life gets loud, funny, and unapologetically messy. From marriage and motherhood to cars, chaos, and Cape Cod stories, I share the wild ride as it really happens — unfiltered, unpolished, and full of heart. Sometimes my co-host Alex jumps in, and that’s when the real madness begins. Life’s not perfect — but it sure makes for a good story. 🔥

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Episodes

Test & Tune, Gone Bad

HotRod Mess connects with The Detail kid, aka The Fugitive as we walk him go down the track at Immokalee Race Track in Florida. We did meet an incredible women who races with her husband. Great night bad out come but that's racing! #automobile #trending #women #momlife Hit the link below for some amazing deals! https://linktr.ee/hotrodmess 🛒 Prep Starts Now - 💰 Get 15% OFF | Promo Code: HOTRODMESS https://prepstartsnow.com/discount/HOTRODMESS...

Apr 19, 2026•43 min•Season 3Ep. 3

Gettin' in Landis Performance Garage

Angie B. first stop on the journey through Florida. This episode she highlights the car culture and story behind George Landis owner @Landis Performance Center. He has years of knowledge in the automotive world. The amazing builds of the dream 69 Chevelle SS with a beautiful story behind it. Angie is showcasing the journey through the car culture, world through family, love of cars and much more. Please subscribe, love, like, share, follow George Landis @Landis_performance_center. Leave a review...

Apr 05, 2026•1 hr 14 min•Season 3Ep. 1

From the Kitchen Line to the Podcast Mic: The Story Behind Matt & Mary Talk BS

In this episode we introduce Matt and Mary from the new podcast Matt and Mary Talk BS, a show built around the powerful connection between food, community, and the stories that shape our lives. Matt spent much of his life in the kitchen, dedicating himself to feeding others and perfecting the craft of cooking. After years behind the line creating dishes that brought people together, his passion has evolved into teaching the next generation and sharing the deeper meaning of hospitality and food. ...

Mar 16, 2026•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 28

We Work Together… And We’re Still Married

Running a business with your spouse sounds romantic… until payroll hits and someone forgets to order parts. In this episode of HotRod Mess, we’re getting unfiltered about what it’s really like to build a business, raise a family, and share a last name. The fights. The tension. The attraction. The ego. The late nights. The silent treatments. And yes… the spicy parts nobody talks about. We’re talking: Who’s actually the boss How we fight without burning the whole thing down Mixing money with marri...

Mar 05, 2026•35 min•Season 2Ep. 27

Is It Ever Okay to Date a Friend's Ex? Discussing Girl Code and Bro Code Dynamics

Join Angie and Alex as they dive into the complexities of friendship, relationships, and the unwritten rules of dating within social circles. This lively discussion tackles the controversial question: is it ever okay to date a friend's ex? With candid anecdotes and humorous insights, they explore the boundaries of "girl code" and "bro code," revealing how these unwritten rules play out in real life. From the dynamics of long-term friendships to the challenges of trust and loyalty, this conversat...

Feb 23, 2026•33 min•Season 2Ep. 26

Valentine's Day Special: It's Ok if You're Single

Love is in the air… or is it? 💋🌹 In this HotRod Mess episode, Alex and I get real about Valentine’s Day expectations vs reality . From Pinterest perfect date nights and over the top romantic gifts to last minute reservations, unmet expectations, mom life chaos, and relationship pressure, we’re breaking down what Valentine’s Day really looks like behind the filtered Instagram posts. We talk about: • Relationship expectations in marriage and long term relationships • Valentine’s Day pressure on ...

Feb 15, 2026•21 min•Season 2Ep. 25

Aging Gracefully or Naturally, Botox help or micro needling?

Welcome to Hot Rod Mess, where we dive into the art of tuning not just engines, but our mindsets too. Embrace the journey of aging, whether you choose to accept it or fight it with a touch of intervention. Join us as Alex shares her expertise as a certified nurse in cosmetic injections, including Botox, fillers, and microneedling. Discover the science and benefits behind these treatments and how they can be a part of your self-care routine. Whether you're curious about microneedling or need clar...

Feb 09, 2026•38 min•Season 2Ep. 24

Is it Normal to Have Sexual Fantasies While Married?

Is it normal to have sexual fantasies while married — or does that cross a line? In this raw and honest episode of HotRod Mess, Angie opens up a conversation most couples avoid. Marriage doesn’t shut off imagination, desire, or curiosity — but where is the boundary between private thoughts and emotional betrayal? This episode dives into the uncomfortable questions: Do married people fantasize about others? Is fantasy harmless or disrespectful? Should spouses share their fantasies, or is some pri...

Feb 02, 2026•18 min•Season 2Ep. 23

Do Sexual fantasies mean cheating?

Is it normal to have fantasies while happily married? In this episode, we explore the unspoken side of modern marriage—desire, curiosity, boundaries, and emotional intimacy. Commitment doesn’t erase imagination, and thoughts aren’t actions. I am open up topic for the next weeks episode from the mans point of view. If you’re looking for a marriage podcast that talks about real issues couples face today—without judgment or shame—this conversation is for you. Next week, my husband joins me as we co...

Jan 26, 2026•7 min•Season 2Ep. 22

Letting go, Parenting New Chapter of the Motocross Life

What is it like being a parent of a motocross rider. Well, hear the emotion journey from Angie & William. Then, hear it from the racer himself. What he thought he was getting himself into. The impact it had on the family. #momlife #podcast #motocross #husbandwife

Jan 16, 2026•28 min•Season 2Ep. 21

Slaying Marriage without Bail Money

Marriage isn’t a movie. It’s not soft-focus sunsets and perfectly timed kisses. It’s late-night arguments, silent car rides, laughing until you cry, wanting to throttle each other, and then reaching out anyway… because love refuses to quit. Part 1 of this journey? We’re diving into the raw stuff — the “What the hell are we doing?” moments. The beautiful chaos. The real conversations couples are scared to have. The work behind the love, the love behind the work, and the mess that somehow keeps pu...

Jan 04, 2026•33 min•Season 2Ep. 20

Christmas Fail 2025, Unleashed in the Parade

Angie gets a bizzare call to handle a Parade with Santa. Right up her alley. Alex is dividing and overcoming her chaos with balancing keeping it simple. Both ladies realize that this is there own chaos of keeping up with the Jones. Poor Vinnie tells everyone about his trauma life, They are wrapping up there overwhelmed and running with it. #podcast #christmas #momlife #love.

Dec 26, 2025•24 min•Season 2Ep. 19

Angie & Alex Raw Chaos Outside...NO GOATS

Alex rolls in to record in studio and shocker, there is a shit show happening at the Baron Compound. Angie takes Alex on the tour while trying to fit in the GOATS! Meet the real deal behind the Mess, the kids, the "Dad" aka Babe ad the shit show happening. Dad won't let them get a goat still! The yard is a disaster, the RV is ripped apart and there are cars everywhere. Join us at www.hotrodmess.com or at www.patreon.com/hotrodmess and never miss a beat. #rvlife #momlife #construction #family #po...

Dec 21, 2025•20 min•Season 2Ep. 18

Getting to know the Hotties Behind the Mess- Angie & Alex Tell How they Got Together!

Angie & Alex answer the mystery questions about who Alex is to Angie, the crazy chaotic phone call that got them together. They have been friends for a while through cheer. Yet the one phone call Angie Made joined a chaotic Hot Duo! Join them every week as they unravel the joy of chaos, while embracing sexy motherhood or parenthood for all those needing a place to dump there shit off and relax. So grab a cup of coffee or a drink of choice, relax and enjoy the show. www.hotrodmess.com for new...

Dec 07, 2025•37 min•Season 2Ep. 17

The RAW UGLY Truth of Mom Scheduling & Chaos

Angie and Alex are laughing and chaos about the myth of the mom color coordinated calendar. Does it really do a something? Do we actually stick to it? The reality is we are all doing our best and it is real and raw. So grab a drink, or grab a cup of coffee. and join the mess! Join us for more chaos on Patreon

Nov 25, 2025•30 min•Season 2Ep. 16

She didn't Change Her Calling- She Changed the Rules: Dr. Tara Chute Unplugged

This week on HotRod Mess, Angie sits down with the powerhouse herself — Dr. Tara Chute, an OB/GYN turned unstoppable businesswoman — to talk about what it really takes to walk away from the comfort zone, chase freedom, and rebuild life on your own terms. Tara opens up about the moments that pushed her over the edge — the endless hospital hours, the rotating shifts, the pressure to always be “on,” and the burnout that comes when you’re pouring into everyone else and forgetting to refill your own ...

Nov 11, 2025•1 hr 23 min•Season 2Ep. 15

Just Another Coffee-Fueled Disaster💋☕

Welcome back to another episode of HotRod Mess , where the coffee is strong, the mics sometimes work, and life refuses to stick to the script. This week, Angie and Alex kick things off with a solid caffeine buzz and a full dose of mom-life comedy. The mics weren’t on (because, of course they weren’t), the conversation went everywhere, and somehow, between all the laughs, the chaos, and the caffeine shakes, a story came together — a story only HotRod Mess could tell. It’s the kind of morning wher...

Nov 04, 2025•30 min•Season 2Ep. 14

Feral, Forgiven & Figuring It Out

This week on HotRod Mess , Alex and Angie are breaking down what it really means to be honest, strong-willed, and a little bit wild — while still trying to deal with men who haven’t exactly caught up. 🙄 Alex shares her dating updates and lessons learned from modern men, while Angie dives into what it’s like balancing old-school love with new-school independence — and the grace her husband gives her while she grows (and occasionally goes feral). 💋 It’s raw, it’s funny, it’s every woman trying t...

Oct 15, 2025•48 min•Season 2Ep. 13

Peaceful Parenting My Ass – Featuring Alex

Parenting advice says “stay calm, use your gentle voice”… yeah, okay Susan. This week, Angie and Alex are taking a wild ride on the parenting crazy train — no quiet cars allowed! From reliving the toddler meltdowns to teenage side-eye, we’re breaking down the myth of “peaceful parenting” and laughing our way through the chaos. Because sometimes, the best parenting moments happen when you’re two seconds from losing it — and that’s perfectly okay. 🚂 Buckle up, grab your cold coffee, tequila or wh...

Oct 05, 2025•28 min•Season 2Ep. 12

Organized Chaos: Part 2

Life’s messy, but getting organized doesn’t have to be perfect. In Part 2 of Organized Chaos, Angie challenges you to pick just one task this week, commit to it, and see what happens. Will it feel awkward? Will people call you “feral” for standing your ground? Good. Embrace it. Because progress doesn’t start with perfection—it starts with one small step. #funny #momlife #planning

Oct 04, 2025•40 min•Season 2Ep. 11

Organized Chaos: Part One (Driving Edition)

Life doesn’t stop just because you’re trying to keep it together — and neither do I. In this episode of HotRod Mess , I take you along in the Escalade while running errands and share my personal technique for holding my chaos together. This isn’t about perfection; it’s about finding rhythms, hacks, and little systems that make the day flow when everything (and everyone) is pulling in different directions. Think of it as real-world organization for real-world mess. If you’ve ever felt like your l...

Sep 26, 2025•39 min•Season 2Ep. 10

2025 Dating Dealbreakers -RED FLAGS

Modern dating in 2025 is a dumpster fire — and we’re roasting marshmallows in it. This week, Alex (newly divorced and not holding back) shares her wild ride back into the dating pool. From the man who brought his emotions on a first date, to the guy who listed his ex-wife as a reference — the red flags are practically neon. Why do we keep ignoring the signs? Why are "shaggas" suddenly a whole category? And most importantly… how do we stop mistaking 🚩s for romantic potential? Grab your wine, you...

Sep 20, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 9

Tow Talks & Real Talk: The Truth About Support as a Creator

Recorded straight from the cab of my tow truck, this episode dives deep into the real struggles content creators face when it comes to getting support — from friends, followers, and even ourselves. I talk about the emotional grind behind the grind, why support matters, and how to keep going when it feels like no one’s in your corner. It’s raw, honest, a little messy, and yes — we still have fun.

Sep 07, 2025•30 min•Season 2Ep. 8

Steaks, Soulmates, & Swipe Rights

Buckle up, babes—this HotRod Mess episode is serving chaos, cocktails, and confessions. Angie dives headfirst into the wild world of dating while married (yep, that’s a thing… just wait for the steak analogy ) and compares it to the circus act that is single dating in 2025. From husbands who feel like filet mignon to dating apps that feel more like gas station beef jerky, this episode is messy, honest, and laugh-out-loud real. If you’ve ever wondered whether the grass is greener—or just full of ...

Aug 31, 2025•22 min•Season 2Ep. 7

Marriage, Mayhem, and Midair Rescues

This week on HotRodMess, Mom lays it all out — what it’s really like to juggle being a badass, a wife, and a business co-owner while still trying to keep the family circus from burning down. From the struggles of chasing the next chapter in life to the victories that make it all worth it, she’s keeping it real with humor and grit. Oh, and just when things couldn’t get messier, Small decides to take a nap on the sheet machine…leaving Dad dangling helplessly in midair until Mom comes to the rescue...

Aug 17, 2025•29 min•Season 2Ep. 6

From Lemons to Lemonadio🍋🍸

When Life Pulls the Plug, Plug Yourself Back In 🔌✨ For 20 years, Stephanie Viva was the voice that woke up Cape Cod on Stephanie in the Morning. Then—without warning—corporate called it quits. Overnight, she went from a thriving radio career to… nothing. But instead of fading out, Stephanie cranked the volume on her own life. In this episode of HotRodMess, she shares how she rebuilt from scratch, embraced her power, and became the fearless, women-owned badass she is today. 💬 Resilience. Reinve...

Aug 10, 2025•56 min•Season 2Ep. 5

Burnouts and Broken Hearts...The Mac Story: Part II

He wore the badge by day and chased horsepower by night — and yes, Mac gave out speeding tickets even though he had the fastest car in the lot. In this episode, we salute the man who could arrest you at 3 and do burnouts by 5. Mac wasn’t just a cop; he was a gearhead legend, a loyal friend, and the only guy who could quote Miranda rights while talking cars. We’re telling stories, sharing laughs, and maybe shedding a tear or two (but we’ll blame it on the exhaust fumes). A celebration of a life t...

Aug 03, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 4

It’s called the “hood” for a reason!

🎙️ Episode 2 – “From Mom Mode to Main Character Energy” | The HotRodMess Show It’s time to trade in the juice boxes and PTA meetings for unapologetic truth, a splash of sass, and a whole lot of you. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the messy, hilarious, and liberating next chapter of life after full-time mom mode. Host the HotRodMess Mess Diva herself, the engine behind HotRodMess, shares her raw, real, and ridiculously funny take on what it means to rediscover yourself after years of pu...

Jul 27, 2025•37 min•Season 2Ep. 3

The Day the Vest Saved Mac: A Chicago Cop's Legacy, told by a Soul Friend

In this emotional episode of HotRod Mess, we honor the incredible life of H.A. McCarthy — “Mac” — a fearless Chicago police officer and one of the first ever saved by a Kevlar vest. Through the heartfelt voice of his longtime soul friend, Mary, we hear the true story of courage, survival, and deep friendship. Mary walks us through Mac’s wild journey on the force, the day that changed history, and the man behind the badge. This one’s raw, powerful, and full of love. Mac may be gone, but his story...

Jul 13, 2025•29 min•Season 2Ep. 2

🔥She lit the fuse; Mary and the Kenny Brown Marauder Story🔥

In this high-octane episode of HotRod Mess , we dive into the untold story of Kenny Brown’s unforgettable journey with the Mercury Marauder with Mary, long time friend and car enthusiast—a car that’s more than just steel and horsepower; it’s a symbol of ambition, rebellion, and precision engineering. From the shop floor to the street, Mary shares how the Marauder reignited her passion for performance and innovation, bringing a fresh edge to a classic nameplate. But this story isn’t her's alone. ...

Jun 29, 2025•48 min•Season 2Ep. 1
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