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Hot+Brave

bebo mia incwww.bebomia.com

Hosted by birth worker and activist Bianca Sprague from bebo mia Inc (https://bebomia.com/), Hot + Brave is like a hilarious conversation with your feisty friend who doesn’t give a f*ck. Brave stories, business support,  hot topics and #truthbombs that will either balm your soul or light fire to your rage.

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Episodes

S5E13 - Should You Offer Sliding Scale? Let’s Talk About It

Send us a text Should you offer sliding scale pricing in your doula business? This solo episode of Hot + Brave dives into the heart of that question with honesty, nuance, and strategy. We’re unpacking the roots of sliding scale, how race and gender shape expectations around care work, and what it actually takes to build an accessible and sustainable birth business. We’ll look at: The origins of sliding scale as a tool for justice Why guilt is not a business strategy What to include in your slidi...

Jun 03, 202522 minSeason 5Ep. 13

S5E12 - Global Wisdom, Local Roots: How Bobette Returned to Ghana to Transform Birth Care

Send us a text What does birth look like in Ghana today? In this powerful episode, Bianca sits down with Bobette, founder of Uzuri Birth, to explore how ancestral knowledge, global education, and personal experience collide in modern Ghanaian birthwork. From her early life in Congo to training in Europe and Canada, and finally returning home to Ghana, Bobette shares her journey of becoming a birthworker rooted in tradition and liberation. We talk about hospital births in Ghana, the erasure of tr...

May 27, 20251 hr 6 minSeason 5Ep. 12

S5 E11 - Breath as Medicine: A Doula’s Guide to Embodied Healing with Jillian Marchand

Send us a text In this tender and powerful episode of Hot + Brave , I’m joined by Jillian Marchand, founder of Exploring Embodiment, for a deep dive into breathwork, reproductive health, and the cultural disconnection so many of us carry in our womb space. We talk about how shame, trauma, and discomfort get stored in the body and how breath can be a gentle way home. Jillian shares accessible tools for shifting your relationship with your womb and honoring your body as sacred, even when it’s hard...

May 20, 202555 minSeason 5Ep. 11

S5E10 - How to Be a Great Backup Doula (and Choose Yours Wisely)

Send us a text In this episode of Hot + Brave , Bianca breaks down the essential (but often overlooked) topic of backup doulas: how to choose one, how to be one, and why this role is a vital part of building a sustainable, ethical doula practice. We’re covering: What makes a great backup doula How to prep your clients without fear Setting clear agreements, payment terms, and expectations Why having a backup isn’t flaky—it’s professional care How to build trust inside your doula community This ep...

May 13, 202526 minSeason 5Ep. 10

S5E9 - The journey from maiden to mother with Anna Lundqvist

Send us a text In this episode of Hot + Brave , we’re joined by Anna Lundqvist of Sacred Birth International (www.sacredbirthinternational.com) to explore one of the most profound and often overlooked shifts in a woman’s life: the transition from maiden to mother. Anna shares how birth can be reclaimed as a sacred rite of passage, what gets lost in our over-medicalized systems, and how we can honor the deep emotional, spiritual, and personal transformation that comes with becoming a mother. Whet...

May 06, 202548 minSeason 5Ep. 9

S5E8 - The Best Doula Tools You Already Have (No Shopping Needed)

Send us a text In this episode of Hot + Brave , Bianca Sprague is busting a huge myth in the birth world... the myth that you need a bag full of fancy tools to be an effective doula. Spoiler: the best doula tools are already within you . From your hands and your breath to a rolled-up hospital towel and a sturdy chair, Bianca shares the free, practical ways you can support laboring clients with what’s already around you. No shopping sprees required. Whether you're just starting your doula trainin...

Apr 29, 202525 minSeason 5Ep. 8

S5E7 - Talk Like a Doula: Understanding the Language of Birth

Send us a text In this episode of Hot + Brave , Bianca Sprague breaks down common birth terms you’ve probably heard, like effacement, dilation, VBAC, golden hour, and more... but maybe never fully understood. Whether you’re brand new to doula training, pregnant and preparing for birth, or a birth nerd who loves decoding medical lingo, this episode is a calm, clear, and judgment-free guide to the language of labor. Bianca explains each term in plain language, shares real-world context, and weaves...

Apr 22, 202536 minSeason 5Ep. 7

S5E6 - I Didn’t Love the Newborn Stage...And That’s Okay

Send us a text In this episode of Hot + Brave , Bianca Sprague breaks the silence around one of parenthood’s biggest taboos: not loving the newborn stage. From hormonal crashes to sleep deprivation, from identity loss to emotional overload, this episode explores why the early weeks of postpartum feel so overwhelming for so many, and how toxic messages like “soak up every moment” and Instagram-perfect parenting are setting us up to feel like failures. Bianca shares the truth about postpartum ambi...

Apr 15, 202538 minSeason 5Ep. 6

S5 S5 - The Epidural Debate Is Missing the Point

Send us a text In this episode of Hot + Brave , Bianca Sprague breaks down why the birth world’s obsession with “natural vs. medicated” is a distraction, and how the real issue isn’t the epidural itself, but the lack of choice, support, and honest information surrounding it. We’re talking about in this episode: The myth of the “better” birth What epidurals really do (and what they don’t) What’s not being disclosed during hospital births The cascade of interventions and loss of autonomy Why doula...

Apr 08, 202534 minSeason 5Ep. 5

S5 E04 - The Myth of the “Perfect” Birth: Why We Need to Change the Narrative

Send us a text In this powerful episode of Hot + Brave, Bianca Sprague unpacks the damaging myth of the “perfect” birth...and why it’s time to let it go. From unmedicated water births to curated Instagram stories, the fantasy of a flawless birth experience is leaving too many people feeling like they failed. Bianca breaks down where this narrative came from, who it leaves out, and how it fuels shame, birth trauma, and unrealistic expectations. She also shares how most birthing people think their...

Apr 01, 202529 minSeason 5Ep. 4

S5 E03 - Birth Isn’t the Problem, The System Is: Birth in the Age of Misinformation

Send us a text What if I told you most due dates are based on a formula from the 1800s? Or that you’re still being told not to eat during labor because of a study from 1946 ? Or that the system profits when you’re too scared to ask questions? In the latest episode of The Hot + Brave Podcast , I’m breaking down the top birth myths...and the actual truth behind them. 👉🏽 Epidurals 👉🏽 Big babies 👉🏽 VBACs 👉🏽 Hospital policies that aren’t based on science 👉🏽 Why doulas are not just for home ...

Mar 25, 202551 minSeason 5Ep. 3

S5E2 - Giving Birth in a Foreign Country: What No One Tells You with Hannah Preil

Send us a text Giving birth in a foreign country comes with surprises, challenges, and a whole lot of translation errors. Maternity mentor and expat mama Hannah Preil shares what it’s really like to navigate pregnancy, birth, and postpartum abroad. Plus, how to build a support system when family is an ocean away. Find our more about Hannah here: www.hannahlouisematernitymentor.com ⭐️ We have some links for you which are mentioned in the episode!! ⭐️ Beyond Anxiety book by Martha Beck, get it her...

Mar 18, 20251 hr 8 minSeason 5Ep. 2

S5 E01 - Parenting, Mental Health & the Thief of Joy: A No-BS Chat with Nikki Steel Osborne

Send us a text We are talking all about mental health and talking about it in a way that is not happening in other places. This will shake you up and give you ideas to find joy. Want to find Nikki? Check her our here: https://www.thescottishsoulsister.com/ Here is her course: www.thescottishsoulsister.com/online-course ⭐️ We have some links for you which are mentioned in the episode!! ⭐️ Grab your doula training spot here (heyyy there's payment plans) 📚 USE THE CODE SHIRT for a huge discount an...

Mar 11, 20251 hr 17 minSeason 5Ep. 1

S4 E12 - Referrals Made Easy: How to Grow Your Doula Business Fast

Send us a text Building a referral program is a great way to have an awesome marketing machine made up of your community members! We will walk you through how to do this and we have done all the work for you with the free referral building kit. Get the FREE kit that goes with this episode by going here and commenting BOOST Want to be in the secret squad for Black Friday - you will get the inside scoop on so many awesome events and freebies! Go here and comment YEAH Want to join the scavenger hun...

Nov 26, 202426 min

S4 E11 - 10 Things NOT To Do With Loss Families with Vallen Webb

Send us a text Content Note: We discuss loss, so please make sure you take care of yourself and step away if needed. Find out more about the 911 Kit go here: www.bebomia.com/911kit To find out about Vallen's Loss Certification go here: www.evelynjamesandco.com/pregnancylosseducationcourse ⭐️ We have some links for you which are mentioned in the episode!! ⭐️ Grab your doula training spot here (heyyy there's payment plans) 📚 USE THE CODE BIRTHBIRD for the early bird special!! NEW BIRTH DOULA COUR...

Nov 19, 20241 hr 2 minSeason 4Ep. 11

S4 E10 - Pregnancy after 9 losses with Rachell Dumas of A Light After Nine

Send us a text Content Note: We discuss loss, so please make sure you take care of yourself and step away if needed. Find out more about Rachell and her incredible work at: www.alightafternine.org www.instagram.com/alightafternine ⭐️ We have some links for you which are mentioned in the episode!! ⭐️ Grab your doula training spot here (heyyy there's payment plans) 📚 USE THE CODE BIRTHBIRD for the early bird special!! NEW BIRTH DOULA COURSE - www.bebomia.com/birthdoula Community Building Tool ONL...

Nov 12, 20241 hr 1 minSeason 4Ep. 10

S4 E09 - Scaffolding Your Doula Game: The Unfiltered Blueprint with Kaely Harrod

Send us a text This week I had the pleasure of chatting with my gal pal Kaely Harrod and she is a flippin’ gem. She cracks me up and we wanted to go through some critical scaffolding for doulas to have success in their business. We cover everything from contracts to systems at home… you are not going to want to miss this. As promised here are Kaely's links: Her podcast Doula Tips & Tits Her IG channel: www.instagram.com/harroddoula https://harroddoulaservices.thrivecart.com/level-up-your-dou...

Nov 05, 20241 hr 17 minSeason 4Ep. 9

S4E8 - Births, Boundaries, and the Quest to Become a Relaxed Woman

Send us a text What would it be like to be a relaxed woman? Inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert, Bianca looks at this almost impossible but wildly sexy concept of a relaxed and calm state rather than the state of fight and exhaustion we stay in. What would you need to accomplish this? Community Building Tool ONLY $10 - www.bebomia.com/community-building ⭐️ We have some links for you which are mentioned in the episode!! ⭐️ NEW BIRTH DOULA COURSE - www.bebomia.com/birthdoula Book Club: www.bebomia.com/b...

Oct 29, 202423 minSeason 4Ep. 8

S4 E07 - The flaws of the ARRIVE Trial for induction with midwife Sara Holt

Send us a text There is a study called the ARRIVE Trial that boasts that 39 week inductions lower operative birth rates in nulliparous birthing people. Well, join Nurse Midwife Sara Holt and Bianca Sprague as they highlight the deep flaws with the study and lack of care in the medical system for birthing people. Want to get to know Sara? www.byenvenibaby.com www.instagram.com/ByenveniBaby Community Building Tool ONLY $10 - www.bebomia.com/community-building ⭐️ We have some links for you which ar...

Oct 22, 20241 hr

S4 E06 - More Adventures, Less Compromises: The Power of Platonic Joy

Send us a text After last weeks episode about the gender inequity at home (and every where), I wanted a feel good episode about friendship as the antidote. My heart is bursting with joy after a wonderful long weekend, and I share some nerd facts about friendship... evidence based for the win. 😘 Community Building Tool ONLY $10 - www.bebomia.com/community-building ⭐️ We have some links for you which are mentioned in the episode!! ⭐️ NEW BIRTH DOULA COURSE - www.bebomia.com/birthdoula Book Club: ...

Oct 15, 202429 minSeason 4Ep. 6

S4 E05 - Why you're justified in hating your husband

Send us a text This episode talks about the inequity at home for women and mothers and business owners. This stuff is infuriating and what are we going to do about it? Content note, y’all: I am going to keep this convo pretty gendered so that I can capture the stats that are based on a cis-het dynamic. Yes, us queers do have our own shit before we feel all smug, and I do really want to focus on the statistical tragedy of heterosexuality. Book Recommendation in the episode: All the Rage 📚 (has a...

Oct 08, 202425 minSeason 4Ep. 5

S4 E04 - Risk vs. Reward: Myths About Safety in Childbirth, Education, and Parenting

Send us a text Ok, we could talk to Brad for hours... literally. I almost panicked when I had to get down to just 1 topic for the interview. Soooo, we jammed a few hot topics into 1 - and it mostly fit. I really just wanted you to hear how incredible he is and then you can go over to his pod and bask in his content! Enjoy every minute of this then click the link to explore his content.👇🏽 Check out Brad's website here: https://www.talkingaboutkids.com/ ⭐️ We have some links for you which are me...

Oct 01, 202457 min

S4 E03 - Fighting for Fairness: Workplace Rights from Pregnancy to Menopause

Send us a text Join Bianca as she chats with Jack and Catherine, lawyers fighting for working women at all stages of their reproductive life cycle, from pregnancy through menopause. Jack's practice focuses on combating sexual harassment, pregnancy discrimination, illegal gender pay disparity, sex discrimination, maternity leave matters, unlawful retaliation, and wrongful termination. Catherine is a lawyer who is also a practicing doula which made this conversation even better because she is in t...

Sep 24, 20241 hr 15 min

S4 E02 - Doula Co-ops: A Blueprint for Collective (& Unregulated) Empowerment

Send us a text September is my birthday month and I am ALL about community. So I thought that having a 'how to build community co-op' chat would be the perfect episode to be released on my big day. I reached out to one of my favorite community builders, Emily Barney of the Doula Co-op in Nevada, to fill us in on the step by step for a state-wide Doula Co-op. (https://www.doulacoop.org/). Connect with Emily directly - Connect@DoulaCoop.org You can see their socials here: Instagram - https://www.i...

Sep 17, 20241 hr 4 min

S4 E01 - My healing around PPD & Suicide loss for Suicide Prevention Day

Send us a text September is suicide prevention month and today is suicide prevention day. I am sharing my personal experience with suicide ideation and loss to expand the conversation and to shift the narrative - which is the theme for 2024's Suicide Prevention. Content Note: There is discussion of domestic violence, suicide loss, suicide ideation and PMADs. ⭐️ We have some links for you which are mentioned in the episode!! ⭐️ NEW BIRTH DOULA COURSE - www.bebomia.com/birthdoula Book Club: www.be...

Sep 10, 202459 minSeason 4Ep. 1

S3 E14 *BONUS* - The Urgency to Protect Birth with Midwife Mmatshilo Motsei

Send us a text HAPPY INTERNATIONAL DAY OF THE MIDWIFE! To celebrate today, we have an incredible *BONUS* episode of the Hot+Brave Podcast. Bianca had the absolute pleasure of interviewing Traditional Midwife, Mmatshilo Motsei who is transforming birth in South Africa. It is pure magic.... She is talking about and challenging the biomedical model in this episode and the wisdom she is passing on is not to be missed. We need to protect birth and the urgency is felt so fully in this discussion. If y...

May 05, 202452 minSeason 3Ep. 14

S3 E13 - Getting ghosted by your doula client!

Send us a text Getting ghosted by your client can bring up a whole host of feelings - in this episode we talk about why this happens and what to do after. You do not want to miss it! ⭐️ We have some links for you!! ⭐️ www.bebomia.com/doulaclub 💥 Get your free access to the Doula Business School in our club membership! www.bebomia.com/freewebinar Free doula workshop and discount code 👍🏽 www.Instagram.com/bebomiainc Follow for more goodies! bebomia.com/bizshop/ 😎 Grow your business fast! www.b...

Apr 09, 202419 minSeason 3Ep. 13

S3 E12 - 5 things to consider before becoming a doula

Send us a text We have a few things for you to consider before you take the leap into birth work... here are the top 5. If you are training with bebo mia, we get you ready with these because our training is 17 weeks. However, if you are planning to train somewhere else, make sure you get these ducks in a row before your training (or before setting up your doula business)... How much does a doula make? We made some pretty graphics for you! ⭐️ We have some links for you!! ⭐️ www.bebomia.com/freewe...

Apr 02, 202418 minSeason 3Ep. 12

S3 E11 - How to get hired almost every time as a doula

Send us a text Mastering the art of the consult is so important as a doula. This week we are talking about killin' your consults and growing your business. We have tips and tricks that will ensure that you connect and solve for potential clients. This week is World Doula Week! Use the code WDW20 for 20% off everything! How much does a doula make? We made some pretty graphics for you! ⭐️ We have some links for you!! ⭐️ www.bebomia.com/freewebinar Free doula workshop and discount code 👍🏽 www.Ins...

Mar 26, 202431 minSeason 3Ep. 11

S3 E10 - Top 10 Questions about Becoming (and being) a Doula

Send us a text You may have a lot of questions before you take the leap into birth work... we got answers for your top 10 questions - such as How much do doulas make? and What is the demand for doulas? This week is World Doula Week! Use the code WDW20 for 20% off everything! How much does a doula make? We made some pretty graphics for you! ⭐️ We have some links for you!! ⭐️ www.bebomia.com/freewebinar Free doula workshop and discount code 👍🏽 www.Instagram.com/bebomiainc Follow for more goodies...

Mar 19, 202420 minSeason 3Ep. 10
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