In this episode we’re making sweet sweet love… TO OURSELVES. Sex and pleasure educator Rachel Maine is here to walk us through the ultimate act of self-love, masturbation. We bust through shame, learn how to spice up our stale routines, and even find ways to include a partner. If you’ve got a v or you love someone who does, this episode is sure to change the game! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adcho...
Jun 09, 2021•57 min•Ep. 41
In this episode, pleasure educator Carly S. covers the logistics of the almighty 69. Whether your overwhelmed by all the moving parts, looking for a less vulnerable modification, or ready to spice it up even more, you’ll find your answers in this very honest guide! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Jun 02, 2021•47 min•Ep. 40
August McLaughlin walks us through the logistics of doing it doggy style, including positions, rhythm, and all those potentially embarrassing moments like queefing and slippage. Whether you’re looking to increase the intimacy or add a bit of spice, this episode is sure to help you up your doggy style game. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
May 26, 2021•57 min•Ep. 39
If you’re ready for a rundown on all the things that men should have learned in sex ed, but didn’t, this is the episode for you. Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator and author of the book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men. From lasting longer in bed, to prostate health, to grade a communication strategies, this episode has all of the “cock talk” you’ve been missing in your life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad ...
May 19, 2021•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 38
Kink educator Mistress Kay walks us through how to start sticking stuff up HIS butt (or really anyone with a penis/prostate). We cover fingers, toys, and even pegging. After this episode, you’ll be fully equipped to knock on someone’s back door. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
May 12, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 37
Usually, we’re all about adding spice, but this week we’re adding a little lightening to your sex life. Cue sex educator, Sunny Megatron; here to give us the ultimate rundown on all things electricity play. Not sure what that is? No prob, because as always we cover the basics before diving into the how to’s. Electricity play is a form of sensation play and can also be used in BDSM (but don’t worry, you don’t have to enjoy pain to reap the benefits.) In this episode, you’ll learn which toys are w...
May 05, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 36
Gear up, Honey…you’re entering THE SPLASH ZONE. In this episode we’re going full force and talking about SQUIRTING. We chat with the lovely Shae Alexander, a sex educator and true expert on the elusive juices. She breaks down the basics (I.e. what the heck squirting even is), before diving into the logistics of how to squirt!Whether you’re a curious kitten or your ready to make you’re splashing debut, this is an episode you do not want to miss. We also talk about: The G-Spot The difference betwe...
Apr 28, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 35
Buckle up, Honey, because you are in for a WILD RIDE. Intimacy expert Susan Bratton quite literally had us picking our jaws up off the floor, so when we say this episode is a game changer, we are not fucking kidding. We cover libido, desire, throat orgasms, cock worship, a salad dressing recipe and SO. MUCH. MORE. If you’re ready to revamp your sex life and GET HORNY, go ahead and hit that play button! We also talk about: The difference between libido, desire, and arousal How to care for your li...
Apr 21, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 34
We’ve talked A LOT about sex, but this week we’re doing something a little different and talking about how to find someone to have sex with... AKA dating. Francesca Hogi is a love coach with all the wisdom and advice we wish we had when we were 15, but hey, better late than never. We dive into mindset (spoiler alert it’s v important), red flags, how to know if someone is “the one,” and of course we couldn’t help but talk about our one true love, SEX. If you’re ready to have your world rocked and...
Apr 14, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 33
PSA: Blow jobs can be pleasurable for EVERYONE involved. Yep, you read that right, even the giver. WHO FRICKIN KNEW?! Lucky for us, sex and relationship coach Azaria Menezes is here to give us all a rundown on how to give a killer blow job and perhaps more importantly, how to enjoy doing it. We cover logistics (i.e. what to do when you're down there), how to add some spice, and SO MUCH MORE. Tune in for an episode that could just change you life (no promises, but like maybe!) We also talk about:...
Apr 07, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 32
In this episode we take a trip down south with pleasure coach, Luna Matatas (aka going down, eating out, oral sex with a vulva, you get the idea). We start out by busting through ALL. THE. SHAME. Smell? Look? Taste? No worries here, honey, because Luna talks us through all of it. Then we dive head first into the logistics of eating out. You’re gonna learn the best tongue tricks, how to incorporate fingers, what positions you gotta start trying and so much more. Whether you’re the giver or the re...
Mar 31, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 31
We're taking a deep dive into fetishes this week with Master Fetish Trainer Jet Setting Jasmine. As always, we cover the very basics, like what a fetish even is, before jumping into the big stuff like how to start engaging in your personal fetishes (spoiler alert: you definitely have one). We end the episode by narrowing in on impact play and covering the logistics of it from start to finish. Do NOT deprive yourself of this fun, funky, fetish filled episode! We also talk about: How SEXY consent ...
Mar 24, 2021•56 min•Ep. 30
Welcome to the first episode of our new segment: Emma & Cass Dew where we take on a sexy subject, try it out, and tell you how it went. In this episode we take a deep dive into butt stuff, only this time, we're getting personal. We took on the mighty task of trying butt stuff for the first time and we're ready to tell you all about it. From anal beads, to butt plugs, to anal sex, we're getting brutally honest and very vulnerable. We're sharing the good, the bad, and the ugly, alongside our t...
Mar 17, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 29
Pucker up, Honey, because this week’s episode is taking you to first base. Kissing. Our guest Kody Elsayed gives us a refresher on the basics before diving into the spicier side of locking lips. We cover how to use your tongue, what to do with your hands, and how to kiss places other than lips. From novice to expert, there’s a little something in this episode for everyone. We also talk about: How to initiate a kiss How to practice kissing without a partner What NOT to do Connect with Kody: @ohhk...
Mar 10, 2021•46 min•Ep. 28
PSA: Hand jobs are still cool. In fact, they can change lives. Just ask Ashley Manta, an award winning sex and relationship coach who is said to give the Ferrari of hand jobs. Yep, you read that right, and she came on Honeydew Me to teach us all how to do the same. We cover the basics, like stroke and pressure, all the way up to more advanced positions and tricks that we can’t wait to try out. Tune in if you’re ready to put those hands to good use! We also talk about: What to do with the balls W...
Mar 03, 2021•56 min•Ep. 27
Orgasms, what a gift. AMIRIGHT?! Here at Honeydew Me, we firmly believe that the more orgasms in your life, the better, so we brought on Nell Walker, an orgasm expert and pleasure coach whose life goal is to help every vulva owner GET OFF. Not only does Nell walk us through the basics of what an orgasm actually is, she also gives us the lowdown on how to optimize our sex lives for BIGGER, BETTER (and even MULTIPLE) orgasms. Count. Us. In. We also talk about: Masturbation techniques Types of orga...
Feb 24, 2021•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 26
TW: Sexual assault, rape, abuse Want to get to know yourself better? Turns out your sexual fantasies are a great way start. Dr. Joe Kort, psychotherapist and clinical sexologist, joins us to discuss what our sexual fantasies mean, where they might come from, and how incredibly NORMAL they are. If you think your fantasies are "weird" or "wrong", then this is the fun and funky episode for you because SPOILER ALERT... there's no room for shame in the fantasy game (but consent is always required). W...
Feb 17, 2021•51 min•Ep. 25
Hope you're ready to get a little fun and funky this week, because your hosts are bringing you that and so. much. more. We asked friends, strangers, and exes (yes…EXES) to give us their cringiest sex questions and then gave ourselves two options: answer OR drink. Spoiler alert…we did a lot of both. From queefing to shower sex to our most embarrassing attempts at role play, this episode covers it all. As per usual, we're very tipsy, extremely honest, and just doin the damn thing. If you love us, ...
Feb 10, 2021•55 min•Ep. 24
Saddle up, Honey, because we're getting ready to ride! Tyomi Morgan, AKA Glamazon Tyomi, is a certified Sexologist, Pleasure Coach, and Cowgirl expert. We start off with the basics of being on top and how to become the confident rider you're destined to be. If this isn't your first rodeo, no worries, we also learn how to take this sex position to the next level and leave your partner (and yourself) *whimpering* for more. Despite the name, cowgirl position is for EVERYONE (including queer couples...
Feb 03, 2021•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 23
Dream big, Honey, because it turns out your dreams have a lot to tell you. Anne Hodder-Shipp is a sexuality and relationship educator who’s ready to help you change your life, by tapping into your dreams. We talk about what sex dreams really mean, how to start your own dream interpretation practice, and whether or not your “naughty” dreams say anything about the real you. We also talk about: Cheating dreams Nightmares Wet dreams Additional Resources: FREE Meditation to Work Through Nightmares fr...
Jan 27, 2021•58 min•Ep. 22
What if we said that YOUR ORGASMS are MAGIC?! Well, turns out they are. In this episode we talk with Ani Ferlise, a Spiritual and Self-Love coach who's here to remind us all that "home is in your bones." We explore the life changing power of sex magic and the rituals we can all start incorporating to find magic in the (seemingly) mundane. If you're ready to unleash your sexy powers and create the life you've been dreaming of, you've come to the right place! We also chat about: Ani's path to spir...
Jan 20, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 21
Are you INCREDIBLE at foreplay? A master of seduction? No? Us either… but not to worry, your sex life is about to get a major upgrade with the help of one Marla Renee Stewart. Marla is a sexologist, sex strategist, and pleasure activist with a special talent for communication and seduction. In this episode, we talk about discovering your seduction style, finding spicy ways to initiate sex (because let's be honest "wanna have sex" isn't cutting it anymore), and how to get out of that damn forepla...
Jan 13, 2021•51 min•Ep. 20
New Year, New You? We call BULLSH*T, because you're already amazing! The start of a new year does not mean you have to start a new diet, a new exercise plan, or any other new thing that promises you a "bikini body" by June (hint: if you have a body and a bikini, you already have one). This episode is for anyone who has ever set a New Year's resolution to change their body (your hosts sure have). Aubrey Wall, a Body Image and Confidence Coach, is here to walk us through cultivating a positive rel...
Jan 06, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 19
If you're ready to cozy up and *reconnect*, then this is the episode for you! We chat with Maggie Flood, a Chinese Medicine Doctor and Somatic Sex Educator with a knack for helping people release pain and shame. We walk through what it means to be disconnected from your body (hint: most of us are) and how to start the process of reconnecting. And don't worry...we bring it back to the basics, because let's be honest, this kind of stuff can get a little confusing. Connect with Maggie: sacral-space...
Dec 23, 2020•55 min•Ep. 17
Get ready for a spicy episode, because this one is coming in HOT. Kimi Inch is a Professional Dominatrix, Kink Expert, and Somatic Healer who knows a thing or two about getting kinky. Lucky for us, she got back to the basics to give us a killer intro to kink. We talk about the life of a Dominatrix, how to know if you're kinky, and what to try first (see Kimi's "Kink Checklist" linked below). Don't be scared, it'll only hurt a little. We also talk about: Kimi's personal journey Finding your kink ...
Dec 16, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 16
Summer Innanen is a badass body image coach who is ready to help you ACCEPT YOUR DAMN SELF. Summer talks us through ditching diet culture, shedding body shame, and creating a better relationship with that skin suit you're wearing. Get ready for some "aha" moments and actionable steps to start feeling comfortable in your body TODAY. We also talk about: Self-worth How family, friends, and media impact body image How loving your body doesn't have to be the goal Connect with Summer: Eat The Rules Po...
Dec 02, 2020•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 14
Sexting is the name of the game this week and who better to chat with than a real life sexting researcher! In this episode, Eva Bloom helps us get back to the basics by teaching us all how to find the right (dirty) words, take sexy nudes, and send naughty voice notes. And if that wasn't enough for ya, stay tuned after the interview for some hilarious sexting stories that YOU (our listeners) shared with us. We also talk about: The benefits of sexting Consensual vs non-consensual sexting Sexting *...
Nov 25, 2020•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 13
In this episode, we chat with Molly Borman, Founder and CEO of Just Nips, a fake nipple company that wants you to look cold and feel hot. We talk all about Molly's creative process, how and when to wear them, and most importantly, how her grandma has managed to single handedly equip every valet in Florida with their very own pair of Nips. Not sure if you're confident enough to keep your headlights on? Tune in, because I bet we can convince you to give it a try! We also talk about: Confidence and...
Nov 20, 2020•43 min•Ep. 12
In this episode, we go deep with Tristan Taormino, sex educator, feminist author, and anal pleasure expert! We talk all about anal play, what you can stick up there (as well as what you can't), and POOP, because let's be real… aren't we all a little nervous about what might come out when something goes in? Tune in if you're curious about "taking the back road" OR if you're ready to learn some new tricks for when you're there! We also talk about: Myths and misconceptions Positions for anal play B...
Nov 11, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 10
Dildos, vibrators, and anal beads… OH MY. In this episode we talk with Ashley Cobb, sex educator, sex blogger, and SEX TOY EXPERT. She's a total badass with all the info you've been waiting for. Want to find your *perfect* toy? We've got you covered! Curious about butt plugs? Get Ready! Want to know what electricity play is? YES YOU DO BITCH. Tune in if you're ready for a damn good time. We also talk about: Types of toys Using toys with a partner The WILDEST toys Ashley has seen Connect with Ash...
Nov 04, 2020•51 min•Ep. 9
