My Jesus with Anne Wilson - Season 2 Finale
Anne Wilson lost her brother when she was in high school. She talked about loss, how her song "My Jesus" came about, and how her family deals with grief around the holidays.
Dec 15, 2022•24 min
Holy Mess
A podcast for people who crave honest and entertaining conversations about the messy parts of life and how to find hope in the midst of it. Whether we’re commenting on pop culture, sharing stories of when life throws you curveballs, or even covering what we’ve learned in therapy, we’re going to help you see the beauty in your own mess.
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Episodes
Life After Death with TobyMac - Season 2 Episode 16
3 years after Toby lost his son Truett, he's released new music with an honest look at life after death.
Dec 08, 2022•19 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Merry Thanksmas - Season 2 Episode 15
Another compilation podcast to share about our Thanksgiving and Christmas plans.
Dec 01, 2022•22 min•Season 2Ep. 15
Mommy Broke the Law - Season 2 Episode 14
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Nov 17, 2022•26 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Divorce Proofing Your Marriage with Dr. Greg Smalley -Season 2 Episode 13
Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife Erin have literally written the books on marriage. Today, he joins us to talk about the times in marriage when divorce is more likely and how to safeguard against it. Plus, is a separation ever a good thing? For more on separation, check out this article from Erin Smalley: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/why-and-how-to-pursue-a-healing-separation/...
Nov 10, 2022•25 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Signs You Need Therapy - Season 2 Episode 12
We recap our trip to Houston where Joy DOMINATED at laser tag and then went over signs it may be time for therapy. Plus, a disappointing recall and a hopeful new Disney short.
Nov 03, 2022•32 min•Season 2Ep. 12
Good Boundaries & Goodbyes with LYSA TERKEURST - Season 2 Episode 11
If you struggle with setting boundaries, this episode is for you!! Lysa's new book "Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others without Losing the Best of Who You Are" is available for pre-order now.
Oct 27, 2022•27 min•Season 2Ep. 11
It Happened Again. We're Sorry. - BONUS EPISODE
We had no intention of doing another podcast episode of strewn-together breaks, but it has been HECTIC in the Holy Mess family. After having to cancel our usual recording time multiple times over the last week, we still wanted to give you SOMETHING.
Oct 20, 2022•19 min
Boots with the Spurs - Season 2 Episode 10
A trip to the ER had some prime people watching, and Joy's weekend getaway had some unusual attractions. Plus, we shared our stories about our own mental health.
Oct 13, 2022•22 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Fancy Like Outback Steakhouse - Season 2 Episode 9
Joy felt out of place at a fancy event, and Bekah may have created a monster by taking her husband shopping. Plus, the struggle of staying in the moment, calories on food, Walmart weddings, Blue's Clues, and resumes.
Oct 06, 2022•31 min
The Start of Something New - BONUS EPISODE
This week's episode is not going to sound the same....but for GOOD reason!!!! We are SO grateful for you. You made this happen. We'll be back to our normal format next week, but for now, enjoy a little bit of what we've gotten to create together this week.
Sep 29, 2022•22 min
Our Mistake is Your Gain - Season 2 Episode 8
Bekah's mess may not even be a mess, and Joy is having a rough pregnancy day. Plus, green flags to look for in your relationships, mom fails, movie watching, and Chick-fil-A. For your chance to win the gift card mentioned in this episode, text OOPS to 91979. If there's anything you'd like to share with us, you can email: holymess@wayfm.com
Sep 22, 2022•29 min
Our Work Boundaries Need Work - Season 2 Episode 7
Joy accidentally taught her son a bad habit, and Bekah learned a valuable lesson in accepting help. Plus, ALL things work boundaries (and how we're terrible at them), a discussion about Serena Williams, and....meowing....for some reason?? If you have anything for us, you can always email: holymess@wayfm.com !
Sep 15, 2022•29 min
HUGE News and a Massive Lie - Season 2 Episode 6
We can't EVEN with today's episode. Because....well, you'll just have to listen to the first 10 minutes to get the EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT OF WHAT'S TO COME!!!! Then it's the usual: insecurity, friendships, and our love of corn. But DON'T MISS THE FIRST PART!
Sep 08, 2022•30 min
Her True Worth - Season 2 Episode 5
If you've ever wondered if you're worthy of the space you take in this world (we've all been there), this episode is for you! Brittany Maher and Cassandra Speer join us to talk about the warning signs that you're attaching your worth to the wrong things and the sometimes daily fight to find our identity in Christ. For more, check out the @hertrueworth Instagram page and their new book "Her True Worth: Breaking Free from a Culture of Selfies, Side Hustles, and People Pleasing to Embrace Your True...
Sep 01, 2022•30 min
So Mad We Can't Stay Mad! - Season 2 Episode 4
Because this is the Holy MESS podcast, our messy moments revisit things we should know by now, but we're both just works in progress. A special coworker joins us to teach us how to say, "NO" and set healthy boundaries. Then, our mess and bless covers everything from breakfast foods to mental health days.
Aug 25, 2022•34 min
A Criminal Named Joy - Season 2 Episode 3
Joy almost had a run in with the law, and Bekah is SO not cool to her almost 13-year-old niece. Plus, how to better manage disagreements, a story of a guard skunk, and the difficulties of updating technology.
Aug 18, 2022•29 min
But What Does Peace Actually Look Like? with Hope Darst - Season 2 Episode 2
Hope Darst redefines the definition of peace and what it looks like when chaos and anxiety crash into us like waves. Plus, we discuss social media, what it sometimes looks like to say "Yes" to God, and how our timing isn't always best.
Aug 11, 2022•33 min
When We Have Fight Club, We're Gonna Talk About It - Season 2 Episode 1
We're back for season 2!!!! Bekah solved a mystery with no help from her husband, and Joy accidentally traumatized her toddler. Plus, we talk about the fight we had over the break, Marvel's new line up, our masseters, and some everyday heroes.
Aug 04, 2022•31 min
Mess, Bless, and Taking a Rest - Episode 15 (Season 1 Finale)
We wrap up this season with another snapshot of what our messy lives look like, and Joy describes the different kinds of rest we all need. Plus, we debate a recent lawsuit, Walmart is cracking down on shoplifters, a restaurant where you can get some authentic food, and a thief who saw the error of his ways.
Jun 02, 2022•36 min
Banding Together Through Tough Times with Matt and Sarah Hammitt - Bonus Episode
Matt Hammitt, formerly of the band Sanctus Real, and his wife Sarah join us to talk about what they've been up to including their brand new reality show! Plus, we talk about walking through hard times and even play a reality show based game with them.
May 26, 2022•22 min
A Special Addition to the Family - Episode 14
One of us is growing our family!! And the other....REALLY needed a nap. We also talk about burnout, the formula shortage, grandparents gone wild, Barbie's latest makeover, and an inspiring graduate. SEASON 1 FINALE IS JUNE 2nd!!!!
May 19, 2022•36 min
Puppies Don't Make EVERYTHING Better - Episode 13
Joy had an unexpected emotional reaction to her parents leaving, and Bekah's puppies almost ruined an important meeting....or made it better? Plus how to fast from worry, a review of the new Marvel movie, how Bekah ruined Joy's TV viewing, a class for husbands, and BLOOPERS.
May 12, 2022•30 min
Learning to Take a Breath with Kirsten Watson - Bonus Episode
Kirsten Watson, author of the book "Sis, Take a Breath" joins us to talk about what it looks like to truly breathe! As a mom to 7 kids and a wife to a professional athlete, Kirsten knows a thing or two about chaos. We talk about what to do when God calls you to do something, how all of us just feel exhausted all the time, how to say "no," having honest conversations with God even when you're busy, and how to promote unity when it comes to issues like racism.
May 05, 2022•31 min
When You're Not Even on the List of People to Take Care Of - Episode 12
What's a Holy Mess podcast without a story of one of us crying? This time, it comes from being stretched too thin. Bekah is a little too close to her pharmacist, and Joy shares what she learned in therapy on how to care for others in a healthy way. Plus, sad news about reviews, leaving a digital legacy, labor stories, and a beautiful moment with a delivery driver. (And stay til the end for the bloopers!!)
Apr 28, 2022•30 min
Saying Goodbye to Unicorns - Episode 11
Bekah explores a potentially hazardous coping mechanism, and Joy had a scare with her child at daycare. Our therapy session leads to a discussion on what to do when your life doesn't look the way you expected it to look. Plus, a fraudulent Easter bunny, a plane concert, a great way to look at friendship, and a really cute Netflix show.
Apr 21, 2022•30 min
When Clothes Shopping Leaves You Crying Into Your Dippin' Dots - Episode 10
This was a therapy-heavy episode, and we apologize for that, but there are a lot of good discussions in it! Joy beat a panic attack in record speed, Bekah had a mini mall meltdown, and Joy talked about how to silence the voice of fear and doubt in your head. Plus, we talk about some messy Netflix shows, the Etsy strike, and (checks notes)....golf????
Apr 14, 2022•39 min
Out of the Dark with Mandisa - Bonus Episode
Mandisa joins us to talk all things mental health and to tell us more about her new book "Out of the Dark.'
Apr 07, 2022•19 min
We Can Do Scary Things! - Episode 9
We finally get to hear how Joy's trip to Portland went to sing the National Anthem! Also, Bekah had a terrifying incident as a caregiver that turned out to be nothing. Plus, what to do when God doesn't give you the answer you were expecting, and we talk about the slap heard round the world.
Mar 31, 2022•34 min
Time for An Apology Tour - Episode 8
Bekah was a total flake to a friend, and Joy got rejected from a very unexpected place. Plus, a long-overdue apology tour, how secure your password should be, Chick-fil-a labeled as a "public nuisance," Dolly Parton being an absolute gem, and love for new moms.
Mar 24, 2022•28 min
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