Vacations vs. Staycations

matter at all to anybody but us. And we're talking about today stay cation versus vacation. Where do you stand? Where do you land? What do you want to go on? More? And I'm not gonna put this on you. I'm just saying that it seems to me like you are a vacation kind of gal. I'm I'm a I'm a stay

cation dude. I'm a home body. Because for me, this, I'm just gonna throw this out there, and this is not pointed, but just just you're you're gonna you're gonna catch some bass in my voice, all right, You're gonna you're gonna catch some tone. Okay. I cannot stand the fact that a vacation includes a trip to the airport, a trip to a bus station, a trip like I like to already be places I don't like to travel. People say they like traveling. You like to already be there.

The airport is a nightmare. Okay, so you want to be able to teleport. That's what that sounds like. Yes, I'm sick of attacks, like the actual social attacks at an airport that I have to go through to have a vacation. It doesn't make any sense. Do you have clear and pre check? I have clear, I have pre checked. But you know what, sometimes those clothes I didn't even know that was possible. Sometimes nobody close them. Not only will they be closed, they won't be open early enough.

Then customs also closes as if planes don't land daily. So it's like you should at least see like when's the earliest flight coming in from an international flight? Be open? When's the latest flight leaving? Be fucking open? Who invented this nonsense? We know who did it, but we won't have to talk about them. Um, we know who did this, We know who did it. Have you considered taking a vacation in a car like try, Well, you don't drive? No, No, I can't drive so no, I have not considered taking

a vacation in a car. That would be a car accident almost immediately. Okay, what I think you should try? Oh, you can do like the best of both worlds. Like you remember whenever it was like I had left the city and was like just took over the mountains of me, like Upstate New York and all these other places like the Poconos, which full disclosure, for most of my life I thought was islands. I'm just finding out they're not islands right now. See don't they sound like islands? Yeah? Yeah,

they're fucking mountains. It also sounds like islands. We don't fully understand, right, So it's like, oh, we're going to the Poconos. So if you say that word to me, you're telling me it's a vacation. I'm hearing the word Poconos expecting mountains in New York because sounds crazy, Um, just landlocked just higher altitudes sounds nuts. Have you considered, cause then you can get like the best of both worlds.

You drive up to a cabin and then you're staying in a cabin, so you're getting your staycation, but you're just not at your house. No, because at my home. I know where everything is. This cabin, this, this cabin. You know, how do we know there's not murders? How do we know there's not somebody waiting? The cabin is where the stuff happens from the movie. You're right, That's why I don't like going up there. I'll say, for me,

it depends. But I think because we have been in a panorama, a Panasonic, a Pondule's day, a Popeye's for the past two years. My desire because like I'm a beach person, right because like my family is from Miami. I was born there at least lived there. So like, for me, vacation means beach period. Don't look at me and go like, oh, we're going to like somewhere. There's not to be any geographical place. Is not a beach for vacation. I'm gonna look at you like your next

you don't want to go to Montana? You don't want to? I mean, because here's the thing. Look like. The other thing about vacations that I can't stand is that there's a pressure to like have fun and do activities and and and like really be out there whereas a staycation. Now it's all up to you, do you want Netflix? Do you want to just relax? You want sleep? That's

all happening. It's happening at home. I have been on vacation with people and it's been chilly ship and we're doing whatever, we're doing whatever we do it, and then there's other people that want to give you like a full itinerary and itemize and I'm like, this is not relaxing because I don't this in my life. So it's like also, like you'll go on vacation with people and

they don't want to spend money on food. Wait what It's like I've thrown on vacations with people and it's like, well I don't want to spend a bunch of money on food, and you're like, bitch, what are you talking about? Like I'm gonna make it. It's like, well, we can just get mad that I am not eating anywhere where I can eat where I live. Do you want to know what that is? Though? That's a staycation person going on a vacation. So there's a broke person going on vacation.

Because a broke person going on vacation, you should have stay at home. Should stay at home. It's like I like I now like when I go on vacation, I want of like a hotel room that haves like even as a kitchen net or something, right, because like you want to be able to have like little snack ease, and so you have a place that has like a little kitchen area so you can keep cold cut cold. Okay, keeps cold cut cold. Nobody's eating hot cold cuts. That's

a get sick. Um. You get some nice fruits, you bring you some watermelon, nice little treats, get you some cold drinks, and then you have a nice thing on the beach. You are not about this, no, because you know what you're describing. It is home. No, that's that's that's that's home to me. I already got the cold cuts, already got them cold not warm, already got the fruits in the veggies. I'm doing all of my my my

things at home. And this is the other thing about vacations is that people always end up doing my stuff out there. So then be to watch Netflix, to watch Columbia Netflix. I got my American Netflix listen once. It's like because like when I went to Turks and Cakeos, like a lot of those resort places people have been at the beach all day long, they're probably gonna be exhausted.

So like some places don't like so it didn't have like a lot of like a lot of nightlife because like a family place, like I to meet people that lived there. Remember I told you one on the date that was just ended up being a family outing. Um yeah right, just wow tho for the listeners. Um, I went on a boat tour, was hanging out with like twine middle aged white people from New Jersey because they were also on the boat. We had a great time. Uh. But one of the guys that was working on the boat,

I think it was like this. He wasn't the captain. Captain was married, because I would have gone from the captains, but because you know, you gotta go for the nick in charge, why would I go for the assistant. That sounds crazy, So but he was a nice man. We hung out. He's like, okay, I want to take you out and I was like sure. He's like, yeah, there's this bar we all go to. I said, okay, cool, because I didn't want to do some stuff where which

is just like being on the resort all day. So he comes and picks me up, and when I see him. He's there's a older woman in the front seat drinking a corona and I was like, oh my, gonna get a kidnap. This is annoying. But I had met some girls from Atlanta. Um, you know, we don't play that game. So they took pictures of him when he wasn't looking, and then they took pictures of the car and the girl one of the girls was like, she's like, you're

coming back, and I was like, thank you so much. Um, look, once again, these are vacation things. I don't have to take pictures of anything anybody. But I used to do this in college, like when like the younger girls would have a guy like come and pick them up. Like where'd you meet him? Oh, we were met in something like this is like early two thousands. They might have met like something like black player at the college clubs

and stupid like that. So if none of our friends knew who he was, we took a picture of him, took a picture of the license plate. He's like, wow, why would yall do this. I'm like, because she's coming back. That's why I had no casualties in here. And some of them would get so spooked. One dude just left the girl. He was like, I don't want to deal with this, and I was like, see you would ended up on the news. You're welcome, but I mean I mean maybe yeah, yeah, that made the seams. Why are

you so upset? Why are you so bothered by this? Right? So I go, I go hang so like it's it's it's his auntie in the car and then his cousins in the back seat. And then come to find out later the reason all of the untie and the cousin we're in the car because it was the aunties car, right, So these but I still had a fun time. I had an experience. He tried to calm me and starting a jet skiing business. I was like, absolutely not. I don't know your last name. But it was a nice man, goad.

I didn't give him the cookies because he was poor. But what I'm saying is you go on vacations. I have adventurous right. But the other girls I was hanging out with, they stayed at the resort the entire time because it's an all inclusive resort. And when the girls was like, She's like, I get my money's worth. I'm drinking everything, I'm eating all of the food. I am

not leaving this resort because I paid the money. Me. On the other hand, I was just like, I've been on this resort for three I had because I got I was there from a Wednesday to a Thunday. Yeah. Yeah, Now, maybe I just haven't been to as many places as you, so then maybe that's part of what's happening. But I'll tell you right now, there are adventurers at home. They're adventures that you can have that you would have never One time I lost my remote and I genuinely I

couldn't find it. I couldn't find it anywhere, and I looked up and down, I was tossing cushions, I was everything right, And eventually I just started walking up to the TV every time that had changed the channel right. And then one day in my staycation, three day staycation, then on the third day, I opened one of the drawers in my kitchen boom remote right there all right Now. I don't know how it got there. Now I got an adventure and a mystery. I even have to leave home.

That's the saddest thing I've ever heard. Also, you must have had able because you can't change the stream of service without it control. I don't know why my thing is sad and your thing is normal? All right, I don't I don't know why that happened at all. Listen. I went on an adventure with strangers, Okay. I found out that about the little dogs that have on the island. I saw all the all the islands. I was parasailing. Okay.

I found out that I could not ride a horse on the beach because as a weight limit on these horses. And now I have a joke about it because I was like, where did you get these weak ass horses from? You? See what I'm saying, Like horses used to be able to put armor on people, and then armor on horses, and then we go to war. So I'm like, where did you get these horses from? Look, I'll tell you right now. I also have had some riveting staycations. One time I had a dream about a turtle and it

was whild woke up sweating everything. How do I hang up? How do I hang up? How do I what? Why would you help? Why would you? Why would you hang up? I'm making good points. I would to hang up. You cannot tell me about a dream about a turtle and compare that to me and another girl swag surfing in the sky. It doesn't work that way. Now it worked that way from me, I had power absolutely not listen. This money you can't take it with you. Okay, first and foremost, I can't take this money with you. You

work hard, you might as well spend it. This is the thing about vacation though. It's like sometimes it's like like vacations come to an end, so stay even like cations come to in end because you have to take ass back to work. Right. So that's the hardest part of either being on a vacation or a staycation. You know you have to now go back. Well, I guess you're a stay cation and you just wake up. I guess boom, thank you. That's what I was going to say. What I was going to say, Wow, exactly what I

was gonna say. Could you just go to work? Like that's it? You just go every weekend stressing, stressing and flights you know, Oh, how do I get back? I get back on the train, sir, excuse me? Why blow my dolls? I did not expect this to happen. While we were recorded, I think about all the places that I wanted to go as like a kid, like recently, I wait, didn't you go to Hawaii with your mom?

Mm hmm for them? That wasn't for me. That that's I'm trying to give my mom and my aunt a better life, so that that's just something that I thought that they would enjoy. I on the other hand, I could have stayed home. I could have watched all the ne I was binging at the time, so that I had to quit binging and then and then get on a plane and watch it on a plane on a tiny screen. Then I had to get to Hawaii, which

is beautiful. Don't get me wrong. It's beautiful. There's beaches, there's like, you know, scantily clad people, and there's their son and all the stuff. And some body who doesn't like the beach, Like you make me think you're someone who doesn't like the beach. It's just itchy dirt. It's just it's just when you have you heard Ja Jordan's joke h where he says, uh, sand is just gay dirt, heard im saying he said it out. He's so funny.

I have to look him up. But it's like, I went to Hawaii back in March, because like we had some um. We had some off time from the show, and I wanted to go, but I was like, I don't know anybody in Hawaii. I don't I want to go. I want to go just because it's like I grew up in the nineties. They sent everybody on every TV show to Hawaii, so it's been like propped up to us for generations. And I was like, I want to go, but I want to go by myself about because I

definitely want the turs and Cake goes by myself. But I was like, there's black people here, I'll be fine, but Hawaii, I don't know the cats. And his way on the other side of the planet is literally right in the middle of the specific Pacific Ocean. You have no backup. So it's like I don't know body know nobody out here. And then my big brother Tom Bell an amazing comic uh and stays on the TV show. He was doing shows out there, so I was like, brother going, I'm gonna go with him. I go out there,

we have fun, I meet a young man. I come back, you know, uh in April um and then I hung out with him. But then I got to go like to more of the beaches and see you know, he took me all around and see the island because we were on uh it was Oahu when you went where you were? You who are Maui? I was in Maui. And I'll say this even you know you mentioned you know, the the what what's the best way to put it?

The brief and exciting romance on a vacation. You know, there's something about meaning a person on vacation, and you know it's it's it's like new and it's fresh. And then it's like, oh, I'm gonna have to leave soon, So how far it's gonna go. I'm I'm into the whole romance novel aspects of romance vacations. But you know what a stay cation? Hey, you come back any time, all right, You can come back whenever you want, I

hear you. But for that to work, you already have to have somebody on the hook before your staycation starts. And also I thought this was gonna be a brief moment. And then this man was trying to marry me, um, which I did not see coming um. And I was like, hey, I just wanted to be like a fun, casual thing, trying to make it a stay cation. He was trying to make it a steakcake because then if you would

if he had married you and you had moved. My man is doing the same things that I'm talking about doing. You know. It's like you meet someone on vacation and you make it a stay cation because you fall for him. I was not going to move to Oh. I have so much work to do. Like you said, I'm trying to get my mom a better life. I can't do that in Hawaiian I can't. I don't know the job I supposed to have. I was gonna keep marrying hill from working, but it did not exist on that particular island.

But like, because like I was just in Okay, here's the best example of the staycation. I was just in London for the past months shooting a TV show m HM. So it was a work trip, but I wasn't working all the time. And then for me sometimes that I'm in a new place, because like I waited to do all the touristy tourist the stuff. So my mom came the first week, we were like, wait, you were there. I was there. I was waiting for you to remember that I was also there. But I was waiting for

you to mention that you were also there. I didn't want to interrupt you know, I know that we argue all this show, but I won't be rude. Okay, I hear it. I get you. Um, But like we were there for like I was there for a month, you were there for a week, and so they were a day as we weren't working. But there were days we weren't working. But like I didn't feel like running around London, and I'm sure there were some days where you didn't want running around London. So I didn't feel like running

around London because I my chest popped off. Oh yeah, what happened with that? Could you have to get their Russian ivy profit? This is this is why staycations are better. I'll tell you right now. So I'm in London and I'm just doing a regular bench press. I'm not I'm not doing I'm not trying to be a hero. I'm not trying to save any lives. I'm not trying to

lift a car off a baby or anything. I'm doing a regular bench press that I normally do, and I just hear a pop and I feel I feel a tear, and I re rack the bar and my arm is not co operating, and I'm sitting there swelling like you like you saw me. I can't believe I went to the museum. You saw me like two hours after it happened. And so I don't know what to do because I just got this like boulder on the left side of

my chest. And if I had been home doing a stay cation, doing a bench press, I would have known what doctor to go to. I don't even know if they'll see me because I'm not from here. And apparently the health care is free, but is it free for everybody? Do they just have like healthcare spilling out the back of trucks or do I need to go fill out a form? So you know, stay cation is even better for getting to hurt. Yeah, I mean one, that's your fault for working out while he was on vacation. That's

on you. I mean, wow, Okay, you wasn't going to get out of shape in a week. Yeah, but like the shape wasn't gonna change, like you wasn't gonna stop being a trappings away when I was going to be like a huge I want to be one of those big you know what, I'll go on vacation when I'm torn and ripped. Like Michael B. Jordan's I want this for you. You've been talking about it for years, and well you don't have to remind me how long I've

been trying. I mean, listen, we know that I've been trying to do various things with my body and they have not been coming to fruition. But it's just like I hear you on this because I was really trying to figure out because it was like because for my birthday, I was like, oh, I'm gonna go to l A for a couple of days, but then literally this morning, I was just like, what if I didn't mm hmm, Well if you had a staycation with all the people you already know in New York to come through because

but but I did that. The last two years for my birthday was everybody in New York, and I haven't been able to see my l A friends. So for me, it's like, you know, getting re acquainted with people. And also like I've been in l A a a few times, it was like it's always been for work, so then you can't be around anybody because you gotta make sure

you don't catch ronny. So I've done a staycation before and it's like, oh, I'm gonna do this, and I'm gonna do that, I'm gonna do smart crafting, and then I just really give myself permission to just lay down, which is the best. I don't know, I don't know why people are trying to have ambitious stay cations. Okay, it was made for you to lay where you lay, for you to eat where you eat. It. It's absolutely perfect,

all right. The people that are out here trying to go to other countries and like see other cultures and stuff, it's like what you're trying to prove? All right, So you don't want to travel worldly? So wait, so you don't want to travel at all, you don't want to go to another place. All I'll say is this, I go places. I do things like I went to London, go to Canada, I go play this for shows. I'm

i'm I'm I'm a person that goes out. I'm just saying I would rather stay at home, all right, with a good book, because that's the other thing I do on vacation vacations. I end up buying books that then I just wish I was home reading because then you buy a book on vacation and then everybody's like, no, I come to the beach with us, everything like that, And then then after a read books on the beach all the time. I don't want saying in my pages. I don't. I don't want the binding of my book

to be dirtied with the soiled sweat of the earth. Wow. Okay, so you can sit by the pool, because most hotels have pools. You can sit by the pool and read a book and get splashed with chlorine on my pristine new books. I don't. I can't want this for you. I'm just trying to figure out. I guess I understand, Like there's times that I really want to be home, right,

and then there's times I'm just like I think. The other thing for me is like I'm single, so being in my house by myself for an extended period of time just makes me sad, Like if there was another human being in my house, or maybe even a cat, there was another being creature in my house, well, another mammal. They're another mammal in my house, another more and more specific every time uh something I can hug it here that I might be more inclined to be home more.

But like I remember I was like out like a couple of months ago, and one of my friends were like, oh, it's like one in the morning. Are you going home? And I was like, why, there's nobody at my house and he just started laughing. I was like, what he's thinking, it's very I've no want to go home too, I'm gonna get in the house. When I left, it was just me. When I got home, it was just me, these dishes only getting washed when I feel like doing

on him, and I never felt like doing. So I think for me, like going on trips and stuff, it's like it's really just me trying to get to the beach. But I think it's that's like the beaches like or a acting place for me. Okay, so how about this. I'll pitt you this. I'll ask you this. If you live somewhere with a beach, would you go on vacations if the beach was already there, It's already outside the window. You can see it. You can just peek out your blinds and see the beach. You know, you can just

stare at it out your window like a pervert. Right, You're still going on vacations now? I don't know, because That's my thing is that if you've got the right environment, a staycation is better than a vacation because you already know you want to be at the place that you are. Well, I guess like that's why I started buying better speak seats on planes because the hardest part was just like just being hemmed up, just trapped in this tube in the sky mm hmm um, trying not to pee because

I'm in a window seat. M hmm. I'm with the two other adults. What I'm just trying to do. It's just, you know, look for the latrine. So just that, so like just traveling in a different way. And like I remember there was one time I was in l a X And I don't know if some flights that got canceled or what happened, but there were people fucking everywhere. I was like, is this a bus station? What the

hell happening here? Because I was like I was give you know, because like Costa was telling me, He's like, oh, you should get a membership in the adulta lounge in the American Lines. I'm like, wow, I don't think I need that. And there was a thousand humans, truly thousands of people, and it was stressing me out. So I was like, let me go in the Delta sky Club. And I walked in there and I was like, is

the air different in here? Like it was just a different vibe because it wasn't a million people stressed out about getting on a plane. Very interesting, very interesting. So you went to an airport and you were getting overwhelmed by the amount of people around you and and their frantic nous, their chaos was was it was coming at you funny. So you wanted to get away from that, so you went to a sky lounge, which is only replicating a staycation. A sky lounge is not representing a staycation.

And you know, good and damn well it's not it's a whole bar in here, because you're still try it's a lounge, Josh, it's not. I'm currently in the green room of the show. I don't think I'm in a living room. I know I'm in a room that is designated for people to wait in. It's not a lounge that moves. It's a lounge that stays right where it is. You know, the whole airport doesn't move. I still have to leave this lounge to go to my flight. No,

this maint this is a point for me. I am not making a point for you, because how about this. They could make the whole airport. That's the thing that to make it eclusive. Like you get a first class teach you automatically get it right. When you are paying to have a different type of experience, then there is going to be food and drinks because I paid you more to not be in the franticness of the people who are getting on a Spirit Airline flight or whatever,

or group nine. Like. That's why it's gonna sound very least. Some people are gonna be upset, but that's not my problem. And I do not know what you re group nine. That's listen, you think I wasn't in group nine. You think when I started trapping, we've all been a group nine. When you start going on the road, you are a group eight, Group nine, group six. And then when you start whacking up these frequent flyer miles because you work, the more freaquent flyer miles you get, the earlier you

can get on a plane. So I'm always gonna be Sky priority no matter where I sit on this plane because have four hundred thousand miles with Delta. I think that you know, we should also point out that Group nine if if you're not aware, if you're a listener and you're not actually someone who's had the misfortunate being in Group nine, you're basically outside the plane. Yeah, you're

holding on the sea on the wing. Yeah, you're that monster on that episode of Twilight Zone who is terrorizing a very young William Channa, Like you're holding onto the plane for dear life. Also, by the time they get to Group nine, if you don't have a backpack that rolling you're rolling bags, not getting on the plane. Group now, it's just not they didn't tell you ahead of time. They tell you don't even try. Don't even try. You are a Group nine. Go ahead and gate check this.

Stop playing with people, so you start traveling. It's you, so you work your way up. So can't throw this out there to you. Um, you know what type of place does not have this sort of hierarchy where you have to work your way up through money and time and expenses. Is a home? You know, I don't know, that's my basement. I want to send in my basement for you know, thirty extra minutes because I'm in Group nine. First of all, you don't have a basement. You don't

know my life like that. I do know your life like that. I know you don't have to business out there, but I don't have a base you never heard of. Maybe there's a basement, look base, I you have a basement. The building you're in might have a basement. But where you say, ain't got no basement. So let's I play this game. We're only dealing with true facts and experiences, and in your experience, your black ass ain't got no basement.

So I don't want to play this game. Okay. And the thing is, because of time and experience spent, don't you live in a better apartment now than you did when you first moved to New York? M M see, I want to give it to you. But those are leases. No, no, no, no no no, it's not about the least. You're talking about a stay cation, So where you stay is going

to determine how your cation goes. Right, So when you were there, your very first department in New York, with whoever you were staying with, would you want because you're act So when you're doing a staycation, you're like a solid week at home doing nothing. So your first apartment when you first move to New York, would you have wanted to do a staycation in that apartment? I don't even know if I want to talk about it, you know, no, no, no, no, no, yeah, yeah.

I mean my first department in New York was a hallway. So that's that's uh to your point. I see what you mean that is that you work your way up eventually. I guess I just feel like since I've lived in the same apartment for years now, I don't know, but I but you had to work, and that's time to get to the plant where you could afford to live in an apartment that you would stay in for a week because your other apartment was a tornado drill. Sure, yeah,

see that's not a place you wanted to stay cation. No, where you stay now with someplace you want to stay cation. So if you're living in a situation like that, you would not want to stay there. You would put your coins together, feel them apart. If you got to you would collect your coins together and get on that jet food flight because you can get an eighty dollar tickets to the Caribbean on Jet Blue and being a nice seat and take luggage with you. I didn't know those things.

They listen, it's not that expensive to get to the Bahamas. It's really not. That's why people always go. But I was not expensive. That's I was like, listen, if I can't there with a man who can at least give me to the I'm a why would like you see my tipes? It's stupid. Look peak staycation versus peak vacation. I'm trying to stay cation every time. I want to get enough money to have a nice enough house to where I never want to leave, and that's the ultimate

staycation experience. But do you not want to leave because your house is expensive? Yeah, I probably can't afward to leave now, Like, well that was a crazy thing, Like this is what kind of happened, like because of the Roney where it was like that's why we ran into furniture because everybody was in their apartments being like, oh wait a minute, I got to be in here all day every day for months, Oh we need to change this.

Shut up and losing my mind in here. Because that was the thing I think I got like a lot of That's why so many people like left New York because it's like you leave for work at like eight in the morning, you might not come and just over you go. You might not come back until eight to ten o'clock at night or even later, and then you just go to sleep. So you weren't even in your apartment that long. So you're like, I can handle this.

You know, Yes, the door, the bathroom door hits the toilet when I opened the door, but I'm not here. That offen anywhere don't matter. And then now you're in there because RONI and it's like, oh, ship, this is gonna get the hell a bad. Here. You're like feeling that you get when you're on vacation, like you don't have and in response, like you don't like you don't like that feeling. Um, I have that feeling at home?

Uh And and here's there's no oh yeah, oh yeah, there's no way I get that feeling hard at home. How you're home? Yeah, I don't. I don't care about anything. I'm like, oh, you know, you know what's about to get read this book, you know what's about to get watched, this show. Oh I'm in it. I seemless to my apartment because I know what's near me. Oh I I don't. I don't even think. I don't even think you'd be ready for the level of staycation experience that I experienced.

I think I think your mind would be blown. It's others just reading a book in order and food you eat all the time. What can I say, I got a good life. I can't stand you. I will say, though, um, the thing that you mentioned about vacations and how, especially in the pandemic, people want to get out there and have new experiences. I understand that, Like I I get that's not new experiences. It's just like leaving. You aren't in your house shaking and fear for a year and

a half. It's like, I'm finally not mortified to step outside my house. What if we got on the point. M h. I think that's the campaign. It's like that makes sense, And I do understand if you I'm just like being in your house and not having to do anything. But I think a staycation is just a weekend. Oh that that's That's where I have to slow you down. That's where I have to back you up. That's where I have to stop you who have never talked to me like this before. A staycation is as long as

the imagination lets it go. A staycation is for as long as you are on vacation and the next that you wake up and got to work. Yeah, but you you can be on staycation until the minute you leave that apartment at that house, that condo, that trailer, that car. It's about the mind. You know, You're you're the one that that's like hooked on the parameters of an itinerary. You have to be on that flight by a certain time or else you're not coming back planes five daily,

could always get a plane back. You're always baby fair fair enough that that makes sense. I see what you mean now of how vacations can be great and why people want to go on them. I'm I'm with you, see and I and I also can understand because like everything like this thing started to open back up. I was like, oh, I don't it feels too open, Like I don't, I don't know. Some people are nasty. Some people you You're like, oh, you should still be in lockdown. Yeah,

you still be in lockdown. You should be in handcuffs. So yeah, it's like I understand. But what I do also, like this is what I like when I'm on vacation. I don't like running around and doing a bunch of ships because like I guess why. I like getting like a hotel like a balcony or like an airb like a balcony, like I'm gonna be able to just sit outside and enjoy the air of another place. I don't

like running around having a full ituner ry. So it's like, I guess sometimes I'll do a staycation while I'm on a vacation. That makes yeah, yeah, no, I'm I'm with you. I uh. I want to get not only just your thoughts, but the thoughts of the listeners. Let us know what you think. You know, are you a vacation person and staycation person? Do you think one of us is absolutely crazy? It's probably me. I understand that I have very unpopular

opinions about things. People probably agree with you. They're like, no, I'm trying to stay in the house, you know, because sometimes I feel like a rich person agrees with me. I feel like I feel like anybody with money is probably gonna agree with me. I'm just glad that we could find some common ground, you know. I want to thank you dul Safe for being a co host with me. I want to thank you the listener for listening to the episode. And we're gonna be back next week with

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