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Hold My Drink with Charleen and Ellie

Charleen Murphy and Ellie Kelly present Hold My Drink, a GoLoud Original podcast. Think of the girl's bathroom on a night out, or the group chat the next morning. That is the vibe of our podcast. This is our safe space to spill all the gossip on life, relationships, love, breakups and much more. As well as sharing their own experiences, Charleen and Ellie are also here to answer some of your own dilemmas, whether it be about boys, friends, school, college or work, or anything at all. We always love to hear from you! New episodes of Hold My Drink are released every Wednesday, and our bonus episode, Hold My Drink: Extra Juice, is released every Monday. Contact us by email - [email protected]
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Episodes

HMD Presents: The Gambler

We want to bring you news of a very exciting new project from the team here at GoLoud, in collaboration with the team behind the hugely successful series “The Witness” – crime journalist Nicola Tallant and producer Ian Maleney. It’s a new 8-part true crime series called "The Gambler", it’s released today and we think it might become your next true crime obsession. We think you’ll love it, so we wanted you to hear about it from us first. The story begins off as Nicola gets a phone call from a pri...

Nov 19, 20243 min

EXTRA JUICE: "I feel like I am the glue holding the trio together" #121

In this week's bonus, a listener gets in touch to share her own Rant of the Week after a bad experience with a creepy man at her gym. And it's safe to say it makes Charleen's rant about scary films and Ellie's rant about people crossing the road slowly look fairly mild. And she's not the only listener who got in touch for this bonus episode - There's also the weekly dilemma, in which one girl feels she is the only thing keeping her friend group together. Tickets for the Hold My Drink live show o...

Nov 18, 202415 min

Blonde Blindness, Cringeworthy Clothes and Makeup Mistakes #149

What do you regret wearing the most when you look back on your younger years? Peplum tops? Adidas Tracksuits? Or maybe you cringe when you think back to the bleached hair and concealer lips? Charleen and Ellie look back their favourite trends from times gone by and wonder why anyone ever thought they were cool. They help one listener get over a guy she works with who doesn't see things going anywhere romantic between them and offer their opinions on one of TikTok's most controversial users at th...

Nov 13, 20241 hr 7 min

EXTRA JUICE: "What if I’ve missed out on being single?" #120

Charleen and Ellie offer their advice to a listener who is dealing with a boyfriend who's become mean and snappy in recent months as she wonders whether she is missing out on being single. Wasted food and annoying junk emails are the topics for the rant of the week and the girls also discuss whether they would ever go on Big Brother. Tickets for the Hold My Drink live show on Nov 23rd in UCH, Limerick are available now on the UCH box office . Email: [email protected] Instagram: @holdmydr...

Nov 11, 202411 min

Dami Hope opens up about weddings, grief and Love Island #148

Dami Hope joins Charleen and Ellie this week to chat all things Love Island and life since leaving the villa. He opens up about his relationship with Indiyah and whether he can see a wedding in their future. Dami sadly lost his father in the past year and he talks honestly about dealing with grief and taking it as a sign to enjoy his life to the fullest which he is doing. There's also the usual dilemmas, and of course a look ahead to the live shows. Email: [email protected] Instagram: @h...

Nov 06, 20241 hr 1 min

EXTRA JUICE: "My boyfriend of 6 years is starting to give me the ick" #119

Do mean girls ever go away? Or do they just follow you through all walks of life? And if you are unfortunate enough to have them as housemates, what's the best way to deal with them? Ants in the bed? Clingfilm on the toilet bowl? Charleen and Ellie discuss in Rant of The Week. There's also a dilemma from a listener who moved all the way to Australia for her boyfriend but feels like since she got there he's treating her more like a housewife rather than giving her the princess treatment she used ...

Nov 04, 202415 min

The Haunting of Hold My Drink #147

It's a spooky special this week! Medium, Angela Dunlop came in to studio to read Charleen and Ellie's auras and she makes a few predictions about their future. She even reveals Charleen's recent tiff with someone close to her. It wouldn't be a Halloween episode without some ghost stories - not to be confused with ghosting stories that are sent in every week! The girls share your tales of the supernatural and some of their own after Ellie's trip to the haunted Hellfire Club over the weekend. Emai...

Oct 30, 20241 hr 6 min

EXTRA JUICE: "I find myself grieving a mother I never lost" #118

Her recent trip to America has Charleen wondering what the etiquette is when it comes to reclining your seat on an airplane. Manners are on Ellie's mind as well after a recent incident while dining out has her asking why people feel it's okay to be rude to waiters. They also offer advice to a listener who's struggling to build a relationship with her mother who recently quit drinking but now seems to have no interest in her kids or family. Tickets for the Hold My Drink live shows on Nov 5th &amp...

Oct 28, 202421 min

Niamh Cullen talks weddings, legal battles and mental health #146

Host of Unveiled and well known fitness blogger Niamh Cullen joined the girls this week. She shared all the details about her upcoming wedding - including the dress she bought without seeing it in person! Niamh went through a tough time after the stress of a legal case sent her into a depression - She opened up about how she felt at that time, and explained why she is actually glad it happened at this point in her life. There was also a dilemma about getting a reclusive boyfriend out of the hous...

Oct 23, 20241 hr 4 min

EXTRA JUICE: "He told me he didn’t know if he was fully in love with me" #117

After learning that you can top your leap card up on your phone, we might be seeing Charleen on more buses. And Ellie wonders why are there already Christmas decorations up before Halloween is even over? There's also a dilemma from a girl whose boyfriend drunkenly confessed that he's not 100% sure about their relationship. Tickets for the Hold My Drink live shows on Nov 5th & 6th in Vicar Street and Nov 23rd in UCH, Limerick are available now on Ticketmaster and the UCH box office . Email: h...

Oct 21, 202412 min

Things That Are Way Too Normalized #145

The girls are getting excited for Halloween as it gets closer and closer. They ask what's going on with One Direction's Liam Payne and Charleen reveals why she thought her Deliveroo driver had poisoned her. Ellie wants to make giving someone the finger more acceptable and together they wonder what in our society is just WAY TOO normalized. There's also a listener who's unsure of her relationship after heading off to college and a friend who is worried for her bestie after her recent breakup has ...

Oct 16, 202456 min

EXTRA JUICE: "He is stingy when spending money on other people" #116

Is being stingy worth breaking up over? That's the dilemma the girls have to deal with this week after one listener got in touch wondering if she was wrong to expect her partner, who earns a lot more than her, to pay a bit more for their holiday together. Ellie rant's about her dreams, or more accurately nightmares while Charleen wonders why online shopping still has so many flaws in the year 2024. Tickets for the Hold My Drink live shows on Nov 5th & 6th in Vicar Street and Nov 23rd in UCH,...

Oct 14, 202417 min

Is It Still Cheating if there's No Sex? #144

This week it's all about 'micro-cheating' - Those small things, like commenting on someone's pictures online or flirting behind your back, that make you wonder if your partner is as loyal as they should be. Ellie turns to the internet for flirting tips and Charleen explains the Crumbl Cookie controversy. They also help one listener who is struggling with a Halloween costume that's just too revealing for her as well as one who is being forced to decide between her toxic family and her 21st birthd...

Oct 09, 202458 min

EXTRA JUICE: "I caught him on OnlyFans 3 times in 3 years" #115

In this week's dilemma, Charleen and Ellie hear from one listener whose boyfriend has taken to looking up her sister and local girls on social media after she confronted him about his OnlyFans usage! Charleen also has a justified rant about dangerous driving, while Ellie's rant leads her to share more than she has before, maybe even finally crossing the line of TMI. Email: [email protected] Instagram: @holdmydrinkpod Thank you to Penneys / Primark for sponsoring this episode!...

Oct 07, 202413 min

Coping with Cancer during Pregnancy #143

The girls were joined by the amazing Seanagh Rice from Dancity Ireland this week. She told her story of being diagnosed with breast cancer while 26 weeks pregnant. The girls heard how she coped with the diagnosis and how the pregnancy impacted her treatment, including by reducing her options for pain relief after surgery to simply paracetamol. Seanagh underwent a mastectomy, c-section and chemotherapy all within a few weeks of each other - A huge toll for anyone. She opened up about how the expe...

Oct 02, 202447 min

EXTRA JUICE: "I am in a really bad rut" #114

This week Ellie reveals whether she stuck to last week's promise not to drink on her weekend away. While Charleen learns the true meaning of the phrase 'soiling yourself' -safe to say it's not what she thought it meant. And the girls help one listener who's feeling like she's been pouring from an empty cup and can't balance her friendships, relationship and everything else since starting a new job. Email: [email protected] Instagram: @holdmydrinkpod Thank you to Penneys / Primark for spo...

Sep 30, 202418 min

Meet Cutes - How to find love offline #142

In a world filled with dating apps and social media platforms that can help you find love online – more and more people seem to want to find love the old fashioned way. Especially if you get rejected from Raya… This week Charleen and Ellie chat about the downsides to online dating and hear some amazing IRL meet cutes – Everything from concert security staff to takeaway drivers. They also chat about some more supernatural experiences they’ve had lately, and Charleen reveals her fear of... sleep? ...

Sep 25, 202456 min

EXTRA JUICE: "He cheated on my daughter 4 times" #113

You heard it here first - Ellie's taking a break from drinking. After a heavy weekend, she's knocking it in the head and having a sober weekend. You'll have to come back again next week though to hear whether she sticks to it or not. They also offer some advice to a listener who is struggling to get through to her daughter and get her out of a bad relationship. Charleen takes a literal page out of her mothers book by suggesting that the listener write a letter to her daughter like her mam did. E...

Sep 23, 202417 min

Drifting Friendships, Reunions and Bebo #141

The changing of the seasons and return to school has Charleen and Ellie thinking about the passage of time and how friendships change and drift as you get older. And in their journey down memory lane, there's also a resurgence of the iconic DJ Booney and DJ Cammy. The girls help a listener who is triggered by her boyfriends female friend - Because she looks so similar to the girl her ex cheated on her with. And In Phone A Friend you help one of the birds who's struggling to deal with her boyfrie...

Sep 18, 20241 hr 4 min

EXTRA JUICE: "I think he’s blocked me" #112

After getting anxious that things were moving too fast one listener blocked the guy she was chatting to and now that she's realised her mistake she thinks he might have blocked her in return and can't get through to him. The girls offer their own advice and Charleen manages to resist the urge to tell her to set up a fake account - Just barely though. And after Ellie's rant about lads who rev their engines the girls wonder why they do it and if there are girls out there who are impressed by it? E...

Sep 16, 202416 min

Love is Blind UK's Sabrina reveals the truth about her marriage #140

What happened when the cameras stopped rolling on Love is Blind UK? Irish contestant Sabrina Vittoria spilled all the tea on her marriage to Steven and why it didn't work out, the editing on the show, and being diagnosed with depression in the last year. Sabrina explained why she chose to go on the reality TV show in the first place, and revealed whether she is still single or looking for love once again? Email: [email protected] Instagram: @holdmydrinkpod...

Sep 11, 20241 hr 20 min

EXTRA JUICE: "He wants us to give it another go when he moves here..." #111

In 'Rant of the Week' Charleen opens up about the reaction online to her latest bikini post and wonders how some women can claim to support other women while tearing her down at the same time. Ellie too wishes people were kinder, specifically at her gym where she's in need of a bit of help. They also offer their support to a listener whose cheating ex is trying to get back into her life 8 years later. She's not sure if he deserves a second chance, or if he even wants one, maybe he just wants a p...

Sep 09, 202422 min

Girl Code: Dating Exes & Influencer Drama #139

It's all about girl code this week, inspired by the latest TikTok drama. Charleen and Ellie ask what it really is? Is it ever okay to date a friends ex? And is sending hate online the biggest way to break girl code? They offer advice and support to a girl whose boyfriend is bored of sex after less than a year together and has knocked her confidence. And the listeners share their responses to a dilemma about getting involved in your parents separation. Email: [email protected] Instagram: ...

Sep 04, 20241 hr 13 min

EXTRA JUICE: "I found messages with 3 middle aged women..." #110

Given her frequent trips, it's no surprise that Charleen's rant this week is about the airport - Specifically the cost of a bottle of water in them. Ellie rants about Dublin's changing road layouts, and there's a rant from a listener whose engagement didn't get any reaction at her work. And for this week's 'If I Was You' the girls help a listener who found messages, and a picture of her boyfriend in bed with a middle aged woman and wonders if it's just a phase from his past or something she shou...

Sep 02, 202416 min

Mum Life, Invisible Strings and Postpartum Depression with Annalivia Hynds #138

This week, Annalivia Hynds spilled the tea on everything from the unplanned pregnancy that began her beautiful family to the invisible strings that kept pulling her and her soon to be husband Ruairí together. She opened up about how she went off the rails after her mother passed away, and her struggles with postpartum depression after the birth of her second daughter. Currently planning her wedding, Annalivia explained why she won't be getting married abroad and gives an update on her big day. C...

Aug 28, 20241 hr 11 min

EXTRA JUICE: "When we were good, we were so so good..." #109

Is there any truth to the saying 'Opposites attract' or are there some differences that are too hard to overcome? That's this week's dilemma, as we hear from one listener split from her partner but wondering whether they should give it one more chance. There's also a trip down memory lane back to the good old days of Nintendogs, Sims and The Simpsons: Hit & Run. In Rant of the Week, Ellie recalls a recent altercation with a taxi driver which resulted in him throwing a tissue out of his car a...

Aug 26, 202412 min

Worst Dates: A&E, Threesomes and a €250 dinner bill #137

Charleen made it back from Ibiza for this episode but only barely after forgetting to book her flight home! This week the girls talk all about WORST dates - Both times they've suffered through them and times they felt they were a terrible date, like when Ellie got way too drunk. They also hear some of your bad date stories - Everything from ending up in A&E, to bringing a friend for a threesome and even using the dreaded baby voice. They also tackle the big question - Who pays for a first da...

Aug 21, 202459 min

EXTRA JUICE: "I haven’t had any friends for some time now..." #108

Ellie's got not one, but two rants this week - So any queue skippers should steer clear of her along with anyone trying to rush her unnecessarily. Charleen's rant is inspired by a listener who is sick of people playing videos out loud in public and while Charleen agrees, she is also the problem. And the girls give some "If I Was You" advice to a listener who has become very lonely after some health issues and a bad break up have left her without friends for some time now. How can she make new fr...

Aug 19, 202414 min

Sex Tapes, New Boyfriends and Brat Summer #136

This week, Charleen and Ellie sit down to answer all your questions on everything from sex tapes to cosmetic procedures and falling out! Ellie also shares an exciting relationship status update and opens up to answer your burning question, while Charleen explains why she is so over the 'Clean Girl' trend. In Secrets From The Stalls, they chat about a girl who got burned after her boyfriend refused to rub suncream into her back at the beach! And the followers offer their advice to a girl who foun...

Aug 14, 20241 hr 11 min

EXTRA JUICE "I’ve been getting bullied by my best friend..." #107

Charleen would like to know how people who don't like any sauce on their food get through life and what their issue is with the best part of the meal. While Ellie is giving out about the people who dilly dally at the airport, despite her own history missing flights she is now a self professed 'Airport Dad'. And the two girls help a listener end things with her 'pick me' best friend who has been bullying her since primary school before she has the chance to ruin her first year in college. Is it b...

Aug 12, 202414 min
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